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sholay2011:
Get closer to God. It may sound cliche but it's never out of fashion. It's only the work God does through you that will live forever. Just like you clocked 20 in what seems like a blink of an eye, 40 will soon come knocking, trust me.

Also, get the purpose of your life from God so you can kickstart things early when time is still on your side. When you know your purpose, you can then know what necessarily skills to learn.

And always remember, the greatest investments in life are people and time. Life is not all about money.

wunmi590:


I am not going to judge you, because at a point in time we all make mistake, and as human, mistake will always happen, but the measure in correcting the mistakes is what we need to learn.

1. No matter how bad a situation might when it comes to issues like this, never and never confide in a man for consolation

2. Most men are not what you think they are, they are only looking for an advantage to do what they want and clean their mouth. (I stand to be corrected tho).

3. In my own opinion, I need to be blunt with you, it was never a mistake form your pat to make him have your cooky, you deliberately gave it to him, for like 3-4 times. It show you know what you are doing.

4. You have soiled your image, we men we have that attitude and brag when we have gotten what we want, he had you in his car, when issues arises between both of you, he will always look down on you that, "shabi nah inside car I give am to you".

5. Forget about your fiance/husband completely, because he won't ever come back to you.

6. The reason for 5 is because, no matter how you package and try to make ammend with him, if he accept and you guys get married, you might not enjoy the marriage, because he will always use that eyes to look at you, most especially when you guys are on the bed to have se.x with each other.

7. You both won't be comfortable because he won't trust you again, even if you tell him you are on the bed, he will still doubt you.

Lastly, just pray for another man in your life, cut off every communication with your so called colleague because he doesn't have the fear of God, forget that you went to meet him, and things changed. A God fearing man cannot do such, and I believe he has been doing it to other ladies before you.

It is well with your soul

Adverts247:
Even as it is a federal road, the Niger State Government in the past few weeks has come under immense pressure on the issue of Minna-Suleja road.

Well aware that the Federal Government has made it clear that it will no longer payback any state government that fixes federal roads, still Governor Abubakar Sani Bello has gone ahead with the construction of the road.

Today the Lambata-Kwakuti section which before now takes well over an hour to travel, is now at the highest possible standard.

The Niger State Government has further awarded the same company the contract to continue work from Kwakuti to Chanchaga. Work has fully resumed and has currently reached Gangare village.

The Niger State Government is determined to complete the reconstruction of the over 80km of road so as to ease travel from Suleja to Minna.

#LoloIsWorking

pappy2000:
What am I supposed to do brother, the reason why she said she left her ex was because that one na boxer, but I have for once hit her even when provoked,I think I made the mistake of my life , my thinking is to finish the wedding in November give her one month to displayher madness and then file a divorce early January, that lady used to be so loving that I didn't even pray about it,

1000LIKES:
My Airtel sub burns even without turning my data ON

EMEKA1MILLION:
White man religion... Adopted by blackman. Now blackman threw away his tradition and labeled everything traditional as diabolic, black magic and not good enough to be practiced. ... The white man that brought the religion already moved on from it....

I believe there is a supreme being and he is not a Christian...

Religion is a weapon that was created to cause division...


We are all sha going to hell in the other person's Religion.


I recently stopped going to church nor following ur doctrines and I feel more alive than ever!


Non Christians are unbelievers

Non Muslims are infidels!

Africa with its wholesome religion practice is light years away in development compared to the less religious countries!

Who cursed the blackman?

Remember the gospel existed when the slave masters overrun West Africa! Ur missionaries came in when they where done exploiting our lands!

What was the disposition of the Vatican? The pope when we where under slave bondage?

Well it'll be good for u to know that slaves also served in the Vatican and ur popes had slaves...

Now they brought this religion to keep y'all under slavery forever!

Why did they not consult the bible and call the tyrants to order?

Now we can't even speak our own language in public cos it's vanacular.. We adopt English and curse anyone that don't speak it... Sell ur identity for what?

Fu*K y'all hypocrites..

Humanity is love
The supreme being is love.

