RiyadhGoddess:
She can't be pregnant for another guy and still be in love with you, that's not love huh.
Love isn't confused...

For Nigeria girls hand, love is confused

anitabella:
First....

You guys got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because you had no condom at home when she visited....

Second...

She told you that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Thirdly...

Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but you talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday you have been thinking of how to continue with her, you don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact.

And now you want us to tell you what to do ba...


My own opinion....

If you be my brother.... And u ask me the kind of thing... I go swear for u.... Oloshi...

Na guys like this dem dey call simps!!!

Hahahahahaha hahhahah � � � � � �

truth4ull:
Source:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CN40IXhD4Ux/?igshid=msftqwwz9guo

Nigerian lady throws a party to celebrate her divorce.

Watch video here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c9zq2SXrzbY

Dr Ikea Bello’s divorce party was held last week and attended by her friends who wore red outfits.

Some of the party’s decoration had inscriptions which read “I do, I did, I’m done”, “Divorced at last”, “bye Felicia”

This is shameful. See food for our politicians

decatalyst:
Even if the marriage wasn't worth it anymore, this is shameful.




And look at the league of divorcee

THEY are all sugar mummies now

Mcslize:


Lol, I excluded church cuz I know lots of pretenders are there.

A girl who has wasted her youthful age away frolicking in her early years and realised there is no time on her side can immediately turn to a regular church goer and attending all the services just to portray herself as a good girl.

Some naive men normally fall for such girls. When they see them attending all service, dressing like deeper life, a man who doesn't know much about ladies antics will surely fall for such a pretense and foolishly ask her hands in marriage. Unknown to him, she is a retired love peddler.

Hahahhahahahahahahhahahaha. You nailed it. Well-spoken. Most church babes na ex runz girls.

Mcslize:


We are talking about wife materials. Girls Bleep around alot these days. Don't go marry a runs girl and be happy you have arrived. That's what potential guys need to be wary of.

Too many girls are into runs in this part of the world. Runs runs runs. They are not good for marriage.

Those that are not into runs are stucked with bad habits and past exes.

If you need a good girl, the best places are not clubs or parties.

If you want a good girl, go to serminars, group discussions, get togethers and other reputable public gatherings, jobs seminars and the like.

I think that's where one will see ladies with like minds who are doing well for themselves and ready to build life with any potential man. Not slay Queens that go to club and get bleeped every now and then.

cc: freethesheeple

Well said. And this particular babe told me once she goes to club, she don't get high but can get a little tipys... Na that tiyps dem dey use Bleep 98% of the ladies for night club.

[quote author=Uniquekriss post=99467359]I quite agree with you OP, I severally made a boast that finding a girl to marry can never be an issue cos i had them stalking me and I also look good, this was way back in my mid 20s, now in my 30s and ready to settle down, I now realise it's easier to get admitted into Harvard MSc programs with 3rd class than to get a wife. I congratulate all those men who got married like 10yrs back, you're so lucky.[/quote

Hahahhahaha hah. True talk. When time to get married reaches, you find out that nice woman is just 1% out of 100.

Aksnoopy:
LMAO!

If I am in a serious relationship with you and you still talk or chat with your Ex and male friends. Just forget it, I can never marry you. You've just got to choose anyone among them. Only simps will let their GF keep contact with her Ex's nor have male friends.

Exactly what is on my mind... I have exs but I can't and don't communicate with them any more

90% of Nigeria will buy it at back. Quote me!

Slimslimqq:
Lets be careful of those we intend to help. not all who ask for help needs help.

I am still a struggling young guy, but the little I make I share with those who doesn't have at all. that's my nature, and also I know what it is to be broke.

Last month, I came across a Lady's post on Facebook, that she needed 1k to survive for the weekend. I went through her profile and I noticed she's real.

Though, I was also broke, but I had 1600 in my account, so I reached out to her and sent her 1k as she requested.

she later chatted me up and sent her number to call and also appreciate my gesture.

we talked a lot and I got to know she lives in Benin city alone and sometimes spend days with her boyfriend who happens to be a fulltime broke yahoo boy.

I talked to her about the risk of living with someone who doesn't have a job and rather be involved in yahoo, and also I gave her samples of how desperate yahoo boys use their girls for ritual, but she defended him that he's not that type.

along the line, I learnt she had a skill, fashion design.

