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And some people will now carry this list it on their head like firewood. Meanwhile the original source is unknown, that it worked for some couples does not mean it will work for everybody, some partners tell their spouse completely everything about them and build a life long trust with one another. Some couples will not and when the other partner finds out on there own it causes irreparable damage. Others disclose everything and things start falling apart. It depends on couples. What nairaland prioritises above every other thing is traffic so whatever thing that will generate clicks will come up here.

Oma307:
How can God heal this nation which the level of atrocities committed in every minute

We publicise atrocities here a lot. There is no where in the world atrocities are not committed.

iLegendd:
No, make I reply you with some motivation and advertisement. While you were busy cracking your brain to reply me, yet couldn't come up with anything, I was busy using that small time to write a full book. When I was done, I went to Pixabay.com, grabbed a free picture, switched on Photoshop and designed a book cover for it. It took me less than 20 minutes. See images below. "What am I trying to say?" you asked. What I'm trying to say is: use your time wisely and stop arguing online if you can't convert your argument to money. Anyway, the short book is free. I'll post the download link later.

What have I just done? I have used you to advertise and at the same time motivate my readers. People are using people to get what they want. It's sad most of you kids don't know how the brain works. Oya, rant your own make I see. Mr. Smart Boy.

Now you are just down right embarrassing yourself for someone that claims to be whatever expert you made yourself. Just look at what I am making you do. Anyway I have made my point. You can continue yapping offpoint and writing close to moronic epistles here(I hardly even read them) in a bid to prove your self confidence but truth be told it's really pathetic.

[quote author=iLegendd post=70123318][/quote]Full of Crap as usual.

Nice one you predict better when you give out free games. Well done

iLegendd:
Sir, you won. Have a nice day and remain blessed.

It's not a fight for me, I am just stopping you from misleading gullible people. May be it is for you.

Don't worry Churchill. Last last na you go laugh. Let Toto continue with the brainwashing of your kid and other public bulshit she does to get accolades we all know she's a bitch

iLegendd:
Some of you have a problem blah blah blah......

What a load of crap. I just hope whatever service you are into here does not have to do with the psyche because it will be disastrous. I know there is frustration in the land so clearly you are just tryna survive, you may not know it but that was why you brought buhari in this that has absolutely nothing to do with him. I never knew until now how obsessed you were with your James(nwamaikpe). And clearly you dont have the mental prowess to have a healthy convo. Stop trying too hard bro, just be yourself.

Ps: this is the first time I have quoted you ever.

sunshineyellow:
I don't like commenting o. I got angry when I saw the after one comment. But your comment calmed me down.
Chai. Africans o, you marry you no quick get belle, they call u barren and names, you carry belle born out of wedluck b4 marriage even born for your husband, they still call you after one.
Useless mentality aswear.
99.9% of ladies av gotten preg in one or two occasion but na who born her own we know.
How can a person hate a woman cox she has a child outside b4 marriage.? Honestly it baffles me.
And Op is falling for such shit.
Chai.

Oga did you say 99.9% please where did you get that data from. So because some women give birth before marriage does that make it right? Or the fact that all the women you know have bastards therefore you generalise. Please stop encouraging moral decadence with this type of stupid comment. You are better off not commenting.

IamEmem:
With all his act of Impunity, his sack is long overdue...good move by the presidency.

FTC...Good morning nairaland.

Frankly I don't understand how some of you people reason ooo. Did you say acts of impunity? Is it not the same presidency that gives him orders?

If this is what you call pressing of mumu button then you might as well be a troll you can look it up because that is exactly the definition and what they do. As i said above leaving the subject to start pressing mugu button that has nothing to do with the subject is a subconscious way to avoid confrontation because you lack self confidence.

iLegendd:
I just pressed your emotional mumu button and now you're acting the way I want. Your type can be easily brainwashed by anyone — including illiterates like Buhari. You lack composure. Hey, I love you. Don't react again. Have a nice day.

Lolz, Na aaa what you did is get worked up because someone else countered you with a superior argument. So you felt embarrassed after appointing yourself a nairaland certified physychologist. With your so called "caged" theory(whatever the heck that means). You couldn't counter anything you rather became offensive to take attention away from the subject. the fact you try covering it up with your pressing button is just laughable. This is a faceless public forum so definitely whatever anyone put out there must get accepted and approved by some people so Don't be deceived, your thinking is wrong and harmful. Besides Let's even assume I lack composure and all that you said what has that got to do with the subject or what I said.

iLegendd:
You don't understand what you read and you're thinking from one angle. You act too emotional. You'll fail woefully in business — trust me.

