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Good day

There is this lady i met for some months now.
Since i know her for more than six months, we have not enjoy ourselves together(have sex).
This lady, from my observation, she loves and always want to be with me. Though we have been romancing but never had sex
She told me that for over two years now, she has not had sex with any body, i then ask what was her reasons of not doing that,
she said, sex is painful and also causes bad feelings,, i then ask her if she has ever be in the mood of having sex, she replied that
the urge always comes but, she always thank God for he has been helping her out. Last time i was in her house, we were playing, along the line she went and took her bath, came back from the bathroom with a boxer, came and lay beside me on her bed, from there i started romancing her,
put her on me, she was also in the mood like she wants to agree, to the extent of making me to feel the impact of her thing on my body. When i wanted to pull her boxer, she said no, telling me that the fact that she is playing with me like this does not mean that i can have sex with her, adding that a lot of people have tried it but never succeed, that i should zero my mind from that. I have to pretend like i was just playing with her not to have sex with, this is because, we have argued before on a matter that men does not love women, all they always want is sex, for me to justify my opinion, i have to do that.
If i have money and she is demanding from me, and i am giving her, that would have been a different case, but i don't have money, even at that she always like to be with me but do not want sex, to the extent that she advice me, if i want to have another girlfriend that will give me sex, i should go ahead, but that can not stop our romance, adding that the only way she will be angry with me is if i went her back and have another girlfriend without me telling her, she will be angry with me.
And the issue is because of her i have driven every other girls away from me, and conji no gree me again.
Please what should i do in this case, because this lady is always opened up to me, any body that toaster, she will come and tell me immediatly, also i know her in and out.

Good day to everyone
Please, I intent to rent a room apartment of face me I face you around orile-iganmu or coker in Lagos here, but do not know what it my cost me to achieve that, so i thought it wise to use this medium to inquire.
If any of have an idea about it, you can please advice me, your warm advice will be sincerely appreciated
Thank you

Good day fellow Nairalander, there is this babe we have been dating each other for three months now.
I love her, and i believe she loves me too, but she will not allow me to touch her much.
She collect money when ever i have to say take, if i do not have, she will not pressurize me.
My fear is that, she is staying with one of her brother, but not really a blood brother, just like in the village they share the land boundary and this guy in question is a womanizer, she has tell me different story about the guy ways of life and it has begin to get like seriously, may be she is sleeping with him also or she might sleep with him in future.
Your urgent advice, suggestion and comments are need

Thank you

Good day

I work in an organization, where i am the only man in the midst of two ladies, and both of them happen to be under me, that is, I managing them.
I later fell in love with one of the ladies,and she love me too. But the issue is the other lady is not happy about it and trying all she could to ruin the relationship. This has cause a lot of issue but i am now confuse, I don't know what to do any more.
Please advice
Thank you

upmanagers:
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I also advice u blend extract d juices and heat it not to boiling point, just to kill germs

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Juliearth:
Provided you refrigerate it, I don't think it should go bad. However, you should consider blending and sieveing your ingredients next time as boiling it could lead to loss of important nutrients. Good luck!

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Good day Nairalander, please i will like to inquire how much one room apartment will cost around costain with the agent fee.

Thank you for your humble respond

Daronyk:
Give her some space. She needs to think of you first before showing her feelings

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GhettoHustler007:
Bro. Be Patient with her No Pressure...
That's LOVE.

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Favouramani:
My brother silence her for few days she will fall for you

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[quote author=Kenzico post=64613741][b] Please be gentle on that girl and yourself....I've met this kind of girls...she wants to study ur attitude on a Long run. Don't ever inquire for an answer from her anymore....if she loves u back, she will gradually fall in.

Please wateva u do don't pressurize a lady in2 going into a relationship with u...Just keep on showcasing a little care n Love towards her

Please give her time o!
Take everything easy like u are drinking a hot tea....Also try and get busy too so u don't get too obsessed on her matter.

Thanks so much

[quote author=Pubichairs post=64613552]mehn u should have given her time..u just saw her and asked her out .means u are just desperate

The thing is, we know each other for over a year now, but never chat with her, is just like good morning, good morning between me and her over that one year plus

[quote author=Captleverage post=64613459]Nah she don't like you nigga
Move the f*ck on

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Please, fellow Nairalander, i have a situation at hand that is affecting my life emotionally.
There is this lady in my church that i love, after exchanging numbers, few days later I express my feelings towards her, but she has not given me a genuine answer yet. she only told me that there is no problem adding that she will wash my character for now. Like last Saturday we were chatting all through like she has already accepted my request. I told her that we should meet yesterday to have a wonderful time together, I even allowed her to choose the time that will be convenience for her all in the name of hoping to get a good response from her. She mention the time of her choice and i concord to it. when i was close to house to pick her up to where we intend to go, she called me telling me that, that day was her sister birthday, I then ask if i should go back, she said i can come but everything will be snappy so that she can go for her sister birthday. When we got to the relaxation place, as a guy who has ask her out, i was expecting her to given me the answer i am expecting, but she end up saying she is still watching my character. After that we talk and gave her t fair to go for her sister birthday. I did bot call her all through, she was the one that call me later in the evening, telling me that she was expecting my call to tell her if i am home already, I then told her that my thought was that she will still be at the birthday, and i do not want to bother her. W e talk and later ended the call. This morning I called her after asking her how was her night and wasupp for the day, she said I should call her back later. I try chatting her up, after one reply, she has not respond to my chat.