I discussed why she hasn't been using her skill to help herself grow, but she complained lack of funds to get a sewing machine and also that people don't sew clothes in Lagos

I told her about Lagos, and she seems interested. in fact, I told her my mom has a sewing machine that she doesn't use frequently, that I will discuss with her to release it.

she was happy, but said she doesn't know anyone to accommodate her in lag, but she has a friend who's married but not sure if she can accommodate her.

then I promised to help discuss with my mom and fiancee so that we can help her with accommodation and the sewing machine, and she seems glad about it.

I discussed with my mom and fiancee about it, and they agreed I bring her. my mom showed special interest in helping her in a little way she can afford when she heard her story.

I told her the latest development, then she asked when would come, I told her that anytime she likes, then she told me she doesn't have enough money for transportation to lag. she has only 2k while tfare would cost 5k, I promised to help her with 3k the following week, not that I have it, but I had faith I will get it for her.

Then two days after, she messaged me that she would be coming on Saturday(today) because she owes a lot of debt and they are threatening to embarrass her on sunday(tomorrow). I should help her send the 3k so she can start coming.

I struggled and fasted just to help her raise the 3k, so that she can start coming.
I also noticed my mom about the development.

ulcer almost killed me because i made sure I help her send the money yesterday evening, I didn't any healthy food because of the savings.

this morning, I sent her a message to know if she has started coming and she replied yes, that she's in the bus. few hours later, I didn't hear from her, I sent her another message to know where she has reached, but she read and didnt reply me.

meanwhile my mom was already worrying me about her situation. so I collected my mom phone to call her, to my greatest surprise was hearing loud music and noise in the background, immediately she heard my voice she cut and blocked my moms number and mine.

Before u bash me, know that she isn't the first I tried to help, some nairalanders can attest to this, because I am accommodating, both male and female. I took after my late father. because I believe God rewards those who have good heart.

I am not pained because she scammed me of the money I suffered for just to please and help her. if she had ask, I would have given her, but because she played and fooled me and including my mom, I am pained. that I don't think that will stop me from helping anyone else In future.

Modified: I have removed her pictures, and info. but this thread has made me realize I am more human than 70% of some guys on nairaland, because I had no bad intention towards her but some guys are here staying all sort of thrash because of their silly mentality.

Omo this is nonsense cos REALITY doesn't work like that. You are kind I agree but don't stress or starve your self to help people. Help people from the left over you have. See eee like jist you , this exactly was the Nature of my dad but immediately he died, I saw another thing with Human.
Those he helped turn and spoke bad about him.
Even his kind nature, did God resurrect him to continue helping others

I hate people that Shout God God everytime
Cos they are far from Reality!!

Ever Nigeria girl feels PUSSY AND SEX is the number 1 and hugest priority of many men.
That's what they always bring in a Relationship.
Apart from sex with a Bore hole lady before I parked up completely cos of too much billing, she has never contributed any thing to my life.

StacyO:
So, you think a lady posting raunchy photos on social media means anything??

Ahhhhhhh

Okay, I'll post something. Op comman beat me, I'm in my house.



I wonder why you judge people on social media space, even those that come out flashy most times rent clothes and lodge in hotels.

Like the saying goes ""Mimick others and watch yourself stand before them""



Besides, marriage is not just something you jump into.

You study your partner perfectly.

When is shiloh this year coming Buy a better Bible for aggressive prayer ooo

Please doctors in the house, is there any side effect of staying away from sex completely for 6 months??
I use to but every Nigeria girl FEELS SEX AND PUSSY is the number 1 priority of Every man.
I do get my normal erection in the morning around 5am and other times.
Any effect please

1beat:
ladies will not be happy reading this
wish you best of luck in your endeavors

Them Don jakpa

frozen70:


The issue is that you have to look for girls within your class and reach

The ones you are talking about here are expensive city girls and it doesn't work that way

Then the idea of vowing to stay away from sex, did you enter into such agreement with your hormones or your dick

Because when the dick wants his food, he will definitely stand up the way and manner you will calm him down is up to you

Read my post again. Every girl in Nigeria is the same. Both the working class and non working class...
I have to conclude like that guy used to say :Nigerian girls are Usless, All of them.. But not all of them shaaaa....
Omo I Don tire for women.
I have 0% interest in anything woman.
Just minding my business.

odinson1:
It is Because Nigerian girls are Useless...All of them

I like this quote eeeeeeee.

