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King4Roller:
Which one be American born, Nigerian Based Kenyan singer again abeg. How her mama prayer go take locate am?

Suprenoh:
Most Nigerian men will like to marry a woman that earns more than them, so that they can shift their responsibilities to the woman.

mhizsuzzy:
I may not be able to respect him the way he need...

He will keep collecting money from me which at a point will piss me off, I am human and I will get fed off at times......

He may not meet up with his husband roles which may be frustrating

If I try to correct him or talk to him about some issues he may feel that I am downgrading him because I take care of some bills.......

Women are to support and not to lead......

Have u seen marriage where the women earn more?

Forget all these if there is mutual understanding, women will always be women.....

My thoughts though....

pocohantas:
Hardly will you ever see a happily married woman claiming feminist? you don't mean it!
Hardly will you ever see a happy man, who has a good dose of self esteem...looking for a woman to lord over in the name of submission.

Only men who have never felt important in their lives, wait all their youth to get married to a woman who will submit to them. The definition of submission to a Nigerian man is very flawed, more reason they chose submission over mutual respect.

There is a difference between feminism and misandry.
The former is supported by me.
I love the genuine cause, not the flawed one.
I love how they make most Nigerian men uncomfortable. It shows something is indeed wrong somewhere...
Only the guilty are afraid...

NLevents:
thank you for your time.

Demmtek:
Its mandatory for you to kneel it is once in a lifetime after that she returns the kneeling in an uncountable ways. Abi you no propose before you marry ni, though there are some marraige / which is automatically ignites by early pregnancy or the arrainged one

Demmtek:
Its mandatory for you to kneel it is once in a lifetime after that she returns the kneeling in an uncountable ways. Abi you no propose before you marry ni, though there are some marraige / which is automatically ignites by early pregnancy or the arrainged one

mhizsuzzy:
For me I can't marry a man I earn more than.......

mhizsuzzy:
For me I can't marry a man I earn more than.......

Actuarydeji:
It's not a big deal.

NLevents:
noted. Thanks for passing by

NLevents:
Your opinion has been noted. Thanks for passing by

NLevents:
This is a simple party to get together with friends. Please be kind enough not to involve your gender opinion

trustyshoess:
I know you're here for my head but hear me out first. So in the space on an hour, I have come across two threads relating to feminism. This is not a counter or anything as everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However I can't help but put my 2 cents in.
I seriously believe that feminism is highly misunderstood

First things first, let's define feminism; it is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. Notice it doesn't say feminism is a drive towards matriarchy? Well that's simple, it's not.

There are many different types of feminism but I won't be discussing all of them as that will take too much time so I urge you to use good old Google!
So I think that the kind of feminism that people think of when they hear Feminism is Radical Feminism-: Radical feminism is a movement that believes sexism is so deeply rooted in society that the only cure is to eliminate the concept of gender completely or for females to dominate.

Now that's not the kind of feminism I'm talking about. Another type of Feminism is Liberal Feminism. Liberal feminists strive towards gender equality in all areas of life. Gender equality includes men too!

So why am I a feminist? Or why do I believe in gender equality? No, it's not because I believe that men and women are equal or because I'm against submissiveness or because I want female world domination (although that would be pretty cool)
I believe in gender equality for the same reason I believe in racial equality, tribal equality and anything that has to do with fairness in general.

Of course men and women are not equal, physicality being the main difference but they're both humans and both deserve to be treated equally as a result.

Believe me there's soo much more to say, but I don't want to make this too long. Feel free to ask questions, let's see if I can get you to see why feminism isn't all that bad

Give Femism a chance, it's not as bad as people make it out to be. We all should be feminists, we all should be striving towards equality

MarieSucre:
Ordinary why shouldn't she have babies, you threw out "man hater", now ask me what is the correlation between what I said and what you said and ask yourself who is the real ewu?

Ejomax77:
You stil get mouth dey talk? you should cover ur face in shame if you're a madrid fan.

jomoh:
Why because they won 2 CL in a row without playing a single English team?


Madrid is overrated they were only lucky cos their success came at a time English football and other European powerhouses were suffering.

HERSLEY:
I love man utd pass my bf