In business, you must put your analytical brain to use. In dealing with humans, you must also put your analytical brain to use even if you want to exhibit an "I_Don't_Care" attitude.

Just with your comment, I can tell you so many revealing things about you, but let's not go there.

Now who is being too emotional
You will fail in life - trust me.
Your reasoning is fallacious and illogical. Your approach to life is too rigid, you fail to understand people's view point and you lack self confidence. You have completely choosen to ignore the issue.

Tyche:
How do you sleep at night my sister

Honestly the people that recruit these media
Crew people are supposed to be looking for people that have some sense.

Chrome or facebook

iLegendd:
It's good to accept compliments with humor, but not all. If you accept all, you'll be caged soon. You'll lose freedom of speech.

That thinking is wrong and harmful. The point is being yourself and not trying to impress anyone. Compliments is a positive thing and should be taken for what they are which is "compliment" it is left for you to decide if the complement is with good or bad intentions after all your enemies can give you compliments as well. The fact the thought of your "caging" and all that you said even occurred to you means you are wanting in self confidence. If you are self confident you don't bother about what people say because you believe in yourself and say what you wanna say without even thinking about the compliments or insults but when you are not confident you hesitate and ponder what you are about to say putting in the compliments in consideration and thats when your issue of caging or no caging comes in. You start deciding if it's caging or not caging so you know how to reply. It is all about self confidence please an innocent compliment is exactly what it is "a compliment" when you keep on being yourself it's either the compliments keep coming in or the insults keep coming in while you keep on doing what comes natural to you. An example is nwamaikpe.

highqueen:
wife beater he is.
this is how they will be misbehaving.
unguided dogs.

Oh just shut it!! you damaged goods.

nairavsdollars:
Only a slowpoke will say this. A sophisticated one for that matter (apology to Ochereome Nnanna)

You underestimate these politicians. This move will definitely garner votes, she does not have anything to loose

victorian:
He's cute, his truck is neat. And it shows hes hardworking . Driving such truck no be beans.

I will definitely go on date with him. And if his character is good? Wow! I will be very happy!

Am I dating the truck? Abi the man behind the wheels.

Some girls sha.

Na true

Babyforever:
Stop hating on your fellow lady

She can brainwash the boy all she can but Last last na Churchill go laugh it's just a matter of time.

maddock:
Criminals!!! When they loot, steal and kill they don't remember the international committee its only when Karma start catching up they would remember the existence of the International committee.

Channel your anger to the stupid Nigerians currently deciding whether to vote for pdp or apc as if they are the only choice they've got

Ilegendd are you saying we should not appreciate compliments? Compliments has nothing to do with what you are saying it is rather about being yourself and not trying to please anyone

Elder001:
[s]Sexism:Women Should Boycott Maggi Until Cover Is Changed
With Maggi - every woman is a star. (THIS IS MAGGI'S COVER TEXT /ADVERT)

Despite all attempts to erase sexism from every part of the world, some people are still bent on clinging to or promoting their archaic & sexist ideologies.
Maggi's cover text is absolutely a sexist one and I believe the producers of Maggi seasoning know so.
WHAT DO THEY MEAN BY WITH MAGGI EVERY WOMAN IS A STAR?
they're simply reemphasing the belief that only women should cook, cooking is meant for women only if not the cover advert should've been WITH MAGGI EVERYBODY IS A STAR.
it should be gender neutral. If you must tag WOMEN then tag men also, or else they're simply a sexist and useless brand.
Maggi cannot try this nonsense in civilized countries like the US else they get their sexist ass sued for a couple of $$$.


I'm calling on women to boycott Maggi until they change /remove that sexist advert-cover.


LETS SAY NO TO SEXISM, PATRIARCHY AND MISOGYNISM[/s]!

Oh just shut it!!

jeffkennedy:
it is deliberate, I usually place lost game at the bottom after the game has been played. its just how I want to arrange the games after it has been played.

It's really confusing, can you please just leave them as they are it's so much better that way. You are doing a good job.

LaudableXX:
What she said, was not trash. A decent woman would not abandon her child....