Please my dear fellow Nairalander, your kind and gentle advice is needed, does it mean that she do not like me or she is trying to know my true person, or she is just playing me.

Thank you for your brotherly advice and comments in advanced

wao, what a 9iz concept. I love this

damesilver:
I think the first step towards getting help to your challenge is by recognizing the vice which you have acknowledged by opening this thread.

You are already on the way to recovery. What you need now is a psychological shift. Realise that nobody can free you from this vice except yourself. There is no magic anywhere.

Meditate about it. You are probably proud because you have certain admirable qualities in you. It could a handsome social grace, intelligence, connections, psychic gift, etc etc.

Think about the fact that nothing really last forever. The law of impermanence will take effect one day. No matter how beautifully looking we may appear, how intellectually sound, or popular, it is not for ever. It must pass, too.

Just like every other thing in this physical dimension, it will pass, we will leave them here on earth one day. Think about the passing away of the human soul from this earth which can happen at any hour. Then you will see the futility of earthly honors.

It is the illusion of possession that makes us proud. We are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator. Little by little, by prayer and supplication, the pride will go away.

thank you

Please my fellow nairalander, I will sincerely appreciate if I can get tips to dealing with pride and arrogant, because I am having a tough time trying overcome those attributes because I know it does not befit me at all. Your kind advise and encouragement will be sincerely appreciated. Thank you all

the heart of some men is extremely wicked, you claim to love her before, she try all she could to make you happy, bought a bike for you, this about it and said the bike will generate good income for you, went and bought a danfo for you, you were still not satisfy with that, you wanted to use her for ritual, she got a wind of that, and you both parted ways, you still lured her by taking her out, and at last you butcher her like meat, and you are nw telling the world that you and her borded a bike, and on your way you had an accident and hited her head on the ground, you claim that when you got home she started complaining that her head was paining her and as a result she died, adding that the only thought that came to your mind is to cut her in pieces and dispose her like a trash, and you think we are all stupid to believe your wicked heart and saying. if it is your sister this happen to, how will you feel and what will you do?My prayer is that, he that killed by the sword, will die by the sword so as to enable you test what you did to her

that is a welcome development #that will reduce crime #any conducted that commit any crime can easily be identify

lalasticlala:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tiwa_Savage

Happy birthday to you mama T, I wish you more fruitful years ahead, love you

zoba88:
According to Godspower who shared the sad story on Jan 17,a terrible accident which claimed many lives occurred along Lokoja-Okene,Kogi.He wrote....

' On my way from Warri to Abuja a Serious accident that left scores dead and others seriously injured right in front of me at Agadama Junction by Lokoja - okene road, Kogi state. Pls join me and pray for them. And pls note that some of them were coming to warri, so if u know anyone pls pass the message across'


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/01/terrible-accident-along-lokoja-okene.html

o lord, have mercy

i rep August 2nd

sugarbelly:
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http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/director-arrested-inserting-electric-heater-sons-anus-allegedly-gay/

nawa ooo, what a wicked world, no matter what there still some others way of punishing someone been a gay, rather than using electric heater nw, tor, have mercy lord

Please, fellow Nairalander, i have a situation at hand that is affecting my life emotionally.
There is this lady in my church that i love, after exchanging numbers, few days later I express my feelings towards her, but she has not given me a genuine answer yet. she only told me that there is no problem adding that she will wash my character for now. Like last Saturday we were chatting all through like she has already accepted my request. I told her that we shoul meet yesterday to have a wonderful time together, I even allowed her to choose the time that will be convenience for her all in the name of hoping to get a good response from her. She mention the time of her choice and i concord to it. when i was close to house to pick her up to where we intend to go, she called me telling me that, that day was her sister birthday, I then ask if i should go back, she said i can come but everything will be snappy so that she can go for her sister birthday. When we got to the relaxation place, as a guy who has ask her out, i was expecting her to given me the answer i am expecting, but she end up saying she is still watching my character. After that we talk and gave her t fair to go for her sister birthday. I did bot call her all through, she was the one that call me later in the evening, telling me that she was expecting my call to tell her if i am home already, I then told her that my thought was that she will still be at the birthday, and i do not want to bother her. W e talk and later ended the call. This morning I called her after asking her how was her night and wasupp for the day, she said I should call her back later. I try chatting her up, after one reply, she has not respond to my chat.

Please my dear fellow Nairalander, your kind and gentle advice is needed, does it mean that she do not like me or she is trying to know my true person, or she is just playing me.

Thank you for your brotherly advice and comments in advanced

youngscholar:
LASEMA Response Unit got there sharp sharp as usual. The accident occurred at Bolade Bus stop.

See more photos…

https://autojosh.com/danfo-bus-somersaults-agege-motor-road-lagos-photos/

may God help, drivers beware of your speed, and may God always protect us from on timely death

laribari:
Na horse abi hose?

No woman go stay with this man o!!

Abi, the woman that will come closer to this man should be ready for treatment every day