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Gourdoinc:
very funny, I used to have people who reasoned like you many years back, life has taught them in the best ways it knows how (experience). they didn't listen to advice then, so they learnt by experience. the mere fact you think money, career and future mean anything are indeed laughable and prove how badly you need to learn the hard way. you also are still very very young, filled with hormones and youthful ideas. when the times I mentioned comes to fore, be glad to reference me then. my mention of those ladies over 30 are based on your questions, the fact you could get 6 orgasms are dependent on whom you had sex with anyway, in many cases you wouldn't even have one. except a woman is ugly, then she enjoys catcalls and while young lives for catcalls. maybe you should try a simple theory out. ask out 10 men and see how many would call you back. even now you are young, with likely perky tits, many will not bother to look at you twice, many will of course look twice. this ratio will reduce as age comes no matter the packaging. even a virgin old woman looks like an old woman. there is nothing anyone can do about ageing, sagging, folded thighs, and worse of all ignoring young and perky for old and saggy simply because she has money. an old man with money could get a 16 year old wife, while an old woman with money can simply only get a 16year old toyboy. who would even use her money for 23year olds.

I'm sorry but this is balderdash

this negates your thought u will get any man u want at 45, because you can't even do that now you are below 25. men have tastes, if you are skinny only skinny lover's would want you, if you are BBw only BBw lover's will want you.

...Another Hogwash

that's the difference in being a woman. You never really get to choose in all honesty, you rather choose amongst the choices offered to you unlike a man who could choose the world as long as his money could afford it. don't be like those who we all now know to be frustrated, use your time wisely as a woman. money, career and everything else can still be made even after you get a man. just saying

At the bolded, who exactly restricts my choice? You? God? Society? Why you think a woman has limited choice in the world where men don't is exactly why the world needs Equality.

Why you think the idea that a woman puts goals and ambition before marriage is ludicrous is actually the height of insensitivity , gender bias, degredation and Subtle sexism.

So, men are allowed to choose the world if they could afford and women should just resort to petty wishes, being a married woman and someone's kitchen slave for all eternity?

Lol. I'll pass. I'd rather take my own choice. Break free from the shackles of Nigeria's-Societal expectations of females. I'd pick My goals over looking relentlessly for a man anytime.

age restrictions is all in your head. I don't live my life based on the number of cat calls I get, or What men Would want. Those are frivolities. Inconsequential things and never my priorities. I have goals, ambitions, money goals, beauty goals, health goals.

Safiaaa:
darling please they don’t know what they’re talking about. I personally know women who are 29 , 30 who still get approached daily by men, even more than younger women. This stero type that women decline rapidly by 25 is so stupid. I respect women who are 30+ and refuse to settle. At least most times at that age you know what exactly you want. The law of attraction comes into place and you attract the energy you release.

Exactly! I don't get the fuss with the 30-thing.


I have friends at 30s... Beautiful flowers that men practically book appointments to meet because of their busy schedule and Ambitious lifestyle. They are mostly assertive and strong willed, these half-baked men are obviously too scared to approach them because their lights shine so bright, it blinds them.

biacan:
But they love with all their heart.... I know what I'm talking about

and they could cheat, break hearts expertly too.
I Also know what I'm talking about.


It's all about personality. Some men could love with all their heart too. A lot of men actually.

biacan:
Yes they are faithful and care for your feelings.... unlike the opposite sex

lol.


You'd be shocked at how many females are exactly like men.
The players, the cheats, the sociopaths, these attributes knows no gender.

Preach!!!!!!


She's happy, I am genuinely happy for her, i'm actually grinning like I'm related to her or something. Happiness is indeed contagious.

Gourdoinc:
I have seen them at 30, dated them at 30, dumped them at 30.

And this is news, because? People break off ineffective relatiosnhips. It has nothing to do with age.

also madam this has nothing to do with being sexist. the very notion that sex is consensual isn't a Nigerian thing. we know it in Africa that sex is a woman's way of blessing a man.

