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Vorpal:
Given your personal text on your profile, it's understandable you would choose to support Tboss.

Mister,please and please, now I am begging you. Don't make this personal. You don't want to go down that road with me. I made my opinions known, you had the time and energy to go to my profile to check me up and now you wanna throw shades at me? Oga,na beg I dey beg you now. Respect yourself. Whether I support Tboss or Bally shouldn't be an avenue for anyone here to insult me. I say again, respect yourself.

Akshow:
worefa. But u are a liar. Shikena

OK. I agree.

Akshow:
whoever lies and twist facts is a liar. Yes I called him a liar. U made it sound like I killed him. Swerve!

I am not a him/he.

HERDDIKTED:
so tboss finds it difficult to hurt people?

Oga,how did Tboss manage to enter this matter? I specifically mentioned Marvis so why are you bringing up Tboss' name? What is your problem? Must everything be about Tboss?

Akshow:
liar. Ttt made a move on her, dragged her upstairs, they kissed and cuddle and she came down later. Then bally took her to the garden and started telling her he likes her bla bla. She was confused and called efe aside to tell her about ballys interest in her cos she feels they are playing her. It was while they are discussing t boss came to the Jacuzzi. Liar thou art. Tell us how this is a conspiracy to put ttt up. U liars!

Huh? .... Now you ve got yourself all muddled up. Calm down.

Hold up! You said she was confused and needed Efe's advice? Now that is rich.

Akshow:
What are you going on about? What sob story has Bisola told them that made them nominate ttt? Tell us let hear. Liar

Can you tell us what Efe and Bisola were discussing the day he told Tboss to excuse them when she walked in on them and asked them what they were saying? In case you are confused, I am talking of the day she trailed them to the garden and used the jacuzzi as an excuse to 'eavesdrop' on their conversation.

That same day, Bisola told the same sob story to Marvis and even shared with her that Efe told her earlier that Bally has been into her since early in the game.

You still wanna act like these incidents didn't happen? Or are we watching two different shows?

RaggedyAnn:
As for Marvis being good. I like that Marvis is honest. She tells it as she sees it whenever and wherever. And most of the time, it is the general opinion which others are too sly to speak, that Marvis reveals. Tboss first got the sense that people didn't like her from Marvis, when she brushed her aside in the garden in week 3. What I don't like about Marvis is her clique mentality. She does a lot of shading to impress her grand mistress. Deep down I think she's better than that, as one can occasionally see. She's a tomboy, girls like that have no time for genuine hate.

You discerned a lot about Marvis. She is a tomboy yes, but I feel she is hardened too much for a woman,finds it easy to hurt people and doesn't even care that she does.

bamisho:
Bisola was told all sorts about ttt when she got back from fake eviction yet never nominated him. You are either a loyal person or you're not . Everything else is excuses .

Yeah, Bisola didn't and never nominated TTT but she was cunning enough to manipulate Marvis and Efe into doing same. The last nomination before TTT left, she spent a lot of time,convincing them that TTT was using her and both of them nominated him for eviction. But Bisola, nooo. She went on to nominate others and had the nerve to flirt and play dirty with Bally in front of her TTT. She didn't end there. She managed to pin everything on Tboss,acting like she was the one coming between her and TTT. And surprise surprise, Bisola was still the one who cried and still crying loudest when TTT left. Machievalli has nothing on Bisola. She has managed to play both sides and remained on top. This is the highest form of manipulation. She even did it again last night when she left Tboss after talking and chatting like friends for long minutes,then went almost immediately to demonize her to Efe and Bally. Haba!

As far as I can see, nobody is loyal in that house. They are only protecting each other's interests, for selfish reasons. Nobody holy pass. You can't keep demonizing Tboss and Debbie ,but put haloes on the rest.

guardsman:
If u can not deal wit d fact dat
d Cougar has unravelled before d eyes of d moral majority of d viewing public as a mean-spirited, manipulative individual who has thrown many HMs under d bus, u can crawl back under d rock u came frm or better still jump into river ogunpa.
Young Miyonse among many others, is a living testimony of d cougar's ignoble lack of honour.

