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Acidosis:
What did you do with loans? To pay school fees, feed, or club like your criminal friends?

The bastard must have used it on betting and other gambling.

LINTUNE:
oga shut up....the dude is still very young to rely on his dad...na poverty do u while growing up,na why u commot for ur papa house @13..all this stupid motivational talks about hustling , as if success is about suffer head this day's....why not just accept that his father is irresponsible rather than blame a 19 year old boy for relying on his father for the basics.....me self at the age of 16 I don de hustle for my own money but Las Las, na cos say we no too get money for house...u as a father,would u encourage your child to leave home and hustle at just 19?....u think say suffer na good thing?

Another frustrated soul...

dominique:
If she was earning what the father is earning, he wouldn't be in this situation. You guys must always look for an angle to shift the blame of your failure in parenting on the mother, it's not going to fly this time so REST!

Another entitled person

CHoccolaTE:
So many future dead beat dads in the comment section. See them defending Op's fathers behavior.

There is no justification for abandoning your 19yr old child to fend for himself when you earn half a million. I don't know how some Nigerian men reason. That's just wickedness, especially when you know he is studying a course like medicine that hardly gives time for side hustle.

If you know you can't cater for kids then don't give birth. Simple.

But Nigerian men will always defend each other even in evil doing. One person is already looking for how to shift the blame to his mother sef.

You're just as stop ed as the op

Bad advice... Africans are damaged thanks to this mentality...

You mustn't suffer to be responsible... Compare yourselves to your mates in the West...

Your independence was borne out of a need to survive... Your father messed you up... Cause his father treated him bad, he did the same to you? And you think that's normal?

Children should grow in a home with supportive parents who help them transition into adulthood... Not abandon them...

And the op mustn't reconcile with his father... If someone doesn't love you enough, then you let them go...

A father who watches his children suffer is irresponsible... There's no excuse or reason for his selfish actions...

You are young
Stupid
Wasted
Leftover
Dependent
Stubborn
And very USELESS
Yet, you have the audacity to be condemning someone for not being responsible.
Many of these parents didn't even grow up with anyone to support them from childhood, yet they were able to hustle to become successful and what they are today.
You're just an ingrate and you should blame your mother for all your miseries for making bad choices.
Why are you still complaining?

ARE YOU NOT ABOVE 18 ALREADY
ARE YOU NOT HAVING SEX WITH GUYS ALREADY?
WHAT IS YOUR BODYCOUNT NOW?
DID ANYONE TEACH YOU HOW TO FUÇK?
WHY SHOULD ANYONE TEACH YOU HOW TO MAKE MONEY OR GIVE YOU MONEY?

WHY ARE YOU STILL LIVING A DEPENDENT LIFE ?

All these abroad bullshǐts that's DECEIVING you just an illusion.
In abroad, when a child is ABOVE 18, they usually leave their parents house and start fending for themselves. The parents sometimes send them out and for the lucky well behaved ones that still live with their parents, they are made to pay rents and bills EVEN IN THEIR PARENTS HOUSE.

STOP BEING STUPID
STOP HAVING THIS SENSELESS ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY!
GROW UP!

Raspberries:
Are you stupid? I live with my paternal family... My father doesn't own anything... His own relatives cut him off... When I say I haven't taken a dime from him, if you had a working brain you would know he doesn't feed me and I dont live with him...

Your father raised you to be an idiot... One who can't comprehend simple sentences...

Am I the op?

Imbecilé

Oloriburuku ọmọ IRANKIRAN
You don't deserve love because you're so filled with hate and frustration and you'll definitely perish in that.
The choice of your father was from your mom. She was the one that made a grave and stupid mistake so transfer your stupidity and aggressions to her.

Raspberries:
Gosh! You're extremely stupid...

So if you earn less then 20k and your wife earns 500k... You should cater for the family while she spends her money on alcohol?

Gosh!
You're so retárded.
I blame your mother for your insolence.

tayo60:
U are not alone. Many fathers are deadbeat dad. Forget him and focus on your mum and how to develop yourself. change your mindset, think positively, stop taking loans, try and pay the ones you own. Since ASU is still on strike, try and get a menial job to help you offset your debts and save some for school. I wish you well

Suddenly, all of you now have a deadbeat dads
Someone pays rents, pays school fees, provide shelter and food for you.
Ingrates everywhere...
Yet your so-called responsible mothers that barely brings anything to the table is the good one.

When a principled man who rises from nothing to what he is today stands on his ground to not let you people waste your lives away in constituting nuisance and doing hookups, THEN HE BECOMES A DEADBEAT DAD.

Failure44:
My mother is a teacher.

I should collect money from a teacher??

No, collect money from a carpenter.

Or deh

Raspberries:
Isn't his father a man? Why should his mum have to take up his duties as the head of the home? She's the weaker sex, remember?

When you retàrds misbehave and fail your children, then you remember your wives...