So, We eventually get under the sheets, You get a hard-on, I get slopply wet. You play your cards well, I get like 3-6 Orgasm While you manage just ONE.. And you still think I'm blessing you?
Lmao. Dude, are you even listening to yourself? You ARE THE ONE BLESSING ME!

that being said, the concept of time and cycle isn't something you illogical females understand. everything get e time, everybody is on a constant cycle. you either get with the program or you time and cycle passes away. she is 23, she is on a cycle where men won't let her be, that cycle will soon end, she will get older and men will chase other 23year olds. men like 23 year olds, not this girl in particular. am sure you attended or attend a university. it's the jambito effect. everyone will enjoy the perks of being a fresher, where everyone wants to date you, yet when u now in 300 level and ready to date, very few men bother to ask you out. simply because they are waiting for the jambito cycle. if you are wise learn from all I have said and never miss your own cycle. as expected be ur turn now, that same turn will pass away soon. wise women get all they want while it's their turn, foolish women assume the attention of the men is forever constant and end up dissapointed

lol.
This mentality is Cliche, Very Cliche indeed.
A woman at her 30s is still very young, beautiful and very much attractive so. And not everyone lives their lives exclusively to get Cat called by men, Oga. Our lives and entire existence worth way more than that. We have ambitions, a carrier to chase, Money that needs to be made, A future. Do away with such logic. A woman that knows how to look beautiful and simply live her life would get any man she wants even at 45. The age restrictions is all in your head.

Infidelity is actually something I frown against, irrespective of Whichever gender perpetuates it.
I'm more concerned about their Child, it must really be enotionally traumatizing and daunting finding out and Conveying such heart rending news to the whole class.


There's a breach of trust. I'm glad they're divorcing. There's no shame in leaving a toxic and unhealthy marriage. Life is indeed too short.

Gourdoinc:
you are only 23, your breasts are still perky and the men are still calling. cool down my dear youngie, the men will soon move on other 23 year olds in 4years time. then you will be 27 and those breasts no longer perky. hope you don't start having the interest then oh, because demons love needy women at that age. they Bleep and dump you all easily because you are now emotionally unstable and easy to deceive. be wise. ignore those deceptive looking perky tits and get yasef a man.

this. Is. Just. Sick..

What makes u think she wouldn't Wanna fúck(use and dump) men even if she's 30? Have you seen 30Yr old women? They are HOT and literally on FIRE.


We're both adults abeg. Sex is a consensual Act, between two people. Why men like you think Having sex with a female equates using them is beyond my cognitive abilities. No one is using anybody. Females Also enjoy sex too. We get orgasms too. We like SEX as much as you do. Do away with all those sexist mentality.

Then, don't date.
Dating and relationships isn't and shouldn't be a mandatory thing. You don't have to conform to societal expectations. Just live your life the way you deem fit.


The imperative thing is, YOU ARE HAPPY.

Stalker Alert.
You should be arrested for incessant breach of privacy.
Looking at it objectively, You're no better than the Hoodlums that kept ogling her.

Xisnin:
Shut up. Have you ever excelled in any notable endeavour in your entire life?
I wonder why failures think they have an opinion.

for starters...

I'm not homophobic and definitely would never Judge a man based on his illnesses or sexuality. I think I've indeed achieved way more than you and the entire Nollywood put together.

justtoodark:
shvt up their...why aint you happy that people that look like you have success...??

what does the moroon cares which black are actors...??

our culture dont accept homosexuals anyways....hiv infected for that matter...what an disgrace...

do we want to allow black gays to talk for us now...??

I Understand only English Sire. Concisely, Well Punctuated English. One that wouldn't make me have palpitations by trying to decipher what your pea-sized brain intends conveying.

Hire a toddler to write for you next time, please.

Truckpusher:
Anyone else could have said it and of course we know the truth but not just from that drag queen.

you know he doesn't exactly care about you, right?


