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Hold up dear, this one that it showed for just two days, am thinking something great has happened. Go for a blood PT, don't take any drug for now. Keeping my fingers crossed.

missingribs:
Good morning my pple hw was ur night.last night was d beginning of any drama in d house as dh as finally know that no BFP,he has retreated to a shell,we both slept on different angle of the bed unlike the usual cuddling and handling.
but me ave decided dat no more TTC until he decided to take the SFA test,no drugs nothing.

@ripvanwink, fruitfulray, ogunbekun, lavivaavril, mummykyrti, adiahaakwaibom1

abeg my sabi sabi mamas and papa pls DS cycle AF show just for 2days oooo,d pad I used last night (cd2) waking up DS morning it was empty.pls wat canbe d cause and pls hwhen is the right time to go for hvs(m/s/c) and urine (m/s/c) and what are d procedure.

Ave decide to go trado like other mamas here as suggested by my friend (that is if dh takes d test).the woman she is a nurse and trado pratician so she advice I do DS to know if I have any infection.

Please one name came up today, please where is mama @precy22

My dear, you are welcome here. may your stay be short and fruitful, I'll advise to be prayerful and be confident in the power of God, do not fear, speak to the atmosphere, command your husband's sperm count to increase, and believe that whatever drug you take will work, not based on the drugs, but because of the power of God

There are a number of drugs he can take, there is Fetisan n, I hope i spelt it correctly, if that is too expensive for you guys, you can try a combination of Addyzoa with any of the following... Wellman conception, everygreen for men, fertailaid for men which include the sperm boost, motility boost.

If you can afford it, i'll recommend addyzoa and fertail aid or fertisan N. You also should take supplements.

God bless and direct you dear... baby dust to us all

nobleDream:
good evening mama's in the house.. this is my first time posting here though I have been drawing strength from just reading other people's post...

I have been TTC for almost a yr now but have found out my husband has low sperm count and low motility, we have opted for an IUI, Bt d first one wasn't successful ( story for another day)...my problem is that we are not so financially buoyant to try again and the stress and emotional trauma that comes with the whole process is something else, please is there a drug my husband can take in order to improve the count and motility so we can be trying naturally rather than the IUI that is affecting us financially.
Any info will be highly appreciated.One love

Check on jiji, they have a seller there...

fademi17:
Good evening, pls who has clean point tampon for sale or wer can I get one?? V checked everywer and Mumihaja doesn't have. Tanx

My dear I don't really know, but I think it is better than overflowing or heavy flow. You should try and drink warmer things during AF, like tea's, green teas, fertility teas, lemon in warm water first thing in the morning etc. This should help, but in all, you are healed, your body is fruitful... You are beautiful and wonderfully made...

curvilicious:
Mamas and papas abeg any idea why my af does not flow well? It has been like dat like forever i asked gynae he said as long as it can fill a pad then am good.
If i just drink cold water af go seize to flow sometimes during heat when i drink very cold water thru af time na so all my pad go waste.

@ripvanwink, fruitfulray, fvine, orney,loisemm, ogunbekun, lavivaavril, mummykyrti, adiahaakwaibom1, pwettymii, chrissyjay

@all i need answers been wondering why

Take a deep breath in, now breath out... I'll tell you what Jesus told his disciples before he was crucified...

DONT LET YOUR HEART BE TROUBLED...

We will all get out of this sooner than later, Christ himself took away all our griefs, so when we feel sad, its not from God, it's from the devil, so in the name of Jesus, we resist the devil. We are more than conquerors, far above EVERY principalities and power... God bless you sis...

fpeter:
Today na wa, I am so teary and just want to wail and cry very hard and long.
I don't know what the problem is but i am sad and depressed, I just want to
Vent but i can't...I wish i could just face my Creator and hear from Him when
it is that I'd finally come out of this mess of TTC. Talking about my feelings to
people who aren't wearing my shoes is even out of the question. God help me
I'm gradually losing my mind.

Please all, lets try and listen to this, it will bless us... It will help with controlling our emotions in this time, we will make it through...

http://www.awmi.net/audio/audio-teachings/#/awm_1005a_emotional.mp3

Thanks so much dear God bless you and grant you all your heart desires...

