Mandrake007:
your comment got radical feminism written over its so apparent it's like it's you are in a contest with men but nah it's the natural order of things you lot are just like the prodigal son you know where home is,your so called "miss independent career women who don't need a man" are still same women who run to churches,dating apps and several other means seeking for men when the truth of life dawns on them then they realize all those years of foolishness only results in bitterness and loneliness right there they want a man who's gonna take charge of them but sometimes it's too late.

Mandrake007:
keep blowing grammar and making up fallacies to comfort and lie to yourself just because you're maybe privileged I presume doesn't make it the same for other ladies out there,maybe you should get out from your comfort zone, go out more and see the world for what it is,fact is many young women who even live in the citie depend on men for their livelihood so women depending on men is synonymous to a car needing fuel,you women need men period!

Ranks007:


I said earlier....so distasteful is the sense of your reasoning to come by..You cant give what you don't have...you listed the boys who end up in jail as an example, a close observation in their family line and affairs will tell you a lot about the loosen gap mothers had on their wards, even those who end up as terrorists as list.!

Mothers are the precious cornerstones naturally sent to build eternal character formation of any kid. Fathers have theirs to enforce too, masculine fear, respect etc that if only the mother permits or agrees to it but once the ward disengages check the mum.

BluntBoy:


I just wish we could go on a date. There are some tricks I have under my sleeves that would unmask your hypocrisy -- the hypocrisy of feminists.

I am off. I have a headache.

Greene66:


It's no argument.

It's #fact.

You ladies are nothing without guys.... #Fact.

BluntBoy:


Fluid-Queen is an incorrigible hypocrite. She is as slippery as a fish. You would be wasting your time trying to engage her.

zicoraads:

If? I should think you would abort the pregnancy the second you realise him to be a male. Yea, that'll be the best thing to do.

delivryboy:

I just tire, social media is really exposing the poor state of our educational system.

daviesblaze:
hmmm, go on, am listening

efesodje:


Hmmmmmm naughty you

AntiBrutus:


I gave up on this kinda arguments a long time ago, they might never see the light. Anytime there is a thread on some hoe...they never fail to remind us why they don't want female kids. Yet there are hundreds of threads on young guys doing colossal damage to the world, and no one talks about not wanting a son. Right there, I saw through their hypocrisy.

I am taking no chances with my kids when the time comes.
In fact, if anyone needs more whip...it's the boy. Majority of the world vices are carried out by men!! They are the ones making the environment inhabitable for women.

How long will I continue to protect my girl[s], when I can easily focus on the boy and flog the demon outta him before it matures? One less problem to the world...

efesodje:


How do you know? I am suspecting you this lady

donstan18:
This is nothing but the bitter and ugly truth about ladies, MOST ladies are opportune to eat what they have eaten with the help and contribution of men, most of them wouldn't have stepped their foot in some places without the help of men , yet they will refuse to be loyal and humble

Yes, pizza might be cheap, shawarma might be cheap, cinema and the rest might aswell be cheap, but the truth remains that ladies won't spend their money to enjoy their life, they depend on men, they can even depend on men for their menstrual pads .. A lady having more than 500k in her account will be the last person to spend it on pizza, she'll do nothing but depend on a struggling man to buy it for her, very stingy set of people ....You'll rarely see a lady buy herself snacks their level of stinginess and brokeness is LENGENDRY, yet they'll open their mouth to call any guy who refuses to buy them snacks BROKE.


This lady is right.. LADIES WOULDN'T HAVE EATEN PIZZA AND SHAWARMA IF NOT FOR MEN....They can't even use shaving cream for their pubic hairs, if not for men

Any lady that disagrees with her is nothing but a broke pretender
Any man that disagrees with the lady is nothing but an asslicker seeking for likes from ladies

AntiBrutus:


It's really funny. Seems the average Nigerian parent believes the worst thing is for a female child to turn out a prostitute...because that's all they ever come up with on a thread like this.

Who then are the drug dealers? Ritual killers? Yahoo boys? Rapists?
Robbers? Fulani herdsmen? Etc. Abi those ones don't need good family morals to avoid turning out that way?

A prostitute doesn't cause much damage. Chick is just going about her business . Good morning.

BluntBoy:


Go and read the statement again. He said there are issues he would be strict about concerning his son. It is mischievous to say that AJ believes his son needs no moral upbringing. I am sure some of the things he said he was sure he was going to be strict about is checking attitudes that would make him a bad man. He wants his niece to be a good woman. It is safe to assume that he wants his son to grow up to be a good man too.

BluntBoy:


The problem with you is that you hardly stay on the argument.

