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sucess001:
With 1.5 million, a surrogate can do same for you... So?

Seriously considering that surrogate. Especially if I end up with my current girl. She is too fragile, and I’m scared of her carrying pregnancy.

Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

Not to contradict you. But the children still belong to the women. It’s a sacrifice they made for their future. They will still be the one to use the children to their advantage as much as they wish.

My only gain is the continuity of my family name. And that’s if I am lucky the kids are mine.

It’s the pain they bear for them selves.

BRATISLAVA:
This confirms the fact that you think you can play God and people will bow to your will.

You will be executed first without a blink. Not everyone will be your sheep to listen to you or what you think. You won't have your way in this world, because you don't own it.

Now, consider that when assuming the communication with strangers route.

You don’t even know who you are talking to.

BRATISLAVA:
Well, you can't persuade me from what I want to do, no matter how evil it is unless I have the conviction on my own internally not to do it.

To believe others will be talked out of it is dangerous as that is merely an assumption that who you are dealing with will care or feel any empathy.

You are right too.

This also confirm the fact that you think others are evil because you are too.

You think others won’t change from their evils because you also won’t.

You are right. And if you happen to be under me, and your evil plan will hurt others (especially me). And you won’t listen to me. I will silently execute you.


Either way, I will have my way.

BRATISLAVA:
You know nothing about people.

There are people who your communication matters nothing to, especially not if the evil they are doing is their source of livelihood. It's not his wife you're asking him to communicate with, who is obligated to listen to him.

Have you tried talking to the ritualists so that they will stop killing people all over Nigeria?

I understand you.

I think I understand your point of view. However, I am a bit different. Even if I have a one on one convo with a ritualist. I will persuade them and they will listen to me.


I think it's a gift, so I must not expect others to be like me.

But how beautiful the world will be if we all have this ability.

BRATISLAVA:
If you tell her, she may decide to increase the thing she's doing to spite you the more. Or follow the Nollywood storyline and set up a juju against you for daring to mention it, since you say she's harsh and... Raze.

Don't you have an environmental protection agency? Sounds like a lot of pollution.

Why do people reason like this?


When have we so degraded as a race that we don’t even believe in simple communication?

There is a way you talk to someone, even if she is the devil, she will reason with you. She is a human being like you.

We should honestly learn the act of communicating. We are all humans and have the same building block. Even if our experience differ.

Zooposki:
Conquered African slave. Na only women side una dey show power.

If you are a Yoruba, there is over 90% chance that your great grandfathers are once slaves to my fathers.

My fathers are rulers and warriors. We don’t lick white men ynash like you. And we make others do our bidding (both men and women) not worship pussy or money.

[quote author=Meerahbel post=127140007][/quote]lol… Been through this before.

What I did?

- I listen to her.

- I take my time to understand her, and why she acted that way.

- Then come up with a logical reason why she is wrong (mostly touching on the ethical part of the situations- women don’t like being looked upon as bad person)

- I explain these things to her gently and make her realize how much she is wrong.

- I showed her I care much about her by letting her know how much she is losing by being that way. I let her realize what she stands to gain if she can be more patient and understanding.

- At first, she flared that I have no right to correct her. Then, I showed her I am a man, and a woman can’t tell me how to behave (with strong looks, defiant to instructions, and proceeding to do exactly what she say don’t do - accompanying it with strong body language that “I am a man”

- I take charge too. If she rely on me, I deliver. And I don’t shield away from my responsibilities. But they must all be at my term.

- She will calm down and start relying on you. Just be a dependable man. That’s all.

But be warned, she will fall in love with you. Just thread cautiously and avoid letting her know about your own girl. But you can always use the love to your advantage, without having anything to do with her beyond business.

See, women act like that cause they feel no one cares much about them, and they must thread with pride to follow what is prevalent. Show her you care. Show her the world is not as vain as she thinks. Show her she can enjoy a more quality life than the vain one she is living. She will listen if she is intelligent. And I know she is, women don’t become boss except they are intelligent.

Enemyofpeace:
Just remove one thing from the tray and the rest is yours😃😃👇👇

Very easy.

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