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UyaiIncomparabl:

postmann:


Where does one begin to address your folly? Is this a sincere submission or just a gateway to draw attention to yourself? Your bare-chested DP seems persuasive of the later. And then, "you want to eat your cake and have your pancakes back." Your profile provides a brief but conclusive psychoanalytical evidence of your temperamental makeup.

It's not worth the while sifting through the load of pink-lettered, hormonal drippings laced in the crap you called your opinion. If you're not satisfied with your gender by birth, reassign yourself and get a dìck and come into a man's world let's see how you measure up.

You thought if GOD made a mistake.... the sheer arrogance of an earthen vessel who can't even manage her monthly crimson inconvenience....

Lol..

Oga, face the topic and stop capping with your vocabularies here. Like I care. LMAO.

I swear to God, É PAIN YOU ENTER BLOOD.
IF NOT, U FOR IGNORE

UyaiIncomparabl:
Her son will take over from her.

It's either you end up with a miserable loser and a SIMPLETON or someone who would send you to your early grave.
Since you lack common sense, manners and simple home training.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Dey use old tactics dey judge wife material. Emancipate yourselves from mental backwardness.

Emancipate yourself from
STUPIDITY
FAIRYTALE
DOUBLE STANDARDS
and
Foolish imagination

FERNANDEZISBACK:
My frustrated ugly old hag WHORÈ mother is a big fool and me HARLÒT took over her

Definitely
Like mother like daughter

UyaiIncomparabl:
I should be asking you if you know what you are talking about. It is insolence to sweep when a guest is around, especially with the entitlement mentality that she should have taken the stress off you. Who asked you? Wait and let me be gone then you can sweep your house.

It simply tells the guest that you don't welcome them. Learn simple manners. Why must it be when a guest is around the mother chooses to sweep?

Shut up!
Shut your trap!
It is insolence yenyenyen

WHO TOLD YOU THAT?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
While some Dumbos will say "if you ain't a virgin then you deserve no man" like WTF?
The Dumbo who made that statement is prolly a wh**re himself but deem it fit and cool to tell a woman what and what not to do..

This sheḾale pretending to be a boy
I pity the mumus that raised you...

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this post on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

Fuçk your senseless opinion.
It's okay to set a standard of the type of man you want: HIGH VALUE AND TRADITIONAL, but it's not okay for a man to set a standard of wanting a woman who knows how to cook well, does chores well and also a virgin...

WHAT KIND OF SENSELESS DOUBLE STANDARDS PLAY IN YOU PEOPLE'S HEAD?

Who the hell do you think you are and what do you bring to the table in a relationship, apart from your private parts that has more likely become public?

YOU MUST BE SICK!

Good.


What of Evans?

Did he escape too?

kponkedenge:
Boris Johnson no do quarter of wetin our clueless president has done, yet he has resigned.

But you'll still see people hailing Buhari and supporting APC despite the calamity they have brought upon Nigerians.

If Buhari were to contest again, he will still win because of the stupidity of the average Nigerian..... You'll still see them here on nairaland campaigning for him.

Nowhere is safe again in this hell hole.

Quarter!
Do you know the meaning of quarter!?

He hasn't even done up to 1/1000

Buharî and his cabinet are miserable demented bastards.

Like mother like daughter.

Wetin consignee her?


WICKED GIRL

bigpicture001:
All unions should be disbanded... Nigeria don't need unions.. it's a bad thing for the economy

You don't deserve to have a smartphone because your brain is very immature.

Nazgul:
There's nothing special about Russia. The west is just afraid of their nukes.

Without those nukes, there's nothing special about the Russia military. Hitler and his tiny Germany invaded them in WW2 when they were still solvet union and about 10 times the size of Germany; and almost succeeded if not for the Russian winter and logistics problems.

NATO can take on Russia in an invasion warfare but if Russia decides to deploy their nukes on American and British cities, the tide of the battle would change, cos no one is ready to gamble millions of lives of her citizens over a war that could have been avoided.

This is what America and her allies are afraid of.

Weyrey

You must know better than the war veteran and professional.

Or deh

Failure44:
Textbook and airtime

Didnt you read where I said I spend all my time studying while my friends were doing fraud?

You spent it on virtuals, betting and other gambling too, I'm very sure.
You too go do fraud náà
Who dey hold you?

Thespagchef:
Excuse me, whose money should he be entitled to, your father's...