The op's father makes half a million every month yet his family suffers...

Use your brain to think... It's not an accessory nitwit...

I pray your father will realize how unfortunate you are and he make sure you didn't get a dime from his properties after he dies.
Children like you don't deserve anything good in life.
You live in a house provided by a man, eat his food, pays your school fees etc. Yet to you, he is a USELESS man and he has done nothing for you. But your mother that has contributed nearly nothing DIRECTLY is the one that has done everything for you.
If the marriage doesn't pay her and your father has been mean to her, WHY CAN'T SHE LIVE THE MARRIAGE? so that she can provide everything you want in life for you?

Way ray oh low ree buu ruu kuu ọmọ IRANKIRAN

Failure44:
That woman has tried, she'll enjoy the fruit of her labour.
That man has made her suffer, I have still have memories of when I was 10-12 in primary 5.
How that man would fight with her to the extent blood would be on the wall .
How would fight with her naked, threatening to shoot us and kill my brothers in our sleep.

My childhood memories aren't good at all
I'll make sure I take her abroad, The hatred I have for that man and the zeal to make that woman enjoy is what pushes me.

You see your stupidity?

Child like you shouldn't even enjoy any sweat of that man.
I'm very sure that everything that makes you and your mother, including the house you live and the food you eat is provided by that man. It's definitely that your mother that's poisoning your soul.
What did your mother do that your father is fighting her till there's blood on the wall?
She's definitely not a virtuous woman. Possibly very stubborn, USELESS and vengeful like you.

Why can't she live the marriage and provide everything you need in your life for you if she's such a good woman and she care about you?

Failure44:
I'll make that man suffer mehn, the amount of hatred I have for him is unmatched.

He'll suffer, when he dies, I'll bury him in a shallow grave or let him rotten in the mortuary

Oh low ree buu ruu kuu ọmọ

Who tell you say your papa go die before you?

Na only you him born?
Ọmọ radarada

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

You're just a very stupǐd and unfortunate child.
I pray your father is smart enough to see this and he disowns you immediately so that you won't even inherit a pin from his properties.

WHY ARE YOU BORROWING MONEY?

ARE YOU THE ONE FEEDING YOURSELF?

WHY DID YOU BORROW MONEY WHEN YOU KNOW YOU DON'T HAVE A SURE MEANS OF PAYING BACK?

WHY IS YOUR MOTHER NOT MENTIONED IN YOUR STUPID PLAN OF REVENGE?


HOE LOW REE BUU RUU KUU ỌMỌ

Osù ALUSI IPOB JEW PIGS.
WICKED FUCKTÀRDS


Crixxx what do you have to say?

Sunday2021:
do you have a kid? This what I will pray not to happen to my worst enemy. It is a very terrible experience .
Pls stop this kind of statements. Thanks

RUBBISH

So you kill yourself because you lost a child?
How senseless and selfish.
The FOOLISH woman deserves to be put in prison even in death if possible.

What should her parents do now too? Kill themselves because they lost her?
What about her husband and siblings?

NaijaOlosho:
Tinubu is a drug lord and a 97 years old man.

Let's reject him completely

Naijaolosho
Ọmọ wereyradarada

She's a foolish woman

doggedfighter:
Not a big deal.



Any child that calls you father is your child.


It makes no difference at all !


What's the crying for ?

Way ray
This one thinks every man is like his father

specialmati:
. I don't debate with touts or agberos in this platform,knowing that the brain cell for critical reasoning are no more in their brains. Evaporation of those cells happened at the cost of shouting at busstops. Tell me one reason any sensible person should mention Tinubu and APC. The same people that messed the country

A retárd will always be a retárd!

OSU ALUSI IPOB JEW PIGS and wickedness is like 5 and 6

Where is crixxx?

specialmati:
I don't argue with touts or agbero on this platform because their thinking faculty has evaporated through shouting on bus stops. You want us to still support APC and vote Tinubu that bribed delegates to win election then it shows you are very silly and don't want this country to progress. If you are not demon possessed tell one reason we should continue with Tinubu and APC

Sometimes, it's just necessary to grace retárds with honourable response that they don't even deserve. That said, you could see from my first post that I said we have two options where I mentioned obi and Tinubu, and still obi came first, even though I know that Tinubu is far better than him.
So, you would have expected us to vote PDP if obi was still in PDP and he won?
Is there any difference between APC and PDP?
Do you also think that our problem is about party?
What makes labour party better?

Most of you just reason with your anus. Tribalism and stupidity has eaten too deep into your brains.

specialmati:
most of you are naturally wicked. You are the same person condemning atiku and obasanjo of the same crime Tinubu did with Lagos. And you now think Tinubu is better. So atiku don't have experience and connection. You see how evil most of you can be. You want Tinubu that bought Lagos State but rejects atiku that bought some of Nigeria property. I don't want any of those people that bribe delegates to win election because they will recover the money they spent before looting what is left.

