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Greg007:
That means my gf is tired?. But u didn't add. Wen you don't have money also. I think that's number 1

In as much as money is important in a relationship,everything is not about the money alone. have u ever think of why some ladies who are in a relationship with a rich dudes still go ahead a date a broke guy and enjoy it more the guy. money can only give u happiness for some moment but can't give u joy for life

emeraldknytt:
wow! now, that's a pedagogical relationship makeover... I still can't comprehend why I think only a brokeass niqqur would be affected by these laid-out points

we are talking about money here,cos u mentioning brokeass niga here is out of it. we talking about someone u truly love not a side chick.

ThuGnificenX:
And then you become concerned, get heart attack and die... End of story...

you don't have to die of heart attack becos of anybody. all u just need to do is take the necessary measures in make everything right back and if it doesn't work out,just let go n move on

dopedealer:
@ OP you must have gone thru a couple of heart breaks I guess because your point 1-7 are absolutely correct which makes me feel u got experience.
My pple if you notice any of this signs in ur relationship
Pls step your game up before the game steps on you

sure,i have been through a lot my broda

Love Machine:
I easily notice changes in a girl's behavior towards me.If i know she is not the way she used to do towards me i will quickly keep a distance.

do u always try to find out what triggered that kind of reaction from her?

Men always make the mistake of thinking that their ladies won’t leave them just because they take the entire ‘sh*ts’ men do for a very long time. Men get used to their ladies bearing all manner of atrocities they commit till it makes the man feel invincible. But one truth is once a lady becomes tired, there is no going back; her mind becomes made up and she then gets tired of the relationship and an exit becomes the only option for her. 7 signs she’s tired of the relationship

1. SHE NO LONGER GETS AFFECTED BY YOUR ACTS
At this point, she no longer cares about what you do anymore; her feelings become dead to your acts; nothing moves her. Winning her back at this stage is as hard as watching the minutes hand on a clock all day long. Men should never allow their ladies feel this way about them. However, some men still don’t know that at this stage they have lost her; they are so short-sighted.

2. SHE EASILY BECOMES IRRITATED TOWARDS YOU
This is even worse than the previous one; at this stage, she becomes irritated towards everything that you do. They feel better when they are alone than with you. They even feel a huge relief whenever you are out of sight. At this stage, they are just waiting for the perfect moment to leave that relationship; though in their minds, they have left already.

3. SHE EASILY GETS ANGRY
This is the product of sign number two. When you are irritated about someone, you easily get angry. At this stage, everything the man does will provoke her. Trust me when I say, you don’t want to know the insults that she’s pouring on you in her mind. Guys, don’t act surprised when your lady starts getting angry easily. That is an anger that’s been piling for a very long time and it just reached its climax, so she looks for every opportunity to vent the anger on you.

4. SHE DOESN’T DO THINGS SHE NORMALLY DOES
This is only normal when she’s tired of that relationship. She stops doing things she normally does or maybe she gradually reduces the things she does for you. That’s just a huge sign that she’s tired of the relationship; she doesn’t feel any vibe and doesn’t see the need to do stuffs for you anymore.

5. I LOVE YOU BECOMES HARD TO SAY
She no longer finds it easy to tell you she loves you; well that’s because she doesn’t. She even feels guilt when she says she loves you, because deep down, she doesn’t. Even the few times she says it, it would be quite obvious that it isn’t genuine. But on a general note, when she’s tired of you, she doesn’t deem it fit to tell you that she loves you.

6. SHE BECOMES ABSENT MINDED
This is also another huge sign that it’s all over to her. She barely listens to you, she doesn’t flow in conversations anymore, her mind is like a wood, she’s there but she isn’t there. She feels emotionally distant from you at this point; your deeds and talks sound so distant to her. So many ladies can testify of having this feeling with a guy they no longer care about.

