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Some ladies won't like this.
Actually, any lady that attach this artificial lashes are runs girls to me.

Odeh.

Suko110:

It is this type of ignorance that we are trying to purge outta some women, but no dey run everywhere shouting wen no one is asking them to, they prove they know all and in reality they know absolutely nothing. Pure ignorance, just keep quiet and learn.

Nah..


You should rather keep quiet and listen to the wiser woman.
Women do not need to be told what to do. We are adults not toddlers. Shove your bias counsel down your butthole.

splmosixx:
Anoda MUMu aka husband disrespecter spotted

lookat this potential wife molester. Aka slave enthusiast. Sadistic asswipe.

Probably bevause We have opinions now? Were beter educated... Our brain cells Proliferated? And we know better than submitting to mere imperfect mortals.

J2381:
sex is life, cos without it, you won't be here, neither will I. Open your mind, eh.


How do you know he's sexually ineffectual? Care to give him a trial and find out? Like I said, "action speak louder than words", no?

Because the Women he has been with haven't experienced Orgasm and simply lay like an inanimate being while he just simply pounds Away.

Hhenryy:


Shut the fvck up little girl.. And like I told the other lady, speak for yourself only. If you are lucky to be among the uncircumcised few, you shouldn't generalize.

Exactly my point. It's Either You're a Nonagenerian or have a thing For Women above 50.

Uncircumcised women make the lesser percentage of our population.

The way you are ranting and raining abuses shows you know nothing about the effects of FGM which is one of the reasons why polygamy is a common practice in Africa. Since most of our women don't and cannot enjoy sex thereby always denying their husband, The man is forced to look elsewhere.!

You are the one oblivious of the fact that WOMEN, most WOMEN enjoy Sex as much as the Guy next door.

You've either been terribly bad at bringing a woman to Orgasm or you Just simply suck at it.

If you are feeling it, doesn't mean other ladies are feeling it. In fact majority are not, especially the more mature/older ladies in their late 20s and older caught up in the web when FGM was still 100% rampant all over the country. Although it has reduced but I can still attest to 77% prevalent rate in Osun state.

it's been greatly reduced since the mid 20th century. Even my aunties, mother, Know nothing about FGM. It wasn't a thing in their time.

For Women above 50, maybe. For the rest of the population? It's far less than that your fabricated estimate.

You've not been up-close With 77% of the female's genitals in Osun state, heck, I even doubt you know how a circumcised Vagina looks like...Except these 77% (LARGE FEMALE) population told you they were circumcised, i can't exactly grasp my head around how You came up with your statistics.

J2381:
action speak louder than words, no?

Life isn't always about using tongue and fingers. Sometimes your narrow mindedness is amusing.

Who's talking about life? I'm talking Sex here, SEX!!!



If he's that sexually ineffectual.. And cant bring a girl to squirm and moan LOUDLY from intoxicating Sexual pleasure. He could atleast compensate for his lack of skills with his Tongues and fingers. Since his Pénis is obviously for decoration.

Hhenryy:
Liar! It doesn't apply to Nigerian/African women. Majority of them lay still like a log of wood during the act because they don't and cannot feel anything as most of them have been circumcised.

If they feel anything at all, it must be pain. So don't be deceived if a naija or African lady is screaming during sex and you start thinking you are doing something right. She is actually screaming because of the pains she is going through.

Your post reeks of ignorance and Impotency. But whatever tho. Just seek Medical attention, Or Simply use your Tongue. And fingers. Expertly.


Instead of you to Bow Your head in shame and seek for medical intervention for your disturbing sexual incompetence. You're Here screaming Nigerian women Are circumcised. As if you'd know your way around a Vagina even with a map and direction.

tartarus:
Only small boys actually believe a woman's boobs should be firm. They feel saggy boobs are sagged cos they've been over "squeezed". It's so wrong and ignorant! Some women naturally have saggy boobs while some have perky boobs . It's that simple!

There is indeed hope for the average Nairaland male gender after all.


Comments such as this is refreshing. Thank you.

KOPT33:


You parade yourself as a mature man but this statement gave you away.

He is but a child.

KOPT33:
Why will a woman's breast begin hugging the torso at just twenty-three? Something doesn't add up but I don't what that thing is yet.