How is it my fault dat u lack simple comprehension?. Kemen is a gullible goat, who has himself to blame 4 putting himself in dat situation. However, many greenhornes ar not conversant wit Biggie's shenanigans. As someone who has watched all BBA/BBNs & is familiar wit Biggie's antics, i could not in good conscience keep quiet over d organizers' hypocrisy. U may not know dis if u've just started watching when it became available on all bouquets.

OK. Are you through? You ve spent your time and data exposing Tboss and her evils. Has that changed the minds of her supporters or swayed the minds of her sympathisers? Instead,you ve only succeeded in displaying your crass,ignorant, mean-spirited and vindictive attitude for all to see. You keep chanting young Miyonse did this and that... Has he complained to you? Is he a kid that doesn't know right from wrong? You sit your bony ass and hide behind the anonymity of the internet and compose so much venom on one person and you sleep well at night. What does that tell about you?

As for someone lacking comprehension, take a good and long look at the mirror. If at your age you can't comprehend and tolerate people's different behaviours, then you shouldn't even be using the internet or watching the show at all. Of all things to brag about, it is being a BB faithful. Mtchewww... You even had the gall to mention bouquet and its availability! What a douchebag you are. Go get a life abeg. I wonder how you will cope after the show is over.

guardsman:
It's easy to know those who watch BBNaija highlights only.
Even Ese, a fake HM was able to read Tbos well. Ese, a fellow Edo lady said Tbos was d only HM she'd never want to meet outside d house.
d reason d HMs don't like Tbos is d same reason so many viewers resent her. She's condescending, arrogant & manipulative. d HMs don't like it, majority of viewers don't like it.
How is it anyone's fault dat d manipulative, mean-spirited Cougar wit an ignoble lack of honour who used d young Miyonse's hands to caress her fake elderly boobs in d night only to nominate his young ass for eviction in d morning has more haters than fans?.
As someone posted on dis forum :
If in a house of 7 people:
No one dislikes you - check yourself
One person dislikes you - you're good
Two people dislike you - start checking yourself
Three people dislike u - There's a problem
4-6 people dislike u - That's catastrophic
Tell me where Tboss belongs.

It's not like d fans supporting someone so manifestly arrogant & manipulative do not know these things about her. They support her regardless because maybe in her, they see themselves.

Oga,what is your problem? Aren't you tired of this nonsense of always dissing Tboss? You were at the forefront of the army who supported kemen at the peak of that harassment episode and since then,you ve never passed the opportunity to insult Tboss. I ask again,what is your problem? Don't you have anything better to do than go on and on about just one lady? Is Kemen your kin? Is that why you are so hurt and vindictive about this Tboss thingy?

Abeg, stop littering this thread with your poison for one person. The more you harp on her flaws, the more you make people empathize with her. E don do.

Fearcom:
At the risk of being insulted by you, Somebody needs to tell you the truth, no matter how bitter it tastes.

You're not a good person.

I read that post over and over and then I read your comments and they are very wicked comments.
I'm sure you read where the man was badly affected by the recession. I'm sure tiu read where the children were well fed and going to a private school when the going was good. I'm sure you read where the wife was a full time house wife, meaning that the man shouldered ALL the financial responsibility for the family. I'm sure you read where the Op said he made the children of the man his friends and they told him of his their home was once a happy home. All that CHANGED when his FINANCES were hit.
You read where the Op said HIS WIFE constantly BERATES, CURSES and ABUSES the husband NIGHT and DAY. The Op also said the wife KEEPS HER MONEY with cooperative and DOESN'T HELP her husband. The TRUE COLOURS of the wife has come out. A good woman would also NEVER ABUSE HER KIDS. she would NEVER LEAVE HER KIDS. a wolf can wear sheep's clothing but still behave like the wolf it is. She's a bad egg. Period. Don't defend her.

I have no reason whatsoever to insult you cuz you were kinda polite. I only insult those who think that being online gives them the right to insult everyone.

Now, before I made that post you quoted, I hadn't seen the part where he said he had made friends with the kids already. My post was made based on his original post. Based on that,what did I say wrong? That the guy is making his assumptions based on his discussions with only the husband and not the wife? Or that a frustrated man can actually abuse and victimise his family and the wife might be reacting to it? What exactly is the wicked thing I said in that post that you had to actually conclude that I am not a good person? Another guy even quoted you and called me wicked and irrational. In all my years of being on this forum, you men always justify the maltreatment of women,even if it is crystal clear that the man is being a jerk. I am not shocked at the reaction in this case too.

