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Very sad story... That child of yours I hope he eats well? Don't worry about school for him he is still very young. Do you have a LinkedIn profile? Try to build one immediately and apply for jobs. There will be alot of vacancies in January.

You guys in Portharcourt are walking corpse. The black soot in that city is so bad I pity the people who live there. That stuff causes cancer

I miss Okin Biscuits

saintade01:
Please stop giving false info and misleading people.

It's not false! Except you have a sore on your dick

I visited Chirac in 2009 for a training. Loved the skycrapers alot. I also loved their waffles lol.

Please I need an office space around Ikeja axis 100sqm.

Seniorwriter:
Ok...
There is a vacant one around Ayobo...total package #220k.

@Seniorwriter

Hmm

Nomoress3:
It has been over a year I quit masturbation already. I really appreciate this creators and the main players of the masturbation quiting thread https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread/1202#108706106 for making this achievable. I knew when the thread was created but I was feeling too big to start counting days with people there. I was able to quit for a month at a time before I relapsed and it even got worse until I started actively participating on this thread.

The benefits I noticed
°I started to look fresh and I paid more attention to personal development.

° Increased confidence and I started associating easily with people

°My level of anxiety reduced drastically

°My brain is now as sharp as it used to be when I was young in my secondary school days. Those days, I can learn any skill I wish to, be it electronic, or art skill. When any of my friend does anything, I learn in less than a week no matter how hard it seems. I just realized how long I've lost the skill after I stoped masturbating.

My advice to those that still masturbate

STOP!
Don't listen to those that lie that it has one benefit of the other. It has none just stop and don't be hard on yourself, it's a gradual process.

368th day without masturbation and the benefit is massive.

You're a fool! A very big fool!! So you want to tell me you did not sleep with any woman? Look as long as you committed fornication it has no meaning

This program was tha bomb in 2007. It featured some great actors and actresses. Its theme centered on safe sex and hiv issues. During this time I was a young bad guy in the university.

Here is the link to the program :<iframe title="vimeo-player" src="https://player.vimeo.com/video/42182220?

6footplus:
thats by far 1 of d best naija shows i've seen in a long time, d production na 4 shizzles o! even the story telling is awesome, how dey take it from each characters' POV and then begin his/her story. i wud any1 who hasnt seen it 2 find out more on wetindey.tv
its funny, smart, well-produced, i cud go on all nite!

Damn you have been on nairaland a very very long time

I really miss this show

mrphysics:
How is everyone doing?

It's been a long time I posted on this thread.

As you may know, I am back to the country since end of August and have been with work and other engagements.

Maybe I will take a little time to narrate my return experience.

Do I miss anything in France? Maybe the clean air and security.

How are you all doing?

Exactly the clean air and blue skys makes me love that country.

Investorozay:
7 years
lucky guy
if he behaves well can be released before then
if he has some Ms in a few shell firms in some islands or some crypto
he will be fine

He isn't lucky in anyway. By then my 13 year old daughter will be 20+....

Manesalah:
You might sharing experience on why? Cartel and drug issue?

Most parts of Mexico are ridden with crime. It's very very unsafe most especially for a black guy hustling... Why not change your focus to Portugal etc

Samuelriano1:
my eldest sis actually told me to wait a little, save n make it 2m after service year, that will add 400k to it, making 2.4m so I can go to Mexico or Colombia. but am just in a hurry, n it seems I like Africa.

I repeat don't go to Mexico.... I repeat don't go to Mexico... Talking from experience.. I don talk my own finish

PetroDolla2020:
Stop spreading fake news. Some Nigerians living in Ghaba are always complaining about the way Ghanians treat them. The question I want to ask them is simple. Why don’t you go back to your country if you don’t like the way Ghana and Ghanaians treat you in their country?

I once lived in Nigeria, I didn’t like the way they treated Ghanians so I returned to Ghana. And I’m very happy I did so.

So, my advice to you nigerians is that you go back to your country if you are not happy in Ghana, and stop disturbing our ears. It is by force to stay in Ghana?