I know it is natural for the breast to become saggy with age, but come on, twenty-three? There are some questions that need to be asked such as: did your boyfriends use rough man-hands to handle your breast from the age of 14 to twenty-three? Did you start growing breast at the age of ten? Were your breast saggy from the very beginning?

I understand that breasts are different but I don't understand why a woman who is yet to clock twenty-five should have boobs worse than my sister forty year old sister who breastfed six children.

Well, in the end, boobs are highly perishable and no man worth his salt should discriminate against or castigate women for their nature.

Like Your Pénises, They come in different shapes and sizes. Same thing with the mamaliary gland. It comes dropped, big, small, pendulum-Ish, longish, firm, droopy, micro.


There's no standard for the female breasts. Some women passed through puberty with breasts high up in their throat, some passed through theirs with breasts down, almost reaching their navel. It's mostly about genetics and hormones.

ubunja:
im glad its coming from a woman. these Vagina Worshippers dont know what time it is.
some of the things Martin0 and deadrat say will even get them arrested in feminist countries. things like "Women are the weaker vessels" etc. those statements are gender discrimination in the West. poor fools dont even know.

these people with weird monikers, who are they?

donstan18:


Debunk my comment with a solid and concrete point.

Anything less won't be given an attention.

who are you?

franchasng:
Only a useless man will pray for a woman to feed him or spend on him.

How much can a woman give to a man Before a woman spend 1million naira on a man, go and check very well, that man is worth 100billion and must have spent 100million on her in the past.

But a man can spend 50million on a chewing gum girl that can't even afford 1000naira recharge card and men aren't complaining

This one is still Stuck in the 12th Century.


The same women that are getting educated? Getting degrees? Getting jobs? Earning Salaries? And being a major determinant in the labor force? Buying houses?

donstan18:
This claim is a big scam to humanity and we all know that. Any woman supporting her on this is nothing but a gender bigotic coward.

You cannot freely eat from a woman without complain, you can NEVER eat from a woman and go scot free, no responsible man will ever pray to be fed by a woman because we all know th kind of attitude they possess when such happen, they are not worth taking from, they are not worth feeding from, they are not worth hoping on, they are not worth depending on.


A woman will give you x6 bad attitude for being the breadwinner of the family, ask any of your friend that's being fed by a woman, they are living in hell, they seize to have a say, they take all manner of attitudes from the said woman.


They won't publicize it to siblings and family friends, but the attitude and the controlling power they give and possess to their men in private will be more and worse than terrorists and devil.

Saying women don't publicize it when they feed the family is a big LIE, they discuss it with their friends, the attitude they give to their husband or man will be x6 of what the feed them on.

That's why you'll see a single rich woman of 30-40 years yet to be married, their attitude is shitty, dumb and frustrating to adapt with.

You'll be surprised to know that these women killing themselves and supporting her on this haven't for one day bought a bathroom slippers for their man.

Take and eat from any woman at your own peril, they don't worth it, they can't tolerate what men tolerate when feeding the family

So much Negative Stereotypes. so much Hasty generalization. Shoving All women into one box sounds pretty Comfortable when you ain't a member of that gender.


But when women do same, We're the bad guys.

edicied:

Me my wife would keep her name oh even paying of bride price i dislike the idea it just don't sound comfortable to me i dont know if they would be a way around it

Meh. Your head izz there!


Your wife just needs to Share your Opinions. And you'd be good.

edicied:

WOW! I Am speechless what kind of illogical reasons are this?

The kind that ruptures your brain cells by Just reading it.

butterflylion:


This is what I said which you twisted.



Just in case you did not understand what I just showed you again, I meant, for some intelligence is authority while for some strength is authority. It depends where there is need because it can always be interwoven or interchanged.

Next time do not misquote me.

So, In cases where the wife is more intelligent than the man, she becomes the 'Higher authority'?


Seems fair to me.

butterflylion:


Unfortunately and fortunately for some it is. There are some with higher intelligence than others but intelligence cannot be traded for strength. Leadership and authority comes in various shades and colours.

In Your Words, Strength is the Standard for leadership?
In scenarios where the Wife Possesses more physical strength than the man, She becomes the higher authority?

