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JovialJune:
You see, this is how a balanced healthy family life should be, where both couples join heads to make it work no matter the setback any is facing at a period of time, I tell people that the marriage problem and high rate of divorce we see today is cos one is lording himself/herself over the other, when couples see each other as equal partners, everything will fall in place, even the bible says "two become one" as in same in body and everything.

You said that was how a healthy family should be. Do you know what that man is facing in the hands of that woman in the fiction she narrated. Do you pray that the same thing should become of your sons and your male siblings?

spice123:
My brother, I was out of job for like 6 months and wife took care of all the bills excluding rent and school fees and nobody noticed or knew I was out of job. No negative attitude showed up and I will tell you why. A close friend gave me this advice and I will share same with you. When you get your salary or business profit, remove your t-fare/car fuel and give the rest to your wife to manage the home. I was very hard for me to do but t I summoned courage and since 3+ years I started it, I have complete peace. Infact, my wife was praising me on how I was able to pay all bills and manage funds. By the time your wife will mismange the home funds (feeding, rent, kids sch fees e.t.c) she will wake up and realize that paying for gas in the home is the least issue. You will have utmost respect bro. I have been married for 7 years now.

Chai! See what men are becoming! So, to have peace now, I must handover my salary to my wife to manage, after removing transport fare. This is a tragedy.

Karleb:


I'm sorry to say but this comment no be am.

For the fact that you have a job doesn't give you an excuse not to have time for your family. I don't have a kid yet but I have lots of siblings and everyone of them that is younger than I am were attached to me when they were little, even now that they are growing, the bond is still there.

Even the women many people here try to paint as the devil also work too.

Having a 9 - 5 or facing bullshits at work is no excuse for not finding time for your family, especially your children.

You people should make ammends and stop giving excuses.

Come back and make comments when you are married and when you have children. Experience is the best teacher. Come and make comments when you have a load of responsibilities staring at you and you are living from hands to mouth. Just pray things are rossy for you in life. You think having siblings equals having a family(wife and children). You think those that hardly have time to play with their wives and children are happy about it? You may not understand, but I believe many responsible men who are struggling days and nights to meet their responsibilities will relate to what I am saying.

IMASTEX:
It takes mainly financial & emotional support to grow a child. A man spends his time providing the financial support thinking that is all that really matters. While ignorantly neglecting the emotional aspect for the woman to provide. Well as, emotion influences the mind. Hence whosever influences a child emotionally automatically gains easy control of him. Men in the name of forming a man or too fix pursuing money don't create quality time for the children. I.e. as little as occasional school run, feeding them, playing ball or any choice game, playing on the bed or chair, seeing their favorite cartoons together, bathing them, taking a walk or taking them out, helping with school work, forbidden mummy bought it phrase instead mummy & daddy, etc. will go a long way. Children are mainly attached to whosever provide them emotional support. It is only when they become an adult that they place value on financial provider.

You are very correct. But, don't kill yourself trying to do all those things you mentioned above all in the name of gaining affection from your children, please. Things are not easy for some men. If you know what some men are passing through at their places of work, you will feel for them. Just do what you can do emotionally and financially, who will love you, will love you and who will hate you will hate you. Remember, your life doesn't have a duplicate and you, too, need to enjoy life before you die.

Mercychen:
You that is not justifying nonsense, I think it's your urine they'll use to fill their gas mad pay the rent is shop.

You think biz is only about cooking for people to just come and eat and go.

Are they running a Charity there?

Reason before you talk.

Be reasonable young man, iya basira that will sell the same plate of food(food that is richer and more nutritious) for N600 is patronising a different market in a different planet?

Mercychen:
It's like it's been long he went to the market. Let him try cooking a decent meal with meat by himself and see if he'll not sweat it.

They even put egg, you're still complaining.
Boiled egg is now N100 per one from local food vendors. Talk more this level.

I observed something recently. Two canteens in my area ( both run by men) have shut down for the past two weeks now. Only one just managed to open yesterday. So it's crazy.

Don’t justify nonsense, do you know the number of 100 naira you will get from N2500. Let ponmo too be 100 or 200naira. That's 300naira. You still have 2200 left. Do you think the rice, beans +steew worth N2200?