You argument was that Joshua is encouraging his son to be a nuisance and I directed you to the post for another reading through in case you missed where he said that he is not that strict on his son. My point is that the issue is not strictness but the level of strictness.

Ranks007:


The first woman made a mistake in the garden of Eden the world is yet to recover from. It must have been she has learnt from it. I guess. Women are much more likely to temper with a mistake they can't recover from compared to their male counterparts.

Anthony Joshua is a man I very much admire for the moment I've learnt from him. He may have had a son out of wedlock which I presume is an avoidance to western hammer on divorce issues.

Notwithstanding, his character of not ready to mingle with female fans carelessly despite the fame as other athletes his category would do has earned him my respect. I believe you can Judge rightly why he would not, from the words spoken about his niece. What he thinks about his niece is what he expects any woman his wife to be.

BluntBoy:


Herds mentality is the issue with many of you African self-acclaimed feminists. Have you read the statement properly? How would his son amount to a nuisance when he is getting trained too? How did you miss out on the part where AJ mentioned being not as strict in the upbringing of his son as he is with his niece's? You only chose to see what you wish to see. AJ is strict on the boy but he is not as strict on him as he is with the niece. The level of strictness is what differs not that the boy is not getting any strict upbringing at all.

BluntBoy:
What is misogynistic about AJ's words All I see is a man who loves his niece and wants to protect her by all means. All these worthless feminists should go to hell. They are constituting a nuisance everywhere.

oyb:
The Worst that will happen with fallen women is hat they will be prostitutes

We see fallen men paraded on home page every day as rapists, robbers, murderers. So who is more dangerous if not properly trained?

The 'weaker vessels' or the ones with capacity for violence?

And some people actually believe only female children are at risk to be molested?

efesodje:


At the bold face, a dowry (paid by the bride's family to the groom's family) is practiced in countries like Turkey, Iran,Egypt,Morocco, India,Bangladesh,Pakistan,Nepal,Sri Lanka, Afghanistan et al. So it's done.

Your other points are rants of a typical Misogynist

don4real18:

Jewish my foot... It is our culture and tradition and shouldn't be thrown away for Western ideology.
I will be glad to pay the Bride price for my future wife without the feeling of acquiring a property

efesodje:




Ok sis let me explain why I do not agree with your conclusions:


The practice of paying for the bride price is erroneously misconstrued as such a dehumanizing practice to women, especially from a Western point of view. Parents perceive that their daughters are being maltreated by wicked husbands on the excuse that they have been paid for, like a “commodity”.

And while many blame this derision on families that take advantage of the Bride Price to make outrageous demands, others believe that how a man treats his woman may not necessarily depend on whether or not he paid her Bride Price, but greatly on his personality.

Saying men maltreat their wives because they paid their Bride Price is like saying the expensive diamond engagement rings also produce women-beaters in the West.

For the christians amongst us, in the Bible Jacob served 14 years as a Price to marry Rachel; a “Bride Service” that portrayed the value he placed on her – which is what the token called Bride Price is all about.

In this modern era, it appears many are not aware that the Bride Price serves to protect the marriage from dissolution. It is NOT degrading to women and does not reduce them to slaves; not in any way tantamount to making a man feel like a slave master who owns a slave he has paid for. In actual fact, Bride Price is an instrument to ratify a marriage. It is one of the highest honours confirming a bride’s value and womanhood; giving a husband the full rights to the sexual, economic, or procreative powers of his wife. It fosters a friendly relationship between the two families; providing a material pledge that the woman and her children will be well treated and a level of compensation to her family for the loss of her company and labour.

No amount of money can buy a wife; her value is inestimable in human terms.

No man can pay for all the input of those who raised a good woman and all the benefits she brings; her love, care, help and companionship far outweigh any monetary value. A Bride Price is a humble demonstration of appreciation, honour and respect to the bride’s family for all the work they put into raising/training “this” gift from God and returning it seems utterly disrespectful to the groom and his entire family.

There are no few good men, rather there still are a lot of good men. It's just so unfortunate some women end up with the bad ones. My 2 cents

P/S- I am still learning this whole marriage stuff as this dude will be settling down soon

Tollzara:
...............And they lived in an era when humans were like spiders stuck in the amber of primitivity and could only communicate with the shadows on the walls of their caves, so their stupidity {as we would describe it in this dispensation} can be excused. But the retãrds replicating such idiotic logic in the 21st century have no such excuse.

Moukandjo:

So which one did God orchestrate in the holy books since it's clear in many instances that He made men superior to women?

Moukandjo:

What do mean by "sameness of gender"?