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Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by deltateam: 6:29am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Dalby: I am starting to believe this Okafor's law of Congo dynamics o. She did it a week to your wedding? You think she isn't doing it inside marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by sylve11: 6:31am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Dreiwizzy: This cracked me up...... |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Just2endowed2(m): 6:33am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Don't try it. Humans hardly change. I can only go back and maybe consider a relationship if the breakup wasn't caused by cheating. If its cheating, my guy flee |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Nobody: 6:33am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Ornament2003:Take it easy with the lies! Yours is even worse if true cos you guys are together and fine and she went out to eat carrot only to come back with all d evidence intact!? Lol she must be one dumb human being. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Kingstanding: 6:34am On Dec 12, 2019 |
EngrMarve:. On your own. OYO. There is nothing worst pass a cheating wife if the care is not taking she or the man is cheating with will kill the husband. A cheating wife is a gonner to me. If anyone beg me to forgive her even if the person is my friends or brother I will give them one condition if they can allow me to Bleep their wife I will forgive her. A cheating wife is a death. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by thelish(f): 6:35am On Dec 12, 2019 |
DenreleDave: Trying acting according to ur signature. Do u want her to continue in it, why prophesying it? With God n discipline, she won't go back. |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Nobody: 6:36am On Dec 12, 2019 |
NaijadrivaCars:A man cheating is an insult to her womanliness |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by fordgreen(m): 6:38am On Dec 12, 2019 |
I thank you and I would like to know you more... Your Number 5 point said it all from a man's point of view!! wunmi590: |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Joey19: 6:40am On Dec 12, 2019 |
JERRY1925:Your comment is so intelligent. Bravo! |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by biotechshola(m): 6:41am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Butterscotch92: Abegiii!!! Stop insulting us please.. So you were always at your moment of weakness each time he had his way with you?? The truth is, weakness or whatever can only be justified if it's once, coz normally after such moment comes regret and anger. Regret coz you've cheated and anger cos he took advantage of your weakness. But apparently none of this happened hence it was never a mistake. Yorubas would say; igbe kinkin leti awo gbegiri, boju bakuro nbe, Okan o le kuro.. Ire o!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Napolito: 6:45am On Dec 12, 2019 |
U broke his trust..Allow him to go dig d puna of ur colleague's wife, and case will b at per. 1 Like |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Meti99(m): 6:46am On Dec 12, 2019 |
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Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by leetech93: 6:46am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Op, my advice for you is to show your man you're a changed woman, as for your colleague, you have to cut all times with him, no chat,no calls,even if he greet you, don't answer,the major reason why your man may find it hard to forgive you, is because he need to be convinced that you're done with the man for real, if you can prove that to him, he will forgive and have you back, don't listen to those people telling you if he loves you, he should forgive easily, it not the same,cheating on an man is strong enough to break any kind of love a man has for you, because in the real sense, the love of a man to a woman emanates from trust, that is what make your pussy special, otherwise you are like the regular jump girls, it won't be easy, but to must be ready, it happens to me, I don't even know the number of times my own fiancee dug this man, but in the end, the trust is coming again |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by IprintMONEY: 6:48am On Dec 12, 2019 |
nigerians overate sex. my present fiancee cheated on me 3 times and i took her back. yes there is possiblity that she might cheat again because i am always out of the country. but since i have made up my mind to be back here full time, if that happens again, i will dumb her. the fact that you are the one that told him should make him trust you more, but like women say, men are scums. |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by mimilogs: 6:50am On Dec 12, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:I didn't know you saw the lies too lol My fellow social media handlers can lie for Africa to promote the brand they are managing, minus me 1 Like |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by IprintMONEY: 6:50am On Dec 12, 2019 |
biotechshola:u get better sense . she was always week for close to 20 times he bleeped her lol |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Angelfrost(m): 6:51am On Dec 12, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Disgusting, selfish, and narrow minded... Most of these kids think forgiving and forgetting should be mutual. Only God truly forgives to begin with. That a man took the step to forgive should be more than enough. She should be kind enough to pull the plug, and save both of them further emotional and mental agony... This is just commonsense. But curiously now, how does one cheat in a car??! Parked where exactly in this Naija of busybodies and bloodthirsty criminals??!... This lady and her lover get mind sha. What manner of lust and hunger for sex will engender such level of desperation??!... Same car, several times!!!…. Una get mind o. |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by mimilogs: 6:54am On Dec 12, 2019 |