Kobicove:
I can't say I blame the woman for wanting out of the marriage especially if she know the fault is not from her

The same way you won't blame the man if he decides to end the marriage if the fault is not from him.. Right?

EshjayLee:
Slay Mum! When is his younger ones coming?

As soon as she sees another married man to deposit the akamu..

FutureIsFemale:
Nigerian men get bitter when a woman is doing well in her chosen career. They will be quick to tag her "ashawo"

If it was your husband that impregnated her, you would be the first to call her ashawo. Don't forget table can turn..

Onyi22:
A Single mother with Class
Chai.. Money stop nonsense

I don't know what you mean by nonsense here because what she did was a definition of nonsense.......imagine getting pregnant out of wedlock, not even sure of who impregnated her, probably a married man. An act that will cause pain and sorrow for the wife of that man. This was after preaching celibacy. You should Condemn what should be condemned and appreciate what should be appreciated.

jaxxy:
There’s a factor of luck in this game. Mosttimes People who leave early and those who stay longer are only differentiated by the luck factor.

Thanks. You now understand what I am saying

jaxxy:
There’s a factor of luck in this game. Mosttimes People who leave early and those who stay longer are only differentiated by the luck factor.

Thanks. You now understand what I am saying.

jaxxy:
Its not only about classy. She had multiple admirable qualities and to top is off she was Real!

I understand Angel is being real also and I appreciate that aspect bt ur realness must embrace the extremely wrong things. That wud be a disservice to urself in a sane world.

Whatever other qualities your so called classy housemate might possess, those qualities could not keep her in the house. But the qualities of your trashy housemate are still keeping her there. One understands the game better. Be reasonable bro.

jaxxy:
Maria is still the biggest hm in BBn6. She has more fans they just didn’t vote assuming others were voting.

Yes it’s sbout classy. Angel can only go sofar b4 she drops unless she changes her slothful ways. Fact!

Obviously I’m predicting Liquorose.

The biggest and the most classy housemate(according to you) was evicted barely 5wks into the game and you are still saying the game is about being classy? Be reasonable nah..

Maxwell4404:
For Men, what will you do if you get married to a lady and found out that she once begged on the street Vs What will you done when you get married to a lady and found at that she was once an Ashawo who has slept with almost all your Friends in the past

Oga, keep quiet. Many ladies if not all, have been deflowered many years ago before their marriages and they have been receiving different dicks long before they even think of marriage. So what is the difference.? Did you marry your wife a virgin? If not, do you know the number of dick she had received before you married her?

jaxxy:
Liquorose maria friend is winning bbn6.

That’s what I say again!

Anyone can win the game. It is a game of luck and no one can say who will win. You can only guess. It is not a matter of someone being classy or trashy.

jaxxy:
We don’t support such immorality on bbn.

You see what I was saying?

InspectorIawaI:
the idiot you quoted can't even spell conscience.
Just take a look at his moniker and see the catastrophic error.
FreeConcience indeed

You this dunderhead, don't exhibit your dunderheadedness here. Monikers do not require correct spelling.

jaxxy:
We don’t support such immorality on bbn.

If all all the housemates exhibit the same outward dispositions or characters. Viewers will not have fovourites among the the housemates. Support your favourite and let others support theirs.

InspectorIawaI:
those guys were dey draw tattoo don use their eyes see wonders.
I also doubt you're a naija lady cos almost all naija Ladies love watching these Useless show

Don’t be deceived, those who come here to criticise the show watch it 24/7.,hypocrites everywhere..

roddy15:
That prostitute angel need to leave the house..... Reason i asked my wife to only watch the show at 9:00pm.

Why even allowing her to watch it all? Your confusion is confusing me.

seyz91:
The girl is jusr useless and the show itself is just useless

Making irelevant people relevant

Why the envy? If you want relevance, apply next season, if you can't, shut up and face your lane. It's a free world.

jaxxy:
They are ur new celebrities in the making. One is classy and one trashy.

Funny enough, the one you think is classy maybe evicted next and the one you think is trashy may win the game.

TechNana:
Sometimes it seems I tend to think too much,

Why would a lady like me, in her right senses tattoo the middle of her boobs,

And she's now spending time going through the rigorous decision of always trying to get outfits that will not cover her centre of attraction ( which is heart tattoo and boobs )...

