This thread is just nauseating, Uncorrelated, dumb and insulting, that's Putting it nicely.
Op can't seem to digest the points that ladies could actually get their cars, INDEPENDENTLY. Without having ANYONE contributing minorly or majorly.


You Gave just TWO points.
She Either buys it with her OWN Money.
Or had people buy it for her.
Which is usually the case with 'MOST' human beings.

themonk:

Good morning, Wow Thanks.

Are the fault in our stars, the darkest hour and divergent movies adaption of the books you mentioned?

I see you love to read fiction, the book I want to recommend is non-fiction but I promise you'll enjoy it.
Sapiens: A brief History of Humankind by Yuval Harari

Yes they are. But it beats the movie actually. The book speaks to you.


Where can I order this? Is it available in book stores? PDF?

Actually, I don't plan on changing my Surname, Ever. not even When I get really lovesick and decide that someone's worth spending an eternity with. it's not happening.


Well, I could actually hyphenate if We're talking relations of Bill-gate or Oprah Winfrey.

Eagba:
sex or its fantasies comes with responsibities. So don't explore its fantasies without thinking about its responsibities which hangs between morals, psychological, spiritual and health wise.
Me for example, i've this fantasy for milf, but i won't carry it out cos i'm responsible.

Your fantasies for MILFs could be very much acted upon. It has nothing to do with morality.


We've got single mothers EVERYWHERE. Start from there.

themonk:

Okay, give me five and I'll chose the best that suits my reading instrest.

Wuthering heights, pride and prejudice. the fault in our stars. The darkest hour. Divergent.


What's yours?

themonk:

Yeah, I think you are right. We probably don't know the value of what we have. As you correctly pointed out sexuality should be flexible like my ex-girlfriend so we can explore and have as much experiences we desire.

I am a strong believer that everyone should have sexual fantasies and they should realize all of them before they leave earth. It's one dream you shouldn't afford to not achieve even if you don't achieve any other thing. Don't save your sexual fantasies for afterlife cause you might only live once.

I'm an agnostic too. I'm not too proud to say things I'm not sure of definitively.

I'll love to introduce you to the best book I've ever read, if would introduce me to yours. Deal?

Yay to sexual assertiveness!


Exactly. That's the way I feel.
Best book I've ever read. Shesh. I honestly don't have one in particular. I never have one favorite. but I could trim them down to 5? Good enough?

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:


The fact that you are sexually fluid
You don't believe in love or should I say the idea of love
Your open admittance to being bisexual ( I love that)
Your belief in the freewill to explore your sexual self without societal limits
The way you describe your body-curves,hips et al (hmmmmm got me thinking dirty)

Anyway I love smart sexy women (having gone through some of your well worded posts). My kind of woman

I believe in love. I just don't Want to be in love. Maybe later in the future?

You definitely got everything right.
And thank you.

What's the idea behind your moniker? How many bs are those? Can't seem to find my glasses.

themonk:

Wow, that's actually insteresting. What a nice thing to be.


I wish my joystick will only respond to people I spare the few emotional connections I have with. Oh! How amazing it would be that feminine endowment's have lost my mumu button.

Are you a freethinker?

it's not 'nice' actually. I feel like it's torture. Sexuality is something thst should be enjoyed, stress free and shouldn't leave you with equations, second guesses and questions as to whether your emotional connection/compatibility with someone is enough to increase your libido.


A free thinker. Maybe. I don't know actually.
But i Identify as an agnostic-theist. Religiously fluid at best.

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:


I went through your diary too. I find you weird and intriguing, in a good kinky way

Weird? Kinky?


Lol. How so?

themonk:

Do demisexuals exist? I'm yet to see one.
By the way I went through you dairy, it was a nice read.

Oh, They do actually. I have a couple as acquaintances.


They Usually identify as Asexuals except they've got a deep connection with Someone.
Oh, thank you.

Me thinks Marriage is All about Compromise. Reaching a healthy level of understanding. Your Wife is stubborn, a hothead even, but Well, the both of You dated for 8 Years, you knew this before marrying her.

I have no advice but FIX YOUR MARRIAGE. It won't make you any less of a man if you go Get her things from her Sister's place. In cases like this, one has to do away with pride. It won't do you any good. You'd have to make sacrifices, be the bigger person.

Then, maybe when she's back in your house. Ask her what she really wants. Engage her in a deep tête-à-tête. Tell her that marriage isn't a joke and she shouldn't always have to pull a stunt when both of you have contretemps. This is beyond her now. You guys have kids to nurture. Family to build. This isn't a joke anymore.

shaybebaby:

As always, dialogues like this should be encouraged. Not for his benefit though , just because he finds no value in it doesn't mean others won't.

Purreach!!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Follow olu bunmi and joy isi bewaji.