[quote author=Nazgul post=99889257]I stopped chatting with my former classmates and old female friends because of this, truth is the country is hard so everyone is looking for a means for survival. Since girls know that most guys can't do without them, they materialize their bodies and offer it to the highest bidder.

The best way out of this is

1. Never compliment a girl you're still in the process of asking out, no matter the kind of pics she uploads on her WhatsApp status of Facebook, just view and like it, but don't comment. Constant complimenting will open the door for begging, after all you're the one falling head-over-heels for her, so you should be ready to open your wallet and walk the talk.

2. Let her know that you're busy type, avoid long and unnecessary chats, it gives room for materialistic request, many inexperienced guys fall victim of this. Your chats should be straight to the point, once she begins showing signs of request just end the chat. Don't form over caring cos she'll take advantage of it to extort you.

3. Stop asking her stupid questions like how was your day, have you eaten, or how are your parents, or other caring questions. Most girls apart from your girlfriend who geninuely loves you are wired to give opposite reply to such questions so as to make you probe further then they'll trap you with a financial request.

In my journey in finding my missing rib or whatever it's called, I've learnt a lot about the women folk, and it will take a girl to hypnotize me before you can maga me. Unless I just feel like helping you out of the goodness of my heart, anything outside that won't work on me.[/quotes-sayings e]


Omo thanks for this. Best reply ever 2021. I have read this over 200 times and I'm gona print it out, hand it on my wall and make sure to read it everyday.
I just pity weak men!!!
To me you get PhD.

mgdimagaladima:
I feel ur pain.....
Stay away from women and ur life will never be the same

AH TELL YOU MY GEEE...

Polynek:
you are sounding as if staying single is a big DEAL. Am 23years old now, and I haven't date any girl. Is not a big deal to me and to some guys out there. Every man needs to build His self control.

TRUE TALK, SELF CONTROL IS JUST THE ULTIMATE.

I have sat in my closet sad and asked if 21st century Relationship is a Retirement Benefit for All Nigerian Ladies.
For the last three months, I have Zeroed off my mind from sex and I have gained :Strength and confident. Though sometimes I feel the urge but I get busy with my Psp, I don't watch Porn any more. In fact I stay away from any thing that will get me sexually aroused.
I walked out from my last Relationship I had because this Girl want to kill me with bills.
Out of anger sometimes back, I told her to let her father know some of her problems.
Does dating a Girl now means you carry 98% of her Problem?

Just make a mistake and say Hi to any girl, her Response would be:

1.Am fatherless
2.Am dataless
3. Am motherless
4. Am jobless.

If you then decide to date those working class ladies, they would want you to take them to Cubana, Quliox and where E money eats Lunch, on Your MONEY ooooo because of a MERE PUSSY.

My only fear is that I have vowed not have sex again and it might affect my Hormones or so(Doctors in the house, is this possible? )

99% of Problem here on Nairaland is about:Woman, Woman.

If God will kill me for minding my Business, not talking to woman who Think SEX AND PUSSSSY is the WEAK POINT of every man, let God better prepare my death....

Being single, having Psp at home is what every man should dream of.

You see that babe you love so much, you are Ready to fight even God to show her Love, that babe Might be A SECRET RUNZ GIRL who will do anything for money..

I don't spend unnecessary money any more, I have enough savings and my Major focus is my MOTHER..

TO HELL WITH SEX, TO HELL WITH PUSSSY.

THANKS FOR READING...
Sorry for making it long.
@lalastical

AwesomeStormy00:


Everything depend on trust, relationships depend on trust too. Some girls are into runs etc but there are girls that are genuine and loyal. Same goes with guys too Some guys are into crime eg yahoo but we still have guys out there grafting working hard with no trait of crime.
It is better you count your loss and move on.
Going forward into a new relationship don't try to control a lady reason with her, listen to her when she is telling u something also akways try to be on her side even though she is wrong lol yes backed her in public is what i mean

To be single and have no worries better oo

Mikester:
Not only women. People will only value or follow you when you're successful especially as a man.

