SamuelTaiw0:


I'm sure you will soon serve him breakfast. He no get frame at all. He has handed all the power in the relationship to you. Except you're upto 30 years or above and you're now thinking of getting married.

Mai dear age has nothing to do with marriage o , with the way things are happening in marriages these days ,one will even be afraid to get married ,I never meant to have a history of an ex in my life but then life happens , even 40 plus are getting married , what matter most now is getting married to the right person.

SerendipityHIGH:


You didn't care about him enough.

You were not afraid of losing him and he had no serious sense of self worth and respect; otherwise he would have left.

See ee, humans will always misbehave if there are little or no consequences.

Those that claim to have hot temper don't show it at army barracks because they know the consequences.

They comport themselves at US embassies too. Because there are consequences.

He actually wanted to leave if it is that one o , he just loved me for who I am and that's all , of course I cared about him , it's a long story, in all I do I never failed to tell him that " I am very sorry ".....

Hmmmm ! This is bad , I don't want to imagine things , people are really going through a lot , for the fact that you know your wife's side cork is something else , I do say it , this cheating of a thing ones it is in somebody's blood the person can't change except the power of God.

SerendipityHIGH:


You are clearly abusing the guy. And also have no regard for him or don't care if you lose him.

That's why you are treating him badly

I never meant to hurt him in anyway , like I said I do apologise to him because I felt he doesn't deserve that kind of treatment due to my past experience , so I allowed love to lead , anyway thanks for your observation.

harmargedon:
Nah today? go mile 2, dem yakpa Dia.

From cele bus stop sef ..

Even though the economy is not smiling , abeg people still need to release at least to relieve stress.

Demigod22:


Your boo and yourself are lucky. I drool over naughty girls.

Thanks dear ..

SerendipityHIGH:

I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

Pls forgive them for they did not know what they are doing , somebody like me if I am not interested in the person form the onset I won't call , whether you're rich or not I don't care , reasons could be that , I am into a serious relationship as at that time or I am not interested in any kind of relationship during that period , my current guy now , I really felt for him sha but it wasn't my fault but he understands.

I could just wake up one morning and tell him that I'm no longer interested again ,he will be like what wrong have I done, I will tell him nothing just that I want to be left alone .same me will still be the one apologising to him ,in all he never gave up on me .

In essence if I truly love a guy I will go for him, my baby boo just know that I love you , thanks for loving me with all my naughtiness, I pray that God will grant us our heart desires ,you made me fall in love again.

Congrats dear , is possible at that age , I know of someone she's 23yrs with three children , her eldest is 8yrs but make I no lie o , the girl don too suffer at her age , no be small thing . Abeg na enjoyment I want .

Happy birthday dear

PoliteActivist:


Nope. Applies to all women - the confusion is confusing vulva and vagina.
The vagina should never be washed.
The vulva should be washed with water or water and mild soap. See below

Yeah that's true is only the vulva that should be washed .

PoliteActivist:


So tell us, how do we take care of our honey pot?

We have different ways on how to take care of ourselves , you might not be used to the way I take care of mine , so is better you stick to the method you're comfortable with it.

We ladies need to learn how to take care of our honey pot , especially if you want you man to be giving you a head , no be only to dey rob pan cake for face...

Kirkman:

Natural is always the best. Better to cum in peace than to cum in pieces.. dem nor dry carry award for kpekus matter.

I tire o , see wetin Japata don cause.

Kirkman:

Jekamo and its siblings, you see the end result now?

people always over do things ..

All those times , for him mind he been think say him dey wise , true true person no fit wise pass where him wiseness reach.

Na wa o

Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

Cheer up bro , never give up ..., It might even be a blessing in disguise , doors of opportunities will be opened to you soonest , I wish I could be of help..

This one dey form standard , who con be those men wey dey follow their house maid sleep , Na Nkechi Blessing fit una type..

Lord have mercy on us

He tried his best ...

Well he tried..

Phyna oooo

Bostin:
Eeya , your Monika looks familiar that is if your name is Grace from Sango Ota Ogun State

Nope..

Bostin:
Guilty conscience of unapologetic side chick . bye

If faithfulness dey easy , make everybody run am to the core .

Bostin:
I would have condemn your spech if it was a man that made it for disrespectful of women and abuse but imaging a woman like you making such dirty valueless statement against fellow women .. It's so shameful women of nowadays have lost their tangible values . Best of luck to you . I'm not the type that patronise side chick or loose women .

Tell your gender to stay faithful to their wives , excuse me pls ........

Congratulations dear , true love is a beautiful thing ..

Bostin:
Speech from an experience side chick ...keep it up o jeree

A quote from one of the aforementioned married men.

Na only for Nigeria you go see say , married men wey dey follow side chicks upandan go dey except make the side chicks dey faithful to them .
Abi dem don dey faithful ni, Bleep you own & go make another fucker cum inside..

Kirkman:

oya come and explain

Yes if I want to & no if I am not in the mood .

Stephen2324:
Does a sleep over mean we will probably have sex?

Yes and no.

Congratulations dear , it will always be like that, your friend will want to exhibit that kind of leadership traits but give it some time , your friend body go come down., I don experience & even seen many scenarios like that , na matter of time.