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Rooneyboy: arsenal fans how market

Walahi market dey very bad gan ni o

Consolation goal 4 Arsenal...Hehhehehehehe

REALITY101: OP visit and camp is two different words. That's kind of them. Damn they're just bout same size as my pen!s

Arsenal fans, make una no too dey happy o cos Chelsea lose, una own ojoro dey nearer

Thank God, not easy watching dis tough match as a die-hard Chelsea fan...Blues all da way...

dayokanu: Do you want the baby or not? If you don't want the baby then no one should force you to have it. Just tell your husband you don't want a baby so you can avoid all the losing one's appetite, vomitting, feeling feverish 4rm 1-3months, afterwards, u must stop eating and taking some stuffs like cold drinks,then u ve got 2 change d position u normally sleep,go 4 ante-natal, pushing out 5pounds baby.

Are those kids gonna be answerable to my fathers name?will my fathers family compound gonna be their first family compound even d state of origin( my mother is from Lagos State while my dad is from Osun State, my state of oringin indicates Osun State) as far as am concerned those kids belong 2 their father
What other sacrifices do u guys want from us...we changed our surnames immediately we r married to u etc.

Pharoh: Thanks for summarizing the whole blabbing i had up there but i don't agree or believe in what you are referring to as equally or 50-50. Sharing finances and responsibility is out of love, sense of responsibility and all but putting it equally is not so nice oo. Before you know there will be drawing of roster that it is your turn to wash plate or bath the baby . Just share the whole responsibility according to how it suits the particular family but not equally as nothing like that is really practical to me.

Isn't there roster already of whose turn to pay d kids school fees,pay d utility bills even d house rent, so I see no biggy drawing another roster of whose turn 2 make dinner, wash dishes or bath d baby...our men are fast losing that *d head of d family thing*...all these sharing formular only exist amongst d so-called christians brothers...real muslims will never be in support of this because their religion is against this (it is a taboo sleeping wit a woman and also demanding money 4rm her)...a sister of mine who married a yoruba muslim 4rm Ijebuland, d man provides virtually everything they need...they ve been married now for 14yrs...

dayokanu: I thought the woman had the child because she wanted to not because she was forced to or hoping to be compensated for it

Do u think that's easy.losing one's appetite, vomitting, feeling feverish 4rm 1-3months, afterwards, u must stop eating and taking some stuffs like cold drinks,then u ve got 2 change d position u normally sleep,go 4 ante-natal, pushing out 5pounds baby...
Yes, I know there are lazy men out there, but we stil have hardworking men that compensate their wives after delivery...if u haven't seen, I have seen many

onatisi: oh my god ,how do people reason like this for goodness sake

If u cannot afford Lagos, kindly go back 2 ur village...must u live in Lagos? Abeg free Fashola...am in support of dis policy...if all of us should leave our villages, who then wld provide food for those in the cities...
Bros, go farm jor

Pharoh: I understand but to me it would have been okay to say women who work full time to cover every possible variation of working hours.



Thanks for this post and hitting the subject of new realities that we have come to face in modern times that needs adjustment from the way our father did things during their time when they footed the whole bill. You cannot talk about percentages of contribution without addressing the issue of how the home and children is to be taken cared of. It would just amount to a case of trying to eat your cake and having it at the same time. This same eating of cake applies to women too as you cannot keep all your money from your job and expect the man to help you domestically too at the same time.

It is either you treat it from the religious view where the woman is an help-mate, she keeps her womanly duties and helps you out of her free will. We can go back to our traditional ways where the woman either works in her husband business (farm) or does one or two petty jobs (buying and selling )without any significant income. She then comes home to show the husband the money ( the man doesn't take the money in most cases ) or uses her discretion to supplement one or two things in the house without necessarily informing the husband that provides for the home majorly.

Nowadays the reality is that women can now work and earn money which even sometimes is more than that of the husband. so if we are going the route of percentages that our fore fathers did not practice then the possibility of adjustments in the domestic end of the house becomes possible. For me both should share the responsibility in everything that concerns the home according to whatever agreement or system that suits both of them. One mans system might not be applicable to another family so couples should trash issues like this before saying i do.

May God bless u for dis piece...If u want it shared equally( finances), d house chores, d respects, taking care of d kids, cooking, cleaning, laundry must also b shared equally...we r no slaves again...gone are days of our mothers...

