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Iamvetlander:
People wey no fit relate go think say we don craze

Blessedmercy8:
Warning
Long read. Please bear with me.

My twin is at it again and this time, I'm beginning to consider what some members of this group told me about her not meaning well for me.

Now, we have an elder sister that sorts us out anytime we run to her for sortings ;especially me, she always sorts me more than the others since she views me as a single.

It got to a point she told me not to always disclose to the others any time she sorts me out and she usually gives me huge cash. Before now, I used to tell my twin that Sis gave me something, she too will disclose whenever she gives her but I noticed that sometimes, she'll not want disclose until I probe further. she'll now say it reluctantly and most times, it happens that I get a bigger sorting.

I later noticed she was always telling big Sis how I have so many schools and that my schools pay well. So anytime I now holla big Sis to assist me, she'll be like . " You are now a big girl, shey you now have many big schools" and I'll be like.. how did she know. Not knowing my twin used to feed her with all that info. Still she'll give me what I requested. I didn't know twinny was not happy.

Sometime last year, big Sis gave me a huge cash gift worth hundreds of thousands to use for my book business and I didn't disclose it to her.
So one time, she ( twinny) asked me to stop coming to her house, she went and told my sis that I didn't do the book business again cos that one asked her how my book business was going. That was how twinny got to know she gave me such huge amount. Meanwhile, before then, I called and told her if big Sis asked her if I've started my book business, she should tell her she doesn't know.

Big Sis called and I explained to her that the money was still intact that I'm saving up some more so I can go into it big time. She said ok.
Still she continued sorting me whenever I called her.

Fast-forward to early this year, I bought a huge flat screen tv set to replace the old one I was using. So twinny saw it and went and told big Sis that I bought a TV set.

How I got to know.
I called big Sis recently to sort me cos school is on break and some are still owing me for books. For the first time, she locked up and said her hands are tied. Immediately my spirit told me twinny informed her about the TV set. After like three trials without progress, I rang twinny and asked her if she told big Sis about the TV I got and she said yes. I was like... Why?
Who sent you? And she said its a thing of joy, that was why she told her but I know she didn't do it with good intentions and now she has achieved her aim by blocking that way for me.

I'm still angry because I feel she did it for no good judging from how she has been disclosing my financial records and business activities to my sis so that one can stop helping me

Konjiboii:
So just recently I came across an ex post on IG showcasing her marriage pictures and husband and I just felt bad for the dude, despicable things me and his woman did in the past I doubt she will ever go that length with him, the ways we fvcked and gallons of jizz she swallowed. Truly what you don't know can't kill you.
I wish them the best of luck.





















But mehnnnnnnn

Iamvetlander:
We blessed on this side.

East to the west.

Migxcy27:
I've been in relationship a while with this lady.... That I really love her so much
She was God sent for me even my friend were jealous of her

every weekend she normally come around to stay with me through out, sometimes I will give her excuse that am not around especially when I don't really have enough to sent on weekend..
Our love was growing very fast and I was very happy about it that finally I have found my missing rib
Unfortunately something just happened she started posting sometimes on WhatsApp like 'that your serious girlfriend will shock you one day'
Before I could knew what happened she started behaving strange to me like three day she doesn't pick my call or chat me on WhatsApp as usual
If I drop message for her on WhatsApp she will took like 5 to 7 minutes to reply me, it was really big concern for me
Finally she came with results that she's pregnant for me and I didn't even argue with her and I accepted it
But she wanted to remove it, but i didn't agree with that and she was really mad at me that I wanted to ruined is future we argue for a while I decided to send her money to remove it and final she say she had done it.
Since them the girl don't normally come my house on weekend again and I asked her what is happening she doesn't want to answer me and I started suspect something silly about her.

One particular day she decided to come over and I took her phone go through her WhatsApp chat and I was shock to found out that this girl is telling another guy she is missing her period while she told before that she is pregnant and Bill me and delivery it to her to remove it. and to even worst everything she didn't put a pressure she was putting me through she was a kind of gentle with the guy, she even tell the guy not to worry that she will work it out and she didn't demand any money from that guy.......
And confront her with a evidence she denied it that her sister is the one actually not her that her sister phone spoil so she decided to add her own boyfriend number on her WhatsApp to chat him and I didn't believe her I decided to break up with her but my greatest surprised was that the girls was not even complaining or say anything about it she decided to go and since then non either call or text from her

The girl really mess my life up for me I swear I don't think I will be so stupid to fell in love again

Enitanmii:
Love is Enough!

Someone once said Love is not enough to run a successful relationship and the thought did spread on social media.

The thought was, aside love, "commitment, selflessness, care, trust and suchlike" are needed to run a relationship,

I didn't agree with the thought and here's my reason.

The society we live in has done so much injustice to the definition of love.

They've described love as a feeling you have for the other person and that misconception often lead many into marital errors.

They have ascribed feelings to love, such that once it feels great then it's love.

Advanced Dictionaries got it all wrong too by defining love as "a great feeling of likeness or affection".

In reality, love isn't a thing you feel (good feelings) but a thing you do, just that "feelings" are the thermometer of love.

"Feelings are the thermometer of love. Feelings are what love uses to thrive."

But that it feels good all the time doesn't mean it's love. Rebuke can make you feel sad, yet it's necessary in a working relationship. AND THAT IS AN ELEMENT OF LOVE!

Here's my explanation:

When I hear people say, "My partner doesn't love me anymore", I try to ask why they think so and the answers would be like, "'he doesn't care', 'she nags', 'he is too proud', 'she's uncultured', 'he's not trustworthy' and so on.

When your partner does something that betrays your trust, YOU FEEL BAD, right?

That means those things find expression through feelings.

Back to love...

Love is like the air. We're told it's a mixture of gases. We can see the gases but can't see the air.

Love is like a tree and every good thing that engenders joy make up the branches.

That means, commitment, selflessness, trust, integrity, thoughtfulness, care, dedication, devotion, etc, are what make love.

Finally, when someone proves to love you and the affection isn't tied to applauding values, it's LUST!

LUST will only see physical endowments but LOVE, inner beauty.

So will you agree with me that love is enough?

If you do agree let me know, then share this post with anyone you want to have the same understanding.

We're blessed!

siofra:
A redpiller who's miserable and lonely will come here and try to threaten nairaland women with spinsterhood and Shiloh. Wonders shall never end

Iamvetlander:
You're a fan of ttairo?

I love thay guy

incandescentena:
The only reason to tell your
significant other is to relieve
yourself of the guilt. If you
fvcked up you should live with it for the rest of your life.

Op I condemn what you did with your EX. You should have never cheated on your dear Husband in the first place.

Well You should tell your husband, and let him make the decision that is in the best interest for himself and his children.

NO MAN WANTS TO LIVE WITH A CHEATING WIFE!

Alphamale101:
Broo my church member nah em get that Toyota Camry aka muscle wey bullet touch they also did thanksgiving for church

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

Ademola47:
For like 5 days, I've been seeing this (photo) meme trending on WhatsApp Status, Facebook and Twitter.

What's the origin of the pics?