Bewaji isn't a feminist tho.

We know you're lying but continue bruh....

You're probably Demisexual.

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:


Well said. Succinct delivery

gracias

Dumb, Stupid, Uncorelated thread.

Sex is Cheap. Very cheap. Feminists, Non-feminists, Anti-femimist, Witches, Dogs, goats, mosquitoes could get it at the snap of their fingers.


Please stop hiding under the Canopy of Feminism to propagate Your silly Ideologies. This. Isn't. Feminism.

AllforJesus7:



Little girl you need to calm down.

All she has advised summarily are;

1. Marry a man with a future
2. Be humble

I know you want to flaunt your spontaneous teenage hormones on the internet but let it not affect your ability to clearly understand and process information.

Old man, You need to mind your business and steer clear from my raging teenage hormones.

And ofcourse, I would be With Someone with my qualities. Someone with Ambitions.

No, this doesn't make sense bruh.
It's actually the Apogee of Stupidity.

First, Women are not dolls that should be told what to do. Why tf would any sane man 'ORDER' his wife to go against her will, lose her future ambitions and be a Nanny? Are You okay? Are women kids to You?


Men and Women Should 'PROVIDE' for their family, Care for their kids and respect, love and submit to each other. Letting one man shoulder one responsibility is just silly. When both of you learn to compromise, share responsibilities, only then, would this culminate into true happiness.

Oh, She's pretty. That's undeniable.


But Well, I ain't rocking that. Ewww!
Make-Up! hair! Skin! More skin! Nails!
I need all that!

UDUJ:


Come closer, I need to give you a kiss

Flowers95:
I can guess you’re under 25 and not married.

This is Old. Really cliche.

I specifically said date a man with a career not a job, there’s a huge difference. You can be somewhat financially independent, however when you are married tone it down. When you are married, your husband is there to take care of you, not screaming miss independent.

Hogwash.

Women and men alike should never Get involved in marriage without BOTH of them developing some kind of financial independence.

Even if you have money, never flaunt it in his face. Marry a man who is above you financially and who can take care of yourself and children.

So, he's allowed to flaunt his Money and i shouldn't ? Because? Is that what your bible tells you?

i've been married for long my dear. You will learn when you’re older, take care.

I don't care how long you've been married but that thing you are in is a SHAM. You obviously love his money and the things he buys for you. Not him.

VenomousTruth:
How dare some ladies play with a heart that loved you unconditionally? Don't really know but I'm so angry at this post!

Men do the same goddamn thing all the time. Chill. Some ladies are simply not monogamous material.


OP, If I was in your shoes? I wouldn't. Depends on some factors actually
... Just saying.

Wait for it, baby mama 3 would pop out just about anytime soon.


Ask yourself this, do you really need a community pénnis as s horseband?

Flowers95:
As a married woman, I can kindly say.

Women please love is secondary. Marry a man who is financially secure, a man who has a career not a job. Marry a man who has money, because love cannot carry a marriage especially when you hit that 10 year mark. The love will fizzle our.

Men marry a woman can take care of your children and home. Marry a woman who can make your house into a home. Stop looking for Miss independent because in a marriage you’ll realise that she’s taking your role as a man, therefore causing problems.

Not everybody will understand this, but with age and experience you will understand.

God!


Nairaland keeps regurgitating sad people with Screwed logic.
What happens if Something happens to Your husband's financial Well? And it eventually dries up and leaves him jobless and broke?


You'd be left with nothing! You'd be a sad, Depressed mentally retrogressive Woman Who's too lackadaisical to Stand up and fend for herself. He's your husband, not your father.

Stop spiting independent Women and Go attach something meaningful to Your life.

QuietHammer:
My nigga call the police on her ass. Homosexuality is a crime in Nigeria. That criminal should face the full wrath of the law.

You wish!
That law 's a joke

Would it have made any difference if it was a guy?
She broke up with you because she respected you enough to not cheat on You.. That's a luxury most people would never afford. Respect that. She doesn't love you. Let it go.


Dude, don't become toxic. It doesn't turn out good.
The Whole police thing is Childish, Hypocritical and Unreasonably Stupid. Let her go.

DrinkLimca:
You know it's kind of foolish that something like house chores will become a subject of debate in relationship .

As in,, have we not been doing our house chores since we were young?

why is it now a subject of debate?
The op is only looking for cheap attention..

I still think it's what it is tho.

Look at our fore fathers for example, They barely did house chores. It was regarded as a woman's Job. You'd hardly see married men Sweeping the house or doing the dishes. God forbid they Carried their Empty Plates to the kitchen. A thousand years later, It still is Regarded as A woman's job.

Shugavee:
Chores n housework is their definition of the bible's submission!!

Hahahahahahaha. .