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Impecca:
We can only hope and pray she grows academically at 32 going to 33. What will she teach my kids? Is it BODMAS. who will do their assignments??

But you knew about these things when you were busy receiving favours from her, right! What did you think was going through her mind while she was sorting you out...my best friend abi! Anyway just keep in mind that you'll reap what you sow.

Watermountains:
Not reading that. Enjoy

Yeah, no problem. The post wasn't actually meant for you alone in the first place but also for those impressionable ones you are trying to confuse that financial freedom doesn't bring happiness. Enjoy.

Watermountains:
It cut it for me maybe not for you. And I said temporary not permanent meaning technically it doesn’t and you cannot compare a not only privileged but european man to any African.
Try again, never.
You wasn’t lying when you said you need a body and soul cleansing but you need a spiritual and mental cleansing to add lol smh

Looks like you are trying to convince yourself much less me or anyone else on here for that matter.

Of course, anyone can be happy, whether rich or poor, as well as sad. Except the sadness of these poor people wasn't caused by poverty, money will definitely make a poor man happy.

Remember maslow's hierarchy of needs. Before on can even satisfy the most basic of these needs in our modern society, money is paramount not to talk of those needs higher in the hierarchy.

Whether a person has money or not, being sad at one point in time is inevitable because this feeling is triggered by external factors that disrupt the internal balance of the hormones responsible for it, but give a poor man money, I assure you he is definitely going to be happy.

Ps: I don't recall saying the bolded.

Watermountains:
So by that concept you’re basically saying money will solve our problems as Africans smh. The problems we face as Africans is bigger than paper money. But most of us aren’t ready to sit down and have this conversation.
Now don’t get me wrong, money may buy temporary happiness but definitely not permanent happiness.
AG is one of the people that said it best, “ Money no dey bring happiness
Na when I get money I realize oo”
Only people that worship material things will say money bring happiness. Money is somewhat necessary to some extent in the time we are living but it shouldn’t be making people forget about the simplicity of life. Until you see money then you cannot conclude on money buying happiness.

Lol...citing AG baby as example won't cut it out for you here. It's like comparing a house cat to a bobcat, there are levels to their seeming similarity. If Jeff Bezos can give such a quote, then I'll be ready to rescind my assertion. Anyway, glad to know that you agree that money can buy happiness too.

Watermountains:
Money can’t buy peace and happiness. That comes from within. And I’m still on your “body and soul needs cleansing” statement? How did you jump to talking about money? I’m so confused…. That’s why I said your last statement is debatable in the first place. Nvm…Just forget I commented. Lol smh

Who told you money can't buy peace and happiness. It definitely can. If majority of the households in Africa can get access to such money you were referring to, then peace and happiness are just mere commodities.

juddyalaski:
Good Day Fam!

Please i really want the house to suggest, advice, instruct, give ideas, correct me on this issues.

I have two females that I'm dating, i met one sometimes last year after the Covid-19, she's yoruba and resides in Osun State, while I met the second this year mid July 2021 and she's from Edo state but lives in ibadan and I also live in ibadan. The bond between me and the one in ibadan is very strong now to the extent that I've started finding it difficult to call or chat with the one in Osun State.

I actually want to settle with one. judging from their characters, the one in Ibadan tends to be more social and the outgoing type(she don tear eye), she obeys my instructions etc... while the one in Osun is gentle, not the outing type but does not joke with church activities.

I really need you guys to instruct me on what to do.

This is a very easy decision....so easy that you don't need the advice or 'instruction' of nairalanders.

If you wish to settle down down with a lady that is social and outgoing i.e 'person wey don tear eye', and at the same time is submissive and listens to instruction then pick the one in Ibadan.

However, if you wish to settle down with a lady that doesn't like outing much and does not joke with church activities then the one in Osun state is your best bet.

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lexy2014:
Are u going to pay d people u are hiring to troll me? Is it men that u are calling on, d same men that u hate? Na wa for u oh

Have u forgotten that d mods u report me to are men and after insulting men, u run to them to punish me? How do u expect that to work?

You see d way u have boxed yourself in a corner?

Wahala no dey finish o

SimplyFacts:
I will just advise you hold what you want to buy in hand before letting go of your money, so you don't tell story that touches heart. And, no go meet anyone you meet online for sharp corner o. Olorun a wa pelu e.

lol...thanks.

luizpippo:
Whatever you do, avoid a certain guy every mod tends to prop up here.

He is still yet to settle the guy he scammed.

Please, what's the guy's moniker...

henryvirus:
There's a guy I've bought from severally his moniker is MrSix... He is trustworthy and all the laptops I bought from him have no hitch whatsoever.

Alright...
Thanks...

Good day Everyone...
For those that have patronized sellers on here, specifically laptop sellers, please share your experiences and help provide recommendations to help me and other prospective buyers navigate our way around getting products with good cost/quality ratio.

Please, point us to trustworthy dealers whether new or UK/US used.
Thanks in anticipation....

Please, comon now...where una dey...
It's like I'll take this thing to romance section.

Good day Everyone...
For those that have patronized sellers on here, specifically laptop sellers, please share your experiences and help provide recommendations to help me and other prospective buyers navigate our way around getting products with good cost/quality ratio.

Please, point us to trustworthy dealers whether new or UK/US used.
Thanks in anticipation....

UjSizzle & mkmyers45 Please do something...

...This is a general thing naw...No matter how much you try to color it. Those with high body count are f*ucked psychologically....whether you agree or not it doesn't matter to nature, you're still f*ucked...