You see where your logic is flawed?
Strength should never be Yardstick for leading. Except the word family is now synonymous to a wrestling Arena. Then, By all means, Your logic, however screwed and bias it is, is welcomed.

BTW, Horses Posesses more physical strength than men. I think think they're 'higher authorities' than members of your gender.
... Going with your 'wise' logic

Yes it is mutual but in the woman is a naturally existing "weaker vessel" position that even she cannot deny.

Lol.
Weaker vessel. Lol. You amuse me with your level of mental retrogressiveness. It's topping the charts.

Nobody coerces anyone. Surely you do not see an intended couple sitting down and having a discussion that goes thus

Husband: listen woman after we get married you must bear my name

Woman: over my dead body. I love my father too and wish to immortalise his name

Husband: if you refuse to take my name, then the marriage is off

Woman : OK then if that is how you want it then it is off.

Fair enough. Then, this Topic shouldn't even be debatable. Women could do away with their husband's name if they choose to. CASE CLOSED!

Listen madam "fluid" most do it this way. If the womans fathers name is Adelaja and the husbands last name is Abiodun, and her name is Esther she would rather say her name is ESTHER, ADELAJA ABIODUN. This is what most do. Those who do not do this initially eventually do but for sake of their documents or external image would bear their maiden names but outside that, bear their husbands name.

the hyphenated name is a welcomed development but not necessarily valid in my case.
AGAIN, I know a lot of married women that do NOT bare the name of their spouse. THEY DON'T.
Digest that fact, first.
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tartarus:


Lol I read his comment and I just got weak
Just imagine the mentality o. Women have sha suffered

my dear, I just taya.

AlPeter:
Young woman you seem like the I AM A CHRISTIAN BECAUSE MY MOTHER IS A CHRISTIAN TYPE. One of the worst issues we are facing in Nigeria is inability to properly think an idea through before implementation. This topic by the Op is stupid, silly and myopic. It only goes to show the Upsetgirl is just an angry ill-informed heartbroken little girl. Before you reply, do you know there are cultures where the man bear the woman's name?.

I do not Give a fúck about those culture. No one should have to conform to cultures that do not align with their conviction.

I do not want to ever trade my Surname for Another's. I love mine just the way it is. That is my OPINION.

butterflylion:


I am perfectly fine. You can elope and do it the Vegas way of course but do note that you would be on your own. This is Africa and even in western countries they do not encourage such. Even there fathers give their daughters away as a ceremonial gesture. You need to stop taking in too much "fluid" it is hampering your mental abilities.



A change of name is not denouncing anything. It's a show of honour and value and respect to your new found authority. Parents expect their kids to honour and respect them so for a father to ceremonially give you away to another man he is saying, do to him what you also do to me. Respect and honour him because he (the father) has accepted him.



Yes the father who took care of you and whose blood flows in your veins yet he refuses to father your child or sleep with you or see you naked but rather would want another to do this at a point in your life. That same father will give you away despite you being his blood or the money he spent on you.



I don't know who skydaddy is but what I know is that submission is in various kinds. But when brought together it becomes complete. The moment he proposed to you and made the gesture of coming to your parents for their approval he has TAKEN THE LEAD and only an authority can do this. Yes he is a higher authority.



It's a natural position which cannot be disputed. Throw a tantrum all you want but it wouldn't change anything.

I can't go through all that stress of requoting.


So, I'll just try to let you understand this.
Women are not beneath men.

Anatomy should never be a yardstick for measuring leadership Qualities in a family.

Both of them Mutually gets involved in marriage. No one is denouncing anything or submitting to any Dumb authority.
The man is never the higher authority. Except this female chooses and wants him to be. Choice. That's what I believe in.


Women should not be coerced into Changing their name if they don't want to. I wouldn't. I love my name, I love my fathers name and Won't trade it for Anyone's. And I know a good Sum of women that still kept theirs even after getting married. And their men do not oppose.

ubunja:

Gents believe this gargage at your own peril. this is sewage mixed with menstrual blood and boiled for a week with mucus and seasoned with grey pubic hair of a dead man.

Willful ignorance isn't sexy by the way..