Not ur religion

youngcity:
08084692216
you should consider dropping the WhatsApp group link instead

TrollKiller:
all these relationship way no day last pass my blackberry battery

spits

obembet:
I was privilege to chat with a female bank manager, she made a scary revelation to me. She told me how Nigerian bank vaults are filled with monies of dead men who kept their bank accounts secret from their wives.

She explained it was against bank ethics or policies for an account officer to inform the relatives of a deceased customer of his account (without his permission). And since the man is dead, without giving his permission, the bank dubiously keeps silent about the money. She told me it is rampant among many businessmen.

She revealed many instances of dead men whose families are still suffering, while they have millions stashed in their secret accounts.

She mentioned one that happened few months back. The man died and the wife was crying all over the place, looking for money to bury him. Whereas the man had nothing less than 60 million naira in his accounts. The banker said it got to a stage that she could no longer bear it, her conscience was pummelling her. She had to go against her bank rules, and got in contact with the widow and revealed to the woman how much her husband had in his accounts and how to claim them.

She also told of another story of one man who escaped death, but his right hand got paralysed. He couldn't sign his chequebook with his left hand and he was in a desperate situation that needed him to sign papers and cheques. That was how he learnt his lesson the hard way. As soon as he got better, he immediately made his wife co-signatory to all his accounts and involved her in all his businesses. What if he had died? That was how his family would have suffered in the midst of plenty.

This stupid behaviour is not reserved for wealthy men alone, even paupers who earn little have their own complex issues.

I just read on the wall of one of our groups where a man complained of how his friend refused to release his ATM pin number to his wife even though there was an emergency at home, and his ATM was at home.

Many orphans and widows suffering today are put in that condition by their stupid dead father.

Women and Retirees are not left out. Someone told me how a relative of hers died and none of her relatives knew that her properties were scattered all over the world. Not even one house. Not even a dime in any of her accounts... If you knew billions unclaimed in banks belong to selfish dead people, you would weep.

Banks and Bankers grow fat on these oafs.

Please do the needful now that you still have the breath to do so. Of course tomorrow is pregnant and only God knows what it will deliver.

A word is enough for the wise

Source: obembet

KubwaBoy:
Time to start looking for Visa. Even Kenya, I no mind.

nonye6194:
I'd like to know what y'all think about the job and the decision I took.


what would you have done and why

fotadmowmend:
Why not find a gee guy dat will use you for ritual instead

BoboKush:
And ma mumu sch refuse to approve result...... Can't go with this batch

djpriopry:
Bro that's the way oh,any relationship. I enter now I make sure I don't love the person,when I notice Am getting all lovey dovey I give her space for a while

DonMekino:
To be frank.....marrying a girl almost ur age is somehow too....women tend to age faster than men, in ur forties u still look youngish while ur wife in ur forties is all sagged down, reason men still go for younger women.....but its not always d case....life has no one way formula

rebirthforgoody:
As a woman age is not on their side especially during child bearing jare

moemindz:
Chaiiiii

This article makes sense....


I'm 25, my bae is 24 ...omoh...

She is talking about marriage. Her parents, family friends are asking her about marriage. Men in her church are also asking for her hand in marriage -atleast she told me the one of last sunday--.

I, on the other hand, is still trying to define where my life is headed.

Omoh!

JONNYSPUTE:
You ve just stated the fact.Nice piece

Davedgr8:
99% true 99% true

Jman06:
That is why it is good to avoid relationships until one is financially ready. It is obvious that ladies won't change. They will always look for men with money. Don't listen to any of them telling you trash about love, she will not hesitate to dump you for the ready-made guy when the infatuation clears from her eyes. Hustle hard and guard your heart from being shattered by a girl.

The Vaseline crew knows better.

Teaser4:
nothing but facts..... hustle on

Lillyane:
This post really touched my soul,confam bitter truth...A bottle of sky vodka for you.

mumumugu:
it has made front page before

Gofwane:
....... Bitter truth!
I feel like telling bae "it is over" because i know she will eventually say that to me very soon.
She told me that she must get married late this year or early next year.
To make matters worse, she is one of all these slay Queens and me i'm a confirm ghetto cat struggling to make ends meet.

Chai! I don die yehhh....


