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dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do

Because your wife is cheating on you, it now, making the whole marriage collapses.

SINCE TIME OF ADAM & EVE, HUMANS HAD BEEN BLAMING OTHERS BUT THEMSELVES.

oga, nothing happens to marriage oo, it's you and your partner that must put more effort to make it work.

Many of you usually saw handwriting of bad partners before marriage, in which, you ignored and still went ahead to marry the partners, you would now come back to blame entire generation of women/men wen things start manifesting.

If they ask you, how U started dating this olosho wife now, .....it won't far from big money you offered her in return of love for you.

Only wen men stop seducing women with money and gifts, before you can have peace in your relationship

In 90's, in every 5 sermons thr must be 3-4 sermons about REPENTANCE, HELL/HEAVEN, SALVATION OR SINs.

But now, in every of 5 sermons, you must hear at least, 4 about "prosperity/how to make it in life or marriages".

It now seems as if hellfire not existing again.,

chiagozien:
What is the difference between Nigeria military and Nigeria politicians?




Those called for coup are just calling for pouring old wine inside new cup.




Division is the only solution.

The wastage in civilian far outweighs military,
The embezzlement in democracy can't be quantified .
The lawlessness during democracy lead us to massive insecurity we are witnessing.

Examples, state that cannot fund just one university, is having 3 universities.
Political thugs metamorphosise to Boko haram

This is what NUPENG & PENGASSANT want for Dangote, which the man dodged the bullet,the way they ran nation refineries aground,they wanted to extend same thing to private refinery

Sonnobax15:

Trying to pepper Ned Nwoko wey don move on to him next pot of beans wey dey wait for am to come and devour her

You are the one peppering yourself ooooo, getting HBP on issues of lady that doesn't even know if you are existing.

You see picture of her and a man, your blood is getting hot, if the guy is in-law, blood brother, cousin, it's none of your business, but your own is to attack.

Meanwhile, when the old man displayed his pic and fifth wife last week, I won't be surprised, you hailed the man and still attacked Regina.

If they ask you, you will be jumping up and down, claiming brotherhood.

2nd week of December, they will start dancing backward and finally end, in their usual position.

TONYE001:
I believe one of the functions of a celebrity is to mentor people/followers, exhibiting positive and healthy life values.

Sadly, many celebrities do the exact opposite. The most frequent, I observe, is this need to project a fake life, making oneself to appear wealthy, influential, and all that. This reeks of "poverty mentality" and insecurity. If not, why must an individual go to any extent just to appear rich? We've read time and again of stories where celebrities rent stuff (exotic cars, buildings, etc) and claim it's theirs. Just why? I don't understand why celebrities are pressured into taking pictures with "their cars, private jects, mansions" and all that at the background.... I even see this in the lives of regular Nigerians. I've seen people whose first impulse upon entering an airplane is to take pictures to post on Facebook....some would post with some stupid motivational quote. But, of course, while in a taxi, motorbike, or danfo bus, hardly would we take similar pictures to post.

Why do celebrities feel that they must force themselves to appear rich? Just why?

Now, this lady has gone ahead to rent a Prado SUV she can't afford just to appear rich to her friends and followers. If she could afford it, why on God's earth would she fly outta Abuja without paying? Just why? Must she rent a Prado jeep? MUST SHE? If she must rent a car, must it be a Prado? MUST IT? Why not rent regular, cheaper vehicles?

People, do not be pressured by these fake lifers. We must rise above seeing money and material things as the only way to reaching satisfaction in life. Truly, there are more important things. WAY MORE IMPORTANT THINGS. We must learn to live within our means. Don't force wealth, don't hate yourself because of what you see on SM. Please, don't. Whatever you can make out of life, while you aspire for more, LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS and be grateful. With the little you make, you can achieve a whole lot (including giving to others)...it's just a matter of your choices.

Don't make acquiring wealth your priority in life. It shouldn't, honestly.

Some of our lifestyles may just chase away destiny helpers....giving them an impression that you are comfortable and, perhaps, even doing better than they are doing.

And you think all celebrities have something upstairs to tutor others? I hope you are not mistaken celebrities to people who have made mark in their chosen careers, like, Surgeon, Professor, Broadcaster, even Political office holders.

