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saweide:
My name is segun saweide
I have been dating this my fiancée for over 3 years now and she is a single
Mother she lives in Abeokuta
She is a single mother one separated from
Her baby daddy some 6 years ago and ever since her elder sister has been the one supporting her financial needs .
She also works in her sister supermarket stores almost 9 years now. I met her 3 years ago and any time I told her to quit working in her sister store I order for us to fave our lives she always fell insecurity with me cos she knows my financial capabilities now
Today I went to a prophet and message came that her sister is using her glory to shine that she did not want her to marry and move forward and the prophet is a confirmed well known prophet. The problem is is that I don't know how to tell my wife about this message. What should I do

You started she is ur girlfriend and ended as your wife.

You say, how would you tell her? yet, you publish the entire story without hiding name or location?

Let say your imagination is even truth. Did you need any prophet to tell you, that you gf/wife won't balance financially, if she keeps being salesgirl for anybody for more than 9 years?

Which day she will get her freedom?

Which day she will start her life as adult human beings?

Thunderfayamods:
Who is this one that knows nothing about Yoruba titles?

Abi oooo, werey teenagers dnt know, it happened in the past

Oboy go and ask ur papa if he would know sha.

Alaafin Aole and former Are Ona kakanfo, I don't know he would be able to tell you the last 3 were installed by the same Alaafin, probably that's why they didn't have issues.

I pray Alaafin won't declare Aare Ona kakanfo void too.

sulaak:
You are a fool; You want the government to import food you should be producing; how will you pay for the import when you have no productivity?

You are not only stupid but a mad teenager, anyway Mama still feeding you, that's you are talking like drunkard, if you are the one feeding just ordinary ur mouth, without family o, you will know ur country is not self sufficient in food.

Ask him wen he ate better food last, werey would be scratching his coconut head.

O BOY! I WILL ADVICE YOU TO GO AND ASK YOUR PARENTS, SITUATION OF THINGS IN NIGERIA FIRST, BEFORE YOU COME BACK TO DISCUSS ANYTHING THAT HAVE TO DO WITH INTERNATIONAL RELATIONS, GO TO ROMANCE SECTION, YOU WILL SEE SO MANY TOPICS THAT SUIT YOUR AGE-MATES THERE. BYE.

Better for the club, Napoli coach thinking Ademola should be doing magic in every of their match , immediately the goals are not coming as expected, he would put all his frustration on just one person, I'm very sure he removed him, because he was angry that he hasn't scored, meanwhile, Ademola not even the main striker.

frankson1:
Really, how about poultry farmers and cattle rearers here?

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Let them be competing with import, the way Dangote rifernery competing with those import petroleum now..

Meanwhile, what's benefits of poultry farmers and cattle rearer for you since like 7 years they ban it now?

Infact, I started liking Trump on this tariff war, LET OUR GOVT OPENS BORDER AND REDUCES TARRIF, IT WOULD BE BENEFITS TO "WE" THE MASSES..... Afterall, border closure and higher tarrif haven't done any favour for us but the rich.

NB. How did I gain since govt ban cement importation? Only the Dangote, BUA etc smiling to the banks, while we the masses sweating to buy a bag of cement at rate of 10k for now.

Maybe Trump even fighting for "we the masses indirectly, who knows, .....if these tyrants can be forced to reduce the tarrif and open up market a little bit, for the pains to reduce. Afterall, higher tarrif and border closure have no benefit for masses but the rich.

Let the fed govt stops paying allocation to such LG and pay directly to LG that opens and if gov won't order them to open within 3 days.

We start giving useless excuse,wen they dnt want to do something, but wen they want to, they rise above every gimmick and manipulation.

Danisaint112:
As a Catholic and Christian who has been to many Pentecostal churches and seen hell there, I would say this is the best decision for them. May God help her find a man with the same belief and ideology.

Most Pentecostal churches make you feel like you’re in a cult as a Catholic. I even attended a dying ministry led by a so-called pastor from Mountain of Fire, and guess what? The topic of the day was the Catholic Church! I was so pissed at the rubbish that man was vomiting — it literally took the grace of God for me to sit till the end of that service.

There is literally no Pentecostal church in Nigeria I haven’t been to, When I was in search of miracles and financial breakthrough. If you see the kind of abracadabra going on behind the scenes, you go shock! Fake testimonies, fake miracles, fake deliverance — I saw it all.

