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earlier in d year., d president said dey treated d issue with kidglooves. I hope he now knows Boko Haram are not kids rather adults

Jade88: Pls what manner of thinking is this?? So pastor Chris has no fault here? "a church he spent all his life in building?" who told u he built it alone? they built it together as a couple! "a woman just comes from no were to scatter it" Really? "A woman from nowhere?" see u talking like she's some side chick or gf that jst came along the way. This is a woman with he was married to for more than 20 yrs. its also her handwork.
This is why i hate d Naija mentality of women having to take d sh1t everytime. She should divorce him secretly right? but if d wife was to be d one to make d slightest mistake would a man divorce her secretly? or would d pastor divorce her secretly?

Abeg let us be thinking deeply, reasonably and see things from both sides objectively b4 coming to blame wives for the woes of an allegedly adulterous pastor.

don't mind dat guy. extremely bias opinion. he even said he won't marry so dat he would have d freedom in d world to bleep all dose single girls who will be attending his church. we know what goes on in churches. d girls are not ashame to bleep dose false pastors and prophets some knowing fulling well dat dey are married. smmh

fatdon2: Mere visiting a Christ Embassy church
or seeing its members, your heart will
be forced to think about séx. How can
a church allow people to wear micro-
mini skirts with big breasts and nípples
almost falling out? Why won't the woman suspect the man of adultery?
She's a woman and she knows how
decent women should dress. One
pastor said 'Christ Embassy is a social
club' where the name of Jesus is just
mentioned. Well i dont know how true; but it is bad to allow ladies to wear
just pants to church in the name of
vigil and not expect the women to
suspect the men(their husbands):
dressing matters in marriage, dressing
matters in heaven: Jesus did not come to make people naked and nude by
faith, He came to make us all holy by
faith

oboy u wan try.!!! dose mini-skirt wen I dey see dis days for church reminds me of Noah's days wen even angels decided to come down from heaven because of what dey saw and yet women will tell u to look d oda way and even back it up dat dere is know connect between dressing and rape. what a man sees linger on for a time before it goes. y not do d right thing instead of helping d devil to blow cold air

Philipmems: I am not a member of his denomination but having heard from both parties I will live you to be the judge considering what women and men are capable of doing.. Pastor Chris O. accused his wife of having bad friends who are influencing her wrongly, she no longer respects anyone especially in the church. He even said that at one time he called the wife so they can settle there differences but she refused to take anything short of a Divorce from the pastor.
Anita is accusing Chris of adultery and infidelity.
At the end of the day my take is that Satan master confusionist has crept into their home either through the man or the woman but wait oh even if its adultery as speculated what happened to our women of steel (1 peter 3:1-3), for better for worse, our mothers stuck to our fathers through thick and thin, never to be distracted by side chicks... Frankly speaking the easiest way for confusion to enter a home na through woman... After all according to the book of Timothy it says a woman was deceive first before Adams.
Read 1 peter 3:1-6 and 1 Corinthians 7:1- 12 especially 10 and 11 and understand that the woman has more role to play in keeping her home together and if it fails shes mainly to be blamed.

what I have discovered in my dealings with kids is dat when a woman is well position to deir kids discipline d home is more dan half percent to success. den I also find out dat when a woman begins to challenge her man's authority in d home either in words or in deeds den d stability of d children is blink...academically.,socially and otherwise. pls discovery was for a home with responsible men not d foolish type

DailyNews: If that's the case, then I am assuming you are:

1. Handsome
2. Very intelligent
3. Most girls' dream guy- meaning you have certain qualities most girls desire in a guy that I can't outline here

And then, the girls who wooed u must fall into these criteria:

1. Teenagers (18 - 21)
2. 32 and above of age
3. Stay-at-home girls (those who hardly go out)

...and maybe u are still young cos at age: 16 - 20, most guys are shy, timid while the girls tend to be more bolder than them and tend to make the first move towards handsome and very intelligent guys around them. Girls do this again when they reach age 32 and above.

u dey intelligent ooo. how u know dis. ur findings correct welle welle

samtol4: Hope you are not among those that values the wedding ceremony and the ring than the marriage itself! I can count up to 5ladies who have been engaged with rings for 2 to 5years still waiting for wedding date!Don't worry your man will buy your engagement ring (ABA market) lol

pray for a good marriage(a stable one) not all dis crap of d type of engagement ring or d cost...dis is where wisdom is lacking

priscaoge: With whose hand?. Maybe u can do d slapping

u funny sha.! see d question wen u throw for ground. u com make me dey fear.

Billygee2u: you see how greed,love of money and selfishness,caused Mr.Enemuo his life ,even yet to sweep his entire family if adequate care is not taken ?

yah.! greed. and d person he treated is alive. he got d money but no life. dat diplomat play smart

ultrazone: I hope they've quarantined those people she ran to. Nigerians sha! Making things difficult for ourselves since...

dats is d genesis of our problem in Nigeria. lacknof cooperation.

