No

babyfaceafrica:
Feminist will not agree

learn the meaning of the word 'Feminism' before Showing the entire E-world what an ignorant, bandwagon-thirsty anthropoid You are.

Moukandjo:

Sadly enough for you, God made it so; right from the inception of mankind! There are many instances in the holy books to show that God didn't make man & woman equal!

Equality is different from sameness of gender oga. I don't get why you feel females shouldn't be given same judgment and priviledges as men.

amakadihot87:
...........nne take a chill pill........yes they both should be blamed but i think its worse on the female side.....for instance Thin tall tony of bbnaija 2017 was married and yet received a Mouth Action......he later went back to his wife,how many men will accept their wives back after doing that shit?..........A guy is a guy,a man can sleep with all the ladies in a street and yet he wount be branded a Hoe rather he would be hailed as a strong guy............i think nature made it that way that we arent equal with men,so we ladies should be very careful how we display our sex escapades

Well, nature didn't make it that way. Misogynists made it that way.

efesodje:


You couldn't have said it any better I appreciate smart women.

Women internalize societal messages that inundate them with information about how they should act, should look, and what they should want, turning this into an inner toxic self-talk that misdirects their energies. This is what women need to learn to fight against and I think that's where the feminism movement comes in. Nice one.

Master Yoda approves

alright then, I guess I'm not needed anymore.


She Answered your questions flawlessly and Succinctly too.

utenwuson:
nothing can be more frustrating than a self acclaimed church elder watching your daughter being pound left right and centre all u do is watch with heavy heart and start asking God if u really need a girl child...... God I no need any girl child Abeg, watching bbn yesterday was really disheartening to me

NO girl child would need you actually.

She deserves Way more Liberal and less judgy Parenting that you could ever afford to give.

SirLakes:


Shame on the girl, the guy gets a trophy

shame on your ma for failing to raise a mentally stable child.

Jadoskii:
at least they've made a diff to one person's life.....do urs nd stop criticizing pple that r helping others...who av u helpd?

I wasn't criticizing. Only stating an opinion.


I'm sorry if you got butt hurt in the process.

SirLakes:
I just dey imagine how the girl pop & mama go feel seeing seeing someone furking dem daughter on TV


No shame

I just dey imagine how the boy pop and mama go feel seeing someone curling dem son on TV.


No shame.

Papiikush:
Take a look at this video and see how them dey pound person pikin inside toilet like say she be fufu.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2TZ4t9nC7o


In Africa, when things like this happens, the woman is always blamed and the man will be praised(We are wired that way, deal with it). This is why women should be wise enough to be able to control their emotions in cases like this. Imagine this Hoe forming church girl and her father is even an elder in church.

Imagine the disgrace she has brought to the man and his family. I bet her father will be demoted from that position because he has brought shame to their congregation. Some girls are just mad.

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Let's take some things into consideration

1. She exposed herself cheaply to the world as someone without self control. I mean having sex with a guy you met a month ago? It shows how cheap most Nigerian girls are

2. How will her future kids cope with this shame their mother brought to them? How will they be treated in the midst of their colleagues in school? "Lmao.... Your mummy is a Hoe"

3. She's got no future with Teddy (someone who obviously has a baby mama outside bbn) so why take the risk of exposing yourself as a shameful little slut?

************

I have said it before and I will keep saying it again, church girls are hoes using Jesus as a disguise. If you are looking for a wife, don't go anywhere near church girls.

Jesus!!!!

what you wrote is simply a retàrded piece of junk... If you really believe when two consenting adults have sex, the female should be blamed. You are a disgrace to saniity and the entire earth.


Your half baked question Should've been thrown at both of them. Not just the female. They both had the 'SEX'. Don't be an hypocritical mysogynistic, Two-faced Scum.

Good.

Now, do that for every mad man roaming the streets, only then, would i take you seriously. People only help people they're palsy-walsy to. It's a matter of who-knows-who.


Charity, just for the sake of it is dead. Brutal truth.