Many of Naija celebrities are "accidental getting famous", nothing in them for followers to learn from, even before they become famous, and being famous suddenly, won't make you become intelligent or have good character, you can't give what you don't have.

Portable, Wunmi Toriola, Regina Daniels Peller, among others became famous for little or nothing as skills, neither did they have good character before fame, .....having become famous, what did they want to start teaching others

Politicians and lies are like 5&6. You that was blocked to join, you now telling your mugus, that it's because of them.

So, you that was going out with your ex doesn't know, until his entire family told you about his bad character.

Little wonder they say woman doesn't know what they want.

Racoon:
The AU, UN and other global bodies see all these evil but they always turn a blind eyes. A man that campaigned and won election using his effigies and posters. Shame to all the tyrannical dictators plaguing the African continent

What did you want them to do? Did you want them to intervene on internal issues if sovereign nation?

When Tinubu wanted to deal with Niger coupist the other time, you can see opposition, even within his party and govt going against it.

No wonder soldiers from North, wanted to stage a coup, this man really dealt with Hausa/Fulani from accessing free money, they hitherto, enjoying whenever their tribe is in power.

The airport they say, already full to its capacity and that, it cannot contain additional carrier.

Politics and economy interest everywhere, this is what government of every nation must be doing for business of her citizens, if indeed they want the nation to develop economically.

jesusjnr2020:
10 Things Catholics Do That The Apostles Didn't

1. The apostles didn't pray to Mary.
2. They didn't pray to the dead.
3. They didn't do satanic processions.
4. They didn't go to mass.
5. Scapular.
6. Infant baptism.
7. They didn't believe in purgatory.
8. They didn't use holy water.
9. They didn't call Peter a pope.
10. They didn't bow down or worship idols.

So where did the Catholic church get these practices from?

Certainly not from the apostles or the early church.

God bless.

Human had been adding and removing from Bible to suit their purposes, since time immemorial.

90% of church goers today are ignorantly worshiping their church G.Os, Bishops, Prophets etc.

......the church leaders manipulating Bible in other for congregants to be entangled in their fold and continue milking them as they wish.

Naijaguy12345:
Am not a doctor but she probably bled to death or there may be underlying health problems. For example in western countries, you turn up for an operation and they discover your blood pressure is high, that operation will not take place. You could spend the next 1 years trying to control the blood pressure before you now return for the surgery.

RIP to her. I pray God console her family for loosing a woman just climbing career ladder.

You are not a doctor,yet you are misleading Ur gullible followers, the way you are not a journalist,but twisting news to cause problems online.

spiSeyi:
The sad truth root behind her depression is getting a responsible man , and most responsible men will avoid marrying ladies in their late 30s.
A lot of ladies who play games with gentlemen will end up in suicide mode if aunty Yemi with all wealth and beauty can be this depressed how much more a broke and woke ugly liability

Gentle man with nothing to feed wife and kids, the marriage will explode in no distance time.

Gentleman shouldn't rely on his gentility alone, you must have money to make marriage workable and enjoyable.

lilvicky68:
You see that 22 and 23years, many girls no dey gree say dem don pass am.

Na their default age be that

Meanwhile, wen they leave a guy who who can't even feed his own mouth and move to marry a guy who is ready , ......you guys will start complaining and wailing.

Lovey-lovey alone not making marriage work oooo, but income as well, power the engine of marriage.

Kobicove:
Engagement and actual marriage are not the same thing.

According to information available he has been engaged twice before but on both occasions the engagements were called off

Ordinary introduction, in which the woman park to your house and start leaving with you, it's your wife. Stop leaving in self denial.

You can see world has been counting it for him, meanwhile, which marriage even bigger than engagement?

Bye.

But u dont greet him for Amupitan o, politicians with cunning cunning behaviour.

Kobicove:
Are you sure he has ever been married before?

They posted this this week.

Reason why Padi Adenuga married and remarried, even though his age is just 40.

Reason why so many married women are deceived to step outside, and having stepped outside, they realised grass not greaner at other side.

Walai:
He should sack Nuhu Ribadu too, that guy have no experience with national security. He is just another ajebota quota policeman who retired as a mere Deputy Commissioner. He has no single sting operation of national importance he commanded as a police officer .
I don't want to talk about being EFCC chairman, any average joe can occupy that position and deliver. I am talking of real security business.

