RiyadhGoddess:
She can't be pregnant for another guy and still be in love with you, that's not love huh.
Love isn't confused...

Judybash93:
First red flag.... You met her last week... Do you think you've known her enough to declare that you love her?

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

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I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

AfroKnight:
They want to dash you pregnancy and you’re still looking like lucozade. Okay na.

You know what to do.

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Deep inside i have moved on..... Just don't know how to discard her with out hurting her psychologically....

lilvicky68:
It's not bad Sha .but don't come here to complain when. She gets back with her baby daddy..

lilvicky68:
It's not bad Sha .but don't come here to complain when. She gets back with her baby daddy..

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@bolded...is the reason for this thread.....

I can't just do that...

Was contemplating on ghosting her to avoid stories that touch...

BiggyB242:
Brother, she doesn't love you. She just manipulating you to pin the child on you. Run as far as your legs can take you.

You don't know women, they are damn great actor. They can change emotion in split seconds and it will look so real.

Why will you want her to keep the child, would you take care of the child after birth? Cut her off and let her take her own decision. Some guys una go just carry people problem.

exposition:
She wanted to hang the pregnancy on you bro! That's why she came to your house initially!
What she's doing right now is plan b

zexy2030:

heartbreak could make the next stranger lovable...women reasons.

hahn:


A friend of mine was in this situation and he accepted the child.

It's one of his worse mistakes.

Bro, move on. Don't be Captain Save-a-ho.

Freestainworld:
I know lots of guys will give you negative advice, firstly, it is good you advised her against terminating the pregnancy, you can just continue in giving her moral support so her brain can calm down, but I wouldn't advise you to continue the dating aspect, you barely know her too well, one week isn't enough to conclude that she's madly in love with you before somebody use your head play ludo, neither am I advising you to run away from her.

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@bolded is exactly what she needs presently...

Someone told me back then never to sleep with somebody's wife... I have also been thinking weda it's part of it playing out....

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

TheEnygma:

You can be friends with her but don't get close to her anymore.... Move on with your life, the guy that got her pregnant is probably broke or irresponsible and she's looking for a man to hang responsibilities on.....Find another girl and move on and don't let her emotionally blackmail you into taking up responsibility for a pregnancy that isn't yours because it's very obvious that's what she wants to do.

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

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please How am i wicked?....

Ok u expect me to assist her in terminating almost 4months pregnancy that i know nothing about?......

The worst part is that her Boss have known that she usually come to my side.. of which if anything should happen to her i am the prime suspect.....

I thank God i never slept with her and i still thank God that i never helped her with the abortion...

She is under her Boss care presently and i pray she delivers safely....

Elsueno:
One of my closest friend had twins a while back, I was super happy for him to the extent I promised some baby stuffs like Pampers & baby food for a month.

One thing I have learned, is babies are extremely high maintenance, omoh, cute as hell, but seriously....

I advise u to be ready financially, afterall na u go sponsor momy & baby till baby daddy comes back into the picture