[quote author=eledacedar]These ECOWAS diplomats sef, first it was Sawyer, now another ECOWAS diplomat. Do they have ulterior motives? Just when we were about to have some relief, now this new outbreak again.[/quote
dats to tell u d wickness of man. man is selfish. dis is similar to d case I talked about on a trend where a lady who waa aware she has HIV deceive her husband to be even after he asked her for HIV test. she claimed she was free of it until dey started having s.ex. den d day came when d man followed her to a hospital in Abuja dere he discover d girl was carryimg d HIV virus. and yet she broke up with him and was to travel from lagos to Abuja to meet anoda new found lover before d man attacked and killed her. pple condemned d man's action though bad. what about d girls intention to spread it to anoda victim.?

Beync: tank you very much. If this sister of the dead doctor were in quarantine, how come she escaped to abia state? Only God knows how many persons she must have come in contact with

she was not quarantine. after d case was discovered government wanted to get dose dat had contact with d doctor but she was no where to be found

bnovative: u are so on point. The pathetic side of this is how their followers are going to defend this shi.t with their lives. I had a sad experience: a big Pentecostal Bishop was screwing my girl friend back in my university days. When she realised that our Daddy in the lord was also screwing her best friend, she felt used and blew the top. She lost the comfort she had enjoyed from the daddy, cos the daddy was providing her with all she wanted. I have long come to see that 70% of our big men of God are into intimacy with young girls. I tire too.

kai.!!! u mean ur girl gave her waist for a pastor to waste outside marriage.? dat girl must be foolish.! if u had demanded for dat waist she pretend to be a virgin and claim let's wait till after marriage. is it because d man is a pastor.!!. pissed off. girls mentality

bnovative: u are so on point. The pathetic side of this is how their followers are going to defend this shi.t with their lives. I had a sad experience: a big Pentecostal Bishop was screwing my girl friend back in my university days. When she realised that our Daddy in the lord was also screwing her best friend, she felt used and blew the top. She lost the comfort she had enjoyed from the daddy, cos the daddy was providing her with all she wanted. I have long come to see that 70% of our big men of God are into intimacy with young girls. I tire too.

some female here know dis is now a common occurence in most churches dese days.... but man must keep mute

Blockus: GreassyAss, Jerry Curled, p!mp named slickback look-alike muthafucker.




I knew that nigga was too greassy to not be a player.

probably..he must have used d grease well below

priscaoge: Don't let ur hubby go out "HUNGRY" or "HOR•NY". Maybe the woman didn't play her part well n the pastor couldn't control d konji . #JustThinking

women una hear.! bang d brain out of ur man's pompey so dat he won't get Hot or hungry except at home.

Arysexy: More reason for him to indulge in masturbation since he said it's not sin.

hmmmmm....u remembered me of a trend on Feb. 2012. u have a good memory

Bluetooth2: Never underestimate the power of pusy.

chai.!!! u mean it

Capableben: But hope OAU is good in engineering I wanna get the best of education, at least within this country.

ofcourse yes

Rikidony: THATS THE ISSUE HAVE GAT WITH THEM. DAVID MARK SAID DECLARE AND ALL OUT WAR ON THIS SECT AND START A SUSTAINED ATTACK ON THIS SECT. BUT THE MILITARY WILL BOMB AND GO BACK TO SLEEP THIS GUYS WILL NOW REGROUP AND RECATURED THEIR TERRITORY... GEJ SHOULD WAKE UP AM TIRED OF THIS WHOLE SHII.T

exactly. no follow-up. dats y I call it seek and hide game

invitation to death

go dere will only mean one thing....suicide simple

Jaideyone: see what Ekiti people have caused ajimobi has done very well in Ibadan but the workers like my aunty have vowed to vote him out like fayemi because he has refused to share the money.

a situation where people put stomach infrastructure above visible change is not good for our democracy


ftc

leave dem. let dem continue to put stomach infrastructure about physical development. I wonder if dat was how Chief Obafemi Awolowo behave whether he would have been praised today. nonsense workers(myopic).

Capableben: thank you bro, u d best

u are welcome

Nigeria Police FORCE

HarrveySpecter: 3 letter word!!!!
Lmao### falls from mango tree, looks at phone again, falls on the floor in a sitting position while on the floor!! Hahaha

u dey use microscope to check someone grammer abi

Capableben: Could u pls demystify the processes involved
And please, my friends keep discouraging me that I might end up losing it all -both my school and the oau. Do u know pple that have transfered successfully

u will have to work on d department of choice in OAU. u ensure dat dey are ready to take u before obtaining a transcript from ur present school. but make sure all process have been concluded in OAU before notifying ur school.

