thagift:
Since i bought android phone for my girlfriend her elder sister has been disturbing me to buy her own for her too, i mean she no get boyfriend?
And the nokia 210 she is currently using i bought it for her oh, and now i dont have money what do i do? because even my girlfriend is disturbing me to buy for her and i cant disappoint her, i use big boy approach her so i must form big boy till the end.

mrego:
there was this 23 years old girl i was dating in my lodge but i broke up with her February this years because i did not have the intention of marrying her. i called her and spoke to her about all these and gave her my reasons which of cause she did not like. she begged and said she is not ready for marriage yet and she did not say i must marry her but i insisted on quitting cause i didnt want to waste more years on a courtship that will lead no where.

she quite her job some time last year october and another job was not forthcoming so i was the one feeding and taking care of her and giving her kid sis nothing less than 5k whenever she comes home for holiday. till she got a job and her first pay in may, i was the one making sure she lacks nothing. my girlfriend complained but i assured her she will soon be on her(ex) feet and i will stop then. God being faithful, she was able to secure a job may 2016 but to my dismay i found out she didnt have any certificate that she wrote in her CV, not even the common WAEC or Birth Cert. ( during the time we were dating she disclosed to me that she didnt finish her higher education cause she lost her mum who was responsible for her fees). trying to be the good friend, i gave her money to go forge about four documents which she sent to the HR of the organization.

in April, she sent me a text that i should lend her 50k for her to complete her rent that she has ran out of excuses to tell her caretaker that she was going to pay it back mid may. that someone promised her some money. out of the 50k she asked for, i gave her 45k cause that was what i was having then to spare. since mid may she has been telling me different stories.

there is this good for nothing boy she is now dating in the lodge, all he does is smoke weed and drink with his friends. of a truth, i dont really know which among them she is dating so i advised her to do better that the boy will only succeed in pulling her back. we do have sex on few occasions though.

just yesterday, 7/6/16 around past 9pm, i saw her returning from an outing, after exchanging pleasantries, i then asked her if she has heard from her friend who promised her some cash and she replied she will get back to me. she has told me this same line several times on phone which she has failed to even update me on the issue so i insisted she gives a definite day and time i should be expecting her feedback and she started shouting that i am embarrassing her that i should get out from her room. i was shocked because it was just the two of us that was in the room so i dont know who i was embarrassing her to. moreover, even if someone was there, there is no way the person will even know what we were discussing. she kept shouting that i should leave her room i got angry and gave her a light shove on her shoulder and started walking out. to my dismay, she followed me behind and gave a me a slap on my face. i was stunned and was just staring at her, next she gave me another 2. lolxxx. to God who made me, i dont know where i got strength from not to give her swollen eyes. i controlled myself as difficult as it was. she said to tell me the truth, she didnt plan on paying me back my money that i should do my worse. her boyfriends (i dont know who exactly she is dating among them) came and started threatening me that it is because of cult case that they are here(in town) and i should not make them descend on me. i just laughed and told them we will start the case tomorrow.

now, i intend going to the police to help recover the money cause i do not want to take laws into my own hand and i am so resisting the temptation to make her lose her job which i worked over 50% to help her secure.

sweetcocoa:
Didn't you have sex with him before getting married? To think you've even been married for 5 years.

You can try talking to him still.

3sexy:
I am a married woman with a lovely kid , I love my husband but he is too selfish in bed , to him, lovemaking means" penetration" , no romance no fore play , all he is interested in is just to penetrate me ! he doent even care if I,m wet or not .this is really getting frustrating because it is painful and sometimes I end up having blisters.
Most tines I try to initiate pre-intimacy and make him slow down a bit he gets impatient and angry ,and I just let him have his way , and the worst part of it is that when he is done he will fall asleep immediately !
Pls matured minds how do I make him change without hurting his feelings , for over 5 years now i have not had a pinch of climax, I love him dearly but I also want a normal sex life in my marriage .

engrrichie92:

she never dumped me and she never will...this babe loves me die and I wonder why @ times?

Dmarketter:

Very early on sunday even before I woke up properly she has left.


you knew u had a destructive girl in your house and the best caution u could take was to LEAVE THE HOUSE FOR HER AND COME BACK LATER AT NIGHT.

then to top it all off, u didn't even know when she left cos u were fast asleep. what type of trust is that ? thumbz up bro.

***

We never called eachother since she left till I got this message this morning.


"You are a cheap man, a wicked soul, you shouted at me for a simple mistake I made, how much is that useless bowl, cup, cooker, net or cocoa pops dat gave you the right to shout at me. I don't blame you, I came to your useless house and you treated me like a nobody. God will punish your wickedness and never ever bother seeing me again"


*a woman must always find some way to put you in the wrong side of the table even when she is a first class offender. so that she can have a reason for dumping you when she tells people why she no longer talks to you no more.

by the way... Is her name Georgina ?

corpROYAL:
Actually, l have shared little about this before now.
I am single man, living in among two family as a tenant which comprises of my landlord family upto six people which lncluding his mother, the wife, the wife sister and the rest are my landlord's children.

In the other part which is a seperate complete two unite of min flat l live in one of the min flat and l have my neighbour with three children living in the other one, all are in the same compound with the landlord.

Since l have enter in this place. There use to be fight between landlord and his wife this happen for sometime and stop. In my neighbour which is co-tenant there own is noise always and is seriously disturbing most especially, as soon as the wife notice l am back home is to continue to disturb like opening their door and close is it severally just to disturb because and if there is light she will increase the volume of their radio loud just to disturb just because l dont engage any of them in talking l only great if ocassion permit we chat small and l went my way. l have observe these for almost a year now. When this persist l call my landlord to report them. They stop for While then the continue and l have promise not to report them again.
Recently the husband which is my neighbour call me and explain that there is little misunderstanding between his wife and the landlord and he want me to help them to settle it which l did with the help of God.
Alot of displeasing characters here and there to cut the whole thing short. Now l want to leave l have seen another place that is more comfortable for me, just #10,000 different from the annual fees l us to pay and it a little bit close to the road. my major concern is my landlord and land lady seem to like me, the landlord do call me if he doesnt see me you know that kind of care.

I dont know how he will feel if l tell him l am relocating and also my Church members in the area who are actually care about me. Although, l have told my Church member before that l may leave the area. In my mind l just dont know what to do l am just tired of the place. Please l need your candid advise as regard to this.

Thanks.

OEmiohe:


I reminded him DAT its not wise telling his mother to come and stay with us for as long as she likes knowing that we are just a newly married couple April this year made it 1year we got married.


pls I'm worried abt my mother inlaw coming to stay with us for as long as she likes the especially when I remember she is Edo while I'm Igbo.

pls wot do I do

abiodunalasa:


But what if my story could be different from urs. I only asked for advice on how it can work out not advice on how it cannot. Thank you

dumie:
Buhari puts the C word in Coward!

Cutehector:
lol story is annoying

Afritop:
Whoever named this man LAI must be arrested and charged to court

Topleague:
this man should just shut up for once, haba we are not kids

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.