But these money-mongers that call themselves pastors will always want to make you feel like once you’re in the Catholic Church, you’re doomed for hell. Meanwhile, the corruption in their own churches is 7 times worse.

Jehovah’s Witness members even have far more respect, in terms of criticism, compared to Pentecostal church members.

But what really made me swear never to attend any Pentecostal church again is this — these churches will always invite you as a Catholic to attend theirs. And we honour the invite. But for them to step into a Catholic Church? Never! Except it’s for a wedding or naming ceremony.

In fact, it’s even easier for a Muslim to attend a Catholic program than for a fellow Christian worshipping in a Pentecostal church to do so.

And I keep wondering... aren’t we all Christians? Aren’t we worshipping the same Christ? So why the segregation?

Well, after all my waka up and down, I just came to realize — No church is the best but Catholic Church is the best place to be. I am a Catholic, I will marry a Catholic, and I will die a Catholic.

Please read you post and see that Lucifer cannot even spew evil as you did.

You aren't different from groom's mother, that's why you are seeing all the Pentecostal church as occultic and your type is the reason the body of Church turn to bitter rival today, I will advise you to stop going to church because you are nothing but Devil.
I won't be surprised if you have been creating division and fight even in Catholic you are going,

papyjaypaul:
For this tall lady to still wear heels shows you that women can never be satisfied. Don't stress yourself trying to please them to death. Do your best and leave the rest to God. It's never enough for most women.

Hypergamy in women includes height, most women prefer men that are taller than them so these ladies will look down on a lot of people. That's why you hear women often saying, I want him tall, dark and handsome. Height comes first, it's a sign of protection.

.....and ur comment shows you are draining more and more as a result of bitterness for female gender that already occupied, every part of your body, not even ordinary AI generated female pictures, if you die of HBP today, women would still be behaving the way they are, and your fellow gender would continue appreciate and asking them for relationship till thy kingdom come.


WHY KILLINGS YOURSELF FOR PREFERENCE OF OTHERS? JUST IMAGINE PEOPLE START SHOWING DISDAIN TO WHAT YOU CHERISH, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?

CHANGE BEFORE IS TOO LATE OOO.

AngelicDamsel:
They give good genes to your children.

No matter your stature, you are guaranteed of some tall children. The only thing is some of their kids are as thin as they can be..... I see this in my friends

So, height is good genes to ur children? The way female carry height on head is something else.

I think, bravery, kindness, patience, calmness, boldness, brilliant and intelligent are good genes and not short, tall, fat or lanky.

The Revolution that would either break Nigeria to fragment or bring back military, might happen before Tinubu complete his two term. Because 3/4 of population have completely tired of his reign, even in his base Lagos,we could see clearly with event that happened few weeks ago, several of his die-hard surporters, have lost hope in him and only following him by unwillingly, because of military and police at his disposal.

A freedom fighter cum democracy champion of yesteryears, turning dictator and tormentor less than 2 years of his reign as democratically elected president.

Danisaint112:
Before. The answer to this question is in my last comment, if you had paid attention reading you would have properly observed the word - "Abandon."

The saying, that you have to be really prayerful to attain financial success is false.

Simply communicate with your God in the way you can. Know him, believe in him and serve him to the best of your strength. Don't over do it.

There are some people that don't even know God but still progressing more than you can ever imagine.

"The level of your success depends on the level of your mindset, discipline, consistency, and effort." ~Danisaint (quote me anywhere).

Let this sink. I'm off to business.

Do you also know millions of people are doing the factors you highlighted and yet leaving in abject poverty? In as much success is not completely tying with prayers.

Success has link with both spiritual and factors you highlighted above, it's not necessary prayers in xtian or Muslim way, but spiritually u have ordained to be successful.

Exceed15:
Even without involving d mother It i s normal that the bride joins her husband in his church after wedding. Well, it's better they go separate ways . I see the woman frustrating that guy in marriage.

Don't you see groom as mummy pet going into marriage?

Learn how to balance it opinion and purge urself from prejudice, if you want to leave a life devoid of bitterness.

akaahs:
The bride abi the groom?

I have completed my comments, you can go back, meanwhile, both. Infact, groom has more problems.

Better for relationship to break than marriage, at least for now, nobody would start counting the number of husband/wife for the two partners.

Meanwhile, it seems two of them are not mature enough to go into marriage, because the issue is supposed to have been sorted out themselves even before counseling.