If you want to be termed a good man, answer this last question. Will you threaten to use your kids for rituals or want to use a heavy wood on them,cuz of your financial situation? I guess you also ignored that part of the story,right?

freshbear:
pls b civil.Ur words should b seasoned with salt.Some of ur utterances are quite unfortunate esp coming from a supposed married woman.@fluxbush

Funny that you would advise me to be civil but you forgot to give same and reprimand the guy who insulted me first. So to you,being married means being silent in the face of attack,right? OK, noted.

Wiseoldman:
Madam are you married, I would like to know the "lucky" man...lol

Oh yes, I am very married and my husband is very lucky to have me and so am I lucky to have him. If you wanna be sarcastic and diss my marriage, just pass me by. I really don't want to have a dissing contest with you. When you are ready to have an objective and reasonable discourse with me, you know where the quote button is.

d4guy:
Weh done ma

Thank you sir.

jakandeola:
lol I knw u will support de woman

As for you, continue stalking me from thread to thread. Go and face your babe and continue beating her. Stop disturbing my mentions.

AceRoyal:
You scream gender EQUALITY but turn a blind eye to gender EQUITY!

What are you even blabbing on about? Please just stay for your lane. I don't have the time and strength for your toxicity. If you can't read what I said without bringing in feminism and whatever,then just ignore my post. It is not by force to post.

efavour:
Actually both of them are acting out of frustration caused by economic hardship. One person needs to be strong at this time. They are both like fish thrown out of water. They woman probably has never worked before and so has never been out of her comfort zone . And the man may have never been out of job and not so toughed up. Both need help. They both need each other comfort. Thats is why is not good for two people to mad to get mad at the same time. When one person is man,the other should be the calming voice and not add salt to injury and vice versa. The only problem i have with op is implying that something is wrong with a man washing his own cloth,haba. That is his cloth and keeping it clean is his duty and not his wifes.

You have a very good point especially since our source of the story is from a neighbor who heard from only one side of the issue. Has he ever asked the woman why she acts out like she does? Or asked the kids how the parents relate? People underestimate the reasoning power of kids. They see and understand things we think they don't. Yet, I have monkeys jumping on me because I made a neutral observation. Nonsense. Kudos to your sense of reasoning.

last35:
I didn't mediate because the wife is something else. Constantly cursing and abusing the husband. Infact the husband is the one washing his cloths and cooking food. The husband claimed the wife didn't work for 10yrs they were married but started selling things at bodija market last year due to financial hardship. Instead of her to help in the house she's keeping her money in cooperative. Now the wife have left for her stall in the market with shattered lips and swollen face. Her loads are outside. The children have gone to school, but the husband is at home cleaning out the room. The wife will return certainly in the evening. When they are likely to continue from where they stop. I'm afraid the worst might happen. The husband was about to hit the first born with a wood for screaming a while ago

Why are you blaming the woman for this? You said she has always been a housewife but started selling just last year due to the recession. An entitled and lazy woman won't even bother doing anything to help out in the family. You don't live with them,so you don't know if the husband strikes back at her verbally cuz of frustration. I know that broke and frustrated men lash out at their wives and children unfairly. Again, do you expect her to work all day and come back home to start all the chores? Please be realistic. Enough with all the macho. There is nothing wrong with the man helping in the chores since he has nothing doing at the moment.

Lastly,which responsible husband and father will attempt to use a heavy object on his kid? He even threatened to use them for rituals. Smh.. That man is the one with the issues and you as a fellow man,have no other option than to support him with rose coloured glasses.

PrincessKab:
Updates are different from opinions. People give their opinions here, whether wrong or right, they can't be tagged as biased updates, but cos I update, whenever I give my opinion, you come saying I'm biased and dislike so..so..and so HM.
You have no right to tell me not to update at all; if my updates are partial or not factual, give yours or skip my posts and read others'.

Mehn! I give up.

jakandeola:
ur gragra too much

Oya come and beat me. Nonsense.

