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FlamingBulb:
I saw the news and cried do you know why?

My name is also Jacob and I am from Kogi

I have always been trying all I could to support my wife and 3kids but she never appreciates and uses insult on me on daily basis

This is someone who has never in her life worked so I am the only one working even when I lost my job for 2yrs I still managed to provide and there was nvr a day we did not eat 2times in my house.

Today I did all I could and prepared the best meal for my family and I served my wife this king I can pleased her again but what she said next shocked me.
"weting you dey use Ur head think? I said what I want is rice today and why did you prepare yam and give me"
Meanwhile she just said...ah if I fit see red oil rice...same here told my kids go to lesson when you are back we prepare yam.

I was so angry we insulted each other I used words in her life she will never recover

We have not talked to eachother till now BC I was angry and I don't care if she is too.

I used words I am not suppose to use like I fit kill you for this house you don't know me.

So now I saw this news and was like ehhn

Women can destroy you ooooo, I won't lie to you my wife is 80% good but you see snobbing, ignoring, lack of encouraging words, motivation she lacks to them.

If you don't learn how to ignore so many attitude of women, you will have problem leaving with wife.

That is why they do call man who is married, a responsible man. They know such man carries so much responsibilities in his head, nagging and non appreciative are among such responsibilities.

yarimo:
If APC won , the same babafemi ojudu could have wrote bitter analysis claiming rigging and federal might. Hypocrites everywhere

If APC had won, the rigged.

No way APC would have won Osun without rigging and anybody that might write analysis, he needs not to blame.

SimpleGuy001:
Please I need some input.

There’s this girl, we just starting dating. Came to my side just twice (we did nothing tho).

Was telling her if she was gonna come see me this week. Then she was like, oh she find it very absurd to be coming to my house every week.

Dunno but it sounded weird to me. I feel like if you dating someone at least once a week seeing is not bad. That’s just like 4 times per month.

What do you think abi I am overreacting. Cause honestly interest just drop down to zero. Not likely cause of the time stuff cause I know that things come up and all that.

But the at she stated it just made me lose interest

Girl came to your house twice, yet no knacking took place, and you still have audacity to invite her for the 3rd time?

Indeed, you are "Simpleguy 001". Her response to you now, is because of your attitude when she visited, she already realized you are a weak man, and possibly thinking you are far below her league.

stuffs2002:
Learn to give credit to whom it is due.


The main reason Adeleke won his re-election was because Tinubu ensured Free and fair election

Even when he paddlocked LOCAL GOVT ALLOCATION for close to 2 years?

When they keep picking up Accord party bigwigs before election, but left APC members to do any how.

TINUBU BACKED OUT, WHEN HE NOTICED, ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO IMPOSE AND POSSIBLY, THEY HAVE TOLD HIM SECURITY REPORT, IF HE WENT AHEAD TO IMPOSE AT ALL COST. maybe, the entire south west would have engulfed by now.

Akpakomiza2:
Is it a mere flyover that will convince educated and enlightened people of Ife to vote Adeleke? Even in 2022, he lost Ife. Virtually all the elites of Ife from omisore, Hon Ajilesoro are against adeleke, nothing for him.
Adeleke path to victory 2022 waf bloc votes from Ede, good win in Ejigbo, good win from Wole oke's stronghold of Obokun and a victory in Osogbo axis. Most of those bases are gone except Ede. Once Salaam flips Ejigbo and Wole flips Obokun, he's in trouble.

Now that Adeleke not only win the election, but defeated your godfather in Ife, I biliv you would bury your face in shame.

Signs that a guy came out from dysfunctional family.

The child would always wail and lament about female gender, because that is what he saw and withness, his mum doing to his father.

The guy would not be able to maintain health relationship with women, since his mind has been poisoned by his father.

He would always be paranoid, believing every woman, would react abnormal towards him.

NB. I will advise to mend whatever pieces you had been battling with, before it's too late, life is not about how ur DICKHARD, but making positive impact before you go back to your creator.

You would soon become evening paper.

Stomoney:
How can this be possible.

Because he knows, Tinubu will definitely come to his rescue

Tjra:
Read well sir.