He's probably accomplished more than you would ever effectuate in a century. I mean, He's happy. He's VERY HAPPY. HAPPILY MARRIED. He's fulfilled.

All you could ever do is Write derogatory things about him on NAIRALAND because oh well, he's better than you and inspires people, People Worship him, literally. And you, truckpusher, is made to rot away on NL, Consuming megabytes, being an old nobody, going bananas over someone that isn't Causing you any harm.

Now do the maths, who is better? You or him? My Money's on Bisi.

sidnen:
It's meant to distract pea brains and bigots from the truth the guy is telling, and it's no surprise they are all falling for it.

Exactly. Bunch of brainwashed Dummies.

I mean, What does his HIV status and Sexual Orientation have to do with Anything he's saying?


Why are people so fúcking Shortsighted?
Your Nollywood is diluted Horsepóóp, he's not saying anything Ridiculous or inauthentic. Your 'Nnnayi' 'igwe' Nollywood would always be a failed and highly mediocre attempt at making Movies. He is right. Nollywood is plainly 50BC Hollywood.

Firstly, get a gang of girls and beat the Shiit outta him.
Secondly, Get the hell out of that PRISON! divorce the bastard!

Lastly, do you have a job? Are you financially independent?
If you aren't, then, find something doing and take your boys out of there before the psychopathic lunatic corrupts them. Please, hurry before we read in some random news that you ended up dead or badly maimed.

For an unconventional girl like me?

I'd say building a house.
I mean, Marriage could come way after I've had a comfy home to fall back to.

So, I cried a little.


Thank you for this.

Why can't you just spell 'fúck' correctly?
You don't have to censor the word. Looks a tad bit puerile.
Adults are the ones reading it, not toddlers.

Jan 2016?
Two fúcking years? Seriously?


These mods though!

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Just get a good cream with Moisturizing properties. Jergens Ultra healing or Nivea dry skin should work.
Stay away from soaps that are exfoliating or drying.
Eat fruits and drink water.

We really do not.

Smh...
The only problem you've got is the coke addiction.
What you need isn't any spiritual Intervention or whatever name you choose to tag it. You need rehabilitation. A therapist.

.Your sexuality isn't a problem. It's a part of you. Own it.

dacoolestkc:
Eating me up you say...how old are you?

an excessively inconsequential question and an uncorrelated one at that.

Halarby:
Just stay single and enjoy your private life.

Amen.

Excellence2017:
Oya go n marry, since you r financially stable contribute to ur bride price, since u r financially stable buy him a Benz for proposing to u even after dis madam ur will is subjected to his decisions. It is called submission biblically. D earlier u wake up to d fact dat dis is Nigeria d berra for u my dear sister ke ma lo gba penalty wo throwing oooo.

sleep ojare.


That is your problem, god complex naim dey worry you. Because u pay small bride price, you think you've acquired property. Subtle slavery.

Don't go and buy sex doll and own.

dacoolestkc:
SMH civilization has done more harm than good..a 15yrs old kid can pick up his\her phone and type anything he/she likes..this was not how our parents lived.
Its getting worse,after some women fear devil.

incase you haven't noticed, Our fore fathers weren't exactly an irreprochable model of marriage. Women weren't allowed to speak up, they just endured because well, he brings home the bacon.

But Women talk now and know their rights as humans, and it's obviously eating you up.

Excellence2017:
The way you are talking ehn u should be d one to propose to him with a Bentley bentayga, pay groom price, foot d bills for the marriage ceremony even at dat, we'll negotiate d privacy.

I see nothing with what you wrote.

munas:
So as a very private person that wont give up her privacy,that means if you are undressing,the man will leave the room right?

Lol...you seems not to know what is obtainable in marriage.Stay single please.

you also are oblivious to What and how marriage should be. Don't give your future wife the feeling that she is being chained, suffocated and compressed. You wouldn't like the outcome.

When women rebel, they do it without thinking.