O boy!!!

You can build catsles in the air OOooo

Na so you mugu reach?

Hmmm A beg where do you work? please send me MTN re charge card for N1500. My number is

How can a girl remote you from a location and you will just send money to a ghost? Please my guy, it is not like that ok? Never ever chase a girl with your heart at first. If you had means, then you will know what all these girls are made of.

Please wake up!!!!!!!!!! Never ask to marry a ghost again. When you meet a girl, assume she is for a fling, if she is good then you start thinking to marry.

Osisi,

How do you measure completeness? Is it an arbitrary phenomenon? If one is complete how do you know?

Answer these questions then you will know whether what I wrote initially is seperate from the topic in question?

What makes you a human?

Please note that Paul was not complete in a sense. He was more into a lot of Philosophy. Look at christ and his stand for marriage and then you will tell how true the statement is.

Jesus would have been married if he were born of flesh or a natural course.

Kemisuga,

I am trying to remember your last posts, - think you had wanted a guy, Cant remember.

Hmmmm great cover up. When women cant get a man to marry them and they cant make up a reason then they say it is a choice.

When did you make that choice? Was it in the university? Did you not at any time get involved in a relationship? How come is it now a choice after a failed trial?

Osisi,

Your reference to a problem home is just one of the examples of human distortion to Gods plan. We make mistakes and so did Adam and Eve in Eden.

Your question would have been "Why did Adam and Eve eat the fruit they should not have eaten"?

Embattled homes are more compete than a quiet single life. The beauty is that the children never let them seperate eternally. The issue is always there.

Dvampire,

God bless you for your observation that most female contributions argue that women are complete without a man.

That is why America has problem today- if it feels good then go ahead and do it. That is why a nation like UK will come on air and start investigating a family of a boy of 13.

Women, dont  lie to yourselves, please tell the truth to set you free. Please ask Winfrey Oprah what she feels about her single life. All that money will waste when she is gone and I bet you some of it will come to me.

On a TV show, Oprah unknowingly showed in expression (facial) an incompleteness in her partially fulfilled life.

If you no wan marry, we no dey beg you. Dey your papa house old as your papa dey old. I go follow get rivet take rivet you 4 your papa house until u waste away.

If you wan marry, God will answer your prayers.

What is our problem in this country?

When can we have a stand of our own? Cant we for once look towards our brothers in Asia? Why would we always want to be westernized?

Please look again at our asian cultures and see whether people are getting as mad as we are here.

Please permit me to ask a question here. Guys, sincerely speaking, when you hear a woman is married, what perception do you have of her? What difference in level of respect do you give her?

The bible said in Gen 2:18-25 That it is not good for the man to be alone.

Women, from a practical point of view, general opinion, a single woman over due for marriage is in complete because she is seen as ill-mannered, un-marriageable, cursed by the gods, too proud to live with a man etc as some reasons she couldnt get married.

Bottom line is that they get little respect as compared to what the married once get.

The married one's have the protection of a man. I have caution in dealing with a married woman. Even a woman of 40, can be chiked by a boy of 16 as a sugar-mummy.

Poster, do you want to be a sugar mummy?

Oyb,

I like your contributions to this gist so far. Truly, these politicians are looking for a fail safe for themselves in the face of an economic crisis.

They are blind guides, dummy heads like robots. they never reason - not even for once.

Who did they give the contract to service the refineries? How many times were these contracts awarded? Why were the contracts not properly suppervised? What penalties faced a breach?

I cant imagine bringing a layman from the streets and charge him with the responsibility of monitoring change that he wouldnt want to make a good impression.

My guys, there is almost nothing we can do cos all of these are imposed on us.

St Fumni,
You are a big cancer worm in this thing. I must think that you are eagerly waiting to make profit from this deregulation.

Your reasons are not coherent, they are rather sounding like a tax colector that has not made returns yet.

Are you a civil servant? working to collect taxes? People are looking at this from a bigger point of view and all u consistently saying is bring money.

Deregulation was Obasanjo's baby for the better half of his second tenure, what petroleum product can you truly say was determined by market forces? Where the prices of products were cheaper, you will almost not get it and you will be forced to revert to the more expensive one.

Deregulation all the time and pump price were going higher, is that the meaning of market forces?

Please let us not see these things from where it will benefit us.