Vanessa88:
And are you a member of APC?

Go figure.

You are too emotional. Calm down. It is comments like yours that make people interested in this thread to avoid posting in it. I get it that you are trying to support your pal but you can and should be civil about it.

Vanessa88:
Ms calling out
Why not give your own update and ignore hers if hers is partial... The last I checked it's a free world and it's her prerogative to update the way she likes or deem fit!

To paraphrase it, if you don't like her kind of updating then do yours and stop complaining.. Simple logic!

APC has nothing on you.

PrincessKab:
You're entitled to your opinion. However, I did say and admit sometime ago that humans are generally bias towards whoever they love, and i did say if i am, they can update theirs so we can complement one another. Also, I don't go after people saying they should leave Efe alone, and except you aren't being sincere here, you'll agree people only emphasise Efe's flaws, we don't do up to half of what they do. People make their sole business here to emphasise on his' without updaying what happened. We can all play that game too, but we won't go down that path. However, my point is, every housemate is everyone's business, no one is superior or mustn't be talked about...

You still don't get the point. Nobody is dragging updates with anyone. I agree, we are all entitled to our opinions but there is a limit even at that. If your opinion will make me dislike or hate someone,then it shouldn't be aired at all. Why else is hate speech banned worldwide? Aren't they someone's personal opinions?

As I said earlier, we appreciate you taking out precious time to give updates but if you have an iota of doubt that you can't be fully factual and impartial,then don't update at all. Instead,join the gang and support your housemate as freely as you want.

jakandeola:
diadem10 fluxbush dangotesmummy ayamconfidence myfantasies lovelygurl jenny21 samadict bobbydean gboyegaD joy1706
danty37wat will u say about dis?

Of all the threads to be tagged in... Oga ,I take God beg you, no try this kind nonsense again.

PrincessKab:
They are worried if anything mentioned or done by their favorite negatively is updated(without mincing words), he/she may lose fans, but they are ready to exaggerate or twist what Efe does/say so he can lose fans. I have no problem about updating what exactly he says or does, and I don't even go attacking them when they exaggerate or twist, but I don't see any reason why someone will tell me to leave a certain housemate alone or say you're picking on her cos I'm updating what he said/did. The last time I checked, all the HMs made their lives our business by coming on an international program for the world to see and I don't tell anyone to leave Efe alone. We can play that game too, even though not dirty, but with every detail of fact...
It's just too much with them these days...and these are sensitive days as they're close to the finals.

Ugh! Enough already. We all agree you give detailed updates and we thank you for it but you are biased and it shows when you emphasize on the flaws, imagined and actual, of the other housemates especially Tboss and Debbie. If truth is to be said here without being partial,your Efe has issues but you don't focus on those and even when you do,you make it seem like it is funny. Enough with the sanctimonious attitude abeg. Everyone can't be telling you one thing repeatedly and yet you refuse to see an atom of truth in it.

I vowed not to post on this thread cuz of its toxicity but I just had to call you out. No offence intended.

jakandeola:
God bless u dear a gud woman appreciate correction am greatful tnx for ur nice word

You don't even know when you are being ridiculed. Says a lot about your IQ.

JusticeSeeker:
I don't know what happens in other departments at Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Awka but the department of computer science of that school is supposed to be number one on that list. 24 of us were given admission in 2009 and right now as I'm writing only four have graduated and it's by God's special grace.

And the painful part of the whole drama is that we keep paying school fees every nine months for nothing. You think your department is bad? Try chemistry department, home of sadists and incompetent psychopaths. Nobody has graduated in that department since 2012. Most of the older sets are still waiting for final defence. For years now...

Did I just read 'season meat with curry etc'? Hian! O di egwu. Curry? In soup? Chi m oo

Mtchewwww... .

*in Sergeant Afonja's voice*, Nonsense..

Pcli:
She quickly progressed to actually beating me up and seating on me thereafter; which occurred shortly after the third month in our marriage when we had our first major argument. I tell myself that I have been raised not to beat a woman and as a Christian now, more so a Pastor; it’s not something that I want to do but even if I wanted to, the truth is my wife is too powerful ooh. I don’t think I can beat her even if I fight back!

Now this is just hilarious