But where is Lalasticlala sef? This thread suppose to make it to the headquarters nah...

djpriopry:
Post of the month.you just delved into a part of men's life that women aren't aware of.we go through this heartbreak and society expects us to be quiet about it.well that's just the cycle of life

opsylojay:
I wonder why this post is not getting many views and comments as expected

ubunja:
lol true my niggar
80% of men have the most cr@ppy 20s ever. and life really gets better at their 30s.thats why i always support guys in their 30s hooking up with gals 19-22. they deserve each other.

opsylojay:
OP just go copy my life manuscript somewhere come add the end to it by himself.... Nice one bro... you deserve a bottle of chilled origin for this

fordgreen:
The irony of life
Let me just speak my mind...
.......................................................................
The most difficult time to be in a relationship as a guy is in your early twenties.
The period when you are stuck in a limbo, trying to figure out yourself and who you want to be.
At this age, you find it a herculean task asking money from your parents, considering your dad will always remind you of how he was self sufficient at your age.
So you are always left with anything that comes from them willingly.
To compound your "woes". You have a girlfriend whom you love so much, you are 24 and she is 23.
And guys being wired to want to take control, you are frustrated at your inability to take care of her like you want to.
I mean where is the money??
You are still jobless, still hustling, still finding your feet.
Still putting hands into many things hoping God smiles on you.
All of a sudden, she starts acting out and showing attitude.
You call, and she takes forever to pick or return your calls.
When she finally does pick, the call is like an interview session with those annoying and frustrating one word replies.
Yes, no, fine, okay, nothing.
Then finally she ends the call with a flimsy excuse like " wait let me close the fridge", i will call you back. And the call never comes back.
Then one day she calls you and askes you "where is this relationship heading to?.
You don't even know where your own life is heading to, not to talk of a relationship.
Then she drops the bombshell. Tells you that she met a guy who wants to marry her.
And how age isn't on her side, and you are almost compelled to scream "But you are just 23". Can't you wait 3 more years let me make it.
You just hold yourself and play the good guy
You ask her if she loves him, she dodges the question and replies you with " He treats me well".
Well since she wasn't informing you to take permission, she was simply telling you.
You have to be the cool guy and wish her well.
One week later, she gives you the traditional wedding card. And then you do the math yourself.
She was talking to the guy a long time before now.
Then you realise that for every "K" you got on WhatsApp, the guy was getting a long epistle.
You have been played.
Worse is you cant even blame her, you are just a prospect who no one knows what will become of your life in 4years time.
Would you have made it or not?
She has gone for the real deal, someone who has already made it.
In footballing terms, you are a "Anthony Martial" ( prospect) while the guy is a Messi ( has made it already).
I mean you were sending her cards of N200, and the guy was telling her to manage 10k for the weekend.
No comparison there.
And then you go through that silent heartbreak guys go through, the ones they don't talk about.
And unceremoniously you get inducted into the special hall of fame where members are young guys whose childhood loves and friends or girlfriends they thought they would end up with left them to marry someone else.
Your heart is broken into smithereens.
In this hall of fame, you are all victims.
Victims of not having found your path in your early twenties.
At the wedding, no sight is more heartbreaking than seeing "the love of your life" say "I do" to this guy she just met 6 months ago.
To make matters worse, you get an alert from Diamond bank telling you how N13 have been deducted for bank charges. You are mad.
Your N4000, is down to N3987 rendering that N1k useless, you can only withdraw N3k now.
And that's your home and abroad.
Can life be more unfair at this moment?
6 years later.
You are 30 now.
Congratulations, you finally made it. You are as rich as you hoped you will become.
You are one of the happening guys in town.
You go to a wedding. With your friends, the men on suit.
Those guys that just intimidate everyone in the hall.
You are seated scouting the hall, and the bridal train passes by.
Of course, bridal train and ashoebi ladies always show themselves.
That's part of the job description.
Sampling.
And you spot one, she is beautiful, elegant and tall.
You walk up to her, chat her up. Exchange numbers and you leave.
She is 24, ripe for marriage.
Three months later, you are sounding marriage to her ears.
She loves how it sounds.
You are on chat with her always.
And somewhere else, a 25year old boy still finding his way is wondering why the girlfriend is becoming distant these days.
Why is he getting those one worded replies which is unlike her.