Why wont it be immature in your understanding if u dont know what and how to contribute?

what is maturity? What is its use/ meaning in this context?

It is not compulsory to make contributions if you are blank

Love at first sight does exist and I believe in it from a practical point of view.

Besides, love at first sight is only an attraction not a knowlegde. Must you know someone before you love?

I mean it is the first formalities to be willing to get to gether or at least to commit.

People have seen for the first time and loved and got married and stay loved ever since.

I beleive in love at first sight

topen2000 and sissy,

I think you girls are big time poor girls from the way you sharply disagree with this topic. Coincidentally, that was one of my new year resolutions - to stop dating hungry girls.

You must also have made efforts to raid rich guys.

Please lets leave poor girls to the brothels and let the rich sensible ones mingle.

Please, anyone with an ID of an interested rich one please take a lead.

Gabrwyl,

Your point makes sense if women think the way you have said it and know that at any time T, they can never be men and hence submit to their men.

A woman told me yesterday that she srewd another man cos her husband called her a bad name. - Women how do you think?

Where are all the heady women??

Women often think that they are measurably equal to men. They say "what a man can do, a woman can do even better".

Women, if you think you are equal to men, if you see a man that you like then walk up to him and spin him. When you spin him, then tell us his response and his expression.

If women are equal to men then they can see a man on the street and ask him out.

Women dont ever love. This is typical of a Nigerian woman. Very few woman in Nigeria ever and truly love.

You on the other hand, you are on a very wonderful quality of crack.
1. If women make the world a bad place to live, how did you come into the earth? Or were you born of a man? I guess armed robbers (mostly men) do not make the world a bad place to live.
2. If women don't love, what do you call the things mothers have for their children? hate?
3. Take my advice, grow up! Life is not that hard.

Crack you called it J-girl? You see, what baffles me most is why women will never accept the truth. You J-girl must have dumped a guy at least once. Yes, that they give birth is only one of their functions just like a mad woman would. Yet they create hatred and dissension. That a woman is mad would not stop her from giving birth, is madness anything in place? may be to J-girl.

To every armed robber there is a woman, an accomplice. Women also failed in their duties in Child training and trained armed robbers, still women. Every armed robber has a mother.

Again, that a mother gives birth to a child and rear her doesnt translate to love. It is her natural obligation just like the monkeys, cats, dogs, rabbits etc. Besides, there are various kinds of love and the one you mentioned is mother-child. Is that all about love?

It is because I have grown up I am able to spot these differences and imbalance in women. When I was a child, I used to think good about women.

Now I am grown I have seen that women are a neccessary evil we must live with. Please try to change women from always looking for what to get and not what to give.

Tell them not to make money as the only thing they live for. I mean even the ones that stand on the streets for the next available guy. It is all about them.

Forbidden, how old are u like really 5, 6 years old

its never okay to 'play' anyone, to make a concerted effort to deceive and take advantage of people in any situation, be it romantic, business, academia etc,
how u can encourage one to do so and in the same breath urge them to draw nearer God, beats me, did u just finish smoking some weed or what?

if u are a believer in the mythical creation story then u will know that God made man and then thought of something better - WOMAN! silly Arrow!

Aunty Mary,

Would a child of 5 or 6 years come to nairaland to make a contribution? If you are grown the way you say to yourself, why dont you understand the irony of life? If I am not mistaken, you could be guilty of hurting or better put, jilting a guy. If I met you in the street and asked you out would you not look for some spending? - that is taking advantage of me. You are not free from taking advantage of someone for it is an indisputable fact of life that the strong would always feast on the weak.

Yes, heads up and hold on to God. God would help him change from a player to a saint but before the change comes he would have conqured.

You dont know the philosophies of life. You only speak of the childs view of life. I dont smoke if you care to know let alone weed.

Why were you using an abusive word if you want to make something wrong right? why call a Arrow?

Women were an after thought, read Genesis chapter 2:18-24. If you understand English then you would know they were not there at the beginning and right from the moment they came in, the World change for worse-the forbidden fruit.

Hello everyone,

I am a bit uncomfortable with  how everyone is lashing this guy? We quarrel with the Pharisees that wanted to stone a woman caught in adultery. People asked the question, where was the guy?

Here a girl+more have dealt with a guy and we blame him. Women make the world a bad place to live. If anyone of you blaming this guy truly loved and was dished, then you can contribute to this topic.

