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Geeflow:


Please what are they really into?

It forex

Opamercy10:
Ishaku dey take accolades.
Na Habby and Jeff Benson get company..
I like this move tho

I swear😂😂

People also get drunk on Sunday and come to Nairaland to post rubbish.

I no fit Laugh

He is saying the truth, I'm from there, he just made some few mistakes, the odiani head is nkwu-nzu, my dad is from nkwu-nzu why my mum is from ugbodu

MufasaLion:


Irrespective of the pattern of death, it's not possible! No children will die because of their mother's shameful sex life.

When you know about tradition you will know why you must give ogun(deity) nothing but oil.

MufasaLion:


Adultery is a bad thing but it's illogical to believe children will die because their mother commit adultery.

It not all the children, they start dying one by one.

virginprincess:
Delta(ika precisely)

It true.

There are still lots of countless hope, I use to bet before too, but the day I sat down and calculated all I have bet, that day I stop going to betting shop or even betting online, mine I was even given a cashier login ooo. Another is instead of thinking suicide why not just think tomorrow is going to be a good day and everything that happens today won't happen tomorrow and stop thinking about the past and focus on what you want your tomorrow to be cause if you keep focusing on the past you won't see what your tomorrow would be, before you know rhings will start changing bit by bit that my own little advice

Toks2008:
I implore everyone to carefully and patiently read with an open mind and give their opinions objectively because i am about to dissect the lingering issue of polygamy in the light of the scriptures

I'm not here to promote, support or go against polygamy but I'm just expressing MY UNBIASED OPINION from the scriptural perspective so no baseless personal attacks but lets discuss the subject matter.

There is a new trend in Nigeria where we now see men getting married to two ladies in one day and even flaunting it on social media.

Whilst some people hail the boldness of these men, Some people say "Polygamy is a sin, GOD forbids it..." and i tend to wonder where these people got their doctrines from.

Unfortunately many pastors will never preach what you are about to read because they don't want to lose their female members.

Now Lets take a quick look at this scripture for the definition of sin;

1 John 3:4 “Whoever commits sin also commits lawlessness, and sin is lawlessness” The question we must ask one another is;If the Law provided for polygamy, how could it be a "sin"?

1.Now what does the law state about polygamy from the scriptures?

In Deuteronomy 21:15-17: If a man has two wives, and he loves one but not the other, and both bear him sons but the firstborn is the son of the wife he does not love, 16 when he wills his property to his sons, he must not give the rights of the firstborn to the son of the wife he loves in preference to his actual firstborn, the son of the wife he does not love. 17 He must acknowledge the son of his unloved wife as the firstborn by giving him a double share of all he has. That son is the first sign of his father’s strength. The right of the firstborn belongs to him.

This simple scriptural verse shows that God allowed and regulated polygamy....God chose to regulate it by demanding that each wife must be treated equally. If polygamy is a sin i believe there will be no need for GOD to regulate it rather it will be condemned in clear terms.

Lets also quickly have a run through of the verses in the scriptures that made reference to people who were polygamous and these people were not condemned by GOD.

In 2 Samuel 5:13; 1 Chronicles 3:1-9, 14:3 , King David had six wives and numerous concubines.

In 1 Kings 11:3 , King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.

In 2 Chronicles 11:21 , King Solomon's son Rehoboam had 18 wives and 60 concubines.

Judges 8:30.Now Gideon had seventy sons who were his direct descendants, for he had many wives.

Genesis 4:19.Lamech took to himself two wives: the name of the one was Adah, and the name of the other, Zillah.

1 Chronicles 4:5.Ashhur, the father of Tekoa, had two wives, Helah and Naarah.

There are a lot more verses from the Old Testament that allow polygamy, but I think that the above are sufficient enough to prove my point.


2.Polygamy in the New Testament:

Jesus said: "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law (the Old Testament) or theProphets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not theleast stroke or a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law (the Old Testament) until everything is accomplished. (Matthew 5:17-18) "

In 1 Timothy 3:2, Paul ADVISED general overseers to be husband of one wife but does it make it A SIN for a G.O to have more than one wife?