Lolz, a child that has been abandoned for 7 years.

baby124:
The father has taken care of that child for 7years! Do you think a time will come when the mother will not also have to take care of the child? That child is a girl child and getting closer to puberty. Who should teach her to become a woman? Her step mum?? ? While her own mother is alive? Even if the father gave her up because of his wife, her mother is long overdue to also take care of her child!

So in other words if it is a boy then he should continue staying with the dad but since it is a girl the father is right to suddenly disrupt her life and ship her to the mum without giving a damn what happens to her so he can start a new life with another woman whom I am sure wants the girl out and brainwashed the mofo. See reasoning Who told you the woman was not part of the girl's life before or you think the girl does not know her mum? So irrespective of how the OP feels he should accept another man's child being forced down his throat. What makes you think if the girls stays with him she will have a good normal life my dear marriage is a partnership stop being selfish, I don't know if you will accept another man's son midway into your marriage with your husband and children but not everyone can.

Jethrolite:
Shut up your mouth there. Nonsense!

Lolz, another mo-ron with access to data. I wonder how you are gonna make it with this your level of intelligence. Anyway crime dey sha aaa.

Jethrolite:
We know they prostitute at one level or the other but stop wishing for the downfall of successful people. Na your kind wizard dey put full family for poverty.

Who said she was prostituting? And even if she Is, is it paining you she is making money prostituting? I simply said one day we will know what they do to make that kind of money, you with your evil and foul mind just started vomiting all the bile you have been harbouring. Poverty dey deal with your type well well.

babyfaceafrica:
hypocrites full NL.......no one blames the father who dumped her daughter..no one blames the father's new wife who will not allow her husband's daughter live with them..no one blames the wife mother who will not allow her grandchild to stay with her for more than three days...only the step father is blamed..una well done

My dear Data is cheap na aaa. Any slowpoke, idiot, half-wit and kids can afford it and then sit back with there chinko phone and type rubbish. Can you imagine people insulting and blaming the man for not wanting to raise another man's kid. Comments like that made me limit visiting this forum and even when I do I don't bother reading comments anymore because stupidity is a communicable disease.

janellemonae:
This post is a lesson. All women should strive to be financially independent. If this woman was making good money she won't be at the mercy of these miserable men in her life.
She would be able to stand strong for her child.

Ode!! A serious issue is being discussed here you are talking another trash. What has been financially independent got to do with a woman asking her husband to bring in another man's child to live with them. If you are frustrated by men because of your nonsense character just know there are still decent women out there.

mimicue:
All this actress are just living the life na wa o

One day breeze go blow fowl nyash go open

NairalandFAYOSE:
pardon my blunders.
I was aware she has a baby before we met but still continued the relationship because the baby is with the father. she told me it was a mistake and the guy's family doesn't support their relationship. so they went their different ways while the guy kept the baby.

when we started, I found out she's humble, hardworking and she's everything I ever wanted in a woman. so we got married 4 years ago and have a 3 year old son and 2 beautiful twins (just 3 months old).

now the problem started when she went to church and her ex brought her 7 years old daughter unannounced. that he's married now and can't continue taking Care of the girl.
she called me from church and told me. immediately I told her not to bring a child thats not mine to me. she now took the baby to her mom and came home to meet me with my kids.
she has been begging me since to allow the baby in our home because the mother gave her 3 days to come and take her baby from her.

nairalanders pls I need your advice on this. those it make sense that I take the baby while the father is out there enjoying his life.

Nairaland is not the best place to bring this kind of issue unless you are of a very mature and sound mind because people tend to tow the line of what most of the early commenters say moreover immature people just sit back and type sh-it.
To answer you. Since you knew she had a kid before you married her it would be shallow of you not to think that issues like this might come up. If you don't want that kind of family then tell your wife plain and strictly that you will not accept to father another man's kid. I mean how can you when her own father is still alive and has gotten fed up and rejected her. Tell her that was not the plan and definitely not the kind of family you wanna raise because trust me if you accept that girl with anything short of whole heartedly it will end up causing problems between you and your wife and might damage your marriage. I am sure the fathers new wife did not accept the girl so he immediately shipped her off to the mum. Your wife should not be selfish and also think about what you want. tell her to convince the father to take her back and continue with his responsibility as he just wants to cause hardship on his daughter. Or you can just accept her as nothing short of your own and treat her like you fathered her.