IprintMONEY:The only reason Bible, I mean God Himself permitted a man to divorce his wife is if she is caught cheating, no other reason, so what are you saying If you decide to forgive your partner whenever she cheats on you, that's your life and decision to make, don't make it seem normal for men to forgive a cheating partner because it is highly forbidden, the only reason Bible backs a man to divorce!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by wirinet(m): 6:56am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Butterscotch92:That's the problem with Nigerians in general - taking full responsibility for our actions and trying to somehow justify our failings. You messed up big time and your excuse is untenable. "It happened in the car because I wouldn't have agreed to follow him elsewhere by then it would be premeditated" let's even agree that the first time was not premeditated and it happened at the spur of the moment when you were emotionally vulnerable, what of the second and third time? We're you sayings those other times were not premeditated? Believe me, if it was only one time, one could excuse you by saying you were scared, confused or not in your senses, but you went back again and again. And to make matters worse, the guy kept calling you until your man became suspicious. Even after all the Bleep ups, you should have cut off all relationships with your colleagues except for official duties, and threatened to report him to his wife and the police if he persisted in harassing you. It's going to be very difficult for him to accept you back, most guys can't get over such betrayals for life. Maybe reset the relationship to default. Start out being friends again, try and build trust from the beginning. |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by ednut1(m): 6:56am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Butterscotch92:inside car smh. U can do inside office or toilet too 1 Like |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by ScotMisile: 6:56am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Izigha: Thats the generation we find ourselves bruv, however shine your eyes, ask questions, be alert and never accept the friendship crap or bestie crap not even sure of her fidelity.. . Know thyself. |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by fairygeh(f): 6:56am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Butterscotch92:I am not here to judge you,but seriously,you have no point. Had it been you are saying you slept with him once,we can overlook and say,ohhhh,it was probably a mistake.but not once,not twice,not even three times,come on now.i am not trying to make you feel worse than you already do ,because nobody is perfect. I really do understand that you might be going through some emotional challenges at the period,but why didn't you confide in someone' else,and you knew the guy was married,it's not like he even took advantage of you,you did it willingly my verdict is that you liked the man,I mean the married man you slept with ,infact you enjoyed sex in the car so much,you couldn't resist it,As a matter of fact,if not that the guy was posted to another branch,you know in your heart of hearts that you would still be straffing him,I am a woman as well and I know how these things work,and above all,if given the nice environment of a car with the man in question again,he would still f** you over and over again,and you know this except you don't wanna tell yourself the truth. The way out Even if I were your guy,I won't get back with you,trust me,he has done well by forgiving you but hey would you forgive him too if you were a man.its always not good to make married men your sole confidant because we are all human beings that's why the Bible says flee from all appearances of evil.A married man shouldn't be your best friend and same applies for men. My advice Even if your man decides to overlook this, except your man is from another planet and has a really forgiving spirit,will he be able to trust you ever again??,trust is a major ingredient in a relationship and once it's lost even your harmless association with someone of the opposite sex,he might raise eyebrows and flare up and you wouldn't love yourself,trust me. So,I advise that you move on and desist from married men,get your next man to f** you in the car if it's your fetish. All the best,, sweetheart. I don dey talk too much |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by charlsecy(m): 6:57am On Dec 12, 2019 |
EngrMarve:Sorry, you failed to understand the post. |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Louisboy22(m): 6:57am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Most girls i don't really know what is ur problem, u cheated with married man knowing fully well he is married tomorrow now if you get married and ur husband is cheating on you, you will be crying not knowing karma is working because you cheated with another woman husband 2 Likes |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by bullabong(m): 6:58am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Butterscotch92:Not just once,not thrice...you are nothing but a serial cheat. It's in your nature. I pray he doesn't take you back because you will still cheat when married if you can be cheating with a married man.you are really messed up pretty bad. 1 Like |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Myhusband(m): 6:58am On Dec 12, 2019 |
sex you inside the car means you're a mere sex slave. no sane man deserved to end up with you but what happened to our girl child, these emanating promiscuity is becoming too much the guy will be so foolish to forgive you |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by bullabong(m): 6:59am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Louisboy22:They are just so dumb. 1 Like |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by Connoisseur(m): 7:00am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Butterscotch92: Don't expect pity from anyone here or anywhere for that matter. You really bleeped things up with your man, I would not forgive you if I were in his shoes. But You've realized your mistakes and feel repentant about it. So chin up, back straight, keep your head high and continue working towards a better version of yourself. Take the lessons from this encounter and strive to do better in your next relationship. I do not know why but it's extremely difficult for a man to forgive a cheating partner |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by IprintMONEY: 7:02am On Dec 12, 2019 |
mimilogs:and u think all of us are religious twats that give a Bleep about your religion? wtf |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by IprintMONEY: 7:04am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Myhusband:i did not read that raunchy part o. was she bleeped inside the car/ let me go and read again and get my vasline ready. op can u elaborate on the sex please |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by clemz85(m): 7:04am On Dec 12, 2019 |
EngrMarve: comment of the year 2020! |
Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by wirinet(m): 7:04am On Dec 12, 2019 |
IprintMONEY:You are now contradicting yourself, your fiancée cheated on you 3 times and you forgave her, so why not forgive her the 4th time or the 10th time since sex is overrated and you are very forgiven, afterall as a Christian, you should never tire of forgiving. She told him because he became suspicious of their phone conversations, she did not tell him of her own violation after the incidences. She was still cheating with the guys (although not sexually), by talking with him on the phone. 3 Likes |
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