7. SHE DOESN’T FIND YOU INTERESTING ANYMORE
I guess this is the worst thing that can happen to any man in a relationship; when his lady doesn’t find him interesting anymore. It’s easier to get a lady than regaining your lady when she feels this way about you. She prefers being with other people than with you; she doesn’t have any affection anymore and it becomes obvious. So now you know it; 7 signs that a woman is tired of a relationship. I only have one advice for the men out there; never let it reach this stage; especially when you have got a good woman. Always make that love last

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

lady,I don't know how true ur story is but let me tell u either true or cooked up, any advice u get from here is at ur own risk. if ur relationship works out nobody here will be there with u and if otherwise nobody will be there. so,u carry ur own cross.

Creamish:

apres vous....mon cher amour!

meaning, after you .... my dear love!

ZKOSOSO:
Any type of restructuring that would not include State police, fiscal federalism, regional economic independence/autonomy and return to full secular constitution is nothing but regular hypocrisy of Northern Oligarchy.
We want genuine restructure. Not the ungrateful parasitism.

can someone give this a guy a bottle of chilled beer and suya for his nice comment

halfricanadian:
Note not all yoruba women some

Mr Op,I guess u should carry out ur research again maybe then u would be able to come to a conclusion without prejudice.
@ AfricaIndian abi wetin be that ur name,I guess u don't even have the idea of what u are saying cos if u do,u will know that there is no tribe that support adultery in Nigeria talk more of Yoruba that have strict and great penalty for any woman who get involves.
not all Yoruba women?
are u a Yoruba lady?

halfricanadian:
IF A MAN CHEATS YOU KNOW OR DON'T KNOW SIMPLE YOU ARS NOT VALUABLE ENOUGH TO HIM

some ladies will know that their guy is cheating on them but they will still stick to him like shiit

pythonkid:
For me, people will ask questions like ;


I'm 16 years old and I haven't switched sexes yet. All my friends have, and my mom-2 and dad-3 are saying I really should, but I was born a male-11 and I like it. Do I have to switch?
My mom refuses to upgrade my brain to a mark 7. Now I can't keep up with my friends. What should I do?
A girl-2 snorped me 7 times last week but this week shen hasn't snorped me at all. Does this mean shen doesn't like me?
OMG! I just learned that people used to eat meat!?!? Like, from animals! How gross is that?
My boyfriend moved to Mars. Is our relationship doomed?..

Share your own opinions guys...
Python kid was here

how old are u,what class are u and what's the name of ur secondary school?

Adaobi12:
Its been long i did something like this. That moment you wish 4am no go reach.

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you are beautiful even without make over

halfricanadian:
Baba God please pick up his call o

A big amen to that!

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I am praying to you, dear Lord above For my heart's profound wish, a perfect love. I pray You'll give me one who cares, Who understands me, who always shares, The answer to my fondest dream, The two of us, a perfect team. Lord, when each new day is through, I pray we'll turn our hearts to You.

halfricanadian:
Hope u find a partner GOODLUCK

hope it's not GOODLUCK JONATHAN sha?

[quote author=halfricanadian post=43549368]She would b satisfied if u do it d right way
There is one thing doing things u feel is ryt bt pisses ur partner off

Thats why i keep sayin kno thy partner people always ignore dis my word

KNOW THY PARTNER

d fact u do things dat can make ny girl fall does it mean its wat ur partner wants?

Dont do things u feel girls generally love to ur partner do things accordingly to who ur partner is people are different so is ur partner Like me girlie girlie things dont really freak me travelling doesnt a quiet time with my partner can make me fall hard.

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I sincerely understand what u are saying but am not even in any relationship talk more of knowing the partner

halfricanadian:
Guys are mysterious too what goes for the goose goes for the gandet too

its not that i hate girls,what am just trying to say is it take the grace of God for a man to satisfy a woman

halfricanadian:
U berra dan my last bf na he no even do reach two sef

Dat doesnt mean u shd hurt 1 million girls for dat

try kno ur partner no two girls is alike in character not even twins just cos A did so doesnt mean B will b same

