What's the hell is the fuse over this matter sef? Mtcheeeew. There are clearly posts which shouldn't be replied but we all get carried away,including myself
well for you Op, proving to be in the right, y did you have to seek the opinions of the distinguished honorary members of nairaland when you know you are not doing anything wrong?
as anyone even suggested you guys both tell your partners what you are doing and see whether they will just wave it away with the back of their hands?
you now come here and deprive us of our hard earned Megabytes in reading your post.
to my learned nairalanders, abeg, lets watch out for the part 2 of her story or which we know what it would be........

Burn it

Guys and ladies that have been let down by their partners always hold the same opinion you are now holding. Dear, time heals all wounds. For you to feel this way implies that that guy is the one who have lost a rare gem like you. I wouldn't say you shouldn't feel sore, please do, but strategize to move on... Alot of guys are dying to meet a lady like you, believe me. Not all guys are callous ditto the ladies....remember this....he has broken your heart but has proved that he is not worth you....you the winner girl...cheer up please

obami007: The guy na n ight??

u is funny

From what I have learnt from "ear says", o boy, when a lady, especially one that you have had sex with, goes naked to curse, o boy, whatever she says is confirmed o. Only her can undo such curse, or else be prepared for spiritual exercise,if not in your lifetime, then your offsprings will have to face the music in later generations to come. A word is enough for the wise.

Anyone with knowledge of a "sweet and comfy" self contained in ibadan should please let me know. I'll give you a call immediately. My budget is 70k.....thanks

From what i could deduce from the altercation which ensued between the minister and the chairman of the committee, i could clearly see a clash between confidence and cowardice, a clash between the educational and "experience" credentials of the minister and that of the chairman.
clearly, and i stand to be corrected, the chairman of the committee chickened out. Imagine, he got up from his chair in a move to leave the chamber when the minister was still seated. The minister was clearly in control of the session. I duff my hat for madam Okonjo ja re

Well, have you discussed this with your guy? Do you even know if what he wants is an extrovert lady? Instead of asking for advice here, i believe the best advice will be to table this before him. Believe me, if he loves you, forget any fear.....no matter what third parties say or think about you, he will always stand besides you. My point here again is....talk to your guy

All what you are facing are mere challenges. Never see anything as a problem. Believe me. Once you start seeing these issues as challenges, solutions begins to creep in. As for your unborn child, abeg, in God's name, don't abort him. You don't even know if you are carrying the next Mandela. Contemplating abortion implies you are limiting the power of God to surprise you. God will surprise you. Shalom

Fratenizing right under her father's nose? Mehnnnn, u bad. Anyway, let your friend know you are in to his sister? I must confess most of us guys wouldn't want our friends to date our siss. If you really serious about her and you don't have the intention of playing around, its best you fill in your friend.

i wonder what Mr Rotimi Amechi will say pertaining to your new appellation ma!

Mr future man....tackle this head on. Let madam know how you feel about it.

Hello demensa.....u are not doomed....get that out of your head. See this "problem" as a challenge. Be good to him.....just be good to him....he said you don't respect me him and all that...good. At least he has said something. How have you acted to prove otherwise? Make it work dearie.....i will join you in praying. Pray for him. Shalom

This can surely mar your marriage if you don't play your cards well. Approach those you think your husband will not wade off. I just hope you know those you you can approach and will talk sense into your husband. Anyway,as a rejoinder, let your husband know how lucky he is.......other women can't take 0.1% of what you are condoning. Kudos to you ma and may God help you.

An eye sore....mtcheeeeew

Seriously, do "our men of God" need these sought of flamboyancy? We have been brainwashed to accept the unacceptable.
just thinking out loud, how many church branches does this pastor have?

Dovequeen.....i might be wrong but i think there is a lot of sense in what am about to tell you.
you see, from my "inexperience" in relationship, i have come to realize one particular phenomenon. It pertains to both guys and girls.
if i guy (girl) is in love with a girl (guy), the way they talk to each other especially on the phone is different. The chemistry between them affects the way they communicate. If i speak with all the contact i have on my phone, immediately i start speaking with my sweetheart, you are bound to notice it.
my point here is, does your guy relate with this cousin on the phone the way he relates with you or is he more "caring and affectionate" when speaking with this cousin? If this is so, then i guess that there might be fire on the mountain.

Well, i guess doyin okupe might be right ONLY if the Mandela he knows is different from the Mandela i know. The Mandela i know spent over 27 years in prison, didn't seek a second term,divorced his wife and married a widow. So Mr Okupe, has your own Mandela ever spent a day in prison,divorced and married a widow and refused to seek reelection? If not, then your own "m"andela is different from the renowned Nelson Madiba Mandela who has now joined the"ages"...(sic)(Barack Obama)

Abeg my people, is Chris Okotie reading this? By their fruits, we shall..........

clans: i just don't get the beef with people and Catholics. im a proud catholic and loving it, and i seriously take no offense to whatever pastor Chris says. instead i will take an offense when someone says we aint worshiping God, where did you get such an idea from. but as a peace loving Catholic i am, i would pray for your souls and ask the good God to grant you pardon and pray its not to late for you.. peace be with you...

"ave Maria" proudly catholic

Hello....let me tell you what i see as the truth. Long distance relationships do work. It depends on the two of you. To strengthen your love despite the distance, never joke with constant communication. Spend quality time on chats and calls ok. Forgive when he offends you. You can also tell him you want to visit him or vice versa. I am currently in this kind of relationship and believe me, i don't joke with making calls or chatting. Make sure you also create time for him...show him through your attitude that you care about him. Don't worry. You will be just fine. Just believe that.

I wonder how many guys kiss their girlfriends or wives tommy when she is heavy....i think it shows "love"...which can only be tested with time. Fela might have done more than kissing his wife's tommy but see how he ended up with women.....only time will tell.

It is a general principle for men to go on revenge rampage once they have been jilted by the women they loved. I mean real love here. Deep down each promiscuous man is a tale of a true love gone sour....those who have pleasant relationship should thank their stars....but watch out, no one has the immunity against falling

I hope others, especially our politicians learn from this. Even when you have been pushed to the wall, you should watch your words or else the whole world will watch you on youtube

it is clear the guy got what he wanted....he apparently searched and got her number....to me that shows committment. Abeg, enough talk talk on this issue ja re