Dranoid:
sigh.....
Why would I try to sell his work on his thread *facepalm*

With my method, you are the one that'll compile it by yourself (by literally clicking a button)

TheUndercover, I promise I'm not trying to sell your work. The idea occurred to me while reading your first thread and it's a bit exciting, can I send you a pm?

But it comes at a price abi... not from the abundance of your heart. Toemaeto Tomahto

Dranoid:
well I guess you misunderstood me, I just wanted to provide people with the opportunity to be able to get all the Tactics without stressing OP. If I wanted to sell it I wouldn't have announced, I'd have done it.


The OP is the one that can appreciate what I'm offering, which is the ability to get all his posts compiled at the click of a button rather than manually copying and pasting. He can post and impart everyone at the end of it just compile at once(which is a normally tedious job), look at the end of phase 1 it'll tell you that

Seems like you've actually gained a lot from this thread. Painting a delusional picture while veiling your agenda in plain sight. You aren't seeking to make the Op's work easier, you are simply searching for willing customers in your bid to plagiarize someone else's work ... Sense will not kill you...

Martehco:
I added 1 plus 1 and did something similar to this, it's now working, thanks.

Glad I could be of help...

Martehco:
Finally, my umidigi A9 pro landed.
I have been browsing with mtn sim for 2 days, but today that I switched to Airtel, I realized I couldn't browse with Airtel on the A9 pro.

Any fix, house?

You need to change your APN settings...
Name: Airtel internet
APN: Airtel internet
Username: Airtel
Password: Airtel

Liliantalks:
smile* I sure am .

Good to hear that...

Liliantalks:
it’s very hard.

Yeah, sure. Anything worthwhile is usually hard at first. Things get interesting and fun when you are finally able to manage them properly.
... trust you are good today.

Liliantalks:
I’m such an emotional person. I hate offending people. I think the better way to keep that fort is not being too nice , then u don’t feel bad when people act like a jerk

Quite the contrary dear. Behaving in an adverse way so as to prevent a potential backlash that can lead to emotional turmoil is a good survival instinct. But you aren't solely trying to survive, are you? you are also trying to live your life the best way you can - in a manner that suits and makes you happy. Therefore, rather than trying to change your nice self, try to learn how to better manage being hurt because getting hurt by people is an inevitable element in life.

Liliantalks:
I agree , the adapting is crazy , you just go to an environment where everyone is mean, especially in a school environment where they see u make mistake and they don’t want to correct you but you on the other hand when they make errors u correct them. Sneaky snakes. U just have to read on your own. Now I have to change my personality. I hate when I have to do that

Were you referring to an actual personal experience?

Yeah...for some others, it's like taking a walk in the park (changing personality). But it's tiring. Some lucky ones can blend seemingly well while others are said to be weird and awkward causing them to shy away form the public. The best way around this is to build your forte around your mind.

josh123:
My first thought, buhari don block am, the thing shock me. I think I am addicted to nairaland

Bro...you are one amongst a few hundreds.

Liliantalks:
Sometimes I think it’s terribly wrong to be nice , infact those inspirational quote, that says treat people better than they treat you are big lies ,being nice to people is the beginning of see finish , being nice to people is the beginning of people taking you for granted. Using and manipulating that niceness. Treat people worst than they treat you .

Not necessarily. Just learn to adapt to your environment. But this is somehow tasking of introverts because frequent readjustments and readaptations lead to a sense of loss of ones personality and this can somewhat impose a mental toll on us (my opinion)

1bunne4lif:
thank goodness it's back online, today would've been too boring

You are so right bros. Considering the gloomy weather and everything.

Duru9:
Thought it was my network had to switch to airtel same thing
I put on vpn same thing



I for sick oh

Lol...e reach like that

1bunne4lif:
I ALREADY PUT THE BLAME ON MY NETWORK PROVIDER

I would have too. But after trying Mtn and Airtel I just weak...

iInjureHerYansh:
..mehnn...the feeling was worse than being jilted by a girl.





Of all things here is someone's worst feeling.
Spits

Why don't you share yours instead of looking for a table to shake

Nezzjnr:
There was a time Nairaland was down for weeks... I think a guy did hack into the system

Omooooo everyone felt it

Yeah, I remember that time. I think nairaland is now bigger than it was then. If it should go down for weeks, things will fall apart

After replying all my Facebook and WhatsApp messages, I finally decided to relax and enjoy my darling Nairaland (following my semi-sacred routine of briefly skimming through the topics in frontpage and going on to chill in the phones and romance section).

My heart shook...yeah, I was palpitating. I quickly switched from chrome to opera mini - the same thing- my balls froze. God! Wetin dey xup! Checked for the cause - problem with the host. Nairaland is too big to have problem with hosting na, so I thought. Something is definitely amiss. I started reminiscing about all my time on nairaland since 2015...so Buhari don finally block nairaland...na wa o...wetin I go do now...abi make I try use VPN...damn. I thought about the million and one things I delayed doing on nairaland cause I believed it to be untouchable having learnt form it earlier mistakes that led to it being hacked, those threads that topped my day, those monikers that inspire me daily...mehnn...the feeling was worse than being jilted by a girl.

I thought about Twitter, chai! Nothing dey there again o cos naija people dey fear to post. So wetin I wan do now...I don do everything already naw. Na only Nairaland remain. Chai! I don die. Make I try the site again....Ope o! E work Sha. Wetin come happen. Oh! Alright thanks for the explanation Seun. Even though it wasn't satisfactory, I go manage am like that. Sha no do am again o.

Please share yours, let's keep the fun rolling

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