Some guys are busy paying B purnishment for what A did to dem nd wen dey loose B dey regret cos d angel God sent to heal dem was B bt dey felt in deir own self acclaimed wisdom they kno best

so pls kno thy new partner please ok

I don't visit the sins of someone else on another party entirely, FYI,there was only A and there is no B. i.e I don't have any partner for now,due to some reasons. I'm not that kind of guy that toast or woo every Jane,Janet n Juliet i see or meet. girls are just special mysterious creature entirely

halfricanadian:
if i meet a guy to do dis 95 just even 5 out of d 95 i promise to do 200 things to repay d love will never let him go NEVER

boo just know im prayinh for u till d day we meet i kno u out there somewhr wishing to meet me too my heart is with u and ur love resides in my heart waiting for the one awwwww

I have done more than 10 in that list but she still left me for no genuine reason. girls sha!

halfricanadian:
Funny dude our frndship is here
I never said im looking for offline comfort did i?

ok

halfricanadian:
Here wen we talk thats all

Im falling no prey for nobody ny more

If u not cool pls move on!!!!!!!

Ok

halfricanadian:
Nah sorry e-frnds mean it starts here nd ends here

Ok

[quote author=halfricanadian post=43527136]Sure e-friends alone [/quote








Ok

olac21:
Where were you guys before?

Lagos

halfricanadian:
I too

can we be friends?

halfricanadian:
really sad sorry

yea

[quote author=halfricanadian post=43508785] mine was cos i was never a part of my own relationship i was a close stranger nd a vistor

Pratically i was a nobody in d relationship

Glad av shred d masqurede away

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Hmmmmm

KashyBaby:
Not at all...I have no time for men and their endless dramas.

A big lie there. I know girls like u very well.

35yrs old

I think this a great news

The Senate on Wednesday resolved to amend the Act establishing the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board by extending the validity of its Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination to three years. The upper chamber took the decision after considering a report presented by the Chairman, Committee on Tertiary Institutions and Tertiary Education Trust FUND, Senator Binta Garba. The Senate had in 2015 mandated the committee to investigate the new JAMB admission policy and the unification of the tertiary institutions’ examinations. It directed the committee to include in its report, the amendment of the ACT establishing JAMB so as to extend the validity period of the results to three years. The Senate, however, adopted the recommendation that the UTME results should have a validity period of three years to reduce the financial burden on parents. It also resolved that the examination fees be reviewed downward to N2,500 while the change of course and institution forms as well as any other changes pertaining to JAMB examinations be free. The upper chamber further resolved that computer laboratories should be built in all higher institutions of learning to aid Computer-Based Tests. However, the Senate rejected a move to cut by 70 per cent, the examination cost for the National Examination Council and the West African Examination Council. Garba had said that most of the universities had low capacity to accommodate the number of student, who seek admission on a yearly basis. She, therefore, advocated the establishment of more institutions to accommodate the growing student population

Moppsys:
Hi guys, I just want your honest advice as I am new here

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, I really love him (deeply) and he claimed he loved me too. we dated before 4years ago and we got back together in June 2015. Things has been going well between us, he introduced me to all his family and extended and marriage plans were on the way.He promised me marriage ( Don't get me wrong he did not propose) but we talk marriage everyday, future plans, we have planned the wedding and even started looking at venue. We were already planning on getting our first house together, deposit etc.. and things are all in place.
unfortunately he caught me checking his phone (He has been flirting with other girls) and I set him up, even though he played right into my hands he found out that set him up and he got really annoyed and told his family about it and said he needs time to think about the relationship because I invaded his privacy and set him up and for that reason he is not safe with me.

few days later he came back saying he owe me an apology that when we got back together last year it was not genuine, he was bored, he was pressured to get married and he saw that I was available at the time based on my predicament (I came out of an hurtful marriage) so he felt like he should just be with me since we have dated before.

I felt really hurt and used, even though it was my fault for checking his phone I begged him to take me back but he refused, I have been struggling to deal with the pain as I do not want to lose him.
I have been cursing him everyday ( as long as he lives unless he comes back to beg me, he will never experience true love from a woman every again) because he failed in his words and I felt like he used me for those reasons he gave.

please am I right in cursing him or should I just leave him and let him be, I really love him and I am hurting, because he failed to address the fact that he was flirting and his family are so biased as well

I hate hear all these kind of story!