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bknight: ^ loving d wrong one is a burden, only time can offload.

smilling.

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chidyhels: Abeg? Na only woman they waste flower age?

The truth about worrying is that it won't change anything. She's probabily wishing she took the relationshp more serious dan she did.

Mr,face ur family biko. Stop listening to side talks. Sit her down and talk some sense into her,love is not enough to keep marriage together, those her petty petty lies destoryd the trust on which the marriage could have been built.

The essence of courtshp is for a successful marriage,i dont see y u are feeling guilty. God has already blesd u.

really appreciate your view. Like somebody advised earlier, let God sort things out for her. I just feel concerned bc age is telling on her. I leave her and God sha.

ULSHERLAN: Ur action was justifiable. Why would she forget you for that 5days it probably means she was remembering somebody else all through that period. Nice one

exactly my point.

ULSHERLAN: The truth is 'maybe it was never meant to work out btwn both of u' something just Needed to happen. Btw do u still listen to what people say abi you want them to ruin your marriage

God forbid. Am married and intend to remain married to my wife. This whole thing is just a distraction which am fighting to overcome.

She is telling people that know us that if I loved her very much, that no matter what she does, that I would have forgiven her.

Jenams: in edcuational research, we call dis TYPE 1 ERROR.

pls what does that mean?

femcruz: OP, its a pity u feeling sorry for smone who doesn't even feel sorry for herself, read ur story urself, she left home for 13days lieing nd all that, she was surely playing card games with you assuming she hit jackpot I guess she will have left u in a more hurt mood dan u are now. You took d best decision man no matter u didn't drop her she dropped u first, by now she would av learn not to tk ppl for granted cos she felt so relaxed in d relationship, if u still calling her or keeping anytin relating to her u gving urself a lot more head ache, focus on d woman that appreciates you nd ur babys dey are all that matters for nw nd forever more, u deserve the best nd nothing Less.

Many tanx @ femcruz. I don't just know why I keep remembering her. Probably due to the level of affection that I had for her. One thing am sure of is that I probably would have died before my time if I had married her. Thanks once again for your splendid advise.

2goodbobo: My friend face your wife and family and stop worrying over nothing. Haven't you heard that is pointless to campaign after election?

Smilling.

D sage: What's the problem again man? You're happily married with kids. Yes, you wasted part of her flower age but that is not your fault if what you're saying here is true.

yea, just that I still feel concerned about her having a normal life. Don't want anybody blaming me for anything that's all.

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lolz. E reach oh.

RColours: Op, from the story you've just told us, the issue here is, she'd already broken up with you even before you made your own decision. Am not sure she'l care much of your decision. It's a wild guess though.
Goodluck to you too.

don't really know what to say. The mum told me in confidence that as afar as she knows, there is no other man in her life. And the friends that are close to me tells me the same thing. I just wish she settles down cos she's really not gething any younger. I don't want her saying she spent the better part of her flower age with me. Asap.

[quote author=clemz85][/quote]Smilling. All opinions are welcomed and will be addressed accordingly.

carefreewannabe: After all I have heard from you about her, I don't understand why you need reassurance from people that you did the right thing?

Hmmm. I've lived with this burden for about 3 yrs nw. I pray I completely forget about her.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]a disease. U lose ur memory, it gets worse, eventually u won't remember people and how to do things until u die. Its irreversible.[/quote]God help us. If this is true then I should be counting myself lucky to have detached from her. I can remember one day she told me that she love me very much but that the truth is that she sometimes don't know when she does these silly things that makes me mad at her. I just didn't understand her even after 4 yrs of courtship.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]Why don't u take her to the doctor to see if she is not suffering from Alzheimer first, if not, then u can break up wit her[/quote]Hmmmm, university of Nairaland. Pls which one is "Alzheimer". I've never heard that word.

carefreewannabe: Didn't you talk with her before you broke up? I mean after four years I'd first try communication before breaking up.

I concur to what @ gree-die has said. But let me still answer your question. I didn't break up with her immediately after my story. We continued the relationship hoping that its part of the ups n down in a relationship. The straw that finally broke the camels back was when she told the parents that she was coming to visit me and at the same time giving me the impression that she was with the parents. Only for her to switch off her phone and kept me in the dark for 13 days. I kept calling her family to knw if they've heard from her and the same way they were calling me to knw if she contacted me. 0nly for me to get her on phone on one of my several trials to reach her on phone and she told me she went to her school to collect transcript. To cut long story short, I almost developed high BP. Just couldn't cope with the whole thing. And the transcript she claimed to have gone to collect was all lie.

kreami diva: Ur action was very justifiable.ppl shouldn't take people for a ride. Question now is: why are u thinking about her? Aren't u happy in ur marriage or is it d guilt that u dumped her?ok now u know u were on point calling it quits with her,can u move on? I'm guessing this should be like 3 yrs now since u already have 2 kids.Face ur wife and children. God will sort her out.

your guess is correct. I just don't want her to feel I wasted her time. Even when I knw it wasn't my fault. And for whether am happy with my wife, I will say she is a gift from God. Thank u.

segzi cres: Very correct decision bro. VERY

thanks man. Am really feeling lightened.

bknight: Very.

thanks for seeing my action as being justifiable. Sometimes when I remember her, I feel guilt bc she is not yet married and she should be around 33yrs old. Am currently married with two kids - a boy and a girl. I keep praying for her to get a good guy and settle down with him.

One funny but stupid thing is that am nw married with the kind of wife I begged God for yet, I hardly spend a week without remembering my ex-gf. Am trying to subdue remembering her anyway. Life is ridiculous.

I have been having one or two issues with my gf which I had always condoned. This one happened when I travelled to the east. I called her to let her know that am leaving. Meanwhile, I told myself that I won't call her just to observe her. I was surprised that she didn't call and after five days, I decided to call her and all she could tell me was that she completely forgot about me for the five days. So I told myself that she's not good enough for me and mind u, this was after 4yrs relationship. so I made up my mind n broke up with her. Pls is my action justifiable?

Walexz02: Good move by the FG. It is foolhardy to climb to trees at thesame time just because you have two foots.
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U didn't even tell us if its used or toks.

Na wa oh. So no body here has used or is close to somebody that has used this car. Car dealers seems to know nothing about this car. Am just trying to ba careful before I put my money into it. If you know anything about it, I'll appreciate your input. Please.

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I want to buy a mazda 323. But I don't know much about it in terms fuel economy, how easy it is changing its parts and any other thing if atall. Please I need your candid advise.

I wear mine any time am leaving the house so does my wife. I see it as a symbol of respect for the institution and devotion to your partner. With it on, people kind of see you as a more responsible person. Am not saying that people that are not married are not responsible oh. Before somebody tries to crucify me.

@ jonson, why not paste your price?

Dealers in the house, I need a car that would not exceed 600k. Please what options do I have? Would prefare automatic and factory fitted AC cars, please. Most importantly, a car that is economical and easy to maintain. Thanks.

Can I go with this car for 550k?