₦airaland Forum

Mizk:
His needle became erect

Mizk:
This writeup is from a personal POV as a girl, someone who has been in a relationship, someone who has been an intermediary between her bestie and a guy wooing her, and a third party observer.

There's this saying that relationships without money to spice things up is doomed to fail, and for a guy to sweep a girl off her feet, money is the most necessary prerequisite before looks, mannerism and all.

Well that is a misconception people believed so much, to make matters worse, runs girls are in the background fueling this belief,

Yes, money is needed in every relationship but its not as important as people make it seem, Infact its better if you date someone you don't demand stuff from, that would make him or her eager to do stuff for you, those who don't ask anything of you in a relationship deserves alot from you.

My point is, when you ask any girl out and she starts demanding money and favors immediately, a week later, one to two months later, Run for your life, that girl doesn't like you, she's only in for what she stands to gain from you.

I know some foolish guys would want to try hard and meet up with her unreasonable demands, show her you're capable and all, believe me there's a guy somewhere she doesn't demand all this from, and the funny thing is, she likes this guy more than you, that's the bitter truth, if a girl likes you She'll overlook all your shortcomings including your financial constraints.

A girl that likes you won't be asking favors from you every now and then when she's well aware of your condition, she'd be supportive and independent, because she knows that relationship is a two way thing and you have your own issues to take care of, this is why you should never flex your financial muscle when asking a girl out, they'll fall inlove with your money not you, and that'll be the only voice in your relationship,

Lastly, Money impress lazy girls, the type that sit around and expect miracles not girls who work hard to earn a living.

vivavik:
I like the fact that, it is only one lady he had this three kids with, speaks volumes!

mofeoluwadassah:
Why he come dey tell us

couragemurphy:
Another negative mindset n excuse for lazy youths.

I got married in my 20s
Had my 1st child in 20s
2nd child at 30
Bought up to 3 cars b4 30
Already a landlord in 2 different cities b4 30
Etc

I have said it before that prosperity is more of a mental thing.......even though it is not common here in Nigeria doesnt mean pple are not super rich in their 20s. I am talking of legit riches n also not inherited.

You will never see the need of challenging yourself to financial freedom if you already believe you cant make it big in your 20s.

Stop being lazy n negative Naija Yoots

nero2face:
Majority of Guys in their early 20s that's Financially stable did not really work for it, maybe there are some who inherited from their Fathers, But that doesn't mean u should remain lazy, even if ur not stable, at least be dependent...

dairykidd:
No be only background u like her curves just tell am jor no shame in liking it.. And its really a work of art... Well sculptured

Culin:
Dead woman walking. Weird!

Imagine what a pretty girl did to herself over a man. Owoicho tah.

Kentnickole:
my dear I tried talking to her about it the she flamed up and told me to my face that since Im suspecting her to be a runs girl then she is. that yes she's a runs girl that she's tired of me not trusting and believing her.

Nobodys:
98 percent is too much Oga... you guys and figures though..... lolz....

dasparrow:
But Dewey lives in the United States where same sex marraige is legal. So, she is not commiting any crimes according to the norms of the society she is living in. Also, Dewey's mother is a Black American so Dewey has the choice of living her life according to American societal norms.

As a Nigerian bred male, you should worry about all the sexual abuse towards female children that your fellow Nigerian bred males perpetrate on a regular basis in your shithole country. Don't concern yourself with other people's sex lives. Let God be the judge of that.

nikkypearl:
What is Dick

deepwater:
call her name, leave charlie out of it
by the way does she leave at gbagada too or in amelika?

sunkky83:
Oh wow! They look good together. Enjoy yourselves babes

Shortyy:
My dear in this short time I've lived on this earth, I've realized something.. you only live once. Live your life and enjoy every moment of it. Do what makes you happy and not what will make other people happy. Pursue that thing you think will bring you happiness no matter what people think. As long as it won't hurt other people. Just live.

Bawizzo:
Can't imagine how u go swerve dick, come choose 2 use clitoris rub another clitoris...shebi like charges suppose repel?

Shortyy:
If she makes you happy, then I'm happy for you.

DALE917:
just what if,

she had toilet infection and her parents rebuked her the African way by accusing her of things she didn't do (Boyfriend and sleeping around ish) and she fell into depression

parents need to know how not to abuse their kids emotionally

Nickijoy:
Sapele and bad news are like five and six...

Wilfredpat22:
SIR, that is we women for you. It is so difficult for us to close our legs especially if we have been sleeping with countless men before marriage.

Her colleague has been enjoying her with you and you are the weaker man here. I will advice you to take a divorce. If my man cheats, I don’t even want to hear forgiveness, I am exiting from the house (that is if it his house)

And sir, it is only the colleague you are aware of, she might have been opening her treasure for the Bank manager, Auditor, Security guard... etc

Please take CHARGE AND DONT BE A SISSY

victorian:
It's possible she can.

Mercy Johnson when she was single, everyone thought she won't be able to settle down. Guys thought no man will marry, they will just fucvk and clean mouth Waka, but the end mercy got married to an edo prince and she is focused on her wifely and otherly duties .

At the end don't judge women by their looks!

Alejoc:
Even my parents designed my body more than this.....i am grateful for those times them refuse to give up on me now..... Back then words no dey enter my head o o.... I don't believe I was abused.... I rather see it that I was on the nerve of everyone back then....not that I want it that way but na so e be!

xtervaganza:
Baba e no disgrace

kingthreat:
That is her part of the story. The lecturer has his own story. The girl has a tattoo on her belly. Which serious-minded academic-minded girl has that. Dont surmise by hearing just one part of the story. She recorded that audio to ruin the lecturer's life. The man has a right to defend himself. to me, both are wrong. Like I said, it is good the lecturer got suspended. Sex for marks is wrong.

kingthreat:
Can you vouch with your life that the girl is telling the truth. I have been blackmailed by a woman. Infact put through a shame that got me into depression based on lies. Had my reputation smeared with shyt so I dont always believe stories told intentionally to destroy people's name. Sex for marks is wrong but I can beat my chest to it, the girl is not telling the complete truth. Like I said, it is good for he man to be suspended. But that man is also a family man. He could be your father too. Imagine if you had to start doing runz because your father cannot put food on your table anymore. You have to look at these things.

kingthreat:
You wanted to render a grown azz man broke, divorced and jobless. But you thought he would be the only victim?
Sorry dear, next time find a better approach. If you want to fight dirty, there are dirtier players of the game.
But really, I still am marvelled on why of all people in this world, na un-endowed you Prof wan wipe. Prof is very classless by the way.
It's good he is suspended, I hope he gets re-appointed soon. No be because of kpekus, man family no go chop well again.

jibrilyaba:
this girl no go find am eazy o.

xtervaganza:
Someone needs to fxck this tiny wh0re up big time

Abagworo:
This girl is too ugly for a lecturer to notice.