The people of Osun have rejected Demola and will vote him out today.

Enough is enough

Your lamentations should be on Tinubu, who plunge you and your family to, a b ject poverty. If you take that one out, Ademola or any other gov is just a dot in a circle.

Anybody that still supporting APC govt, needs proper evaluation.

In a country where voters are rational human beings, APC as a party would loose in any election, they will hear in heaven, but in the zoo, their thinking and action always at opposite with normally human beings.

Ire ooooo.

It seems Sowore is going mad, his people should endeavor to evaluate his mental wellness.

Jahwinaboy:
Chelsea and Liverpool. Chelsea sabi make noise. Liverpool has been walking alone till they lifted the premier league recently. Others always had something to offer, fight for or are known for. Arsenal youthful and always qualified for champions league for up to 16yrs straight, Barcelona king of modern football tiki-taka, Man U always making waves every season, dying minutes equalizers/winners,always striking fears in heart of opponents, Man city the recent king of England, changed the concept of England making every team to sit up and want to beat them every season

I guess your darling club usually silent like cemetery whenever you are playing games.

Everyone shouting noise, as if football is not about noise, competition and followers.

WriteerNg:

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And you think Russia cannot give law enforcement right to open fire on Germans in Russia?

If it's not already happening sef.

The good thing is Russia can label any random German as a spy and blow off his/her skull.

Go and read the type of Russians they asked to open fire on, rational human being would read and understand topic before responding.

If citizens still voting for APC despite the way they are handling Nigeria"s economy, I think they deserve whatever suffering they might be going through.

Still surprising, people can still be fighting to install APC govt in Osun.

pocohantas:
She might be saying the truth.
Problem is, men like to victimise themselves and assume every woman who doesn't want them is because of money.

Many of them have poor carriage, speak carelessly, poor hygiene or zero structure.

I have seen painters with the carriage of a manager. But some, because they are driving bike, they will buy satchet gin and hang in one side of their mouth. Smelling of kaikai everyday.

Move like a man with a purpose.

Saying truth, but hidden underlying reason, for her desicion, just like people saying up.

Age wise, time might not be on her side again and the second reason. Did abroad guy really wanted to marry her or just using her to cure konji?

I usually pity several girls,who usually believe they are in relationship, when they guy usually using them to warm bed, they throw them out when they ready to settle down, go to gathering of guys and hear what they vomit out

AndroBlaze:
Are you having a comprehension problem?

She was a colleague and I believed at that time, a good friend.

When it became clear she wanted more I tried to discourage her politely....you never utter the words '"I'm not interested in you"to a woman (something women easily do to men), it has happened quite a few times for me to know it can do irreparable damage to them.

Me embarrassing her was after several provacations, after she was already married and should have known better.

The point of recalling this is that men are kinder and more gracious than women when it comes to turning one down and dealing with rejection....and women should do more to appreciate that fact.

You might be having comprehension issue, in addition to your gragra behavior.

Again, you are the male version of girls, who usually do gragra, because guys have interest in them. They aren't mannered enough, to turn down people that have interest in them politely.

With your behavior, you will be struggling to do business, because you are a narcissist (you can read about narcissism, since you have comprehension issue)

NB. Your response, validate my assumption about your attitude.

Cum4me:
Never I'm an Urhobo man and I must marry an Urhobo woman do the normal tradition my Accentors has been doing. I have no business with a white man traditional or any court business.

From illiterate perspective, if you have reasons to travel out of this country in a legal way, you would have known how important white is. Nevertheless, the forum is for both educated or illiterate, myopic and broad-minded individual to view their opinions.

AndroBlaze:
Lol, I remember this happening to me at work.

A particular girl who was known for being loud, bold and forward, always came around touching me at the slightest chance.

Unfortunately for her, her hands were extremely harsh and hard, which meant I automatically recoiled at her touch. Facially she was actually extremely beautiful.

Then she went the route of telling me about her romantic pursuers though it was unsolicited by me. The rough touches continued, to my annoyance and I pulled away drastically from her when it became clear what they meant.