In as much I don't like bride disobedience, I think groom too, has a red-flag, saying..... "his mother insisted they do particular things after marriage", is a sign of weak man, in which his mother won't allow him to enjoy his marriage, parents shouldn't be telling couple what to abide in their marriage, they are mature,that's why they are going into marriage, hence let them take their own decisions mutually devoid of 3rd party.

dederocs:
Tinubu must put Nigeria first, go into agreements with nations, so we pay them with naira and in exchange they pay us in their local currency for goods and services exchanged.

South Africa has done this, and their economy is balancing out, their rand is going stronger and attracting investors naturally, investors prefer to invest in a nation with a strong currency value.

We need to stop spending money buying dollars to import!

Dollarisation of our economy and society is killing naira. Use only naira, grow naira, our economy become valuable. Globalisation has ended, every president and senate/parliament is doing what is good for its citizens, Nigeria should not be an exception, work based on interest and profit for Nigeria for the good of Nigerians.

It's a shame that we don't have the executive with the heart to do this, this is the one singular act that will change Nigeria economy for good. N1500 to a naira is a disgrace and this administration must bring it down, this is the crux of our problem in Nigeria as per economics and standard of living of the masses.

Most especially Nigeria -china currency swap, if nations can boycott US dollars and start trading with their own currencies, all the gragra of trump would clear within 1 year.


Still dnt know why two nations that are trading between themselves won't use their own currency, but a nation's currency who doesn't involve in such deal or agreement.

Nothing stop us to have Eco and Afro as currency in West Africa and Africa respectively, nations are just too relax for US to enter them deeply for long, why won't one bastard comes in and start bullying entire world.

At least, he would reduce his Cho Cho Cho on every issue, in which nobody needs is opinion.


Maybe ambassador would be talking like parrot from abroad where he is posted to sha.

Irupetepete:
Lol, disvirgin one last 2 years and she was 26 then...it wasn't easy.she told me to make her extremely high....she was high to stupor that I even thought she was dead...I tried penetrating,she still feels the pain....I just leave her.....after 3 weeks ,she was determined....I was trying and got fed up along the line when I was about to stand up,she said I should continue with tears in her eyes cos the pain was much.....I sha disvirgin her....do you believe this girl left me after 4months? She said she just want a responsible person to disvirgin her that's all

She wants responsible man to disvirgin her?

Everybody with his/her mentality and believe.

She wanted responsible disvirger" when she ready to go gaga by having sex with irresponsible niggards.

I imagine level the girl would latter go with reckless sex, not even when she deflowered late.

So, in future, if she ended in the hands of ruffian, she would take solace in responsible guy that disvirgin her!
What a stupid way of reasoning.

Capernum:
I support Trump 100%. A reasonable country will cut down on their tarrifs on American imports and make American imports cheaper for their citizens. Can you imagine what a lesser tariff on cars will do for us in Nigeria?

America is not even fully reciprocating and the world is crying. When some countries are having over 50% tarrifs on American imports, did they hear pim from America?

Because you are not reasonable,that is how you would behave as such, anyway someone answered you already.

Meanwhile, in addition to what guy reply in your comment,....did also have intelligent enough to ask Trump to show the world balance of trade in services too? Most especially "tech"Google, Facebook, WhatsApp Instagram internet services, payment service etc) or its only on goods nation exchange currency)

givedemwotowoto:
I think the media misread or misunderstood his post. Trump says he’s reciprocating tariffs from other countries which means if countries remove tariffs (direct and indirect), the US will reciprocate.

And if they do that, it's for benefits of US, because America has comparative advantage over others. .....in area of advanced technology, financing and cost of production, before you know, your own production would be dying off, while USA would be growing exponentially.

ufotunang:
I do not know why the court, supreme court cannot declare a particular person as the authentic national chairman of labour party than saying it's an internal party affairs that courts do not have jurisdiction on this type of matter...all this will still bring issues and problems in the party..as an internal party affairs the party cannot settle the matter by itself that is why they took the matter and case to the court, supreme court for final settlement.. Nigeria courts ,judges are part of the problems of Nigeria

In Goodluck Jonathan words,.....if someone is pretending to be sleeping, it would difficult to wake him up, supreme court has already told Abure to park up, but since the hand of Tinubu is in the crises, no matter how clearly supreme court delivered the judgment, Abure would still have effrontery to do gragra, if this judgement were to be of APC, Army of police officers would have full everywhere to prevent Abure now. But since it's opposition, they would weak to do the needful.

greypencils:
Na you sabi that one o. E no concern me. To dey gym for house hard ba? Jogging no fit take place unless say na gym ba? Them done ban to dey use dumbbells or do sit up for house ba? Dey play.