In USA, the advanced nation in area of military capabilities, always put civilian as national security adviser.

RIBADU PERFORM FAR MORE THAN, THE LAST 3 NSAs.

Mathewrichard99:
Just imagine for a minute that the coup went well as planned by the Coupists.

There would have been jittery and uproar all over Nigeria and the world. We would have been back to the era of my fellow countrymen, I lieutenant Ahmad Abubakar or whatever name from the North would have come out to address the citizens.

He would have spoken with a fake direction of reviving the country from mismanagement, corruption, insecurity, hunger, poverty and nepotism.

He would have said all government departments remain closed until further notice but everyone should continue their normal legal activities.

He would try to buy some regions for supports and their understanding, especially the regions that has been marginalized over the years. He would set Nnamdi Kanu free immediately, set some other arrested militants free in all regions.

The citizens would have been in the euphoria of mix reaction. The Northern region would definitely be in jubilation, probably funfair all over the northern cities.

The North Central would be in a state of quietness, uncertainty and definitely sad.

The South West, due to the fact that the incumbent president was from their region. There would be much anger, protest in some areas and probably a shout to the United Nations to activate sanctions against Nigeria over the new khaki boys. Many emergency activists would emerge and definitely a replica of the nineteen seventies and eighties would emerge In the South West.....

South East, due to the setting free of their people especially Nnamdi Kanu, some would embrace the Coupists. Jubilation will spread all over the South East. They will momentarily forget about Biafra.

May we never return back to Sodom and Gomorrah era.....

The military architecture as it stood then, made the planned coup, leaked and failed, the recent, rejig will even make it more difficult to stage.


Reason why every president, put his tribesmen in important and strategic places in military .

Now Yoruba persons are first & second in military, Hausa move to navy and Ibo air force.

Is it not strategy to weaken northerner's hausa-fulani the more?

Breaker001:
Sowore is bringing too much needless trouble upon himself. As much as I love his investigative journalism, the rascality he usually portrays does not make sense.
Anyways, I think he is enjoying the game while it lasts 😎

Gani Faweyinmi did more than this, I doubt if you have matured to witness him, during military.

Meanwhile, Tinubu also involve in similar stubbornness

Naijalegal:
Lagos no dey play anymore when it comes to deadbeat fathers! 😤 Under **Section 278 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State (2015)**, it is now a *criminal offence* for any father, mother, or guardian to abandon a child or refuse to provide the basic things a child needs to survive — food, shelter, school fees, clothing, and medical care. If you’re a man who has been dodging your baby mama and pretending your child doesn’t exist, just know say the law fit catch up with you anytime. The government fit arrest you, and the court fit even order your salary, bank account, or contract payment to be seized and used to take care of that child.

For single mothers, this law is your power tool. 💪🏽 All you need to do is keep records and receipts of every expense — school fees, baby food, medicine, clothes — and walk straight to court. The judge can order that the baby daddy refund every kobo you’ve spent on the child. No more begging or dragging online; the law is now on your side. But don’t use it for luxury — the court will only recognize basic needs based on the father’s financial level. If he’s a rich man, your child deserves a rich lifestyle. If he’s an okada man, the court will expect something within his means. Lagos has spoken: no more abandoning your responsibility — because you can dodge the baby mama, but you can’t dodge the law. ⚖️

Nigeria know how to make laws, but it's time of implementation, they start jittery.

InfoGuru118:
https://news360ng.com/breaking-court-grants-bail-to-sowore-nnamdi-kanus-lawyer-11-others/

This man may become Naija presido one day ooo.

This is how Tinubu was projecting himself as a defender of the weak, which make the masses following him blindly, until they gave him opportunity, before turning himself to oppressor.

ExudeLoveToAll:
The woman's situation is worse than the guy,most of the time the guy is actually upgrading her status.

If your analysis is correct, the beautiful girl is supposed to go for guy with better income.

It seems this govt now eager to send this man to prison, once and for all, because the way court proceedings, being fast to reconvene for next sitting on is case, in recent times, is worrisome.

hector:
Are you mentally stable? How was she playing God? Since when did body enhancement procedure become playing God?

Abi oooo, if you are mentally stable, you would have known the event that led to her death, but, what can we say about teenager? Who just wake up and start putting mouth on stories, even story that older than his age and intelligent.