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Vutseck:
it's like signing a documents without going through the contents

only men with inferiority complex can take such a gamble


if a lady's puna is as wide as Bole hole and deceive a man into such an agreement then who loose

this is a life time agreement Jare...no room for mistakes
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Answer the question please.

Daviddson:
Yes, very many.

Please send them a link to this post, thanks.

yvesboss:
There are still lot of guys out there with same policy as yours. I am of that opinion as well and i can tell you i know a lot of people that share the same view.

I pray you meet your support soon

Please direct them to this topic, i need to meet my kind, thanks.

Evaberry:
well they are but they are very very very very very rare.

and they might only do it for the first few months and get frustrated with the whole idea.

As for me tho I don't subscribe to the whole abstinence thing maybe because I also don't subscribe to religion.

These days alot of people are deceitful so it's best you know the whole deal about someone you hope to marry.

Thanks for your time.

bellong:
It doesn't matter if you are a virgin or not, you have the right to say no to pre-marital sex. It also gives you the opportunity to eliminate unserious suitors.

However, your decision should be done in good faith, either as a result of a new conviction or repentance and shouldn't be a way to "con" men.

Thanks for your input.
This resolve is in utmost good faith. I'm not out to con anyone and in the same vein, dont want anyone conning me.
God help me to meet my kind sooner than i expect.

thorpido:
Yes,there are men like that.It will depend on where you're searching though.

For a lady who's a virgin,it might be easier to get a man to agree with you but for a non-virgin who wants a no sex relationship,the guy might think there's something you're hiding.

Okay, thanks. i have met men online and offline who dont agree, even in the churches.

Then regarding the 'hiding stuff ish', nothing is being hidden, the decision is in a bid to lookout for one's self in order not to become damaged goods to the deserving man after falling prey to professional samplers fronting to be suitors.

yvesboss:
There are still lot of guys out there with same policy as yours. I am of that opinion as well and i can tell you i know a lot of people that share the same view.

I pray you meet your support soon

Really? how come i kept meeting those whose opinion are on the contrary even inside the church?

Anyways, thanks for re-assuring my resolve.
Amen to the prayer and the same to you if you still searching.

Many thanks to you guys !

@ Madrid, @ Davids, good. i would like to make acquaintances with those.

@ Pcguru, your input is quite shocking and revealing at same time...thanks.

@ Sober, a non-virgin turned celibate can suffice.

@ Vutsec, its in a bid to not become that your "bore hole" illustration, that informed the decision of abstinence, cos most of people out there are on a "sampling spree" including you, who likes test-driving...lol cos any one you test and dump is a potential bore-hole, so why would any right-thinking female keep letting herself be sampled to be discriminated later on by the same people who spoilt her goods, huh?

Hello Fellow N'landers'

Do people still subscribe to the idea of "abstinence from pre-marital intimacy" in relationships, these days?

In the last couple of years i've met potential suitors who walked, soon as they learnt pre-marital intimacy won't be on offer.

I'm tired of this trend, i need to meet people of like mind...are they still out there?

Randyhot:
.. omasilim k'anyi kpa ebe ahu..ma omasi gi

Ok

Randyhot:
..ok.eziterem gi ozi na pm..inwetela ya..

ewentagom yaa.

Randyhot:
..oh dear..i had a great day..am in lagos.but true anambrarian..

Ok good to know, am not deltan though just reside there....onye imo kam bu..

Randyhot:
Please where are you flowers4me..i can realy do with ur company

Delta, and you? Hope your day went well?

So happy for her..

I've been around ooo, howdy? Thanks for the drink.

Randyhot:
..good friends are hard to come by these days..please come sit near me..ok

okay Brandy

Randyhot:
..awww..dats not fair..*downcast*

Oh dear, i didn't mean it that way, okay.

Randyhot:
..I will like to invite a very prety bae to club now...please ladies and gents... a shoutout to prety flowers4me..its sunday night bae..and the fun is here..

Hmmm Brandy, you seem bent on dragging me in here....

*stands on one foot observing*

Randyhot:
...We gott a bae in da club..a big shoutout to flowers4me...comon bae..be the hunter..and rock the world..*sippin henessy*

Thanks, was just passing by

gabazin080:
to forgive him is not a problem. But he wants me under his roof

OP, what is your mum's take over staying under his roof ?
I would say you should tread with caution. Some people have been known to hurt their own offspring in the quest for "so called" success in life, be very very careful and prayerful.

Asaba, and you ? I actually meant via phone chats and videos because i sensed from your post, you based far south.

Bigcake:
Yea flowers4me I did.

Oh really, It's lovely...Kudos!

Please can you teach me how you did the icing?

Bigcake:
And the cake was made by a Nairalander.. it was a gathering of Nairalanders in Calabar. Although it was raining cat and dog, but the crowd could only be describe as mammoth. I saw the Hand of God in the wedding.... Happy Married life to Mr and Mrs Offong Ante. God bless their union.

Hi, Bigcake
Did you bake the cake? Happy married life to the couple.

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kemesty:
I want to appreciate you all for this support. I want you to post images of what you want us to learn, then we will vote for a particular project and of course , we will all go with the project with the highest vote.
So start posting images.

Dearie, Am in too.
God Bless you more for this love you've shown on here, may all our joint efforts towards keeping this Noble Legacy on, bear fruits that would have no limits in Jesus Name, Amen. Well done to everyone on this thread. God Bless all of us.

Dearest Onari, continue to rest in the bossom of God Almighty, we would keep your legacy on. To live in the hearts of those who loved and admired you and your legacy kept alive by them, is not to die !! Rest on Beautiful Soul.

@ Tonye001, this is fun, nice read ! Kudos !

@ Herzie, Wow !!! congrats babe, so happy for you. Shebi i told you it will be well at the end. Ekene dili Chukwu ooo