Wawelexy:
Nairaland and cooked up stories be like 5&6

You can't really blame anyone for fabricated stories , especially on Facebook most times the admins do fabricate stories to generate traffic on their pages , it takes a whole lot of courage and boldness for one to come up with his or her true life story on any social media platforms.

Good luck to you , may God replenish your pocket .

Na wa o , rip to her .. we human beings are insatiable.

Wow ! So sweet ..

Of course a woman can still be faithful if only she chose that path .. but the ones I have seen so far dem no dey faithful some will even give out their daughters to compliment their customers..

Congrats dear !!!

I'm so happy for Chioma , e be like another belle don enter !!

Useless father ! But where is the mother

Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.

I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.

We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.

He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.

The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.

So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.

So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.

Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.

Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

My sister thank God you discovered early enough , at least you will know your stand , a wedding date that has been fixed only for the guy to start misbehaving , most ladies have really gone through a lot , something similar like this also happened to me , well life goes on ...

I'm not saying you shouldn't give him a second chance o , only if he will use it well but if not , move on my dear . I do tell people this "If you don't know my story you can't be my judge".

Now those that want to use age to body shame women , will not understand what you're passing through ,don't let anybody talk down on you because of your age , you will be fine .

Goldmaxx:
In other words, you'll love to marry a rich man?

I would love to be a rich woman my self , if i see person wey go show me road , wey dey legit to make money , why I no go do am to enrich myself.

Goldmaxx:
make money first then see for yourself.

If you show me road e no go bad , no be to dey shout go hustle , go hustle .

Goldmaxx:
Then make money before getting married. No man would treat you as trash

Wether you have money or not , it won't stop some people from being irresponsible.

God has been using ordinary men to do extraordinary things from time immemorial.

I read your previous post , someone that sees your child as a threat to the relationship , the guy just wan use you chop , na their type dey get money dey pursue women upandan , he go even collect from you go give another woman , he is not ready for anything serious , just continue your business don't allow the society to force things on you .

Na trending topic for Facebook . .. ,with the way marriages are crashing day in day out , one have to be very careful , the ones that are getting married , their partners are cheating on them on daily basis ,what kind of encouragement are they passing to the single ones , Baby mama's is so rampant these days , the society only blame the women for everything . I don't think we're ready for this conversation any time soon.

My fear is to get married to someone that will make my life miserable ,I can't be living in tears & sorrows all because of marriage , marriage is getting more scary by the day.

Na trending topic for Facebook . ..

Candidlady:


Hope your partner knows bout all your sexcapades on that ashewo thread


Mr "INEARLY CHEATED TODAY"

poor lady if only she knew what she's getting herself into


For shame

I swear if only she knew to avoid " Admin hide my ID my husband is cheating on me " only if they knew that some ladies do admire other guys despite being in a serious relationship , they only come online to make it seems that they've won a trophy , if only the men knew this . Any man that wants to cheat has money & body to spend .

abobote:

I can forgive anything but cheating

zBut your wife will forgive you if she finds out that you're cheating on her or have cheated on her before , why can't you do same for her ??.

Bad influence from the society especially that tiktok of a thing , well na their own palava be that . All for the grams .

I don't even know what's wrong with some men , I watched a video today on how a guy was putting his d**k in a baby's mouth , I felt irritated watching the video. Well Aisha Yesufu has said it all for women that are always chasing side chicks up and down neglecting your children.

You see them at it again, they would still be the one running after side chicks , I just watched a video of how a guy was putting his dick into a baby's mouth , I was disgusted about the video , Aisha Yesufu has said it all, is now left for women to do what's best for them.

abobote:

I'm only being human, we are selfish in nature, you know

That's just it ,we are meant to forgive our partners anytime they cheat on us .

Marriage wey no wan work , e dey the hands of both partners.

abobote:
Even if me na me, that marriage no go work, why will she chose a prettier girl as chief bridesmaid.

Anyway, since I caught my side chick cheating, I have decided to stick to my wife. Even my wife is surprise with the kind of attention I'm giving her these days

So you were expecting your side chick to stay faithful to you , when you yourself ... You're not faithful to your wife ...

tollyboy5:

One agbero slapped my auntie bumbum many years ago. We're ijebu Epe people, my grandfather sent her to one of her uncle that did something for her.

Whenever she put that stuff inside water after rubbing the path she was slapped the guy hand will start to swell and he'll be stooling badly.

Once she deep everything into water he's going to stool till death.

But as a Christian she couldn't use it.

These yanch slappers will just end their life with slapping the wrong fellow.
Those ones that are strong will not even fight back, they know what to do.

Yes o they won't fight back physically but spiritually.

I just felt for the young man , that was how one yeye guy smack me on my butt one day in the market , no be say my nyash big o , I don't even know what is wrong with some men , it has happened to a particular lady also , her own was even all this agbero , she was standing at the junction all of a sudden someone slapped her ass from behind , she cried that very day she was telling me , now assuming she was with her guy , mine my was done to me at night , e sure me die if na morning I go give the guy correct slap, the guy knew what he did because I turned back immediately I felt it.

Your own for just end like that of that womon wey dey pursue her husband with him side chick , cheating is deadly , I can't blame women running after their husbands side chicks.

Do you best & leave the rest , it pays to show gratitude , some people own are inbuilt , no matter what you do them they will never appreciate your efforts .

Wow this is beautiful ! Congrats !!

See the side chick sef tueh , some men no just get taste at all , if u like bleach so tey you turn to over ripe pawpaw, if dem wan cheat on you , na person like Mr Ibru dem go go for .

This one is food poisoning, na wa , may God save us from frenemies o living in the same compound.

Make dem pour am cold water , dem no dey plan before dem make moves.