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If you married a lady that you love without being reciprocate the love back, you are heading for crisis in marriage, and if you married a lady that loves you, without you loving her back and inch, it's just as if, you housed your own gender at home.


Nevertheless, if I'm asked to choose only 1 between these two ladies, I would go for lady that loves me.

Esc2ctrl:
WHEN YOU FAIL TO PLAN YOUR LIFE EARLY, YOULL CHOSE WHAT LIFE PLANS FOR YOU

A teenager who doesn't understand philosophy of life, he would sit down in corner of his one room apartment and keep bragging and bragging.

I give you another ten years, you will fully understand philosophy of life. That is, life is full of uncertainties.

Helinuss:
This God1000 is just jobless lol

Jobless or hallucinating?

Meanwhile, hallucination is the younger brother to madness.

DeltaBachelor:
Chai. Things Dey occur sha. I would have said it is the OP talking to himself if I haven’t witnessed something like this first hand.( Because I am surprised how he created the initial thread in 2024 and is sending us the continuation in 2026 )Honestly, THINGS DEY OCCUR SHA !

That’s why it is better to do COURTSHIP first and a long time before marriage, to avoid stories that touch

And who told you, good wife can't turn bad? Even virgin latter turn to public property while in husband house.

This type of chats are happening in everywhere in marriages, only saving grace is that, husbands didn't have knowledge of it.


Few years to come, husbands would be having knowledge of side men of their wives.

jideflash:
they will use government money to pay staff for private work. After all they acquired, they still want taxpayers to pay for their private living expense. Same way they rather collect policemen as guard on taxpayers money, instead of using private security.

Have you heard about secondment and leave with pay before?

So many ignorant and empty headed mobs, they only know how to criticize and lament on daily basis. Anyway body needs to relieved of toxicity.

TopBanter:
Amaechi is an emotional man always doing too much. How do you reject your ethnicity because you say some are persecuting you politically?

You say you are Igbo and then wish to stop being Igbo the minute some Igbos come for you over politics?

I am a proud Yoruba man. Nothing and no one can change that. Amaechi should learn to think before he rushes to talk.

He knows what he is saying, if indeed Igbo consider them as Igbo, they won't attack him for a VP slot, you people want Rivers and other to be part of you, wen you don't consider them as Igbo, only interested in their oil.

Today, Isaac Kekemeke, an Ijaw man from Ondo State, is the vice chairman of APC in southwest and senatorial candidate of APC.

How many states outside Yorubas can allow that?


If core Igbos are seeing Ebonyi as non Igbos, how much less, Ikwere man from Rivers.

ObiaboAdoka:
Messi has robbed many like this before. So, it's not a new thing. The sword he used in killing others is what is used in killing. He ended his international football in a disgraceful world cup final.

You can wail from now till eternity, it doesn't stop Messi to be the greatest of all time.

Messi is a football magician who is better than any player and he effectively deserved whatever he had achieved in football.

Only a wicked person that doesn't want good thing will be angry about a guy who make people "whaooooo", when watching football because of his enonmous talents, the talents which would take century to withness again. Anyway, what can we do for bittered people of the world that full of wickedness, jealousy and hatred? Only to leave them and allow them to keep building toxicity in their body.

robosky02:
A player with Zero contribution?

The pecking order should have been

Mbappe

Messi

Dembele

Bellingham


Yamine lamal

In other words, only attacking players are footballers in the tournament.


For them to conceive just one goal in 8 games, is it not achievement? Isn't some players that contributed to it?


I won't be surprised, you are yet to start watching football when Canavaro won "world footballer of the year and ballon d'Or" few years back.

Even when usually telling us here that Russia not having casualties, while Ukraine dying in million.


8 Russians that were killed at a go last week never reported, if it were to be Ukraine, it would hit the front page istanta"

marcusverum:
The worst and most painful position to be in as a human being is to be a man and be broke.

You will regret your existence.

Women talk about privilege. But when it comes to finance they go silent about the advantage they carry over men.

Two things a woman will never lack even if she lacks love or marriage. She will never lack income. She will never lack intimacy.

A broke man will have nothing. No love. No intimacy. No food. No income.

A broke man is a dead man alive.

People tend to help women. Nobody helps a man.

A woman can trade her body for money at the point of desperation. Men have nothing to trade. A man must work for whatever he wants and whatever he needs.

This is why even in a world saturated with women men are still without wives. Still single. Women are still rejecting broke men. Because a woman can decide to share a successful man rather than be alone with a struggling one.

Any attack on your sustenance is an attack on your life. Guard your income jealously. Your life depends on it.

Do you think society acknowledges how much harder financial failure hits a man compared to a woman?

I doubt if you know different between being broke and be poor.

Someone may broke in the morning and rich in the evening, if expected money credited to his accounts.

gotnel:
This issue of rescue of Oriire victims can only be understood by those who can think differently.