In most cases, it is Repulsive.

butterflylion:


Stop this nonsense! Why would a woman still bear her fathers name after HER FATHER HAS GIVEN HER AWAY TO ANOTHER MAN?

Which father gave who away? Are you okay?

I got married! C'est fini!
I refuse to denounce my family simply because I decided to marry Someone. What is this abeg?

do you reason at all? She is now joined to another and often times even her father CANNOT overrule what her husband says.

izz like this one aff drink?
My father? The man that took care of me? The man Whose blood runs in my veins?

She has now submitted herself to a new authority different from her fathers own and if she is wise, she would see the new authority as higher than that of her father and if her father is wise he would respect her new found authority.

The Weed you're smoking is Strong mahn!

Submitted myself to who? Higher authority? Who? Is he Immortal? Is he God?
I haven't finished submitting myself to Sky daddy and you're hear talking about a Mere mortal like he's some god.

Does the father sleep with her? No
Does her husband sleep with her? Yes
Does she have kids for her father? No
Does she have kids for her husband? Yes
Can she be naked before he father? No
Can she be naked before her husband? Yes

And the list goes on.

You need to start thinking instead of just talking.
A woman isn't a slave in her husband's house. She is a PARTNER. A partner who respects and holds high the opinions and words of the major share holder (her husband).

Men and feigning god complex!
What makes him the major share holder fez? That thing dangling between his legs or his Super Sperm?

Well, I'm not changing Mine.
I'd only Compromise and hyphenate Albeit still bearing my Surname if they're relations with bill gates Or Oprah Winfrey


Other than that?
I'm keeping my Surname. I love my family's name and wouldn't trade it for Another's.

swiz123:
Because the sad reality is that, a woman is beneath her husband. A woman is also nothing without a husband.

But since you have been silly enough to ask this question, why not ask yourself why the child you bore has your husband's name too.

A Woman is never beneath her husband. They're both humans that found love and mutually decided to start a family. As partners.

swiz123:
Kpekus no get meter bro.

Trust a woman at your own peril.

Love leads to emotional abuse.

Bleep 'em as much as you can and move over to the next meat.

Love only makes us weak with unnecessary paranoia

Take my advice bro, one love

Whoever did this to you really diced and sliced your heart.

I hope You heal soon.

A Woman that's Hórny Would be Sloppy Wet and her Vagina muscles Would start to relax. The vagina will become naturally “loose” when a woman is sexually aroused in Anticipation for Itercourse.

After sex it resumes its normal State.
Pat yourself at the back. You did a good job. Don't let your insecurities get the better of you.

Spatta:
Only a responsible woman will do a thing like this, the modern day women are rebels
The libidinous modern day women knows nothing about the honouring of thier menn
Women cannot handle success without childish emotions, she would want to flaunt her wealth before the man and announce it to the world to ridicule the man

Charity indeed begins at home.
Build a house and register your Wife's name as the Owner fez.
Honoring their men KO.


Y'all Chauvinistic Patriarchy kings ain't seen nothing yet!
We'll keep getting educated. Keep making money. We'll also endeavor to flaunt it and Shove it in your Insecure faces Whilst Building Houses in our NAME. Not forgetting owning our Sexuality too(Raging LIBIDO), Putting it lightly -Fúcking Whom we please.

He's a mentally retàrded Psychopath. I see a man that needs to be chained, beaten and then thrown into a jail for mad inhabitants. Like him.


The lady is another Mad Woman for persevering this torture.

themonk:

One of my best movie of all time is 'the fault in our stars'. 'Pain demands to be felt' was a phrase used in the movie that helped me work out back then. Also I still have vivid pictures of Ansel elgort that played augustus with a cigarette in his mouth and his unfortunate death. Shailene woodly is a very good actress, she generated so much emotions that I forgot it was a movie. I need to watch that moviews again this weekend.

Divergent had one of the best storyline I've ever seen in a movie.

If you have the PDF versions of the books. I'll love to get them.

I don't have the PDF of the book I suggested but I have the audio book or a torrent link to it. I do audio books alot, I hope you'd love it.

I've not seen the movie tho. Its been on my laptop for Years now. But i just didnt feel like Opening it , since i already read the book. Am I weirdo for Preferring reading books to movies?

Oh, I don't have the Pdfs of the book.