BanyXchi:
It starts all the way from the Uni(sex for grades), we have the most useless and wicked leaders in the world! The fact that these bosses want to sleep with married women without any conscience is enraging me sha, they are raped and they can't even talk, Omo!.... I'm very impressed about your contentment sis,I pray may you continue to see more favour and blessings,it's not easy to be a woman in this part of the world...can I know you more?

Amen , thank you so much , i will continue to be contented with what I have , even though I know that temptations are everywhere , I will continue to be the best for myself .. once again thanks for the prayers , I also wish you the same.

DaBogu:
Most especially bank marketers, female real estate agent, waitresses or girls that work in bar, hotels, club or lounge (it's an unwritten rule, YOU must make the customer or client happy).

Very true , one of my colleagues also said the same thing , her own was a spa , as at that time she was a corper , when she heard the happy ending part , she asked them what they meant by giving your customers or clients a happy ending , they explained to her , she said ,that was the last day they saw her ... As a corper they were willing to pay her 30k ,she will still use her body to satisfy their clients.

BanyXchi:
This is painful, women are going through a lot, they will always find way to exploit them, but I can't blame them like you said, they do it because they know the country is a lawless contraption, and Nigerian bosses dey do am too... I wish I had the power to find those kind of people smh

Hmm!! The only thing left in this country is wickedness , is only God that can help we the masses ... Some of our Nigerian bossses are more wicked than the foreigners that's why they can't do anything on behalf of their own people , people coming from other countries to use us as slaves in our own very country . You hardly see a job as a lady without them telling you that until you use your bottom power before you can get the job , some won't tell you the terms and conditions , it is when you're fully employed that's when you will know that you will use your body to the physical work & also the inner work as in letting your clients have a happy ending...

Congrats..

So sweet of them..

The heart of man is deep , seek godly counsel ..

Omo na wa o , just give her some space , pls & pls don't leave her alone.

Katcall:
i worked in a factory. Those supervisors no dey take eyes see woman. They give them VIP treatment while the guys are made to suffer and used anyhow. If a woman misbehave, the supervisor will look away. But if its a guy, all hell will break lose

Yes o

BanyXchi:
They are weaponizing poverty, it's so painful, in a barbaric contraption where there's no job or money they have little or no choice, na married women dey pain me pass Omo!Sucking Chinese dick because of ordinary job wey no dey pay like that smh.

Very painful o , they like making use of their workers than olosho girls , I can't really blame them is our own people that do look for gullible workers for them because of their own share ,suprisely they will collect the highest percentage of the money than the person that went to do the job , even our own very Nigerian bosses most of them are even worst than all these expatriates.. for me o , nobody fit oppress me , na cloth wey I get I go wear , na things wey my money fit buy I go buy , if you wan do pass yourself, you go accept all kinds of bullshits , me as I dey so , nothing wey person wan tell me now wey I go shock .

I witnessed one myself , to me I don't think that girl is up to 18yrs .. things dey occur..

BanyXchi:
Me self I no follow you fight na, are you from warri ni lol... I'm just asking because I've never seen anything like it before so it's shocking to me, I mean Nigerian men yeah ik that, but Chinese and Indians? And wetin be mouthaction abeg?

Omo I don see , nothing wey some of our girls no fit do , especially for night shifts , most Chinese people , if they wan do am , na mostly make girls suck them , na the meaning of mouthaction be that , I no wan mention location but things dey occur sha , one thing be say if dey put eye for your body & you no wan do , jejeley leave their factory or company , our government no dey do anything because of money wey dem too dey see, if you no to find work like that ,you fit no come across all this things ,.

onuman:

It's only police that separates public fight.
In domestic violence where there is some degree of trust that none would be using violent instruments, you can separate the fight.

No be me o , make dem no come use me do topic of discussion for their room.

Rip to him , I no dey put mouth talkless to separate fight especially husband and wife mata ..

BanyXchi:
I'm not talking about oloshos bro,I'm talking about women,employed women,maybe some sleep with Nigerian MDs, but not Chinese and indians,if you hate Nigerian women it's fine but you don't have to lie, and what do you mean by mouth action abeg?

I no be bro abeg , na wetin i don see na naim I dey talk , I no wan mention any Chinese company name for here , if you like believe , if you like no believe , people wey dey do am dey do am,no capping , which one be hate on Nigeria women ,me sey I be woman ,if you never see something , that wan no mean say the thing no dey happen , abi you join for supervisors wey dey arrange workers for dem ? Na question I ask o , I no follow you fight ...

BanyXchi:
Have you seen any?

I don see plenty , are you satisfied now , what gave you the impression that they can't do it here , when we have a lot of them doing it outside for the money, most times they engage in MouthAction , if you have ever been in a situation of job hunting as a lady , you will see & hear so many things , things are really happening even married women are not spared .