Eventually she got married but after that she became hostile to me and attacked me at the slightest provacation.

I obviously knew where it was coming from and gave her a very public embarrassment later on. She never talked to me again but at least I was at peace.


Women hate rejection so much that I wonder why they don't appreciate bold men who take rejection regularly in their stride more than they do.

You are a male version of women, who usually embarrassed or attack guys that asked them out.

If man or woman asked one out, I think it's left for such person to appreciate glory of God in him/her, and if you aren't ready to go into relationship with such person, you turn her down politely, but for some, they turn to attack dog🐕

seunmsg:
I agree fully with Sowore's assessment that Demola Adeleke shouldn't be running a state in Nigeria. The governor surely doesn't have the capacity to lead and deliver good governance. The earlier he is voted out, the better for the state.

Tinubu that has capacity to govern, how as it benefited you and your family? When last did you eat 3 square of meal in a day last?


Why won't we continue experiencing nonsense in zoo, when the oppressed, keep on singing hosanna behind their oppressors, in name of religion, tribal and trolls

When you first met a woman, you have to give respect, but after relationship established, you must strictly defined your boundaries, if you want to have peace in such relationship.

Many women indeed, need iron hands to behave well.

Mindlog:
The marriage is heading to the exit....

You loose out.

Human beings should reason with his brain and not emotions.

Harbideyme:
She's not been fair sincerely. Your uncle needs serious counselling and I feel for him because he's been used for the achievements. Koda nau

The question is what will you do and not to complain.

You dnt know complete scenario of what played out before that decision

jordyspices:
The love of money is the root of all bad things

First of all, total joint account not good .

If couple want to do joint account, let it be contributory joint account, I contribute, you contribute. The remaining of my/your money will be spent independently.

Back to the topic, if the man was hitherto overbearing on the total money contributed, I won't blaming the wife, but if he wasn't overbearing, and wife changes because of increase in salary.

Me too , I would change in amount of money I'm committed to family welfare.

jeff1993:
Good for him!!!! Dumb Men everywhere.

When u refuse to swallow the Red pill, u will get swallowed by women monstrosity

What's different between the guy and red pillers? The common thing is that, Both lack common sense.

I don't know people can still be sending money to unseen girl guy inside the air ooo.

Anyway, maga will never end until the end of the world.

Why exchanging their bodies? If indeed you respect their dignity, you wouldn't have sent them back to their creator before their time.

Rather too late, this what you should have done in 2023, but Atiku inordinate ambition, undermine the whole show, today they are trailing behind a tyrant.

shadyLP:
No be only youthful exuberant, you for say na so God take create human beings na

Na just grammar u just dey speak.

So u don't know such happens everywhere in the world?! Then where did the word addiction comes from??
He his right in that story he narrated..

Ask any sex therapist the challenges they face in terms of counselling people who are sex addict..

Though, you don't worth response but nevertheless, just like Op says, you are exhibiting sign of drug adxdi in addition to youthful exuberance, you will soon overcome it.

Rebelutionary:
You just wonder what has become of us as a people especially in this social media age!

Someone said the average Nigerian is wicked and I agree 100%. This is not just to others but to themselves!

How can someone be in a moving bus and be making video of ones sleeping driver just so they could post online? Nawao!

Is it only camera that taken our common sense? What about religion, civilization, politics. Infact, education.
Which of these are we using with common sense to better our life and society?

Antoeni:
Celestial is Not a Bible Believing Church, They Are Diabolical And Fetish

What did she find go Cele? Possibly to renew glory in diabolical way.

I always pity women that usually visit diabolical prophet and babalawo, they always end up, warming their bed at will, most especially married women.

Tope herself lived a dirty and troublesome life, but people often ignore to blame when such an individual dies.

How can a woman as old as 40 turned to a drug addict? Taken colos as if it's food in addition to sleeping around like prostitute.

A role model should endeavor to leave a life worth of emulation.

Trump has succeeded in dragging America into the mud in hands of Iran.

Iran not only dictating to USA now, but self acclaimed strong man, running helter and skelter for safety, around the world, even inside his own coven in white house, no peace of mind.