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Venica:
got hearing problem that prevent me from making phone calls. find it very difficult to converse when its dark. could need light to hear whatever u are saying .

i love attention like two days old baby


can't stand d smell of alcohol . lends to instant vomiting

Eeya...sowie....Unable to converse in the dark is kinda strange... What condition is dat

Onyezaza:
freespirited only you

E too much? ...which one shd I remove?

fart:
YES? HOW CAN I HELP YOU? WHY ARE YOU MISS USING MY ID?

Here, we call it moniker instead of ID...thank u

dingbang:
What sort of nonsense is this..

...childish stunt.. E funny

Its too much of a shit to take....nonsense. Ditch her.

escapefromusa:
Ohh so thats wat it means

Yea. They will turn you on and off...They also win with sweet mouth and solid excuses

Unfortunately, you are dating a fvckboy,alias bad guys. That's their trait and trademark. They are often very good in bed....Take heart or break up.

forMom:
shior
which fart does not smell

....I want to use this medium to sympathise with your spouse.... Eeya.

Prettythicksmi:
Lol,not bad tho.hehehehe

Me , I expect my babe to wake by 5:am to wake me with a BJ....not sleeping till 7: am ..while I develop blue balls

Prettythicksmi:
Aswear,my boo is a good cook.

Awwww...lucky u...sha reduce ur sleep sha...

Prettythicksmi:
I hate cooking
I love sleeping,infact i can sleep for two days without waking up lol

U better mary a chef....Na im go fit u

FelixFelicis:
Dear wife, I mustn't catch you laughing at another niggas joke, what you mean? I should be the only one who can make you laugh or smile.

Na jealousy be this o

forMom:
well you're not my spouse

I doubt your spouse can cope...maybe if it doesn't smell sha

forMom:
hmn

farting out loud

lols....Abeg...I can't cope with this o

We can't shy away from the fact that we all have our good and bad sides. It's always good to know your bad side so that when your spouse is reacting you will be more understanding. You will also be able to handle the situation more calmly.

It's actually better and less stressful for our partner if we plan to change, though we all know its easier said than done.

My negative tendencies which my spouse might have to cope with are:

1 I rarely sweep my room..my younger ones or babe do that for me.

2 No matter how I try, clothes will always litter my room...My wife must a good home-setter

3 When I eat I don't like removing the plate to the kitchen I usually stand up, leaving the plate.... means I will get a househelp

4 I hate going to the market....maybe it might change someday

5 I love disturbing for early morning sex.... ...I prefer early morning sex to any other sex.

6 I use sarcasm a lot and I'm blunt to a fault and very opinionated when need be

7 I can be very playful though I have control over this

8 I'm very forgetful, girls find it annoying. Its actually the little things I do forget not books

These are my major negative attitudes : and I hope to change someday, or my spouse will cope and love me nevertheless. Share yours.

illuminated93:
@freespirited,she will see this thread soon,cos she's a nairalander and she looks up my account every now and then.

hmmm.....not too good sha....If she's understanding it might not be a big deal....But she could use it against u sha

@Op Change the topic of your post so that it can attract more contributors....Something like: 'Help!!! my fiancee is denying me sex after a very active sexual life'

Amberon:
That is your personal problem. Your pastor Chris is the anti chris. A pastor that says masturbation is a sin worse than the devil. Jesus Christ said mere lusting over a woman in your heart is adultery.

We don't care about what you people think. Continue in your delusion of grandeur.

I'm sure u havnt listened to the preaching..u are jst condemning upandown .Pastor Chris said masturbation is not a sin...he's right go back and watch the video....And stop being a fanatic.

illuminated93:
1) Yea, I met her a virgin,but she knew about sex and all that,cos she read stuffs on the internet.

2)I don't think she's that religious,not like the born again people. She's more of a secular christian who wants a close relationship with God

3) I don't think there exist a guy that fuccks better than I do.

4)she said it's like the sex is the basis of our relationship. I was stunned when she said this anyways.

5) we both have been going through a financial meltdown offlate.

I'm kinda concerned about our future together. If she pictures a future with me,why would she want us to stop abruptly something we've already started? Except of course she feels when everything ends, she'll end up being the loser. That is to say,in her heart of hearts,she thinks things won't go as planned an we won't end up being couples. The only reason i'm this concerned about her is cos I really do love her,but the feedbacks I'm getting are not worthwhile. Everyone has a point where they stop caring,this I fear I might start doing,and it would mark the beginning of the end

I think I have said everything and thank you for confirming my suspicion

Now you can see the real picture:

1) Financial issue : Financial issue usually brings out a lot of avoidables...Most times, when a lady thinks she's bringing more money into the relationship, she might have a doubt if theres no enough commitment frm u and starts to misbehave. Try and thrash d money issue.

2) Reassurance : She's not getting enough reassurance,and she's scared she might lose at both ends. Especially from the way you do fvck her anyhow ,( E kon be lik say na only fvck u dey contribute to the relationship ) I wouldn't advice you to overdo it though, cos ladies get complacent when vthey know their guy will always dig them and pack their shiit. But u can spice things up at times.... And say dose sweet things we are good at saying to make her mind rest, den fire her yansh again...lol


3) These are are major concerns not the sex issue. Don't be surprised she could still tender her pvssie to be fvcked by another guy she only has sexual attraction for...In fact, while she seems to be bored with you, she becomes more vulnerable to sex-predators out there...alias: bad guys who wud just give her sexual satisfaction........Good luc...Na word u go still give her to buy her back and some trips....Bros work hard

Was she a virgin before you met her? How was her past relationship, are you the first guy she's dating, What's her belief about sex? Do you think shes that religious to forsake sex or she's just using religion as an excuse
You might have to be sure about all these

On a lighter mood, Abi you no fvck her well well?