I truly agree that when a man meets a woman, approach her as a player until you se she is good.

I am a victim of a bad woman and truly at edge with women. I dont believe that women love.

My guy, hit as many as you meet especially the bad ones. Play them to their game and dont forget to aim at sleeping with them in the shortest possible time because that is all in this world they have. Women dont love until slept with.

Remain in the game but dont throw away your God. I advise you to go back to God.

Women are an after thought of creation- they came after God saw something was omitted. Please let us remember they will always act as they did in Eden-eating with the devil.

This is all crap here. Why is there such thing as commitment in a relationship?

Why do we deceive ourselves with a non-existent theory as freedom? There is no perfect freedom anywhere in the world, there is no place people are free just to do whatsoever they like.

We would always have a confinement, even nature teaches us that. Why dont we leave in the Ocean if we are not confined to land?

When a woman has accepted to belong to a guy(vice versa), she should know that she has accepted boundaries between her and guys. This is not to say that she is not free to talk to other guys. However, late into the night and for a stretch is an issue?

O boy, they charm u? dont you ask her what issues they discuss and whom these guys are? Please love is not blind and if a woman would not tell you everything she is up with, Then it is a game.

Play with your head and not your heart.

All,

Why would not the general public move to the House of assembly to enact a law tha would illegalize the torture of a civilian. In America, people have made the house of assembly sign into law things that affected the civilains.

Women rights were signed into law as well and protected women. We are all cowards in this country. If the whole of Lagos make it a point of duty to outlaw torture of civilians and make the penalty a death sentence, then we would not witness this again.

This is why we all should stand up against the evils of the Government.

Please can you help me check the VIN here and see whether the car status. The VIN is 5N1AR18W55C704267.

Thanks

Jenni81,

What kind of hook up do you mean when your ID is hidden? Dont you think that somethings are better offline?

Why come to bla -bla here when it is possible to use a less vulnerable means?

If you are serious then let people contact you privately if that is your intention oo!!11

Just Good,

God bless you. You are one of the few people that tell the truth.

Women are full of cover ups and fronting

Morenike!!!!!

[b]

Choose me o, but it's my choice to accept or deny "your advance" is it not.
Well, since you seems to think I live on a man's money, then I'll kindly deny your money because you do not have enough to make me awe![/b]

My advance? why do you think I am advancing? WHy judge me from afar? Do you know what I look like? Who told you that I cant take care of you? That I live in Port should give you a little guess to the fact that I am not a government worker.

Ok, even if I make advances, why would you deny me because of money?-Morenike,
I did not conclude absolutely that you live on a mans money. However, I sincerely encourage your hard work and would rather encourage you to keep it up.

You are youruba and my first girl friend was your tribe. I know well that yoruba girls have lower propensity to indulge in usury.

I don't live on my father's money, so don't use him as an example, thanks[/color]

You see, you are making me true, why do you get the money you use?

[[color=#006600]b]Of course no one has money infinity, no condition is permanent.
But a person who is smart enough, knows not to keep all his money in his pocket or the bank.
It's called investment. That's how rich get richer, poor gets rich, rich gets poorer and poor get poorer.
If you know how to invest your money on stocks, your wealth should be able to expand and last longer, than if you don't. [/b] [/i]

You seem not to be foolowing the stock update recently

[i]Shh, that is not of necessity.
It'll only make things worst b/w you and moi.
FYI, my answer was summarized. Is it not true that only poor men are the most likely to worry about their money? If you're poor and you know you can't afford to spend money like you don't care, then I suggest you should stick yo women that are less likely to shop
every other day or goes on a spend drift.

Worse between you and me? You speak like you would ever get to meet me? The internet is a freel lance. I will still hold my peace. Are you saying I would use cash guzzling as a criteria to choose a wife? If you say that then I will chooose you. You have said you did not need dads money to school.


[i]You absolutely cannot use that as example here. we're in the 21St century. women work or finds a way to trade her resources for her needs. If you find a woman that does not work and you expect her not to ask for money, na your own headache.
Once again, don't go looking for women not of your class. If you're poor, don't go carrying wealthy women about. If you're wealthy and she also brings money to the table, no reason for you to complain about her being a gold digga.[/i]

I wonder where you people get this your y2k mindset from? You speak like you lived in a different world from that guy. It still applies because we have prodigal sons.