Mama's take this opportunity, I have the book and its indeed a must have...

udysweet:
Happy new month fruitful mamas In the house. May this month record the highest number of BFPs in the mighty mighty name of Jesus. I keep praying for you all including my loved ones even myself so when the time comes it will be easy for me .
Atleast you people are in your hubbies houses, what of those of us still believing God for our own missing ribs (I had to separate the words since someone bears that moniker here, lol.) I desire babies and used to imagine a lot with my triplets that God will give me but I need it to come to reality. I have been down since morning, just ruminating over a lot of things. I couldn't even step out to attend the fashion class I paid for to learn. But I know soon, iyanu ma sele. The God of times and seasons will hasten it in His time,including the BFPs for all of you here, no one will be left behind on this thread.
Going forward, it dropped in my mind to do this, I guess it's the spirit leading me. I want to gift a few people the book "You shall not be barren" authored by Bishop David Oyedepo. I will get them on Sunday after church then distribute them on Monday to those within Lagos. I can afford 10 for now. And when God blesses me more I'll get more. I can only send to those within Lagos,, So long as I know where to drop off for you. I pray as you read them, may the latent content of God's Word embedded in the book work wonders. May the book answer to its name in your life. You can reach me via the number on my signature. God bless us all

In all we give God thanks...

curvilicious:
Good news oooooooo
Praise the Lord with me o










Af showed her ugly face but thank God i didn't die in January so i have a chance in February

Thank God, He is our healer, your healing is permanent dear...

fpeter:
I had a successful TVS today. No fluid whatsoever, nothing abnormal. The last time i had a pelvic/abdominal scan there was little fluid in my POD so i was place on antibiotics to dry that up. Thankfully today all is well...Waitinf for AF and the DAY 3 to continue my tests.

Lol... u are funny oh, please enjoy yourself, TTC won't dull our game

mummykyrti:
hahaha mama adiahaakwaibom1 mke dh no hear u o, we didn't bd for like 4 days bcs I wanted to try that no bd after cd 18, hubby begin say I dey deny am him right, I kuku present my jajaina as kpekus sacrifice give am, but this morning own cold catch me nai I say him dey there, cold dey catch me, weda e no fit gime Milo(the D), oga say "I should prepare tea 4 u?" I just vex comot face, bfre him brain con boot him con understand

Atkins is similar to Keto, keto is mostly for obese and they will advise you do it for 3 months, after which you can move over to Atkins. There are som e fruits and Veggies which you can't eat on Keto diet but are allowed in Atkins. Its also good, since you aren't big... Kim Kardashian used it to lose her baby weight...

mrssho:
I know what Keto is which is why I said Atkins is similar and thats what I am sticking to

Happy new month dear, your dream will come true soon, dont give up

afagha:
Good morning 2017 mummies,I had a dream where I had a bfp this morning only to wake up and test cos af was a day late. lo and behold na af I dey take my 2 korokoro eyes dey look so o.
I'm so unhappy! but I know God is on the throne.
I wanna buy that lugols. was talking to dh about it and he said I should do a scan first to see if acv + bsm is working and I shouldn't buy it.

Amen

4realwoman:
In the name of God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy spirit I decree into our life that all through the month of February we will dance a dance of joy and every celebration of death is cancelled is our home and our family. Every good thing in this month will be deliver into our life and our family. Everything that has been given us sleepless night will surrender unto us this month. We all and our family members will fulfil purpose and shine for the Lord. Congratulations. Happy new month.

Rest and go for the test... it will end in praise in Jesus name...

missingribs:
my sabi sabi mamas how una day,hope not too stressful Sha.........AF no VA show face but fear dey catch me to do pt cos of my last experience (empty gestationlsac thing) dh advice I rest more and go for scan.
waiting till weekend as I dey seriously pray for AF not to show as am in CD 32 today and also to Ve a successful and proper implantation.

My dear, i feel you should try her at least and see, in all keep praying...

Adiahaakwaibom1:
My waka story this morning ;
I went with DH 2 a newly recommended trado woman dis morning. She specialises with infertility issues amongst couples & has been doing it 4 a long time. When we got there; she told me 2 lie down & massaged my belly 4 a long time ; asking me 2 change positions in btw. During her examination; she touched a spot slightly off 2 my left & d pain l experienced was out of this world. She then told me that neither ovulation/ conception was d problem but instead it's implantation.
I asked her why & she said l had a little fibroid that was @ a strategic position . In which whenever l conceive, d baby finds it hard 2 implant cos d region wasn't accommodative.
I told her l have conducted numerous scans but haven't seen fibroids of recent,she then said that its size might be negligible so it might not be seen yet on scan.
She recommended herbal treatment for 3 months with weekly pelvic massage & charged 40k for it. Maybe d way I kept my face that's why she surprisingly said that lf l felt she wasnt genuine l shouldnt pay her till after d treatment period( in which she positively believed l wud have conceived b4 then). She also advised l start d treatment on d lst day of my next cycle if this cycle is not successful.
Na so my waka this morning happen..( somewhere in my heart; l believe her diagnosis. Cos most cycles that l feel "this is it" r always elongated & during that period l have severe cramping Abi Na "biting " sensations that never cease till I start bleeding). Am just praying this should be my last bus stop 4 ttcing waka if this current cycle is not successful.
# Sorry4dlongpost

Try and pee before, it helps, make a conscious effort to do so...

frajon:
Good afternoon fertile mamas! Pls is it advisable to pee after baby dance?I am kind of worried cos it has happened to me twice now.