You're a very very big fool for this statement!!! I am a South African by nationality and I won't support you on this shit talk you just said up there.

The rate of unemployment and Call girls in that Asaba is alarming!

The black soot in Portharcourt is highly worrisome. My friends 3 month old baby has been having serious cough for the past one week. Gov Wike you better do something about this. Another friends young daughter has been down with cough and loss of appetite

What about cabin pressure that nearly burst my eardrums the other time

BiggyB242:
A professor's salary is about 400k, this is a graduate-entry salary in some oil and gas companies.

Lol not only in the oil and gas industry.....

You sound like a woman approaching middle age.. Nigerian men are simps

Capital "NO". Turkey isn't cool for greener pastures... You better look for another better country or stay back in Nigeria

Dalil8:
Leave una wives for naija, una no go hear.

U go soon learn.

Don't mind them. He will regret it

RIVERS1stson:
What a useless defence. How does it change the fact that enugu is a backward useless worthless shithole. Poverty rate in enugu is over 65%.

Port Harcourt is like America compared to your glorified village Enugu.

STFU!!! What about the black soot in Portharcourt?

The evil Nigerians do everyday is so alarming. Tomorrow is Sunday and that fool will be in church doing praise and worship!!!

Wike fix the issue of black soot/ air pollution in the city... It's very terrible

Bumarang:
Am a 29 year old guy living somewhere in lagos state, the issue with me now is that I just noticed that I can't go more than 2days without being intimate(sex), I have literally Bleep£d every girl on my street, all the women in my compound inclusive. At first it was fun, like in 2019 I did not miss a single day without sex, yes! (365 days of 4ucking) with over 100 different girls- but now, it is beginning to register its mark on me physically and mentally. Am bald-headed at 29, barely have any physical strength or muscle mass, my mental capacity is greatly diminished, I feel like a sucked and squeezed orange fruit. Am doing fine financially, given that all my investments and business interests are managed by third-party persons and companies.

It all started when I happened on an app called inmessa**, the capital of hookup(IMO) i was blown away by the sheer number of young girls in my locality that were willing to 4uck for a few bucks! Being a loner and a part-time ideal man, the devil decided to make me a full time workshop. I soon graduated to other more engaging and destructive apps.
Right now as a person I feel empty, and the worst part is that I can't stop. No matter what I achieve or accomplish in respect to finances,I still don't find joy and fulfilment in life.

Every where I go this girls seem to smell the mutherfucker perfume collections on me, I no longer pay for sex, am not handsome, am not friendly, am not loud, showy or social, infact I no more do hookups, but before you say jack Robinson; I have a new girl on my bed. Am tired and exhausted, I feel am wasting away with no hope in the horizon.

This is December 2021, and it just struck me this morning that throughout this year, I haven't gone 48hrs without having sex, I feel enslaved, addicted and hooked. Has anyone experienced a thing like this? I feel the proliferation of social media platforms and their subtle conversation into 'digital brothels' is the driving force of this menace that is swallowing up the young adults like myself.
Please can anyone proffer a solution to my predicament?

Mods please help move this to the front page, I deserve all the insults, condemnations and sarcasm that the general house can offer.

You write very well. Are you a freelance writer?

What about shekau

Nicklaus619:
Mistakes that could easily be corrected,

if i was the man, i will first of all gets her pregnant, marry her , she gives birth then we discuss school, just when she's gain admission, boom I get her pregnant again, she will birth my kids before she graduate

Over sense don finish this one

larryking540:
sending a woman to school isn't my problem but make she use belle go the school , school is not for show off and nobody is rusticated for been pregnant in university ...but most guys will not learn

Exactly. I totally agree

Offpoint1:
Any doing that or thinking about doing should stop.

I have a female friend which her boyfriend has been sponsoring her schools for years, she's serving now. She confided in me that should won't marry the guy... I was heartbroken cuz I know this guy through her, very quiet guy. I won't even state what he does for a living, this compounds the pain.

Only train a woman you've married.

Not just the bolded above. Also make sure she has atlesast 2 to 3 kids for you already. If not OYO is your case!