₦airaland Forum

Akano5:
Truth be told, i have not move at all. My sponsor is doing anyhow he is not 100% ready yet...

As at now, i'm still in Nigeria, i'm not in control of things....

Drivers know where they would pass through to avoid being caught...

Akano5:
next month, i would be there before October

Akano5:
next month, i would be there before October

veneza:
If you hear my story ehhh,those immigration are dey light criminals and they are thieves the funniest thing Dem no even dey border Dem dey badagry road before border four different check points. how can someone be asking you to proof your identity that you a Nigerian and when you do dey will say na only passport Dem one see or you pay through your nose or go inside one dirty wooden kiosk.
Nigeria is not far from useless if alot of things are not put in check.
My experience with them while traveling with my family is just a week old am still in shock and I weep for my country.

BigDawsNet:
Welcome to Nigeria!

FG: Don't allow people without psssport get it..

.Nobody: "oga give us money and enter...

FG: close the border..

Nobody: My rice came in last night tru border...

BigDawsNet:
Im not sure why this is happening in our land border.. but I'm going to suggest you report to the appropriate authorities for further investigation...

I travelled near our borders some years back and hav seen how our Immigration officers stop bus and screen out the illegals... I believe these new rules or behaviour is based on the federal government directive to the Immigration officers to secure tight our land borders... with the war saga going on

For others prospective travellers... pls travel with your passport... atleast that's number one assurance you are a Nigerian... any foreigner can easily hav access to NIN dis days...

The security at the border is tight now... and the office will go any length to prove your nationality..even tho it's wrong to use force..

aboyaji:
E remain make I answer na

1. My rent was inclusive of the light Bill and water. Don't know for other places.

2. They have an organised waste disposal system. You drop your waste well packed in a black nylon and drop it outside where others do.

3. Their network is very good.

4. With 500 CFA, you can get 500 mb. Tuesday, Saturday is double Data. 500 gives you 1gb on those days.

aboyaji:
yes accomodation is very expressive there.

Self con is called a studio and you could get for 35k and above in the rural area. Not basically village. But around the borders of rural and urban areas.

samz77:
. it is acceptable there but you would be quarantined before bringing any animals

Pentagon007:
You are welcome

kamtrix:
Happy Sunday, would you like to work in a team of people working online, and getting paid twice monthly. It's not a scam or a get rich quick scheme, honestly you don't earn so much but working hard, you can get up to 20k+ twice monthly.
You have to be hardworking, this isn't any marketing or any stuff like that. Daily you'll be given tasks and you'll get paid for a job well done.
I'm not so comfortable dropping my phone number online, so you can drop yours here and I'll contact you on WhatsApp.
You must be hardworking and willing to stay online at least 4hours a day.

NB: If more than one person contacts you from here, do well to verify it's me. So you don't get scammed. This is a real job, and you'll work hard, not a scam.

slyfox35:
Thank you so much for this reply,I never knew you have replied,then I would not have wasted my time on quoting someone with a very high degree of ignorance. Octopussy or whatever his name is.
Sensible people are not hard to spot,you are one humanoid.
Will stating the country reverse what I passed through in those streets or the mental pains I went through[b],telling the story is hard enough

nnennachiji:
Hi just logging into nairaland today
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Sorry, take care

justsmile:
@op, I have a friend that just got married. No sex before marriage not even a kiss. The first time they kissed was on their wedding day. Both are believers and she made that choice based on her obedience to scriptures. For the record this chick is super fine and the guy is equally handsome. According to her, sex was never an issue for them while dating. Bottom line, when two individuals share the same faith, same value, same perspective....then no hassle. A lot of persons are keeping a chaste relationship but you might never know unless they tell you. For crying out loud, you can still keep a sweet, fun, witty relationship without sex. So my dear, I just answered your question using a live reference.

My prayer for people like us that have chosen this path is to find partners that share same value in this regard with us.

Gracias

Daeylar:
Nice

flowers4me
Please ignore all the people that came to your thread attacking your choice,
The question of the thread is simple, are there still men like the one you want, it's a yes or no question,
You didn't ask anyone to come here to try and change your views or to preach sermons to you about the good or bad of abstinence., I wonder why people can't respect themselves on this nairaland. If they know that they can't add any thing relating to your specific topic they should move ahead

IamProdigy:
My dear such people still exist...

Who actually have it mind..but may later yield...but the truth is when you hold on to nothing..you die for nothing....