Welcome ma, may your stay be short and fruitful. For me, you have done everything within your power, i'll advise you to intensify your prayer life, believe that with God, nothing is impossible. Pray, fast, study the word well. Everyone that met Jesus was healed, know wether PCOS, PID or whatever it is, by His stripe you were healed, hand it all to God, don't take anyother drug, just give it to Jesus.

then for your weight, i'll advise you go on a Keto diet, it has really helped people to conceive and lose weight, its a low carb diet, as much as you can, avoid sugar, flour and carbs, and speak to your body constantly, that body, you are fruitful.

My sister, I declare you are fruitful and will bear your own children in Jesus name... Amen

mrssho:
Hello Every one and happy new year. I have been lurking on this page for sometime and I decided to post for the first time. I have been TTCing for 4 years now this is my 5th year and I have done the clomid route without success and have had 2 failed IVF cycles. At this point I dont know what do do again. I tried clomid for 4 cycles in september last year without success. My husband isnt very open to adoption so I am not really sure what to do anymore. This year I have decided to exercise more and work out as I was diagnosed with PCOS.If anyone has any suggestions or ideas I am very open to them

Amen my sister... Amen

4realwoman:
As today marks the end of January, so shall it be to every giant behind your struggles and your problems of many years shall be over. David became a victor over giant. In the name that is above every other name, today as you defeat all your giant, the Lord will give you a victorious song into the new month and new things will begin to spring forth from your life , your family and business in Jesus name, amen.

This is just the best thing to do...lol

missingribs:
pls don't warn anybody or say anything about it again..... talking from experience
I use to ve a SIL like dat if I complain dh go say who drop money for the food.I kuku tell am say as na him drop money make him find cook join,the situation was worst than urs to the point when am cooking d mumu dey inside her room dey watch movies as I finish to cook she go come out go kitchen put hand for put carry chop,if she come from work she go open freeze carry put for microwave chop everything not minding wat others will eat, as I realize say complain no work.i change tactics as sharp BAE,I stop to cook plenty food so food no dey dey freezer.if I cook finish for kitchen I go serve my own and DH own put for microwave keep for am,if e remain good luck to her,if e no remain I jejeje enter my room go watch zeeworld.
one day I come back from work see say she boil rice and stew(na only 2meat dey inside stew)I carry plate take rice and stew with d 2meat enter my room jejeje,as she come out see d two meat don disappear she no fit complain.another day I come meet noodles for fire,I jejeje put noodles for plate enter room.
I stop complaining but pass d msg across with my attitude.case close

My dear, I think why your hubby gets angry is not that he is mean, its just that men don't get us. They feel we complain too much, women can't hold on to things, thats how God created us oh, please bear with him and don't get tired.

As for that smally, call him aside and warn him, tell him not to go near your pot, if he needs anything, you will serve him. What kind of nonsense... God help us, I don't even subscribe to people leaving with couples about to conceive. Take care dear, and son't let anything/one affect your peace, your miracle is nearer than you think...

curvilicious:
I am finding it difficult living with d man am married to. His small cousin stays wt us if i don't serve him food he picks two or three meat from soup(we are not rich just on d average) so i serve him food this evening i served him veg source and he went back and put d remaining source i left for MIL including her portion of fish. i told dh he started calling all sorts of names because i said the boy was not suppose to go to my pot.
Once i make mention of anything this boy does dh gets angry and starts calling me names

Am so very tired of them both

Congrats dear, may God continue to keep and bless you all. You will surely carry to term and deliver safely. God blee you
Baby dust to us all

aghaibiam:
After a long absence I am happy to inform my lovely mama's that God has done it for me again.I tested positive and fetal pole has been seen.I pray that every woman here will sing a song of joy soon.

My darling, please don't feel sad, it will come to pass... God knows best...baby dust to us all

CravingChic:
Not again....I woke up to see AF..I am so sad. Why can't we just conceive and have children like other women. O God! Please be merciful....I just want to cry all day. Thankfully, dh has gone to work. Its just so frustrating. I feel so helpless and somewhat useless too.

Me, I don't mind anyone, dress my thing, wear tight clothes that my flat tummy shows self. I attend a big church, but my dears, that doesn't stop it. This too shall pass.

Curvy curvy, hope you don't sponge that palace, see another gyno, me self get vigil, let me try and rest small. God will answer us, this is our year

Its sad that many people don't know how to behave when someone is going through a trying period, why must they lay hand on your stomach, why must they make one feel they aren't complete, its total rubbish. See, the best way to deal with Nigerians is to tell them, because, no matter how you do face, some people just don't get it. Next time, smile at the pastor and direct his hand to ur head too. When they are forcing you out for baby dedication, if you don't want to go, please tell them you don't want to.