Whoa, I'm having mixed feelings about this.
The influx of messages he'd be getting would be simply overwhelming. I wish him luck.

efesodje:
Only weaklings think of committing suicide.

Ask yourself why those unfortunate ones with no homes and jobs that live under the bridges in Lagos are not committing suicide but roughing it out everyday for their daily bread. This life is for the strong.

Actually, No weakling would wanna hurt themselves.

This is Hogwash tho mixed with subtle sexism and misogyny.


Simply put, They're smart cowards that wouldn't wanna go through series of emotional breakdown women with cheating partners experience.

Who defines what is moral and what isn't? Who gives these rules? Human? God? Who? What's the standard for morality?


I think it is in man's best instinct to always have a condom anywhere he goes especially when he's sexually active. STDs are very real and also fatal.

Papiikush:
Almost entering menopause and no kids yet. Everything is not money.

Having a family makes you responsible...go and build a home instead of sleeping around with young boys.

Having a family makes you responsible?


Will you please shut up?

AfricanCity:


You're good! Thank you for expertly handling those answers.

my pleasure!

lexy2014:
then that means I was right

Melian:


Exactly! It's worse with women, I don't mind telling you.

you don't mind telling me?


Lol. Thanks for the heads up, I guess?

Zither:
Who am I to judge? I am not better than anyone. However, I just learnt a truth from this thread. 80% of girls in this forum are either lesbians or potential lesbians. A potential lesbian is one who adopts the same psychology and preferences of a lesbian but is yet to give full expression in her actions.

Guys, reason why I always advocate the old-fashioned method of seeking God's face for a life partner. If you don't believe God exists this line is not meant for you.

To those girls and guys justifying lesbianism, please say amen to this prayer:

May your daughters choose to be lesbians

May your wives never hide their lesbian way of life

May your husbands be gays and never conceal it

May your sons be gays

May your generation now and yet to come freely
choose to pursue same-sex marriage

If you know in your heart that homosexuality is a way of life to be proud of please say amen to the prayer above.

To those not in support of this may all this never be your portion, to all your generations, here and unborn, now and till the end of time. Amen

AMEN!!!!!!


NOW, DIE!!!!

lexy2014:
it depends on d cause of d happiness. I think her source of happiness is something u can relate with in terms of similar experience

Maybe.

Splinz:


Don't even start...

What is resentful about calling a spade a spade? C'mon... gimme some credit!

You're a slut! I mean, I'm not the one saying it... you did!

It could be that you're also suffering from occasional amnesia. Here's my advice: check your signature for a memory refreshed.

Lol.
I know, I know.
But I'm just saying...... You'll be alright.

Gourdoinc:
your choices dear. also that age bracket isn't wrong. maybe that's the only thing you got right today.

make your choices, but make lots of hay while your sun shines. it will soon set anyway and you will be left with the fruits of your hay days, just like old musicians and celebrities, it's what you made while ur sun shone that you eat when it sets, also just like happened with all the women in your life. they didn't set out old and shrivelled. many were prettier than you, they made hay, they started a family, had kids like you to continue the struggle and today they have lived the good life and await the end whenever it may come.

guess you will learn this by experience since you are intoxicated too much in your childish wisdom (it happened to we all). money, recognition, career, health etc all Na turn by turn. a simple cycle which will go from beginning to end, poor to rich, rich to poor, happy to say, sad to happy, life to death and everything that matters wasn't the end we thought we would meet, but the simple processes we went through till such an end.

love is everything.

I will definitely make hay when the sun shines.... But my hay and Another woman's hay aren't the same thing.


No one could dictate my happiness for me, I'm the only one responsible for my happiness. I truly know what would make me happy. And relationships isn't one of them.

Thank you.

He's such a humbug, Shameless and redundantly repulsive excuse of a father. I hope the little girl rejects him as her father, eventually.


Shame. Big Shame to all absentee parents that don't meet up to their responsibilities as a parent.