Something must back your conviction.

Agreed people are facing loads of problem in their sexual lives..in marriages

But the question is....
People wanna taste a car that can still break down in future.(impotency)

A car that can be stolen in future (infidelity)

Have you not tasted garri, and not bought it....??
So how many people will taste ...and keep tasting....

From the Christian angle.

marriage is God's plan for man...he should lead you into it...not sex leading you into it...

That some one is a Pro in bed....doesn't mean your marriage will last a year!


There is dignity and safety in waiting, when the marriage doesn't work its easier to part!

And you part with no scar!

poik:
In as much as I am celibate and would have no business with a woman's body until the nuptials are tied, that shouldn't be the only attraction in the mix. I look out for character, compatibility, and life ideals. I will try my best by Gods grace not to be in the bandwagon of men who contribute to ladies' body count, but what I need is more than sex and its affiliate things, even though its equally important. Sex won't train my kids and instil good values in them, for example

durasome:
you sure gonna make a perfect partner but just don't let peers destroy what you are cause am sensing a good material wife in you,may our good Lord help bring your desired partner to your way.

supersystemsnig:
Lol. Don't play reserve psychology on me, it won't work. Turn the spot light on yourself. If i ask her out, what's the problem? Am i not a man, or isn't she a lady? Deal with your hateful self first and stop being a pant.

Think before you respond, i have unlimited power, internet, and i've got time

KOPT55:
I know, I know -- KOPT55 must look away in the face of "Confirmation Bias"


How will it not be "refreshing" when it echoes almost word for word the faulty logic of your entire being?

I asked you a few questions that you refused to answer because they were not replicas of the thoughts and concepts which your echo chamber produces. But we know it's good for your soul and being to answer.

We know it's the best way to get you to see the inherent foolhardiness of your quest. Get a good dick my child. If you have a small slippery trail, find a man with a complimentary wood. If you have the Enugu slippery trail, find a man with a good 12" on him and enjoy your life.

Remember that the fu*ks you give and get while you're on earth is what you will carry to heaven when you die.

There is no fu**king or romance in heaven.

supersystemsnig:
Don't address a guy as dude...I ain't a dude

mrphysics:
Well you should try to understand it from his own point of view. The society have changed virtually everything we know. From the cunning nature of women to the technicalities of men, the world have evolved and things are now seen through different reference frame. Those who once share same view realized they were deceived only to be preyed upon.

I don't share same view with you but that does not mean they aren't such people around. But when you see them, they may not attract you much, so first, what is the highest thing you can offer a man. If you hinge it on sex, then such can be bought with N500 - N2000 and someone like me sees such a person valueless. I can go into a no sex relationship but you must believe that it can happen at anytime, failure to do so is a complete no from me.

supersystemsnig:
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about and by so build with faulty wisdom, and this is more than oft why marriages crashes. Premarital intimacy is a slap on the face of God, and a declaration of higher wisdom than the one that instituted it.

Yes, things have become somewhat bastardized, but in reverence to God, it is best not to indulge in Pre-marital intimacy in any form, as what lies ahead is a marriage than has some form of judgement over it. Let's not forget, God said He would judge the marital bed, and this judgement takes an holistic approach in how we build the foundation of our marriages.


Personally, i believe before our partners, God should be houred, He should be the foundation and even the component of the marriage itself.


Leaving spiritual things behind, if one is a virgin, it is easy to get a partner who would agree to non-sexual relations before a marriage, but for the non-virgins this may be difficult.

But virgin or no-virgin, i saw and mentored a lady some years back, who was HIV positive and an alhaji liked her, married her, took her to U.S. She hasn't returned till now. What matters is to find that like-minded person, and make the connection.

Truth be told, if a man hinges on sex as a basis for marriage, then he has issues. Is sex everything a marriage is about? I also agree with the previous comment about compatibility, if there's attraction, if both parties are willing things would fall in place.


Sexual compatibility was a lie sold to the world some 15 years back to promote and justify sexual promiscuity ....


All in all, we must fear God and live within the premise of His laws, cause breaking them always have consequences...Stick to your grounds, God seeing you chose to honour Him will make the connection. But, get on your knees first and pour your heart out to Him and you won't do the searching anymore, as He would take your case up and expedite things to work for you.


God Bless

supersystemsnig:
Yes there are men who don't believe in pre-marital intimacy, first of all, trust has to be developed and relationship should be en-route to marriage before intimacy should come to the table...