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Who is the fool here ? The dickhead who gives iPhone 7 worth 300k for sex they both enjoyed or the lady who willingly enjoys d sex and still gets iPhone 7............

Many men can be "pussyfied" to fools......

TrapQueen77:
ohh okies... Won't elaborate that much...

why are ladies shy to talk abt. stuff like dat

TrapQueen77:
Naaaah... That's biznezz boo.. Unless u are having a video call with her that she's really doing it... Otherwise, call it a Trap

She may be ironing the time she's sending u VN as if she was moaning... Coz oooh yeah, it's was really steamy hot on her side

but when a lady tells u she's hot and initiate it herself....how abt dat

TrapQueen77:
It's really fake... U may jerking off on ur side while she's doing cooking while replying on u...

I have never engaged physically wit sexchat....I always suspect DAT...though can be fun especially wit someone u dnt expect

TrapQueen77:




Who does that? Sex chat It's juz a waste of time...but dropping bombs (dirty talks) sometimes makes conversation interesting...

yeah.,,,I get bored at times on it....sometimes it looks fake

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JESUSBOIY:
Hi guys and girls..

My female secretary is beauty to behold, a sexy girl with big breast, yarnsh and legs, but she is just 19 and sometimes very naugthy. Naughty in the sense that she profess innocence of sex while i got to hear some of her escapades with guys in the office.

I'm already at the advance stage of the plan to join the priviledged guys in the office and I need your advice before I sack some of my hardworking guys because of this naughty slut that preoccupies my mind.

Who knows, ur advices may save my company from imminent collapse as i'm helpless now.

cheers.

Is that what your Jesus taught u?.....Pvssyboy

Nawao.....my question is...is it not possible to get justice on those animals called soldiers using ones lawyer in a Nigerian court?....

So this is what you waste your data on?......I dint bother check the videos. When ur mates are making money with data

Community service even at death....... This man is truly selfless.

After all you are planning to end its fate in a pot......visit a vet clinik to postpone its death

GlorifiedTunde:
Once you're 16, the whites leave you to take decisions and face whatever consequences.

But in Naija, even in your matrimonial home, your mother will still come and tell you to kneel down.

I swear we dey suffer for here

ILuvGummyBears:
[color=#2ecc71]He will come trollin' with his alternate.[/color]

dnt mind him......I trust NairalandEFCC1 to burst him.

Good riddance......,and dnt come trolling with your Alt.

TrapQueen77:
I am juz so curious as I read a lot of stories about pastors having sex with their church members...




My question is... Are these pastors tat love sex are having humongous black mamba tat they can persuade their members to try their sweet kondo?

They are just normal humans using their 'pastor' tag as a cover.

A woman went to her pastor for advice. Not for sex. She never imagined her pastor would do something so egregious as to manipulate her into having sex with him. The worst part was that because they were both adults, the woman blamed herself for having an “affair” with her pastor and then hid silently in her shame. But it was not an affair. It was an abuse of power.

Sex between two parties where there is a power differential is not and can never be labeled “an affair.” Sex between persons with unequal power is not even about sex. It’s about power and control over someone with less power.

If approached by a stranger at a party, the sexual advances would have been obvious to the woman. But when her pastor became amorous, the woman was caught completely off guard. She thought she was making more out of the situation than her pastor intended. She ignored her screaming intuition, warning her that something was terribly wrong. It was not easy to rebuff her pastor, whom she held in the high esteem afforded by his position. She didn’t want to offend her pastor by refusing his pastoral hug the first time and it became increasingly awkward to refuse to hug him each time after that.

When looking back, the hardest thing for the woman is to forgive
herself. She asks: “Why couldn’t I have stopped it? I’m an adult,
why did I just let it happen to me?” What she doesn’t understand, however, is that she was completely unaware of what was happening to her when it was happening. And it’s hard to admit that she was being used, that she had been duped by someone she trusted.

Predatory pastors subtly manipulate potential victims like this
woman to the point where her ability to say “NO” was
completely undermined. But just because she didn’t say “NO”
does not mean she said, “YES.” The problem was not that the woman was vulnerable because she had less power than her religious leader. The real problem was that the pastor preyed upon and exploited that vulnerability.

Pastors who are predators set the stage perfectly.They play the
roles of devoted husband, father, and servant of the church
community.They are masterful at managing impressions others
have of them. They paint a portrait of their self as an exemplary,
charismatic leader and teacher. But the pastoral portrait is more like that of Dorian Gray. There is a secret and deceitful monster, locked away in a dark, hidden closet. This is the perfect set-up so everyone will believe the perpetrator. And his victim knows that until the real portrait is unveiled, no one will believe her.

This woman and many others like her get caught in what is
referred to as “the grooming process.” When pastors overstep
professional boundaries with someone under their care, they
become sexual predators. They interact with their victims in the
same destructive ways as non-clergy offenders. They slyly spin
their web around a potential victim and then slowly, methodically, move in for the kill.

Step 1: Gain her trust.