Mondi_cheeks...thanks too

Some pple can be so funny on nairaland sha...El Rufai did d same in Abuja(then a lot of people relocated coupled wit d demolition of houses)...its just a matter of time, Lagosians will get use 2 d situation...dis rural-urban migration is one of our poblems in Nigeria, am sure, many peeps will go back and develop their villages, so that their villages wld b turned 2 an urban area...must everybody live in d city?its unfortunate that Nigeria can only boast of 4major cities...Abuja,Lagos, PHC and Kano...abeg let's develop other areas...

Chei..Tonto Dikeh don suffer...nl get baddest mouth...d likes of Immanuel, Acidtalk...etc...u guys shud leave d poor lady alone afterall she produced something, many of u critising her dont have d talent 2 even write a chorus...

No one compares to Nkem Owoh...followed by Chiwentala Agu, Baba Wande, Victor Osuagwu...U can give it anyday & anytime 2 these 4persons...they will neva disappoint u...
Mr Ibu...don't even like his face, not 2 talk of watching his acts
Baba Suwe...Hmmm, sometimes he does unnecesary things
Latin...I respected Mr Latin in Omo Ode de, buh d man just dey Bleep up dis days
Ambali, Muniru& Sanyeri...walahi, don't know what these ones are doing o
Ajirebi,Papiluwe...wack jokes

CHESSBOARD: Then a lot of Dogs must have Used you mercilessly...

The way they did wit ur momma

megxo: hu offended u BI'TCH?

Ask ur momma cos we r both bitches...

Once I see his stupid face on any African Magic Movies,d channel must b changed 2 anoda(can't afford 2 watch his stupid acts)...wit d likes of Aki and Pawpaw, Hanks Anuku...OMG

I go for Nkem Owoh, Victor Osuagwu, Chinwetala Agu if I wanna get my 32 widely opened...
Anywaz , HBD 2 d greatest mumu actor of our time

How does this affect d price of ...bbpreye

But d price of d stuff still remains d same @ Sango-Ota where Oga Seun lives...

jedisco: Thats true just as most women are bitches. At the end of the day, both the dogs and bitches get along and keep doing their thing.

Erelu_Y: YOU MEAN CHEATING IS IN MEN'S GENE? lol

Is their birthright...men are naturally promiscous...that's y a wife shud always expects d unexpected 4rm her hubby, so dat by d time she finds out, she won't give herself HBP...

CY09: I can see that women are saints!

Yes ofcourse...we r better off...if we truly love someone, its always hard 4 us 2 cheat

all4naija: Dogs are lovely animals. They are women best friends,right?

General Bad Man...

Oyinbo wit yeye vexing...d woman is damn too hurt...most men are dogs- she shud have known dis fact

chyket: We have been hearing this for a longtime now.

Yes o...we r patiently waiting

afam4eva: Soyinka is one Man i respect. He's a man that will always speak the truth and damn the consequences.

What truth? That Awolowo killed them?

solomon111: well he is the president,and he is far more important than Fashola is.
Besides he is constantly a target of boko-haram.

Well, u r somehow right sha...just dat I hate lies, dat garri guy needs 2 be corrected...

I forgot to add- 3 powerful motor bike- u see those ones displaying b4 GEJ's convoy

garri_gangster: To be impartial, GEJ's convoy is at most 5 vehicles and no sirens. You can confirm yourself. Meanwhile Gov Ajimobi of Oyo State uses almost 9 vehicles on his convoy

U r a pathological liar...I once lived @ FHA, Lugbe, along Airport Road...d least GEJ's convoy is abt 15 exotics vehicles plus Army, Police, FRSC,Ambulance, Red Cross vehicles(infact many agancies) coupled wit d fact dat u see policemen lining-up 4rm his Aso Rock Gate down 2 d Airport...atleast we normally spend close to 45mins b4 all vehicles wld be allowed 2 move-all road blocked

acidtalk: Shut the 4uc*k up!
You poverty stricken bit*ch.
Per paint? Olodo oshi.
Simply say "paint bucket" and we will have an idea.

Fo*ol!!! If na to jealous Goldie now na her smelling mouth go loud pass.

Razz idi*ot!

Bros, that's okay please
What has done wrong 2 warrant this? She only expressed her opionion

joeydozzy: it's okay. She's sharing more than 5million bacteria kissing you already. you want to give her more?

I taya too o

I did court and traditional marriage...low keyed, saves money...Embassies do not recognise Church certificates, only court certificates, thou, u can as well use ur church certs 2 get a court cert( there's a provision 4 dat)...

Odinaka00: Wђɑ̤̥̈̊† is Tee Mac? Is it a name of a person, place or a thing?

Google is ur friend

Make flood no just try show-face 4 Abj o cos me no fit swim o