What about billions of men who are not General overseers...I guess they are excluded.

And talking about the aspiring elders or general overseers who are already polygamous,I'm very certain that Paul will never ask them to divorce extra wives cos that will be contradicting the scriptures which frown against divorce so what happens to them? will they forget their calling?

Many people have tried to use man's philosophy to label polygamy a sin by quoting several scriptures referring to a man and a woman joining together to be one flesh in a singular manner.

The idea of "one flesh" does not mean that the man is exclusive to that woman. It means that at anytime a marriage takes place,it is the joining of one man and one woman(singular)but if a man can be joined as one to a harlot whilst still one with his wife then he can be joined to as many brides as he desires.

Now Let's take a look at this verse

1 corinthians 6:16
Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.”

In essence, the fact that marriage is always expressed in the singular does not mean a man can not be singularly joined to as many women as possible.

3.When polygamy becomes a sin

Romans 13:1-2 clearly states; 'Obey the government, for God is the one who has put it there. There is no government anywhere that God has not placed in power. So those who refuse to obey the laws of the land are refusing to obey God, and punishment will follow.

This means if you marry under governmental laws(Registry/court) and it is clearly stated that you can not marry more than a wife and you go ahead to do so, then you have sinned by disobeying the laws. But we all know that there are other types of marriage that are not done in registry hence can be excused from following the monogamous policy of registry marriages.

Whilst i personally think polygamy is not ideal due to its complex nature and often comes with its downsides, but that does not make it a sin. It is also very clear that there was never a place in the scriptures that called polygamy a sin or outrightly condemns it and this is the fact i want the world and indeed women all over the world to come to terms with.

Now let's take a quick look at Mathew 19 vs 8...

Jesus replied, “Moses permitted divorce only as a concession to your hard hearts, but it was not what God had originally intended.

People may argue that Polygamy was not the original plan of GOD for marriage and they may not be wrong but just like divorce was never an original plan of GOD for marriage but now allowed just as Polygamy is allowed not because GOD wants men to marry many wives but simply because no woman deserves to be without a husband.

Back in the days and even in many instances today, due to patriarchal societies, it was nearly impossible for an unmarried woman to provide for herself. Women were often uneducated and untrained. Women relied on their fathers, brothers, and husbands for provision and protection. Unmarried women were often subjected to prostitution and slavery.

So, it seems that God may have allowed polygamy to protect and provide for the women who could not find a husband otherwise. A man would take multiple wives and serve as the provider and protector of all of them.

While definitely not ideal, living in a polygamist household was far better than the alternatives: prostitution, slavery, or starvation.

In addition to the protection/provision factor, polygamy enabled a much faster expansion of humanity, fulfilling God’s command to “be fruitful and increase in number; multiply on the earth” (Genesis 9:7).

I know this may not make sense to most women but as I wrote earlier...IT'S MY Opinion with vivid scriptural references so let's have your contributions.

It is biblical but not scriptural.

gbenga4sure:
I need help on an issue. A friend of mine called me telling me to help him out on an issue.

I obviously don't have an idea what to say but I know he would get needed help here.
Bayo(not real name) called me telling me he went for NIMC registration 5 years ago, he was given a tracking number and was told to come back days later. But he never went because of reasons best known to him.

Now he needs his NIMC card for important stuffs and has been to NIMC office twice,he gave NIMC officials the tracking number but they said it wasn't bringing up any info( just showing a blank page).

He asked if he could register afresh again,he was told No,that he can't register twice since his info is already on the system.

Now he said they said they don't know what to do and that he won't be able to get an NIN slip until his details appears on their system and they don't know when that would be and what to do plus why didn't he show up for that long.
Has anyone experienced this before?

if yes,How did you go about it?

Suggestions are allowed.

since it over 5 years he should use his BVN to print it out instead of trackingnumber, if he was in lagos or ogun would have direct him to someone that will print it out

Infolenka:


If your answer is yes, then you'd have already said yes. Obviously your answer is no.