True 1000%

Guy man go propose to a runz girl for market ����

Many men are weak cos of being broke.. If you have 3 Benz and 2 Range, CAN YOU BEG A WOMAN TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE?
CAN YOU BEG A WOMAN TO LOVE YOU?
CAN YOU BEG A WOMAN NOT TO CHEAT ON YOU?

Just hustle!!!

Money doesn't buy Love but it BUYS LOYALTY.

Am better off with a Royal woman than a woman who Loves me.

Many men are weak cos of being broke.. If you have 3 Benz and 2 Range, CAN YOU BEG A WOMAN TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE?Just hustle!!!

EntertainmentN:
Woman whose fiancé snatched the wig, engagement ring and slippers he gave her after he found her with another man in a mall speaks (video)



Over the weekend, the lady was at Jabi Lake Mall with a man when her fiancé walked up to them, confronted her, then snatched the wig he bought her from her head. He also took her slippers and her engagement ring and stormed off (see here).

Watch Video Here: https://celebrity-profile.com/woman-whose-fiance-snatched-the-wig-engagement-ring-and-slippers-he-gave-her-after-he-found-her-with-another-man-in-a-mall-speaks-video/

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E no easy to be single and ready for Marriage. Only then will you find out that 90% of the ladies are into Runs, 8% are way above 45 to 47 and very Desperate to Marry while the 2% of the good women are VERY HARD TO FIND.

If you Marry a good woman Please:Shower her with love, gifts and Respect!!!!

Cocoyamu:
Las las everybody go dey alright. Sogbor?

Sure!!!

E no easy to be single and ready for Marriage. Only then will you find out that 90% of the ladies are into Runs, 8% are way above 45 to 47 and very Desperate to Marry while the 2% of the good women are VERY HARD TO FIND.

If you Marry a good woman Please:Shower her with love, gifts and Respect!!!!

E no easy to be single and ready for Marriage. Only then will you find out that 90% of the ladies are into Runs, 8% are way above 45 to 47 and very Desperate to Marry while the 2% of the good women are VERY HARD TO FIND.

If you Marry a good woman Please:Shower her with love, gifts and Respect!!!!

NwaAmaikpe:




Research has shown that over 70% of women who marry pregnant bring in bastards to their marital homes.

That's why my church refuses to wed pregnant women and even if you are; you must terminate it before you can be wedded.

I pity men whose wives are already pregnant on their wedding day.
Such men are the fools who train bastards.

E no easy to be single and ready for Marriage. Only then will you find out that 90% of the ladies are into Runs, 8% are way above 45 to 47 and very Desperate to Marry while the 2% of the good women are VERY HARD TO FIND.

If you Marry a good woman Please:Shower her with love, gifts and Respect!!!!

donstan18:
Their waywardness can never allow them get satisfied even when you promise them marriage, their restless pussay will be married to Mr NwaAmaikpe while their heart will be married to Mr Airforce. Just look at how a married woman is busy typing "He banged me raw,He banged me raw upandan" ,this woman is a cheat, a disgrace, a LovePeddler and a liar.

I can authoritatively tell you lots that her ex-boyfriend is the father of that child, her husband isn't the biological father and she's scared he will soon find out, how about DNA? Why should she be scared when DNA test can be done to tell the truth? She's evil and her husband deserves to know the kind of woman he's married to, no man deserves such kind of treatment from a woman he paid her bride price.

Oh God!, your son Donstan and other truthful fellows have come before you to ask for a favor, use her ex-boyfriend to rescue her husband from this evil deception, for her ex to take what is rightfully his, and her husband to know the kind of woman he married. As you do this, may your name be highly praised and glorified. Amen!

E no easy to be single and ready for Marriage. Only then will you find out that 90% of the ladies are into Runs, 8% are way above 45 to 47 and very Desperate to Marry while the 2% of the good women are VERY HARD TO FIND.

If you Marry a good woman Please:Shower her with love, gifts and Respect!!!!

E no easy to be single and ready for Marriage. Only then will you find out that 90% of the ladies are into Runs, 8% are way above 45 to 47 and very Desperate to Marry while the 2% of the good women are VERY HARD TO FIND.

If you Marry a good woman Please:Shower her with love, gifts and Respect!!!!