You people are the reason why there is an upsurge in crime and ritual killings among 17-29 year olds.

19 year old should go and hustle, God abeg.

Shut up you this hypocrite girl!
We know your type...

Romanoff:
From some of the comments on this post, I pity women wey go marry una and I feel sorry for children wey una go born.

@Op, channel your energy towards paying your debt and being somebody your father would want to associate with in future. Then, you'd be able to decide and be justified if you want such a horrible person in your life.

Just humble yourself. If it's site work, go and do, if it's to be offloading goods from trucks in warehouses, do it.

Focus on your goal and do everything legit to achieve it.

Be very close to your mum, tell her what you're going through. Don't exclude her from sharing in your burden, be open to her, she's all you've got.

Way ray

See wetin bipolar dey cause....

Acidosis:
What did you do with loans? To pay school fees, feed, or club like your criminal friends?

The bastard must have used it on betting and other gambling.

LINTUNE:
oga shut up....the dude is still very young to rely on his dad...na poverty do u while growing up,na why u commot for ur papa house @13..all this stupid motivational talks about hustling , as if success is about suffer head this day's....why not just accept that his father is irresponsible rather than blame a 19 year old boy for relying on his father for the basics.....me self at the age of 16 I don de hustle for my own money but Las Las, na cos say we no too get money for house...u as a father,would u encourage your child to leave home and hustle at just 19?....u think say suffer na good thing?

Another frustrated soul...

dominique:
If she was earning what the father is earning, he wouldn't be in this situation. You guys must always look for an angle to shift the blame of your failure in parenting on the mother, it's not going to fly this time so REST!

Another entitled person

CHoccolaTE:
So many future dead beat dads in the comment section. See them defending Op's fathers behavior.

There is no justification for abandoning your 19yr old child to fend for himself when you earn half a million. I don't know how some Nigerian men reason. That's just wickedness, especially when you know he is studying a course like medicine that hardly gives time for side hustle.

If you know you can't cater for kids then don't give birth. Simple.

But Nigerian men will always defend each other even in evil doing. One person is already looking for how to shift the blame to his mother sef.

You're just as stop ed as the op

Bad advice... Africans are damaged thanks to this mentality...

You mustn't suffer to be responsible... Compare yourselves to your mates in the West...

Your independence was borne out of a need to survive... Your father messed you up... Cause his father treated him bad, he did the same to you? And you think that's normal?

Children should grow in a home with supportive parents who help them transition into adulthood... Not abandon them...

And the op mustn't reconcile with his father... If someone doesn't love you enough, then you let them go...

A father who watches his children suffer is irresponsible... There's no excuse or reason for his selfish actions...

You are young
Stupid
Wasted
Leftover
Dependent
Stubborn
And very USELESS
Yet, you have the audacity to be condemning someone for not being responsible.
Many of these parents didn't even grow up with anyone to support them from childhood, yet they were able to hustle to become successful and what they are today.
You're just an ingrate and you should blame your mother for all your miseries for making bad choices.
Why are you still complaining?

ARE YOU NOT ABOVE 18 ALREADY
ARE YOU NOT HAVING SEX WITH GUYS ALREADY?
WHAT IS YOUR BODYCOUNT NOW?
DID ANYONE TEACH YOU HOW TO FUÇK?
WHY SHOULD ANYONE TEACH YOU HOW TO MAKE MONEY OR GIVE YOU MONEY?

WHY ARE YOU STILL LIVING A DEPENDENT LIFE ?

All these abroad bullshǐts that's DECEIVING you just an illusion.
In abroad, when a child is ABOVE 18, they usually leave their parents house and start fending for themselves. The parents sometimes send them out and for the lucky well behaved ones that still live with their parents, they are made to pay rents and bills EVEN IN THEIR PARENTS HOUSE.

STOP BEING STUPID
STOP HAVING THIS SENSELESS ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY!
GROW UP!

Raspberries:
Are you stupid? I live with my paternal family... My father doesn't own anything... His own relatives cut him off... When I say I haven't taken a dime from him, if you had a working brain you would know he doesn't feed me and I dont live with him...

Your father raised you to be an idiot... One who can't comprehend simple sentences...

Am I the op?

Imbecilé

Oloriburuku ọmọ IRANKIRAN
You don't deserve love because you're so filled with hate and frustration and you'll definitely perish in that.
The choice of your father was from your mom. She was the one that made a grave and stupid mistake so transfer your stupidity and aggressions to her.