Those who were expecting a confrontation between the kidnappers and the government forces while the kidnapped victims were still present and in control of the bandits are very much stupid and don't know what is logical and tactical.

Before any confrontation can take place, the little children should have been taken away from the hands of the bandits.
This really requires a lot of time and logic.
This is why the government moves tactically to get the family of the bandits into captivity in the hands of the military before apparently applying pressure.
This is where the real rescue was done ✔️
This is the real result.

It will take some more thinking for this type of rescue to take place

When people thinking with sentiment, it makes him reason like foolish, only a man who is not bias in his judgement and reasoning like rational human, that would reason the way you reason.

If govt do bad let comderm and when they don't do bad, we need not to attack unnecessarily, but we are in a country, in which people ready to burn their house because they hate the face of landlord.

poshestmina:
He suddenly doesn'trust her after over 20 years?
Na under Bridge he first marry her from? .

Make una dey leave all this foolish stories sometimes.Una dey make Nairaland reduce IQ wey I dey manage.

I guess you are a type who doesn't go out to mingle with people outside, if you normally going out, you will know marriages are messier than this.

The story below, if they tell you is real? You would swear with anything you can hold on to. What about Sisi Alagbo 3some with hubby?

vdestro:
My good friend just told me her husband does not trust her because of where she is from.

She is from the across the bridge and has been with Oga for 20+ years.

She said Oga said her people do not stay with their husbands if they fail to satisfy them financially or *sesually.

And that he knows she will leave him eventually when she is tired and that even though he appreciates that she is trying to do the right thing her across the bridge will get the better of her as people from that area are prone to doing.

She said everything she does now is read in that light even when she does things she knows the female gender does, e.g Oga believes in saving and spending on only necessaries, she supports Oga but sometimes wants to indulge, Oga says it's an across the bridge thing and not a feminine thing which she heavily disputes.

She says she is tired of being accused and of assuring Oga of her commitment and that she is not doing anything unusual for everything she does any woman would do same but Oga disputes this.

I told her I would put up this post to get people's opinions on this matter.

The man only playing reverse psychology on her. He wants to put her on her toes and use it to ambush her, even if the man start doing nonsense.

Tell your friend to tell her husband that, ..... since he already knew her tribe don't use to stay in husband house, why did he marry her in first place and that, she should confront him that, he is saying this because he is planning to marry second wife in future.

NewHe:
Assuming the other religion adherents also stood up to preach same time,what do you think could be the outcome?

What's is outcome wen they ware hijab?

What's outcome when they litter street and begging, causing discomfort to road users?

A day will come, Muslims will ask you to pray in their mosques by fire by force, just because you want freedom and useless right.

Judemarco31:
Stop spreading false narratives, I support the Bill, most of the preachers and those hawkers creates inconveniences and discomfort to travellers. In developed countries you won't see such but it is only in this part of planet that we claim to be more Christians than Pope but our atrocities are nothing to write home about. Even Bible made us to understand that there is time for everything.

But you support begging on the road by northern Muslims.
You support burning of human beings in name of blasphemy.

You support wearing of hijab even in christian school.

Where Islam enter, peace must disappear indeed.

Miggs:
The man is my hero

I am older than him and i am not interested in children,marriage or any form of relationship.

I am not lgbt plus in anyway.I just want to live a quiet,peaceful life and concentrate on myself.So far,so good.

The End.

If indeed you are what you said above, most especially @ bolded, you would only read and bypass the story without single reaction let alone comment.


Meanwhile many of you hide under a personal choice, even though there is one, or more underlying issues that making it hard for you to get married.

1. Impotency.

2. Financial difficulty.

3. Family problem.

4. Joblessness.

5. Depression, among others.

givedemwotowoto:
2 Things Need To Be Done:

1. Ensure VAT is paid at the point of consumption which means businesses pay VAT in the various states they’re located.

2. Share VAT at the same formula with oil and gas revenue sharing formula.

This makes it fair for everyone until a time when Nigeria is ready to review formula for all revenue distribution

Read the sharing formula again and compare it to sharing formula of oil.

dermmy:
Meanwhile Israeli soldiers are enjoying their life in Israel while America continue to bleed for Israel. To the last American soldier.

Keep on making yourself sad and continuing building toxic in your body system because of fight that not in any concerns you.

I don't usually pity women that steal, since ATMs full streets in which they can cash-out, whenever they want.........just wear revealing outfits and take a walk along the streets. One Gigolo must find money that you will use to hold body for that day.


Sleep with these useless thief and give them, 5k, they would start hurling insults on such man, that the money is too small. Sex that two of you enjoy ooo.

Ordinary 2k they can't use their hands to work for it and use it feed themselves.

I only need kids but not wife gangs, I pray you won't end up in regrets at evening.

