₦airaland Forum

Next time use your brain. Most Ibo ladies are taught that men pick wedding bills I don't know the tribe of your woman. But for you to assert some sense of worth, you should foot the wedding bills intoto.

Except she willing decide to help.


What you should've done is to ask her to lend you money that you'd pay back after the wedding. That's it...no be to give monkey bananas be issue,na to collect the peel.

kestolove95:
Fake product

ogbanje dey worry you?

I don't know if some nairaland business guys are cursed. You see an opportunity to make good money through constant patronage but you prefer to end it with greed.

You want to hit the million naira mark profit at the expense of your client.

A Governor in south west commissioning pots.

Things will continue to get worse. The kind of money required to run Aba alone cannot be handled by a state government. Cities like Onitsha, Aba, Lagos should come under Federal government intervention programs.

By the time Wike is done with infrastructural development in Rivers State, Rivers State APC will be operating from Osun state.

Those who live by propaganda will die by propaganda.

Senator Enyinnaya Abaribe

aberyomi09:
https://www.copart.com/lot/57986129
2008 ML350, just bumper replacement, client on a 3.5m budget, these guys know how to put you on hotseat....#wepray

is the 3.5 total landing cost to door step?

baysherpsyche:
All this southeast govnors aren't trailblazers at all.
Timid lots.

You mean Nnamdi kanu didn't start it?

Buhari always intimidated on the sight of Jonathan.

Beremx:
They suicide bombers are only responding to Buhari's spokesman's comments on Boko Haram not throwing bombs any longer.

It's well

You should be smarter than this. They want to change the narrative because of the public outcry over the incessant killing of Christians. When the killing is much of Christians, they locate an empty mosque and throw in bomb. Usually you hear things like police got to the mosque before it could detonate or it killed 1 person etc. Then they'll tell Nigerians that boko haram killings tracend religion.

Power sector is like the much touted regional government control advocated by some section of the country which the northern region didn't consent to. GEJ unbundle the power sector and gave each region or their representatives total control but our northern brothers have been kicking against it since the coming of this administration.

The northerners just want total control of the energy sector nothing more.

zionmde:
how on earth can people who are capable of buying such a property look as wretched as this. So when d chief saw them he couldn't sense that these guys don't have capacity for such a business

anyway wat do I know sef

Majority of the time jazz is involved.

OP, you're not in charge of your home, your wife does. She literally takes every decision and this infuriates your mother but she'll never tell you. She only decided to fill the "manhood " void you created to fight unconventionally for you. Charge at your mother she'll go home and cry and find time to appease her and she'll start respecting you as adult. Turn to your wife and charge to her that you'll no longer tolerate her exchanging words with your mother something you can't bring yourself doing to her own mother. Tell her she's married into a family and not the other way round and your mother is a major shareholder in the family she's married into.


You should be the one talking to your mother and not your wife. In major decisions, your decision should be the final where interest conflict and if you've not gotten to that part in your marriage, I smell divorce sometime soon.

Be a man and your mother will let you be.

You paid the bride price or wed a woman doesn't mean she's your wife. Most of what people do is negotiated cohabitation. Marriage is a thing of the mind and a commitment of total indulgence.

Bro...if that lady is your wife, she'll laugh off your pseudo Facebook account and even make a joke of her friend not having you finally or teasing you how you don't have the skills to woo her friend. she'll joking say she helped your ministry.

if she is your "house partner " she'll shout, get angry and make mountain out of a mole hole. Taking your kid away from you for that excuse simply means she's in charge.

Now, stand like a man and give her ultimatum but pass it through her parents. Call the parents and tell me you want her to return back in a week or the marriage is over. Be arrogant and wait the family decision. She'll convey her real intentions to the family. From there you can take a stand.

If you are underweight for your age and you recently come across some sort of fortune, your digestive system changes because the body need more glucose to get you "recover " or fat up.

I suggest you do more veggie and fruits if you don't want to be obese.

The way Goodluck handle his irrational wife, Jennifer that guy must be a marriage counselor.

It seem the producers have moved attention to them away from lucky and emu

I don't think it was because of tribe but religion. Muslims doesn't give out their daughters in marriage to Christians but will force the hands of Christians parents to marry their daughters. What you can't give, don't collect.


The parent should've relocated the girl back to the east and in few years the infatuation will fizzle out.


I wonder the mentality of Muslim parents. Why force a minor under the care of her parents for marriage against their wish. While the parents of the girl are trying to inculcate discipline and moral to their ward, they go about forcing what not ought to be.

The girl parents may be culpable for her death, but she'll answer to God for being disobedient, fornication, and yoking with unbeliever including destroying her entire family because of preek.