Raspberries:
Gosh! You're extremely stupid...

So if you earn less then 20k and your wife earns 500k... You should cater for the family while she spends her money on alcohol?

Gosh!
You're so retárded.
I blame your mother for your insolence.

tayo60:
U are not alone. Many fathers are deadbeat dad. Forget him and focus on your mum and how to develop yourself. change your mindset, think positively, stop taking loans, try and pay the ones you own. Since ASU is still on strike, try and get a menial job to help you offset your debts and save some for school. I wish you well

Suddenly, all of you now have a deadbeat dads
Someone pays rents, pays school fees, provide shelter and food for you.
Ingrates everywhere...
Yet your so-called responsible mothers that barely brings anything to the table is the good one.

When a principled man who rises from nothing to what he is today stands on his ground to not let you people waste your lives away in constituting nuisance and doing hookups, THEN HE BECOMES A DEADBEAT DAD.

Failure44:
My mother is a teacher.

I should collect money from a teacher??

No, collect money from a carpenter.

Or deh

Raspberries:
Isn't his father a man? Why should his mum have to take up his duties as the head of the home? She's the weaker sex, remember?

When you retàrds misbehave and fail your children, then you remember your wives...

The op's father makes half a million every month yet his family suffers...

Use your brain to think... It's not an accessory nitwit...

I pray your father will realize how unfortunate you are and he make sure you didn't get a dime from his properties after he dies.
Children like you don't deserve anything good in life.
You live in a house provided by a man, eat his food, pays your school fees etc. Yet to you, he is a USELESS man and he has done nothing for you. But your mother that has contributed nearly nothing DIRECTLY is the one that has done everything for you.
If the marriage doesn't pay her and your father has been mean to her, WHY CAN'T SHE LIVE THE MARRIAGE? so that she can provide everything you want in life for you?

Way ray oh low ree buu ruu kuu ọmọ IRANKIRAN

Failure44:
That woman has tried, she'll enjoy the fruit of her labour.
That man has made her suffer, I have still have memories of when I was 10-12 in primary 5.
How that man would fight with her to the extent blood would be on the wall .
How would fight with her naked, threatening to shoot us and kill my brothers in our sleep.

My childhood memories aren't good at all
I'll make sure I take her abroad, The hatred I have for that man and the zeal to make that woman enjoy is what pushes me.

You see your stupidity?

Child like you shouldn't even enjoy any sweat of that man.
I'm very sure that everything that makes you and your mother, including the house you live and the food you eat is provided by that man. It's definitely that your mother that's poisoning your soul.
What did your mother do that your father is fighting her till there's blood on the wall?
She's definitely not a virtuous woman. Possibly very stubborn, USELESS and vengeful like you.

Why can't she live the marriage and provide everything you need in your life for you if she's such a good woman and she care about you?

Failure44:
I'll make that man suffer mehn, the amount of hatred I have for him is unmatched.

He'll suffer, when he dies, I'll bury him in a shallow grave or let him rotten in the mortuary

Oh low ree buu ruu kuu ọmọ

Who tell you say your papa go die before you?

Na only you him born?
Ọmọ radarada

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

You're just a very stupǐd and unfortunate child.
I pray your father is smart enough to see this and he disowns you immediately so that you won't even inherit a pin from his properties.

WHY ARE YOU BORROWING MONEY?

ARE YOU THE ONE FEEDING YOURSELF?

WHY DID YOU BORROW MONEY WHEN YOU KNOW YOU DON'T HAVE A SURE MEANS OF PAYING BACK?

WHY IS YOUR MOTHER NOT MENTIONED IN YOUR STUPID PLAN OF REVENGE?


HOE LOW REE BUU RUU KUU ỌMỌ

Osù ALUSI IPOB JEW PIGS.
WICKED FUCKTÀRDS


Crixxx what do you have to say?

Sunday2021:
do you have a kid? This what I will pray not to happen to my worst enemy. It is a very terrible experience .
Pls stop this kind of statements. Thanks

RUBBISH

So you kill yourself because you lost a child?
How senseless and selfish.
The FOOLISH woman deserves to be put in prison even in death if possible.

What should her parents do now too? Kill themselves because they lost her?
What about her husband and siblings?

NaijaOlosho:
Tinubu is a drug lord and a 97 years old man.

Let's reject him completely

Naijaolosho
Ọmọ wereyradarada

She's a foolish woman