Even husbands that staying with wives and taken many of the responsibilities at home, some wives still manipulating them by poisoning their minds against their fathers, let alone one father that staying faraway.


Many of you are the reason whole lots of useless teenagers littered society and making society dysfunctional.

That's why I pity any man that goes out to wife single mother, most especially the ones which husbands still much alive.

Just know you wifed our wife instead of my wife.

SeeWahala:
The only tribe to do this via business is the Igbo 🤗

The others would need you to soil your names in politics before this type of settlement can ever come 🥺

That is why we asked you to handle business and let Yoruba and Fulani be rotating president between themselves.

IBB007:
Lol…Omo I dey fear these young girls of nowadays…dem dey do wetin dem no born their mama well to do…

These girls of 25 downward, they don't see anything wrong in sleeping with variety of guys as it used to be in the past. Before now, women usually shame and angry if you discussed sexcapades you had with her with your friends, but now, they are the first to discuss it in public.

Few years to come, husbands would be having knowledge of their wife side men, just as wives knowing husband sidechicks ñow.

nlfpmod:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7663276177016114465?_r=1&_t=ZS-986X2nH2zLc

“I slept with three guys in a day, The guy that d!svirgined me, my Ex and my boyfriend. One in the morning, one in the afternoon and one at the night”🙆‍♂️

— Nigerian lady, Rhennie pic.twitter.com/WDQ0GkpmXs

— DAMI FOREIGN🥶 (@TheDamiForeign) July 17, 2026

She may be catching cruise. Or she really meant it?

Are her parents still alive? Won't her family see this viral video?

Let her be catching cruise, but I pray her cruising won't come back to hunt her.


People would never learn from mistakes of others but, their own flaws. It's this same year that cruising Simi did several years ago shook her to the spine, thank God it doesn't break her marriage and neither did it send her to prison.

Frozenkoncept:
Fashion trends come and go, but some style habits never seem to go out of fashion.

In my opinion, these five make the biggest difference:

1. Wear clothes that fit properly.
Even expensive clothes look awkward if they don’t fit well.

2. Keep your shoes clean.
People often notice your footwear before the rest of your outfit.

3. Don’t chase every trend.
Wearing what suits your body and personality is usually better than following every viral style.

4. Stick to simple colour combinations.
Neutral colours are easier to match and often look more elegant.

5. Confidence matters.
The best outfit won’t look good if you don’t feel comfortable wearing it.

I’m curious to hear other opinions.

What’s the one fashion rule you live by that has never failed you?

Is it quality over quantity, matching colours, buying fewer but better clothes, or something else?

All of us should wear hijab to be like masquerades, after all, hijab is the only way we can dress decently.

Forumobserver12:
Most of them are just trying to sound woke, funny enough they ended up sounding unintelligent... I am an exception cos I don't fall into such categories of Nigerians and im sure they many of us out there . .

You and the person you quoted, are first among the Nigerians he is referring to. You are a type that would claim "black is white".

For you not to admit what Shank said is nothing but truth, people must be vigilant to do business or whatsoever with you.

NB. Below is the comment you quoted this same July, admitting what Shank said, but now arguing "blinhdly" to proof pointless points.

Let me share 2 experiences of a house assembly member in my area.

1. One man called him and was lamenting that, his wife just delivered a set of twin and that tomorrow is naming, but no money to do the naming ceremony.

The lawmaker now called his P.A to go and attend the naming the second day, and that, he should give him 50k, but warned him to take pic of parents and twins. So, wen the PA called the parent in the morning that, his boss asked him to come and attend the naming and asked where the venue is, the man struggling to answer a simple and direct question, he latter confessed that, he didn't do any naming, only wanted to extort money from the lawmaker, he now said, they should share whatever oga sent, the P.A said, oga asked for pictures, that was how burble busted.

The second one is a woman who went to complain that his mother died and no money for burial, lawmaker promised coffin. Burble busted wen they reached house to present the coffin.

In naija, from leaders to followers, lecturers, students, civil servants, market people, artisans, security forces, judiciary, pastor/imam, they are all dubious and mischievous.( at least 95%)

Your close friends, family, co-workers, co-tenants, be vigilant and observant when dealing with them

The mob should have done jungle justice for the animal.

Jakarta:
Is this self consoling or what? Person dey follow C Ronaldo drag him wealth before? He is good no doubt, even with me being his fan, I still believe Messi is better than him.

Messi is miles above him and every other footballers in history.

If a 39 years old man can still be destroying young, vibrant and agile players at their prime.

One need to accept that, he who God has ordained, his enermy would only be battling in vein.

One of greatest that ever played football, but his inflated ego couples with his blind followers, that are trying to elevate him above his level, making people talking hard about him.


If a 39 years old MAN can still be destroying his young, agile and vibrant opponents on biggest football tournament.
I think his adversaries should accept fate and bow down for he, that almighty God has ordained.