Step 2: Physically isolate her in a one-on-one meeting or a
counseling session, for example.

Step 3: Give short pastoral hugs upon meeting and parting.

Step 4: Move to emotional isolation. Make the conversation
increasingly personal to learn her issues, her weaknesses, her
dreams and offer to mentor her. Slip in subtle questions about
aspects of her sexual life. Touch her hand in a caring, pastoral
manner and lengthen the pastoral hug.

Step 5: Prime her for the next steps through flattery and making
her feel special, thus warranting the pastor’s attention. She
won’t think to question the integrity of the words of a man of
God.

Step 6: He then enmeshes himself in her life by befriending her
family, her spouse and children, especially in public. This is to
ensure that everyone, especially the woman, sees the
relationship with the pastor as completely normal.

Step 7: In public, throw her knowing glances, brush by her in
very non-accidental ways to cement the secretive specialness
between them.

Step 8: Psychological isolation: in private, subtly question,
perhaps even criticize her friends, her family, her spouse and
give an even longer, more meaningful pastoral hug.

Step 9: Share privileged information even of the pastor’s own
unhappiness, his loneliness, especially his marital
dissatisfaction. In brief, the pastor seeps under her skin and into all her places of least resistance and greatest need. He sets it up so the woman comes to believe she needs the pastor.
This grooming process can take a few days or last a few years,
depending upon the skill and patience of the perpetrator.

Step 10: Move beyond pastoral hugs to sexual touching.

All of this causes great confusion for the woman. How is she to
reconcile the public man venerated by so many with the secret man doing something so wrong with her? She is an adult and she should know the difference between right and wrong. And the pastor is the epitome of a public example of what is right. Yet the pastor is able to manipulate his victim’s sense of self to such a point where the concept of right and wrong becomes totally distorted. It is almost impossible for the victim to pinpoint exactly when the warm and comforting pastoral hugs became sexualized.

The bond between victim and perpetrator is sealed, when the
pastor receives the assurance, articulated or not, that their secret is safe – and of course the pastor told her that she was the only one! The woman wonders what she did to invite this. Did she maybe consent to his sexual advances because she didn’t resist them? Perhaps she tempted this revered man of God and possibly now poses a threat to his reputation.

Through her silence, the woman:
1. adds to her own victimization,
2. becomes complicit in protecting the perpetrator, and
3. can’t warn any other victims.

At the core of the woman’s silence is the knowledge that the
pastor is a widely respected public figure and the doubt that
anyone will believe her. She knows it’s risky to reveal the abuse to the religious authorities with the power to hold the perpetrator accountable. Will she be believed and supported? Or will she be re-victimized to protect the institution and blamed for having an affair?
Re-victimization is even more traumatizing than the initial abuse.
On top of all of this is her embarrassment that she, an adult, fell
into this!

The damage caused by clergy sexual abuse reaches beyond the
victims, violating the spiritual life of the entire church community.

There is a massive sense of betrayal. Not to recognize that this is a pastor blatantly abusing his power and call it “an affair” excuses the heinous acts of one who betrayed so many and attempts to blame the one who was betrayed the most. And the woman feels betrayed by her very self: “Why did I just stand back and watch this man ruin my life?”

Do not ask her to forgive her perpetrator.
First, she must travel a very long and very difficult healing path
to a place where maybe someday she can reach a place where
she can forgive herself.

Sex with a pastor can never be called an “affair.” Sex with a pastor is abuse.

culled from:
http://www.ourstoriesuntold.com/sex-pastor-affair-abuse/

You need him now......postpone the divorce. the divorce and your condition will be too much to bear now.

Ladies lie about when they got deflowered

But why are we blaming this lady? Why can't we blame the guy, who carefully planned to Bleep/take advantage of a tipsy lady. why can't we blame the the who still wants a replay of that sex. at least this lady shows remorse unlike the shameless cheat

ikbnice:
Because some mugu guys are always enthusiastic to throw in some cash. I have seen a girl who celebrated her birthday about three or four times in a year with different guys throwing the parties.

Clinical sign of an Olosho/Runs gal.

Maybe he thinks if you are not having sex with him you are probably doing it around the corner with someone else.....we guys quickly make such conclusion. Many guys can do no sex before marriage but the fear is always ' what if someone else is drilling her badly while I'm waiting like a fool'....that's the reason we always want to fvck our fiancee so that one idiot won't be doing it for us

Believe you me....those secret helpers can be merciless on the pvssy. hammering it really hard. its an ego boost for them, since they know she will be marrying soon

bros you are apparently sick

Humans are wicked o....see how they murdered this fine gal

You are the lonely one here bro.....Get help

so vain......20million chain does not make you a better human.

Its obvious God bless this man and his family. Despite all hate from his country folks.....who God has blessed no man can curse

Praying according to Gods will is another daylight hypocrisy Christians employ to appear to love or submitting to God.

austine4real:


iza blu filllm i just sek am naun naun

so you have to check it before you know xvideo is bluefilm?....learner