₦airaland Forum

visijo:
I come in peace. Will pharmacies be open tomorrow?

EkehPraise:
Nobody genuinely cares about you not even family members

There is no month that goes by that I don't support nuclear and extended family members with cash and foodstuffs especially during festive seasons. But this particular Christmas that just passed I decided not to share anything to anyone and guess what? Nobody called (not even my cousins whom I sometimes send pocket monies) to even check up and know if I am doing okay

Unique357:
In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us.

On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help.

Yesterday my wife went shopping, she bought clothes for herself, our children and nothing for the house help. She claimed that the girl doesn’t need any clothes for Christmas as long we feed and send her to school, the rest is her parents' duties. The girl in question is my wife's relative from the same village. This girl is so nice to our children, she is like a second mother to them despite her being just 15, I have never had any problem with her.

I was mad at her that I told her, if she cannot treat another woman's child well then she doesn’t deserve to be a mother, yes I did said some harsh words to her because of anger. She accused me of sleeping with the little girl which I told her she is mad and she couldn’t stop crying the whole night. This morning she didn’t make my breakfast and refused greeting me back.

Please house let me know if I overreacted

gmec23:
Pls how can I fix my dad's excessive alcohol intake at 64.

DontBullshitMe:
You won't be doing this if you are rich.

nachisunday:
listeners shopper mugu dont go and drink water and relax

KushLyon:
As you don write everything, wetin you say make we talk now?

Kay25:
na lie no be d same weed dey give dem the nonsense inspiration?so am sure u can't be different no dey sideline ur brothers

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!


Why now? I was already planning to shoot my shot on the queen with my new song that is driving ladies crazy, you can check my signature to listen and come and tell me if she go say yes

Anonymoususher:
Nigerian ladies are one of the worst set of humans beings on earth. So entitled, expectant and stingy.

This Christmas season to avoid unnecessary billing I locked up my money in Piggyvest safe lock plan to avoid unnecessary spending.

So since then I resulted to doing with what I have left and placed only few people in my Christmas budget and they are my mother, my fiancee, my brother and my brother's wife...

I have been getting calls and begging from friends, 90% from female friends and I tell them plainly that I don't have any money to give to anyone this season, it is Christmas celebration for all of us not a money making scheme for the ladies because every where the ladies are always like, come do Christmas for me, bla bla bla... Some have even stopped talking to me since I told them the fact.


In my office, we closed for the year since 17th and I noticed that my male colleagues bought gifts and gave to me, I wasn't expecting any gift though but the female ones, all I get from them is do Christmas for us.

Trying to emotionally blackmail me... So it happened that yesterday I decided to use my church mind to send something to them

These are ladies who earn same thing with me and even more because they get tips from the guys and people who come around...

So, I got some money and these three ladies (after settling my mom, fiancee, brother and in-law), I decided to send something to these female friends of mine and I sent 5k each to them.

The first two ladies called immediately to say thanks but the third one didn't, I asked if she saw any money I sent and she said yes, the tone sounded like someone who expected more...

Immediately I hung up, I saw that the money was reversed by my bank and the 5k got back to me.... She chatted me immediately that they have debited her and reversed the money...

Joy filled my heart and I said God thank you... Immediately I went out to get a nice dinner for myself.

paranorman:
Hi