Keypha: RIP Madam, We Igbo have Forgive you, for allowed your officers to burn our Goods, Except the fake drug and Expire food package you burn which is very Right and Good,but other material u wasted is not good.

funny man

einsteino: @OP it is Cardinal Francis Arinze not Francis Cardinal Arinze. Cardinal is a title/rank

OP is correct. d order of d names is correct. d catholic church does not place d title first before d names rather at d middle

Capableben: Bro, I wanna transfer to OAU next year. Is that possible I school at futyola.

well a transfer is possible if u have a good CGPA. at least minimum of 2.1

bigv: Great Ife is not moi moi. A trial will confuse you.

dose of u who are still not convinced shiukd pls try OAU. I was dere I knew what I saw. dat challenge has built me in every aspect of life. sometimes it reminds me of d 300 spartans. white house my beloved house

aspirebig: I do not agree with the OP. Almost ALL schools in naija, I repeat almost ALL schools in naija, they have different slots for the registrar, profs, HODs,Dean etc yearly. If you are opportuned to know any of these people, whether you choose the school as first choice, your jamb score becomes immaterial. But do not forget that there are registrars, and there are registrars, so also, there are profs and there are profs, sames goes for the HODs, dean etc, meaning all profs are not the same oo. Remember, who no go no know! Going to a fed uni doesn't mean you are more brilliant than people that go to the state uni.Going to a private uni doesn't mean you are more brighter than those in the poly, it all depends on opportunity, luck, circumstances, timing, connections and other factors.

The issue of 3rd class or 2.2 could be as a result of many many factors too that played in , or took place while in the uni.Imagine some intelligent students that were on their way to get 2.1 and had a saddist lecturer who a 3rd class in his first degree as a project supervisor.If the lecturer give the student say D in project that could bring the student to a 2.2 considering that project is a 6units stuff, all other grades in other courses being k, constant. Also many 2.2 were people that had say 3.40 to 3.49. , knowing fully well that 3.5 and above is 2.1.

I may not be able to speak for the private uni, because, I am even shocked with way the roll out ist class in those private uni like , they just dash them for their high cost of schooling, tuition fees, accommodation, etc, etc.However, some students from private uni merit their ist class too.Do not get me wrong here.

But coming to the fed or state universities, wow, you must jack wella to get most grades you are given, or you earn like some
lecturers put it. Many lecturers in Naija uni are not ready to just give you grade like that, it is not everyone that you bribe, if you think you can always bribe, as a woman you cannot sleep with all your lecturers, so might be women like you too, so what do you do ?Except if you are exceptionally good. Some will tell you how they suffered in their own days before they got educated and even try to unjustly suffer the students in turn, as for the female students, that one na different thing altogether, they want you to sort, book hotel rooms to sleep with you and they MAYstill fail you at the end. Married women or those wearing ring on their fingers to deceive the lecturers that they are married are not exempted.

Here are some factors that could lead to someone graduating with a poor grade in the uni:
*Self financing, some people sponsor themselves to school, the time of hussling can affect their studies, they may miss some vital quiz, tests, assignments even exams in some cases.
*Studing a wrong course, this make the student to just struggle and be dying in silence and eventually graduate with a poor grade.
*Having extra year in school, automatically, your GP will go down.
*Too much play, some guys go to uni and flex all their time in parties, women, fashion , dragging babes with fellow students /lecturers.
*Sudden death of parents, spouse/sponsor: This could give a big blow to the student emotionally and affect the concentration academically.
*Carry overs:once you start having carry overs from 100L, there are chances that you will not graduate with a very good grade.
*Low grades: If you keep having btw C and E in most cases, , especially the three units courses, OYO is your case, is you are still dreaming of first class or 2.1
*Lack of reading/research: For instance, when you are studing, you not going the extral mile to read up other materials for the course, no textbook, no internet research, but you are always on fb, nl, badoo, etc, hmmm, no references in your assignments, wahala go dey o
*Bad friends /company can easily lead you to fail. Or even lure you to join cult.
*Family issues: Yes, some people are the only graduate or the first graduate in their family, if you are in this category, better be close to God, as sone people in the family that do not have the opportunity you have may attack you with Afican magic.
*Sickness:It is not everyone that is blessed with good health, AA, O+, etc. Some people have serious health challenges, so it could also affect their academic performance too.
*Cheating: some that are caught for cheating automatically fail the course, but they will hide the truth from their friends and family.
*Lack of Prayers: Prayer can help you, for instance if you have a very difficult lecturer, just ask God to touch his or her heart , so you can be favoured by the lecturer. Then, you will be shocked that it will happen.
In all, first class, 2.1, 2.2, 3rd class etc is NOT the end of life. It is only a means to move in life, so whatever you have kindly go to a govt uni , back for a master degree or PGD .It is just a stage, just like when waec was waec before Neco came, a lot of people dread waec more than anything then, but today, some have gotten their PHD.To God almighty be the Glory. Forgive my lengthy stuff, but I believe someone has been learn something in it too.

a very good detailed observation especial dose factors. mature mind

taiwolusol: This is very similar to Comparing Private secondary schools to Public secondary school.
Don't worry, you'll soon Outgrow your mentality and Face the Harsh realities of Life.

do u know dat students in private universities don't have carry over to d next session because extension is organise for dose dat failed and deir CGPA is den calculated whereas in state and federal universities d moment u fail a course it is automatically zero point to ur CGPA and no extension to redem it.