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As a matter of rule, you cannot find all you want in one person. You're disappointed in her because all you envisioned in an ideal wife material is not readily available. In fact, I can see doubt your tone. Perhaps you're the one with a very big character flaw;you give up easily. People DO NOT give up on someone they love and care about. Evidently, you only care about her fine face and the sex, but you failed to realize that LOVE IS PATIENCE. You're self fish and self centered because if you're not, you would know that she's trying her absolute best. You know why? The guidance of a parent or relative goes a long way in shaping a child's character;she lacked those. Now she has a character flaw because of that- laziness. She had nobody to force her to do things(even when she doesn't feel like, in fact, especially when she doesn't feel like). If she had parents, I'm sure she would have been used to this. But since you cast you lot in with her, you cannot even empathize. I'm ashamed on your behalf. Men, stop using your dicks to reason. If you want to be a player, be a player. But if you want a lasting relationship, forget about sex and focus on the person. She is a person, not an object. The day you start to reason clearly in the presence of a damsel, is the day you get your freedom. |
Sukkyy2010:I can get you three plots in Abeokuta at #350,000 each. if you're interested check my signature for my WhatsApp contact. |
Coincidentally, 21 was the most befuddling year of my life as a young adult. like you, my parents couldn't send me to school due to financial constraints. Broke, hopeless and unable to further my education(and seeing my mates doing great)- it was devastating. I wouldn't want to bother you with my own life history cos the poster above has done an excellent job. please follow up on the advice she gave; it's sound. However, here's my own piece of advice>> HAVE A GAME PLAN. You must realize that what you like or what you want is irrelevant right now. Start from somewhere before hunger and house rent become a problem. Can you multitask? Yes? Good. whatever you choose to do to put food on your table and a roof over your head, do not forget to also take steps to learn a digital skill in your spare time. it won't be easy. you would be tired most days, but you must try. The moment you can remove feeding and accommodation from your list of problems, you will be in a better position to think clearly and plan better. But you see, right now, you have no choice. Find a job, and fast. In case you're curious, I later got into the university at the age of 24. I'm currently an interior decorator and freelance writer at 26. One day, all your hardwork will pay off. |
[quote author=DropsMic post=106443718][/quote]Now this is class ![]() certificate even comes complete with today's date and the demented fellow's moniker ![]() |
eventainment:I wish guys (especially the broke ones) could listen to your advice. But their pricks won't allow them. |
geneboy I'm interested but the link's unclickable. How do we reach you? |
Digmygold:How can you detect the 'unhappiness' from just one picture? I believe that since they made a conscious decision to make their marriage work(as all sensible couple would), they let go of every past misdeeds for peace to reign. If not, I doubt Timi would do what he just did publicly. There's no doubt in mind the he truly loves her. So I don't see where the unhappiness would come from. |
The probability that she's under the ministration of a dude right now is very high. Calm down y'all, give it some days and she'll miraculously appear. |
Tmb78:I tell you. This guy and his wife really shocked many people who thought the marriage will sink. They are an inspiration to others. |
Kestolove:STFU!! ![]() Matter that has died. You're impossibly unforgiving. ur husband will have work to do. |
Despite the bruhaha that would have destroyed other marriages, Timi dakolo's marriage is still waxing strong. That's impressive. God bless their Union. |
Geminiboi:There would still be night times. Moonless, starry nights. |
budaatum: ![]() |
Brilliant Chaps. keep pushing it boys! |
budaatum:I'm hoping you meant this as a joke. You're joking, right? |
Check your whatsapp inbox. I've dropped a message. |
AK481:You can't even comprehend simple sentences. Read again. |
Favfables:I agree with you, his reasoning is flawed. one should be able to help others without any strings attached;that's what makes us human. But his point stands-these girls are opportunistic. They'll take advantage of a guy that loose guard without as much as caring whether or not he survives(financially) an encounter with them. Hence the game they're both playing. imagine, she had a job. why did she quit if she needed money? or is it the guy that likes working like a jackass? |
marketing strategy.
as market no move this is the next step. continue... |
Change your headline,it's misleading. |
AbPurelove:I used to say 'no money' until I realized that money ain't really the problem. The real problem lies in how much a person is willing to sacrifice to achieve his/her goals. For me I've always wanted to be an internet millionaire. I want to own a successful ecommerce website, I want to be a successful freelancer, I want to be a successful digital marketer. But still the truth stares you blank in the face; no money-back to square one. So one has to just shelf does dreams first and try to succeed in raising enough money first before cycling back to say you want to chase your dreams. That is exactly what is happening to me now. without financial assistance, it's daunting. And to be honest, it takes grace not to give up altogether cos things just keep getting harder and harder economy-wise. I'm also a student, no laptop to learn some cool stuff. But I'm getting sound at content writing for the web. That's one of the only skills that don't require a lot of computer power to do. And that's where I'm starting from. Hopefully soon, I'd be able to market that skill on freelance sites. So, to answer your question, NO MONEY....for now. Na hustle boys dey hustle for street to gather the money. Just last week I went to do an interior decoration job(my handwork). I worked from Thursday to Sunday morning non-stop with only about 3 hours of sleep each night cos I had to make it back to school on Monday. so I could not afford to spend a lot of time there. Was supposed to be paid 33k. I've only gotten 16k, you see the remaining 17k, na beg they want make I beg b4 I collect am. Life ain't fair.........but that doesn't mean I'd throw in the towel. |
Kajaard:That's a risky thing to do. I won't pray for a child with sickle cell even for my enemy. Medical expenses will literally pauperize the family. Why not just avoid it,call off the relationship; hard but possible. But if Op feels the love is strong enough with enough money, and patience, then by all means go right ahead, but don't say you weren't warned. |
somebody is not being entirely honest here. And you said she did the test twice or did you mean she sent you the result twice? If the test was conducted once and her result came out to be AA i could have said the hospital probably made a mistake(yes,it happens). But twice? c'mon! |
wizkidblogger:We need more selfless people like you in this already hard country. On behalf of OP, I say a big THANK YOU! |
dotunsi:Thanks a lot for the insight sir. I shall be in contact as soon as I'm ready money-wise. God bless. How do I reach you tho? I couldn't find any email or number in your siggy. |
Tesatbb:Thanks boss |
dotunsi:I'm thinking of setting up a website/blog for career development;everything about CVs,resumes,cover letters, jobs updates and some other features. So I think having a self-help(monitizable) software- SAAS as you call it- integrated into the site won't be a bad idea. What do you think? |
Wow, your article is packed full of much needed info. I have one question tho; how much will it cost to set up the entire website (assuming I already bought the software script)? |
Jacuzzi55:Try freelancer.com |
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