Truthwillout:
I keep saying I will no longer respond but for reasons I don't understand this harsh judgement by total strangers is really hurting me. It hurts like hell to be labelled a liar when you are not. It hurts also to be at the receiving end of false accusations. It is indeed a man's world. Look at the number of men here crucifying me for nothing. I have been through hell but it's fine. I've got God. Like I keep saying the truth will come out. I will be vindicated unless my God is no longer alive. Meanwhile I will plead with you all to please desist from the disparaging remarks or stop making any at all. I am a real human being with feelings and I don't deserve this. I need to focus on my job now and on healing my heart. God I make this prayer here openly, please vindicate me the way you vindicated Mordecai and heal my wounds. Give me songs of joy in the place of this heartbreak.

You came here to curry sympathy and validation. I've read your defense and nothing you've said that made sense rather you corroborated what your supposed husband has said then cry victimization. Let me summarize for you:

1. Your husband said he was previously the breadwinner until his finances dwindled but you craftily didn't address that in your submission.

2. He alluded to the fact that you're now the breadwinner and that's where you capitalized in your detailed narrative to push your emotional blackmailing and sentimental approval. In your post to corroborate his approval of your financial charge, you demonize him and made him villain.

3. The real reason why he opened this thread of being emasculated and dehumanized you didn't touch that part rather your argument was one of a proud conceited lady who really has emasculated the husband by telling us " it's being handled offline ".

You bragged about taking a break. Obviously you've the cash now, you wear the trousers in your home and you now call the shot. When to take a break in marriage and all is your defacto call.


Let me tell you, all the emotional craps of defense you put up there doesn't sit with me because I can intelligently read through the lines. When you married your husband, I guess you never envision things will go south with him but today circumstances has put him in this unfortunate situation, think about this and reason no man is infallible to upheaval. Tomorrow it may be your turn and you'll run back to him blaming the devil. Until you address the issues of him alluding you're disrespectful, stop calling God in your defense to curry sympathy.


When a woman who loves her husband and wants things to work respond to husband complaints, I know but when a wicked woman comes with emotional tantrums to cover her unruly behavior, I just know.

I wish you well in your future endeavor but any woman married and whose brideprice was paid that deliberately turn the children against their fathers has unknowingly sown curse in the children. The chicken will grow and face same consequence except those that came to realization of their mothers manipulative scheme and made good with their fathers.

lateefat101:
Freshvine
Happy new year

Happy new year dear

funmisticqueen:
I don't know, not really.

I just picture you treating a Male patient as a doctor.

You: Explain your accident to me oga.

Male Patient: I got into an argument with my wife, it degenerate to fisticuffs and she did me this.

You: Is that all cos I presume you must be guilty somehow. Did you kill her in your former life for her to revenge this magnitude?

( mix cyanide and some overdose and hands over to Male patient)

Moment later, "nurse, call the ambulance service this man had gave up the ghost, inform the family while I prepare a medical report for I doubt wife is responsible for cause of death and injury ".

Guy na bouncer for real life

Assume I want you to clear an 2008 Lexus rx350, give a summary of cost i.e all associated payments for your prospective clients to have an understanding to avoid underpayment to the custom guys.

amdman:
No longer available

Give me quote for 2009 Rx350 and Ml350

RamseyBolton:
Allen Onyefraud, go to US and answer your case. If you come out innocent, then I will doff my hat for you and use Air Peace till tomorrow. Untill then you are a fraudster and the pain of the un-alleviated people of Niger Delta will be on you.

Was this how the government and people of China defended Huawei during the American offensive?

Witchcraft is real.

Gurumaharaji:
My great grandfather was among d captured slaves to be taken to US but dat wicked man escaped and denied us d privileged of been a native of United States.... Imagine a country honouring a dog.. if it is in Nigeria, a hunter and his family will savour and even devour all d bones from a rabbit a dog caught and eat d dog too wen not satisfied ..... better to be a slave in US than a freeman in Naija

You'd been in Freetown or Haiti now.

angelEmade:
....wickedness at its pick!! graphic!!!

Peak

APC party of cheat. The arrangement was take Bayelsa and give PDP Kogi. PDP kept their side of deal and APC dishonored theirs.

Donexy16:
Nigeria will be better if other states can compete with Lagos in infrastructural development

Lagos with 1 trillion naira budget yearly?

Though it is achievable if:

1. Other sea ports are made fully functional.
2. There are international airports in all the zones of the country to service the respective zone.
3. Working refineries
4. Electricity.

I bet you lagos will no longer be attractive to the average Nigerian. Concentrating economic hub in lagos is what causing the human congestion, centralize and see lagos become less congested.

This is government registration number plate and I doubt if anyone here has the machine to emboss the plates.

omenka:
One Salamrushdie AKA FarahAideed said *Buhari has destroyed democracy* opon reading news that APC is leading in Kogi.

I bet this is an instant where Buhari commissioned people to thumbprint for Pdp's candidate thereby destroying democracy.

Na Bayelsa just dey totori me right now.

Lyon is busy drinking from a stream of pdp tears right now like...

Bayelsans has score to settle with Dickson hence the protest vote. Field Buhari or Tinubu for president now, the people of Bayelsa will reject him as long as he's of the APC.