If I'm not mistaken she would almost not wear any clothes to cover her centre of attraction when she's in public, in as much as this may be fashion, to what essence is this?

I wish her well, but what if she doesn't win the show? Then all these rigorous show for attention becomes fruitless?

I just don't understand the positive side of this BB naija show anyway...

I tried to use my time for important things,
for innovative things, for things that should make me mentally sane tomorrow...

I can't see myself spending up to 10 minutes watching a show that cannot inspire anything positive to me in any way...

Who forces you to even spend 1minute to watch it. Do what you like with your time. It's a free world.

G

Not true

akinade28:
This is true Love
Correct Man, I salute his courage to go ahead with the wedding. Some would have stylishly ended the relationship
Correct Woman, she decided to tell the truth regardless of the consequences. She could have chosen to hide it from her man, which could have ended the marriage if the husband later finds out.

Please, ignore this post. No competent doctor will say a lady will never conceive because of a certain period of absence of ovulation or menstruations. Ovulation or mmenstruations can cease completely or be irregular for a certain period. It can also resume or become regular later with or without treatment, depending on many factors. Probably the wife did not listen carefully to what the doctor said or the wife misinterpreted the result. If you want to prove me wrong, let him post the results of the tests here. She is even looking pregnant in the wedding pictures. Beware of fake testimonies!

Adewunmiomoniyi:
Read more here

https://mylatestgist.com/doctors-told-wife-can-never-pregnant-now-child-vocalist-marvel-iyen-shares-powerful-testimony/

Please, ignore everything in that link. it is misleading. Many people are already saying they won't follow their doctor's advice again. No competent doctor will say a lady will never conceive because of a certain period of absence of ovulation or menstruations. Ovulation or mmenstruations can cease completely or be irregular for a certain period. It can also resume or become regular later with or without treatment, depending on many factors. Probably the wife did not listen carefully to what the doctor said or the wife misinterpreted the result. If you want to prove me wrong, let him post the results of the tests here. Beware of fake testimonies!

Vivian16:
who created the doctor and gave him wisdom?God, who created the herbs and other materials from which medicines are produced?God, the scripture said that by strength shall no man prevail so in this case all the credit and glory go to God who has done this great miracle for this couple.

Please, ignore this post. No competent doctor will say a lady will never conceive because of a certain period of absence of ovulation or menstruations. Ovulation or mmenstruations can cease completely or be irregular for a certain period. It can also resume or become regular later with or without treatment, depending on many factors. Probably the wife did not listen carefully to what the doctor said or the wife misinterpreted the result. If you want to prove me wrong, let him post the results of the tests here. Beware of fake testimonies!

weslay:
Same thing doctors told a friend. Today, they are blessed with a boy and a girl.

Sometimes, you have to follow your heart

Please, ignore this post. No competent doctor will say a lady will never conceive because of a certain period of absence of ovulation or menstruations. Ovulation or mmenstruations can cease completely or be irregular for a certain period. It can also resume or become regular later with or without treatment, depending on many factors. Probably the wife did not listen carefully to what the doctor said or the wife misinterpreted the result. If you want to prove me wrong, let him post the results of the tests here. Beware of fake testimonies!

obonujoker:
Of course, the report of God is bigger and truer than the report of doctors

Please, ignore this post. No competent doctor will say a lady will never conceive because of a certain period of absence of ovulation or menstruations. Ovulation or mmenstruations can cease completely or be irregular for a certain period. It can also resume or become regular later with or without treatment, depending on many factors. Probably the wife did not listen carefully to what the doctor said or the wife misinterpreted the result. If you want to prove me wrong, let him post the results of the tests here.

DarkCaesar:
I will never proceed with her…….that news is more than enough to end everything we ever planned. Me I don’t bear adversity with people and I don’t have people share my misfortune too

Please, ignore this post. No competent doctor will say a lady will never conceive because of a certain period of absence of ovulation or menstruations. Ovulation or mmenstruations can cease completely or be irregular for a certain period. It can also resume or become regular later with or without treatment, depending on many factors. Probably the wife did not listen carefully to what the doctor said or the wife misinterpreted the result. If you want to prove me wrong, let him post the results of the tests here.

She was even looking pregnant in the wedding pictures. Fake testimonies!