God has already blessed us, and its not about what we do or not do. Many of them there with their kids, did they go out all the time during baby dedication, did they sow here and there, please children are a gift from God, so we will all receive ours in due time. Just take some of them and tell them you don't like it, let them call you whatever, but they know your stand at least.

fpeter:
I've been thinking of it too. But my sisters think i should stay back so i won't be tagged a bitter or jealous person , honestly I am not happy anymore. Last time I was in Church my pastor laid his hand on everyone but went ahead to also lay hand on my stomach..He meant well but i was embarrassed seeing that i was the only one he did that to. Again, I was told to sit with nursing mothers and pregnant women...I just dey feel one kind.

My dear, when I read this, I just cried in my heart, feel so sad, but know that God is on the throne.
I'm going to advise you like I would my sister, if he has not married you, and you are just living together, I think you should leave, that is if he has not done intro, paid ur dowry and done the necessary thing. Please don't be afraid, you will see a good one, but if he has done the necessary things, hold on oh.

Only God knows what He's preventing you from, and from all indication, he might be the one with a problem, you have taken in before, you have a child. Marriage is beyond children, if he doesn't want to do the right thing, let him go, why should he be listening to one ex. God forbid, what of you don't give birth for the next years, will he just keep you in the house, where he might be the one with the issue.

My dear, take time, fast and pray, surrender your life totally to Christ and ask God to reveal His plan for your life, concerning your matriage, life and all. Will be praying for you dear, take care

missingribs:
my dear,It is well,all will end in praise,I can feel u so our case is
after 3yf abandonment

Congrats dear... God is indeed on the throne, may you carry to term, no evil will come near u in Jesus name. God bless you
2017, am here oh, by Gods power and Grace

Elixir123:
Oh I forgot to add
#Weareall2017mummies!

Congrats dear... God is indeed on the throne, may you carry to term, no evil will come near u in Jesus name. God bless you

curvilicious:
Congratulobia H&H 9months

Thanks ma, Amen but Triplets...hmmm, if its Gods will, but na 1 i want or twins at most, but if God like give me 7 at once, I receive it... lol

please listen to this, and for everyone too.

http://www.awmi.net/audio/audio-teachings/#/awm_1086a_beliefs.mp3

Fertilemum:
@FruitfulRay..thanks so much.. U don't know what those words mean to me and how relieved I feel.. May God answer ur prayers in this cycle IJN.. In fact receive triplets by God's grace

Mama's in d house.. Pls let's start another round of prayers o, even fasting sef.. I find it difficult to do these things on my own.. Baby dust to us all

My dear, its not long at all, thats why we are here. One thing I have learnt in marriage is how to listen to my husband, because not only is he the head, but God also speaks through him. Speak to your father in heaven, tell Him that as your husband as said, let God do it, please don't be afraid, join faith with him and pray. Give thanks to God and praise Him, go for your hols, enjoy yourself, relax your mind and let God do what only He can do.

What if you do the IVF and it dosen't work? my sister, try it hubby's way for now and see. As you trust God, you will never be put to shame. Baby dust to us all...

Fertilemum:
Good afternoon mamas.. Abeg I want to seek ur advice as I don't know how to go about it anymore.. Late last year hubby and I decided to go d ivf route(his sperm count is low..we have tried all sorts of drugs and even surgery but deres no improvement) we went to Dr Emeka of olive branch clinic..did all the necessary tests, he was even very impressed with their services and all.. Wen it was time for us to start d ivf proper, he changed his mind.. I asked y and he said God will do it naturally.. It's not like I don't av faith in God but d pressure is killing me.. I don't know wot to do.. I even feel too weak and exhausted to pray these days.. Right now, we are planning a vacation and I am not just into it.. A part of me just wants to tell DH to use d money for ivf.. But won't I hurt his feelings by saying so? Sorry for the long post.. May we all get our bfps dis cycle by God's grace.. Baby dust to us all

Please don't free him oh, do today and tomorrow, then rest the day later...

Adiahaakwaibom1:
My sis; why am so confused cos I be see something similar on CD9 but this one be dey stretchy . 4 kpekus; I do one yesterday; make I free Oga till 2morrow b4 Mr Man go faint oh

My dear, you be champion, but its advisable everyday, then take a break, to energize the semen, then do again, followed by everyother day, or 4 times a week. 2 or 3 times a day when ttc is not advisable. but this men, then no go wan hear...lol God give us wisdom.

mummykyrti:
lol no b so o, na me even dey do 1 day interval, left for dh the thing b like food, weekdays na once a day, weekend na like twice or thrice a day, na me dey use style style dey run self, atimes I go lie say I get sore 4 jajaina.