BanyXchi:
This is not true Sha, Nigerian girls don't sleep with Chinese or Indians lol

I no follow you argue ..

Na wa o , this matter still dey ground , you wey you go lodge with man , shey na ten ten the man wan follow you play , you no get strength for hook ups , you dey force yourself , you think say na ordinary body dem dey take do am . Nigeria & court case una too dey drag case from 1960 to 2022 ,from 2022 to 1960..

Besto:



Lol

Who them knack wey you hear off

No be the Nigerian girl dey give them?

Na money things na , you think say dem go come out side con blow trumpet sey dem dey sleep with Chinese , except we wan dey decieve our selves , even Nigeria managers dem go chop their own too .

Anything Chinese , India you go old pass your age , if you get luck say their machine no grind you , na to go do Thanksgiving , dem do juju pass anything , and dem sabi knack some Nigeria girls with their body odours ..

baralatie:

There was no light na!
And not everyone's nose is as sharp as that of a police dog

I also read something like this here on nairaland maybe last month or so , even if they want to have sex .. is there no communication btw the two couples , as in somebody will just jump on my body , even if it is my husband , light or no light , is either my phone is beside me or torch light .. once you have a stranger in your home , you have to be at alert , cos anything can happen.

Everything na mistake , some people fit sleep on top of water , so she wan tell say she no fit differencient how her husband smell from other men , I no mean body odour , small pikin sef go no her own mama cloth through the smell wey he don dey used to.

Bianca05:
Before I finally register on naira land , Everytime woman Mata una no dey tire?

Aswear my sister , the matter tie wrapper , woman this, woman that , some go dey form Bruce Lee for online but for reality all na wash , no be every girl be girlfriend to 1000 boyfriends , if you dey date community girlfriend na for your own pocket , na the generalisation dey tire person . And dem get sisters too o. I wish say nairaland get voice notes .

He dey ask am out as if he go dey faithful ,, mtcheeew..

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Na so he just dey hold wetin? You nor see as he dey put am inside and bring it out..[/quot wetin he dey put , abegi if I wan watch porn I go watch better one..

If you neva release sex tape , you neva be celebrity for Naija , na hold him just dey hold the thing ..

Kirkman:
wahala carry baton and handcuffs come meet this man for house. Make he carry his responsibilities like a man o! Freshgrace4life come and watch video o!

Even though this one fit be acting , I don experience this type of thing before , the mama and the pikin go waka go meet the person wey impregrante her daughter , he get one wey happen .. dem go meet the guy mama tell her say see wetin you pikin do , na so the mama talk say him pikin neva reach to give girl belle , all this small small girls no dey hear word , after this one another person go give her belle ..

Have you discussed this with her , some are encouraging you to get a second wife , as if that will be the solution ... Do you know what the second wife has in store for any man that crosses her path ...you might have offended her in one way or the other hence her change of behaviour or maybe influence of bad friends especially online in laws .

That's why it is good to make your spouse your best friend , you guys will be open minded in your relationship .

I heard that Eve was not Adam's first wife , Bible scholars how true is the story ?

Ebenman:
I meant a lady 3 months ago. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standards are:
1. At least she must be a graduate
2. She should be self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference between us
4. Looking calm and understandable
5. She must be an average-height lady

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder, working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, and I am almost 8 yrs older than her. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and began to feel very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice

My own is that it not always the men that do lower their standards for females , I have also seen a situation where women do lower their standards for men , but all the same nobody should force you into something that you will regret later . When you talk about love , love is not just for mere I love I love blablabla, it comes with growth ...Is your partner willing to grow in all aspects , because some people feel relaxed at their present situation wether a male or a female it could be either of the partner , and when you advise some people to level up they will see it as an insult , I have a friend she's a graduate she has this guy , the guy was telling her that she should register for ICAN & he's going to fund it , she told me that she's not interested , I was like is anything wrong with you , you see someone that wants to sponsor you & you are not happy about it , something that many people are looking for including my self , that's what I told her , love comes with growth , I love seeing people growing in every aspect of their lives and I also wish that for myself , I wish to level up from my present situation. I know that God will see me through someday .

Na dicks dey reign for burial now , since Nkechi don share intimacy gadgets , dis one na to use use females wear the stuff , since no man go gree naked come out with their dick like this when no be strippers club , and the girls faces dey always show , e be like dem no get family for Lagos. I no fit blame dem like dat sha cos no money no job , no be everybody sabi hustle dey work factory work , even the job wey you go see sef , agents and ogas dem , dem go come with terms and conditions , na God go help person for this country.

[color=#770077]]The last time I wanted to use it to cook banga soup , I was told to pay 1200 for one and is not as if it is big like that .. everything is now expensive including the banga it self.

Wild animals will still be wild animals , so sorry for him , just like the hunter story !!.

Teaching ..
Trying out new things ..
I love seeing people making it big .. I also believe in myself I will make it big ..