mattmogan88:
am using a launcher called lawnchair, but the fonts doesn't work inside apps...

Thanks bro

mattmogan88:
click on that pen icon , then select the ones you need by dragging it up

Quick question sir. How in this world were you able to get another font for this phone.
please Grant my request for a wholesome experience on this device by regarding my humble request.
Thank you sir.

As I said before. Trading words with you will not help fulfil the purpose of this thread because as can be inferred your assertions, it is visible that you haven't followed this thread as diligently as I have, and seen the totally life changing suggestions I have come across. Go read all previous posts, starting from page 1 till now, then reply me.
This is the last time I am contributing to your unecessary lenghtening of this thread with unhelpful posts.

I didn't call you anything Mr. Karleb rather you are the one likenening this family to the gathering of the blind.
That aside. Clearly, trading words with you will not add anything of value to the purpose of this thread as can be seen from your replies. Otherwise you would have known that extroverts do not intimately understand the pain and joy that comes with introversion. The best advice an introvert can ever come across is that from another introvert that has studied, understood, overcome and is able to manipulate the intracies of this seeming extrovert dominated world.

Mr. Karleb, with all courtesy, please take yourself and your advice somewhere else. If you wished to contribute meaningfully to this thread, you would have seen that we are a little big family, airing our frustrations and trying to help one another in every little way we can. You coming here with your condescending and unhelpful words is why the OP wrote 'Extroverts Please Keep Off'.

Happy sunday!

DivineGrace123:


Being shy or timid is not one's innate character.

innate character = personality; according to what I intend to pass on.

But being shy is natural. Some kids are naturally shy while others are very outspoken. It all falls under the influence of genetic permutations.

What the environment does is to either reduce the extent or worsen it, as the case may be.

I believe you still recognize what the term 'environment' constitutes.

What happens is that some parent neglect that aspect of social development in a child focusing on simply reading and writing and this may or may not make make or mar his development into am adult.

oyetpel:


Wrong, a child in that class can be grow up to be shy and timid, an event can change the personality of such a child.

You beat me to it. It is true that the environment plays a role in shaping one's future behaviour, but it has little or no effect on one's personality.

I believe a person's personality controls the way he understands his environment. While the environment contributes significantly to a person's wealth of experience, it does little or nothing on that person's innate character.

For example, growing up in the ghetto made me tough and vastly experienced at a young age. I literally wake up and sleep to the smell of hemp and marijuana. At a young age, I've already started handling hard drinks and drugs but believe me when I tell you that I can't drink even though I know all kinds and sorts of drinks.

With my cool demeanour and gentlemanlike attitude, people find it difficult to believe that I can even speak pidgin english or the idea that I'm actually a ghetto kid.

Maybe all this made me bold, direct and unafraid to air my views, but I know that I'm an introvert because I'm one to analyse my surrounding before I act. I'm not a brute, an insensitive or a shallow person. I also very much like my alone time

This is just an example, so this is by no measure a means to generalize. There are many other examples I can give but let me wait for others.

oyetpel:


Most people are bearing their minds out, so of course there will be some weird things about them, and they didn't hesitate to share it.
They probably know its an issue, but maybe saying out here and getting advice might just help them.
If we go Gaggi way, no one will share their deepest thoughts here again, in case they might be judged or condemned.

....Aren't we all weired one way or the other, introvert or not.

....That's why I said sharing your problems here might just make you meet someone with the same and is or has been able to manage his.

....true. But bear in mind that this is a faceless forum where you can choose to reveal your identity or not, so sharing your deepest and most intimate thoughts will just be considered normal here in this thread. Therefore, don't feel shy. Share away while help comes knocking.

Gaggi:
Apologies if I came across as harsh. I'm also an introvert but some things I'm reading here does not strike me as introversion.
If a person is antisocial or has esteem issues, he or she shouldn't hide under being an introvert.
In the words of ftheophilous, which I perfectly agree with:


Some here are even depressed and saying they are no good. Poor self esteem is not a trait of an introvert. There is a thin line between an introvert and an antisocial person. Let's learn to differentiate both.

Well spoken, and of course on behalf of us all, apology accepted.

An anti social person can seem like an introvert, but as you said they are separated by a thin line.

While an anti-social may be apprehensive of new social situations, an introvert is just not much interested, preferring(not abhorring) his sanctitude( his personal time) to think and map out plans etc.

With the way the members of this thread went for Gaggi's head on a pike shows that indeed most of us here are proper introverts.

A real introvert is empathetic, sensitive, compassionate and is able to imagine himself in one's shoe - I'm sure y'all already know this. Therefore, with the knowledge that this is obviously an introvert lounge, for introverts, and filled with introverts where words get embedded in our thought and can drastically change our perception of our self and surrounding, such words from him are completely unrefined, crude and lack thorough thoughtfulness...."a bit harsh"? "No. Not really". "I'm actually saying this with an understanding tone", lol.

Not to mince words, whatever Gaggi said, however brutal, is simply the truth. Some of us here have discussed certain features about our self that mirrors an introvert's trait but isn't necessarily an introvert's.

The best thing is to read far and wide about these traits, to know more about them, and learn how to overcome them or to meet with people with similar issues and learn how they managed theirs as we are doing here.

I've said it before. An introvert isn't timid, silent, reticence or laconic by nature. It is more as a result of choice.

megatran:
interesting.. what age bracket are you? if you dont mind

....definitely not 30 - yet