Gourdoinc:
like I said hon. you are still very young. you will learn more as you advance in life. we been there, heard all this before, saw how they all turned out and am sure in another life they will want to make a rethink. that being said. you assume that everything you listed there is what life is all about? then you know nothing fluidgirl. you haven't found out exactly why you are living yet. note it that marriage isn't my point, neither do I even agree with you that women need any emancipation. hopefully you will get all those things that look fantastic and worthwhile, maybe the. you will realize painfully what life truly is about. how the role of men comes to play in it. guess all our mothers and fathers are all so stupid.

You sound like you're 35+


You should get married quick before you lose your youthful valor and women Wouldn't take you seriously anymore.
In the meantime, Your advice isn't exactly needed. But thank you tho. I will make my own choices from now on.

Splinz:


Your wish & dreams...

I can't be a friend to a slut.

All that massive resentment. You'd get over it someday. Didn't mean to hurt your feelings. It's Just Nairaland. You'll be fine.

Good. If he could do that publicly, One shivers mentally at what he'd do behind close doors. These men with Anger management issues tend to suppress their true nature During courtship, then, unleash the beast months into marriage.


Glad she had the Will-power to leave the toxic relationship.

Splinz:


I never thought you have this much sense.

Perhaps, just perhaps you're learning fast...

Anyways, Op you must listen to this wise counsel by Flui*Queen.

So, we're friends now?

biacan:
Yes they cheat but most of them cheat with men..... and bounce back

doesn't matter what gender they cheat with. It's still cheating.

Then, what's his biggest gift to you? A Community pénnis?


Anyway, it's your choice. I accept that. So long that mentality isn't imposed on women, I'm totally fine with your CHOICE.

Gourdoinc:
very funny, I used to have people who reasoned like you many years back, life has taught them in the best ways it knows how (experience). they didn't listen to advice then, so they learnt by experience. the mere fact you think money, career and future mean anything are indeed laughable and prove how badly you need to learn the hard way. you also are still very very young, filled with hormones and youthful ideas. when the times I mentioned comes to fore, be glad to reference me then. my mention of those ladies over 30 are based on your questions, the fact you could get 6 orgasms are dependent on whom you had sex with anyway, in many cases you wouldn't even have one. except a woman is ugly, then she enjoys catcalls and while young lives for catcalls. maybe you should try a simple theory out. ask out 10 men and see how many would call you back. even now you are young, with likely perky tits, many will not bother to look at you twice, many will of course look twice. this ratio will reduce as age comes no matter the packaging. even a virgin old woman looks like an old woman. there is nothing anyone can do about ageing, sagging, folded thighs, and worse of all ignoring young and perky for old and saggy simply because she has money. an old man with money could get a 16 year old wife, while an old woman with money can simply only get a 16year old toyboy. who would even use her money for 23year olds.

I'm sorry but this is balderdash

this negates your thought u will get any man u want at 45, because you can't even do that now you are below 25. men have tastes, if you are skinny only skinny lover's would want you, if you are BBw only BBw lover's will want you.

...Another Hogwash

that's the difference in being a woman. You never really get to choose in all honesty, you rather choose amongst the choices offered to you unlike a man who could choose the world as long as his money could afford it. don't be like those who we all now know to be frustrated, use your time wisely as a woman. money, career and everything else can still be made even after you get a man. just saying

At the bolded, who exactly restricts my choice? You? God? Society? Why you think a woman has limited choice in the world where men don't is exactly why the world needs Equality.

Why you think the idea that a woman puts goals and ambition before marriage is ludicrous is actually the height of insensitivity , gender bias, degredation and Subtle sexism.

So, men are allowed to choose the world if they could afford and women should just resort to petty wishes, being a married woman and someone's kitchen slave for all eternity?

Lol. I'll pass. I'd rather take my own choice. Break free from the shackles of Nigeria's-Societal expectations of females. I'd pick My goals over looking relentlessly for a man anytime.

age restrictions is all in your head. I don't live my life based on the number of cat calls I get, or What men Would want. Those are frivolities. Inconsequential things and never my priorities. I have goals, ambitions, money goals, beauty goals, health goals.