Why do there chats seem more like interview.
And fast fast, you have proposed and simultaneously she is asking the 25year old boy that question of
"Where is this relationship going to".
And then you marry her, and somewhere a boy gets heart broken.
The cycle goes on...
#IronyOfLife.....
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fordgreen:
The irony of life
Let me just speak my mind...
.......................................................................
The most difficult time to be in a relationship as a guy is in your early twenties.
The period when you are stuck in a limbo, trying to figure out yourself and who you want to be.
At this age, you find it a herculean task asking money from your parents, considering your dad will always remind you of how he was self sufficient at your age.
So you are always left with anything that comes from them willingly.
To compound your "woes". You have a girlfriend whom you love so much, you are 24 and she is 23.
And guys being wired to want to take control, you are frustrated at your inability to take care of her like you want to.
I mean where is the money??
You are still jobless, still hustling, still finding your feet.
Still putting hands into many things hoping God smiles on you.
All of a sudden, she starts acting out and showing attitude.
You call, and she takes forever to pick or return your calls.
When she finally does pick, the call is like an interview session with those annoying and frustrating one word replies.
Yes, no, fine, okay, nothing.
Then finally she ends the call with a flimsy excuse like " wait let me close the fridge", i will call you back. And the call never comes back.
Then one day she calls you and askes you "where is this relationship heading to?.
You don't even know where your own life is heading to, not to talk of a relationship.
Then she drops the bombshell. Tells you that she met a guy who wants to marry her.
And how age isn't on her side, and you are almost compelled to scream "But you are just 23". Can't you wait 3 more years let me make it.
You just hold yourself and play the good guy
You ask her if she loves him, she dodges the question and replies you with " He treats me well".
Well since she wasn't informing you to take permission, she was simply telling you.
You have to be the cool guy and wish her well.
One week later, she gives you the traditional wedding card. And then you do the math yourself.
She was talking to the guy a long time before now.
Then you realise that for every "K" you got on WhatsApp, the guy was getting a long epistle.
You have been played.
Worse is you cant even blame her, you are just a prospect who no one knows what will become of your life in 4years time.
Would you have made it or not?
She has gone for the real deal, someone who has already made it.
In footballing terms, you are a "Anthony Martial" ( prospect) while the guy is a Messi ( has made it already).
I mean you were sending her cards of N200, and the guy was telling her to manage 10k for the weekend.
No comparison there.
And then you go through that silent heartbreak guys go through, the ones they don't talk about.
And unceremoniously you get inducted into the special hall of fame where members are young guys whose childhood loves and friends or girlfriends they thought they would end up with left them to marry someone else.
Your heart is broken into smithereens.
In this hall of fame, you are all victims.
Victims of not having found your path in your early twenties.
At the wedding, no sight is more heartbreaking than seeing "the love of your life" say "I do" to this guy she just met 6 months ago.
To make matters worse, you get an alert from Diamond bank telling you how N13 have been deducted for bank charges. You are mad.
Your N4000, is down to N3987 rendering that N1k useless, you can only withdraw N3k now.
And that's your home and abroad.
Can life be more unfair at this moment?
6 years later.
You are 30 now.
Congratulations, you finally made it. You are as rich as you hoped you will become.
You are one of the happening guys in town.
You go to a wedding. With your friends, the men on suit.
Those guys that just intimidate everyone in the hall.
You are seated scouting the hall, and the bridal train passes by.
Of course, bridal train and ashoebi ladies always show themselves.
That's part of the job description.
Sampling.
And you spot one, she is beautiful, elegant and tall.
You walk up to her, chat her up. Exchange numbers and you leave.
She is 24, ripe for marriage.
Three months later, you are sounding marriage to her ears.
She loves how it sounds.
You are on chat with her always.
And somewhere else, a 25year old boy still finding his way is wondering why the girlfriend is becoming distant these days.
Why is he getting those one worded replies which is unlike her.
Why do there chats seem more like interview.
And fast fast, you have proposed and simultaneously she is asking the 25year old boy that question of
"Where is this relationship going to".
And then you marry her, and somewhere a boy gets heart broken.
The cycle goes on...
#IronyOfLife.....
���������#Copied.

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