The real issue is, she's confused or immature about what she wants that is if shes religious enough.

On the flip side, there's every tendency that an underlying issue is somewhere.... Which she has not told you or you havnt known

She might not see the future with you again, or she doesn't get enough reassurance from you, or she feels you've been using her for just sex..... it may also be financial issue.....You have to find out

If you still cnt understand.... Just let her be....don't disturb her, tell her it means you guys are not compatible...Find a young gal for yourself to cool off for the time...so that u won't get too worry about it.

If she wants you...after a while you will know.

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The problem is you...... she went clubbing , many girls do that, either single, engaged or married sef...that's not new. The issue is, you are the one to set the boundary and it is after u set a boundary and she crosses it, that u can raise a serious eye brow.
The major stuff with you is that you don't love the girl again, and what u should have done was to break up with her if u couldn't cope, but u accepted her and impregnated her. Now, you are evil if u leave that girl to suffer
A girl who is still a virgin of recent, u have no evidence dat she cheated, yet u are messing up... All girls don't get fvcked every time they go clubbing.

She received a call in the morning from a pastor or a priest -and so what?.That's childish of you if u can't get a thorough evidence before concluding.Besides, can't she receive call again?

You only need to groom that girl if she has attitude u dnt like. it is after u think she cant change that u can leave her, imagine, somebody u already engaged....

Good ladies are scarce, we still have the responsibility to groom and norture our babe...cos they all have the tendency to stray

IamaNigerianGuy:
Computers are incidental to computer science. Computer science is about computation not computers.
What you call a computer today is a machine based on the von- Neumann architecture. There are other architectures and their product may not resemble the common idea of a computer.

CS as a field existed before the modern computer was invented (although it wasn't termed CS). Ever heard of the Charles Babbage and his adding machine? Ever heard of the Jacquard loom or the abacus?
These are aids to computation as well.

There are 'computer scientists' working on information storage and data retrieval using DNA. They utilize theories from CS but work on biological systems.

And next time, keep your arguments impersonal
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I am typing on my phone; I'll add links later

Well, to me, They are all in the same field....And I would love to get a grasp of any of those subject area..Computer science, programming, software engineering, and phone development.... And I think they are all related

Rukkydelta:
They are looking for customers. All you got to do is patronise them

Mehn....we will continue to fvck and dump o...cos there are many to sample

IamaNigerianGuy:
Well you are wrong.

Computer science is about computation not computers. The field is inappropriately named just like 'political science'.
The computer is an efficient tool (actually, the most efficient tool in most cases) for computation.
There have been computer scientists that did not (or only rarely) touch computers. They theorized, wrote down their findings and let other people code (or run software) they had written. An example would be Edsger Dijkstra
Think of it with this analogy: some doctors never see patients but still practice in the medical field eg as researchers, policy experts etc.

Second, at the basic degree level, programming is mandatory. It is however more often than not, superficially taught. Many computer science grads are mediocre programmers.
Note too that CS is considered a runaway branch of mathematics and so some practitioners are actually involved in research that is really maths or even electronics.

Finally, please differentiate software engineering from computer science. Software engineering is taught in computer science courses but only 40% of software engineers are computer scientists (in the developed world).

All aforementioned are branches of computer science.... Na was for uo...

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outline_of_computer_science

When a medical student is always online and slaying on social media ....why won't dey fail

She's ugly.....But I won't mind fvcking her

To marry beautiful girls with sexy body dese days na wahala

All these foolish girls called 'yeye-brities' no dey tire? Always seeking public sympathy with deir mumu crocodile tears after washing their cloth in public.

...mtcheww..shameless spoiled maggots

Bowwow11:
I won't even go to school again the BSC nd master degree I have already did nt benefit me I did rather go into business nd be self made millionaire than having a nonsense qualification without value in the society

Sorry I dint include that , the school is an ideal schl the one we get abroad..... I wouldn't go back to read computer science in most Nigerian schl of course

IamaNigerianGuy:
You need to differentiate Computer Science from programming.

Programming involves creating software.

Computer Science is the study of the theory and practice of computation; it is possible to be a computer scientist without knowing how to program well, it is possible to major in a branch of computer science that does not even deal with computers!

The best programmers in the world are termed '10x' programmers. More than half never studied CS in school. Two-thirds of startup founders are self taught.

The main value of a CS degree is job security in an academic environment and skills for advanced theoretical work.
In fact, except in exceptional cases, Google, FB, Amazon, MSoft and other big tech companies really do not emphasize your degree in their interview process.

David Karp(Tumblr), Kevin Systrom(Instagram), Jan Koum(WhatsApp), Ron Wayne(Apple), Bill Gates(Microsoft), John Carmack, Erin Parker(SpitFire), Jack Dorsey(Twitter), Mark Zuckerberg(FaceBook) and many many others are self taught programmers.

If you are serious about learning computer Science and programming go for it. Of course formal learning in an academic environment is great, but if you do not have the money or time for formal schooling DIY.

Start here to each yourself computer Science: https://teachyourselfcs.com/

Bros, theres no good school in the world that won't teach u all tye nittygritty of programming if u are a computer science student.....Infact, computer science is about programming, every execution is a science of programming. Programming could be furthered in advance study but its a basic knowledge of a computer scientist. Programming, software design, etc are all subset of computer science....Computer science exposes you to opporunities in those discipline.

Masterxmind:
I'd prefer going for information technology

Isn't that a subset of computer science? Being a computer scientist or a programmar, u can design and even invent new information technology.