When you marry, allow your wife get male fitness coach. Leave us married men with our condemning mindset.

Myopic people always talking like foolish.

Apcshit:
Robert Mugabe took lands from white owners and gave it to black ,since they there have been problems in that countrt

The land he gave black majority, how did they do it? Nothing to show for ever since.

Black can never do things appropriately, the angel that created black was a disorganised Angel.

greypencils:
When I see a gym for ONLY women with the instructors ONLY women, then will I encourage my wife to attend such a gym. Until then, a thread-mill at home can do.

That is why I married my lepa. I was mocked then. Now, she is moderate and jutting out in the right places after giving birth to two. No bloating of any kind.

@ur bolded!
You think only plus-size needs gym? Have you heard about physiotherapy before?

Many of you dnt know beyond your immediate situation,too myopic. It's a pity. Anyway, nothing bad in gym per say, only that we abuse every situation in our country. ....just like someone quoted above, .."seeing people at gym around 9 am".
SOME OF THEM, ITS DOCTOR THAT INSTRUCTED THEM TO GO FOR GYM AS A WAY OF THERAPY.
......ABI ILEPA NO DEY GET ACCIDENT OR INJURIES?

NB. Never quick to conderm people, if you haven't heard their side of their story.

Nicols:
That money is gone, but if you really want the money back, save your chat, get her husband's number and tell her you'll report her to him if she refuses to pay back.

....and if the woman is single mother but lied to him she is married, having known some guys intoxicating and feeling like conquerors when sleeping with people's wife?

Fani Kayode, finally compensated for his talkative.

The last vehicle they bought for mission is 10 years ago ........ While at senate, they are buying new costly vehicles for them in every four-year.

UselessBuharist:
I know of one guy that used to take women on aerobic exercise in Lakeview Estate Amuwo, that guy knack both married and single women. Na there you go know say women nor get direction

If you closer to woman more than normal, she won't even remember wen she opens her heart and by extension body for you, meanwhile, tell them dnt have opposite bestie, they label you stone age man.

How would man subjected a young lady/woman to acrobat posture and still not think she would arouse sexually? This is common sense nah.

Rebelutionary:
The problem with the likes of the fellow you mentioned is they only see what they want to see-their tin god who can never be wrong!

To them somehow only democrats feel the pinch of these policies!

It can be clearer than you have outlined it!

No,but being intoxicated by number of "mentioned and likes" he can gather on faceless forum, that's why he is DELIBERATELY posting controversial comments. If people can be avoiding him, he would quickly expired and disappear from the scene.

MoneyMarket:
Socialization is niceee.

Anywhere humans converge, (sexual) interactions are bound to happen.

Relationship might prop up and not turning it to sexual market.

They are two different words.(Relationship & hook up)

Brothel/night clubs is supposed to be different from other gathering.

floss:
Gymnastics leads to bedknackstics

Why will you go to a gym house as a woman when you can create such environment in your home or within your neighbourhood.


People don’t know that they can still keep fit by easing mental stress, eating right, good hygiene and having up to 2hours sleep daily before nightfall.


I encourage morning jogging if you’re living inside a secured estate, you mustn’t go to a gym centre to keep fit.

If you can’t convince your partner to join you as you’re going to the gym just know it won’t be long you’ll be bend over backwards to collect or to receive.

Don’t use your hand start what will scatter your life and family, at the end you’ll notice that DEPRESSION IS THE BEST WAY TO LOSE WEIGHT AND KEEP FIT

How many Nigerians like to do things for exact intension/reason it's created? Gym, religion, politics, internet,even schooling? We must find way to abuse and make it looks as if, those created it, had ulterior motive for establishing it. Just tell Nigerians, this is latest things now, and see army of followers rushing to grab it, even if such things is what they hitherto hated, they must find way to link such things to sexual exchange.


Married women going to gym without her husband beside her, isn't it awkward? If you raise such opinion now, Genz-republic would come after you and shout you down. The same people would also be complaining skyrocketed marital infidelities and lamenting "marriage Na scam".