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giselle237:
Is there any one that did his/her biometrics April 18th, 2019 heard from Ukvi?

ottawasenators:
Meanwhile, went to IOM this morning and was informed that the unit/dept in charge of medicals ain't working today, but could check them on Monday.

Any one got contrary info. ?

okesgift:
for this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife and the two shall become one flesh(ephesians 5:31) the same bible went futher to say in (mark 10:9) what God has joined together let no man put assunder!!! if ur mother is bigger than God then go ahead to divorce ur wive becos of ur mother... and prove to God that u love ur mother more than him who created u becos the bible says if u love me u wod keep my commandment and God says i hate divorce (malachi 2:16) but its obvious ur mother is bigger than God and remember God doesnt share his glory with anybody so stop all this ranting abt divorcing ur wife cos of ur mother.... and follow the word of God

forevermine:
i will do what I damn want. People like you are the problem in our society applauding people whose only connection to a meal ticket is an anchor baby. Women don't believe that they can make it on their own without the input of a man and rather than toil with their brain , use their genitals. Ofcourse the reward is most times temporary. The earlier women realize that they hold their destinies in their hands and that men will only respect them for their intellectual and productive capabilities with physical beauty just as a bonus, the better for them. Every baby mama in Nigeria rather than posting pictures of their kids/shortcomings, should bury their heads in shame.

sukkot:
if you dont have anything useful to say, dont quote me nigga. is you crazy nigga ?

sukkot:
see, you are too dumb and stu-pid to see what dele momodu is doing. he is protecting his lil niece from the davido family. he did not come out saying he endorses babymama tinz

CFCman:

But Davido messed up big time. I can only wonder how his Guinean girlfriend is feeling witnessing all this drama. I agree that he has to pay some child support to Sophie for the care of the child.

BTW, Flavour has 2, not 3 baby mamas

sukkot:
who said there was pride in being a baby mama. are you drunk ?

sukkot:
yeah tell that to flavour nabanias 3 igbo baby mamas. do me a favour please ? gerrarahiamehn

sukkot:
trust me, in nigeria, igbo women are the worst. hausa is the most moral followed by yoruba. igbo women are like igbo men - get rich or die trying

sukkot:
how exactly did she blow her chance ? listen, the nigga is a celeb, he gets many women throwing themselves at him so he bounced for another punna. thats not her fault. in the olosho world of celeb worship i will say she is the source of envy by women in that world because many would wish to have his child. so i can see why many women will be envious of her. but that still does not absolve him from his responsibility. but i can see that you are prolly one of these women who wish to have his baby so you hatin on this sophia woman or whatever her name is

I had made up my mind not to castigate anyone on this thread but when I randomly visited this thread and seeing people go through what I went through in the hands of Dr Fagbohun, I thought it best to post my experience.
Yes, Nogen is right! Infact , after I told her my experience, she changed her plans and headed to El Paso. That is one of the best decisions she has ever taken. I feel consoled knowing I have saved one person from the crass treatment I got from Dr F.
I would say Dr F profiles his patients. I had a high risk pregnancy, triplets to be specific. He charged me an extra thousand dollars for high risk care, but I say without fear or favor that he never gave me any high risk treatment, in fact he didn't do more than an intern dr in Nigeria would have.
I remember my last appointment before my delivery. I told him, no, begged him, to please scan me,I needed to know my babies weights. A mother's instincts never lie. I wasnt eating well and was vomitting everyday, so i knew my babues would be small-for-age.Whether it was sheer laziness or lack of empathy, or the fact that he felt I was delaying him, I don't know. But he refused and told me to go to the hospital in a few days for it. I was even willing to pay the extra cost since it wasn't part of the package. ( I settled all my bills with him and Oakbend within a week of my arrival). I also told him I was having contractions, he waived it off as fetal movement.
Lo and behold, I got to the hospital five days after( i had to go ob the day he said) for a routine scan' and was told during my BPP/CTG that I was having contractions nonstop. This was around noon. Treatment started but didn't stop till 8pm when he appeared. Saw me from the foot of the bed( he's got poor bedside manners and Dr/ patient relationship) and said let's watch it. Next thing he leaves and the nurse says we are referring you. I said what? Where is my dr? He was on his way home. I picked up my phone and called him. I told him how sorely disappointed i was. How could he refer me over the phone? Didnt have the courtesy or empathy of even letting me know? He didn't even consider that one was on a budget, he just mentioned the name of the hospital like it was next door, it was so surreal as everything happened so fast. I couldn't believe I was getting such laissez-faire treatment in the USA.
He then came back and started 'shouting ' at me. I cut him short and told him he shouldn't speak to me like he was my school principal. Saying he has taken care of all sorts of patients, from Yaradua's daughter to the wife of the owner of Diff hospital, Abuja. Telling g me he was a prof in Luth before he left for usa. ( I no blame am, he looked down on me because I used to come for my appointments looking very ordinary, at that point, my looks were the least of my problems, because I was too sick throughout my pregnancy to be bothered about my looks). My sister was just shaking her head in disbelief and disappointment. Please note that this is just an abridged version of my experience, too busy at work to give explicit details. He kept saying I already have a patient with twins who has ruptured membranes, we can't take you in. Because I was like why can't you just section me here, I never planned to be referred neither did you tell me in the course of our interaction that you may refer me. You suggested I use Oakbend which is where you practise so naturally, they should have such facilities. Why make me register with a hospital that didnt have adequate facilities for my case?
When he noticed that I was no coward to tell him exactly how I felt, he then came to my side(for the first time) and patted me, I just turned m back on him. I also overheard the nurses whispering to themselves that there was only one NICU nurse on duty that night. I had to take the fall, I was the sacrificial lamb that had to pay for their short staffed personnel/lack of facilities.
He referred me to the best hospital in Texas ( I stand corrected) in terms of neonatal care, and even maternal care. In the long run and with the benefit of hindsight, I don't regret it because the lives of my babies is paramount and supercedes any extra cost I incurred. I got there that night in an ambulance and was sectioned a few hours after.
Dr F did not call me till a week after and asked - ' So how is it going?'. I answered- 'With?'. He said what was the outcome. Told him I had had my babies and they are all fine in NiCU. Started telling me the bills will reach hundreds o thousands of dollarsdollars(like I didn't know) and I shouldn't make any payment. Worst of all, he told me I should apply for Medicaid( and said I shoulnt quote him). He then asked me how much my bill was- told him 21,000. Said what will I do? Told him I had paid. He was shocked. He never believed I could afford such bills. He judged a book by its cover. And I feel he treated me shabbily because he thought I was a person of little means.
He now said anyway your check is ready at the office for your pick up. I told him I will pick it up when I get the time. I didn't have the time to pick it till five weeks after, four days before my departure. Maybe he thought I would have needed it to feed.
Even with the refund, I feel he shortchanged me because he charged me extra for high risk care which I never got. I was too busy to even follow it up and just collected it like that. As for my babies' bills, we made a substantial payment and got the rest waived off. God was and is still faithful. I don't even want to quote what the bills came to because even a politician in Nigeria CANNOT pay it. My account was adjusted to zero.
The long and short of the story is that please If you have a high risk pregnancy, especially high order multiples, run far away from Dr F or Oakbend because when the chips are down, he will drop you like a bad habit(over the phone) and whisk you away to another hospital/ Dr to handle your case, meanwhile he will have gained something from the rushed antenatal visits cost-wise.
A word is enough for the wise. I know that he may come here and read this and He would know who posted this because I didn't spare him one bit and tell you what, I don't care! The truth must be told. One love people.