The thing is, it takes a certain level of men to date top teir good looking women. You need to have a lot of money and high social status.

The kind of girl your date is directly correlated to your level of financial success.

"The kind of girl your date is directly correlated to your level of financial success." It a lie, there are lot of rich man daughters with this shape and a virgins that date and marry por guys without shape cause of what the guy as to offer, I'm a witness to one, they are happily married, the guys self doesn't look poor anymore you will think he was born rich.

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AsherAmari:
Who is 32?
The way girls lie about their age these days is so disturbing and insulting to ones intellingence.

32 indeed. This lady is not less than 35 if not more.

I'm not sure you've seen a 19 year old girl that looks 27 and she claims she is 22 years

Fish farm every 4 months you get two times of your capital

OkuFaba:
Runs gone wrong..

RIP to the dead

It not runs, am also a student, exam start by 7:30 as you can see she left home by 6am. I leave home by 4am cause I live very far from even where she stays. So please don't judge the dead

lionphil:



It's unfortunate such happened to you. There's no 50-50 when it comes to love. Just find someone you're compatible with.

Yeah, I moved on after some months, God faithful I am in a much better one now by God grace.

lionphil:


She's very matured and she simply told you the plain truth... why do you hate hearing the truth. She never said she doesn't love you. She never said she doesn't want to marry you, why are you then troubling yourself and troubling us biko?

The last girl I dated told me same thing and broke up with me, like I never saw it coming and we were too good

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Bro forget her another one that will love you more will come, just cool down for now and focus your energy on other things you will surely get a better, I have been there too, at the end I was happy I let her go.

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IntersexSherry:
Young guys are the worst. They will just use you to make it . Those are struggling guys

Not all guys dear, why do you think people say ''THIS LIVE NO BALANCE" the good meet the bad, the bad meet the good, that life, the ones that have luck are just 20%, I meet a girl this year February we started dating and I noticed she was cheating and I sat her down and talk to her and that was the end she broke up with me. What do we say about that too, some of us are fortunate some of us are not

IntersexSherry:
I was into a relationship with a yahoo boy, i didn't know he was into that. I fell so deeply and madly in love with him to the extent no man moves me again except him. I have different men hitting on me, i see lot of handsome guys but still i just can't get my mind off him. I think of him all the time, anytime i'm with a guy, i still think of him. I broke up with him because i don't like the job he does and he refused to stop, i don't consider him a good person. I keep hearing his voice in my head. I just want to forgot all memories with him. I want to be free of him. I have deleted and blocked all his contact but still i think of him.
Please i need to move on with my life and forget this stupid boy. I don't even know why i feel so much attracted to him, he is not even so handsome. I don't just know why.. I have had lot of way handsome guys hitting on me but still i think of him.
I need to be free. He has to leave my head. How do i forget him please And i'm not doing this again with anyone if i finally get free of him. I hate giving my heart this much to people who don't appreciate and toy with it. I was ready to do anything for him. I know how i can get really
addicted to something that really makes me happy. Better to get addicted to drugs than human beings.

It really hard, I'm in that kind of position right now, meet a lady around March, she broke up with me cause I caught her cheating and I find it hard to forget her, it like have know her for years, I have also block her everywhere. But I hope in time it will ware off

RudyNerdy:
hope you protected yourself with contraceptives?

Yes started using it since on Monday. Thanks

Brother please run ooo, cause when you fully fall in love you will regret it ooo, I just ended that kind of relationship some hours ago so I'm talking from experience, this one has 2 boyfriends I no about the one before me but the one that disvirgin her she still dey go collect private prick ooo when he calls.
So bro except you want to eat and clean mouth

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"60k go buy Xbox one"
iffa slap u eeh!!!
abeg show me where to buy it

preciousgirl22:
I stay at ikorodu lagos and someone told me that I should go to alaba market that I will see it ch but I can not go der oo. am scared of that place since I came to lagos but will it be cheap ther

i live at agric ikorodu too, alaba and oshodi price are the same.