Have you not seen sons that exaggerate school fees and still never get to pay them? what did they do with that money? You seem to promote prostitution here, how come? Would you use your resources to get money? well, I can afford to take care of a complete house wife, however, i dont like women that have no ambition. Someone has got to desire to be something.

I still choose you. lol Your no would only scratch a wall you dont see.

Console myself?

Na me get the thing when dey make you scream when them dey drill am? if you like go give mad man sef, na your problem. However, I will not be happy to throw sand on your grave when HIV takes its turn on how.

Finally my sister, if I could i would take care of people even without any attachments.

The world is void of love and it is our duty to get it back.

Please look for someone to show some kindess.

Morenike,

I wonder what level of education you would have had if your dad was busy giving all his money to women. You people reply only by reflex.

Do you know that no one has money infinitely? do you know the kind of car warren buffet uses? I am holding myself from using abusive words for your naivety.

Have you seen any one who worked hard for their money wasting it? Please look again and tell me if your parents would be living together if your dad thought like you.

Let me school you a bit. Ever heard of the prodigal son? Why was he called prodigal? He had a huge sum, went away from home and from wisdom and went spending on women without checking it.

What happened? the money flew away and he started craving for the food of pigs.

Do you think that Jim Ovia would keep giving women his money without caring?

You obviously must be a gold digger.

Trastar,

You must be a gold digger.

See your greedy eyes looking at what you did not sow. Better work hard to be an Okonjo Iweala.

The poster is very corret cos when you meet a lady at the supermarket and try talking to her. Right there and right then she wants you to pay for all she ordered for and even more.

Why are women like that = always looking for an opportunity to exploit. Would thet never say a no to ripping men?

who the hell is this mojojojo26?

I have never seen a small kid this crazy. Do you not know your left from your right? Dont you know when something is wrong? Are you so blind that all you see is yourself?

If I knew you in person I would have used this thread to start compiling evidence against you should anything happen to that girl.

Who are you to think you will not let someones daughter be? were you there when her parents gave birth to her? Did you pay part of her fees? Where you the one that gave her breast milk before she could develope that V-groove you claim to satisfy?

You are just dump stupid and full of an evil heart. The devil has given you his heart and the girls dont see it. I bet you are a cultist and I hope you will be gone soon.

Please leave that girl alone. You are absolutely unworthy of her you brute.

@poster,

I never believe in gunshot, there are more stealth ways of dealing with people. If you kill him, you have blood on your hands and a new chain begins.

If he has a sister, give him the same bitter friut and then a 9mm no, a plastic explosive sealed in a biro would be for a defense.

They say, revenge is best when served cold. Please dont rush, look for the best of time to nail this guy.

May be I could still tell you a worse situation - go astral. Command him from the powers above life and make his life worthless. Summon him and place a seal of waste on him.

No,
I am not married.

Single and seriously searching. I learn a lot about live then I share what I think I have observed.

Ssheryl,

Have you not heard that birds of a feather flock together? Evil people attract evil people.

Only thieves mingle with thieves. If you are the kind of a woman every man would want to have, then you would have men stay.

From your post, i deduce that you are not so beautiful facially but may have good equipments. May be men are attracted to you only sexually and you dont have the personality to make them stay.

You may be the pretending type and when the guys find out you are not all that you say, they lose interest.

Work on yourself.

chikend

why do you want to know if i am married?

Onyinye,

You see, nairaland is not a forum for baby class where every kid makes their own rhythm.

Most times I discover you just reply off point to a topic. You absolutely have not had experiences in life and should really let people tell you.

Better still, stop winding aloof and come into the circle so you can see for yourself.

Learning and reasoning can never be subjective.

Some how we seem to have more prepared women than men. A woman is a cost centre and would on the average not worry about income.

A man without good income would not worry about marriage. Worse still is a situation where good pocket men are on the look out for gold diggers that disguise as good wives.

It is complique.

Tpoup,

From the first time i read your post, I had this inference that you must have problem with men, i.e. you will not easily get your self adjusted to a guy. I felt you have broken up well.

How many hands have you changed?

When women have this I dont care attitude, If he doesnt want, let him go to hell now.

That is an attitude of a divorcee wife.

Relationship is a task that takes the two involved taking responsibility to make sure it works.

When there is an issue work it out together.

Try a few of these and may you may be fixed up(assuming you are not exceeding the age limit)