Shut up and don't be stupid.

I'm very sure that you're Igbo and all this rants comes from being a tribal bigot.

Most Yorubas would support obi but I don't if any of you would support Tinubu.
Obi himself is also a very USELESS and failed governor if we judge by his performance in Anambra for 8 years.
My kid bro was serving in Anambra when he was a governor and there was a time he wasn't paid for 4 months. Same thing goes for his senior colleagues - doctors that were not paid for one year and on strike.

How many projects did he put into place or commissioned.

Fact:
SIDE BY SIDE APART FROM HEALTH STATUS, TINUBU IS FAR BETTER THAN OBI AND ONE CAN TRUST HIM MORE.

galantjoe:
Never reject free food, it is risky to reject female freebie.

Let her come over, do whatever chores she wants even in a bedroom. Chop and clean mouth.

Likely a deal by her and her husband to repay your kindness.

Chai

I pity ya mama, sisters, wife and daughters

DamnnNiggarr:
My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.

Please house, how do I discourage her from visiting me in my wife's absence without it looking as if I'm avoiding her? What does she want? Who has been in this type of situation and how did you resolve the issue without creating enmity?

Forget rubbish.
IS HER HUSBAND AWARE?
IS YOUR WIFE AWARE?

If all you think about is not sex, then you should accept the offer. MUST ONE THING LEAD TO ANOTHER?

IF YOU KNOW YOU CAN'T CONTROL YOURSELF. GIVE HER YOUR KEYS, TELL HER WHAT SHE CAN HELP YOU WITH AND LEAVE THE HOUSE.


DON'T SLEEP WITH ANOTHER MAN'S WIFE.

DON'T DISH TO OTHERS WHAT YOU WON'T LIKE TO BE SERVED.

specialmati:
you finished atiku and want Tinubu. Tinubu is the same with atiku na. Tinubu bought Lagos State na. We don't need those old currupt money bags to use presidency as retirement plan

Tinubu is a better strategist and he is also surrounded by some fair-performing politicians. Experience and connection counts too.

kingsceemark:
This Dirty Oduduwa Donkeys and confusion are like 5 and 6, this confused old drug lord still dey search for his school certificate and running mate

Na that OSU IPOB JEW PIG we for vote for before?

Atiku will never be the president of this country no matter his and his ass-kissers desperation.

The bastard and ÒbJ are part of the major problem we are facing in this country till date, especially in ELECTRICITY and PETROLEUM.

They mismanaged everything, stole so much money and sold most of our assets to themselves, their friends and associates CHEAPLY.


WE HAVE ONLY TWO OPTIONS


1) OBI
2) TINUBU


BUT IT'S MOST LIKELY THAT IT'S TINUBU THAT WOULD WIN, because yeebòs don't seem ready for presidency. THEY ARE VERY DULL IN PLAYING POLITICS AND DIPLOMACY.

SHINJA:
Another head slamming mohammadian Terrorists...

Like yhur far.da

KiNg0G:
We all know controversies is what helps to keep the industry flowing either Good or bad. just like Biggie and 2pac in here we are going to talk about the king0g top 5 countdown nigeria musicians who had quarrels, dispute with each other.... some got settled between the line other's still holds grudges between themselves till today, hence the line by burna boy on black sermon track remix some of his friends do carry gun!. shogbo?


OLAMIDE and DONJAZZY

This happened in 2015 during the headies next rated between their both top signees....it was getting so fustrating seeing don jazzy musicians winning that category almost every year.. though he is a good promoter but some of us saw they is an influence going on in headies (wiao wiao government) because it was so clear lil kesh had more hits than reekardo banks that year...when olamide stepped up on stage to make his mind known, i didn't really blame him.. the fight got to social media that they both started throwing jabs to each other that it was getting to a stage of been threatened not to enter some parts of lagos state..until we later heard what was supposed to be a fight became a businesses transaction. A big man came to settle the whole thing, probably shut them both up with couple of nairas.. the both signees they want to fight for is nowhere to found as of now. what a shame!


eedris abdulkareem and 50 cent

Though eedris claimed this earned him alot of respect, back then as a kid so many of us were in support but as I grew older I finally understood the real issue, it's not right to vent your fustration on someone else. it's not 50cent doings to be the headline event of the show....he was invited to....it's not 50 cent fault to be booked in a first class seat on the plane by the organisers. why will you carry your agbero character to go taunt him...if you felt you weren't treated better in your own country go talk to the organisers and caused havoc with them, let's see if he won't spent the rest of his careers behind kuje since 04.
That was an unnecessary act he pulled with 50 cent, let's say the truth and we all could see how it affected his career... upcoming musicians that's one vital lesson.


ZLANTA and DJ CUPPY

This is one of the reasons I don't blame this online redpillers on nairaland, why come into a business transaction with some one (gelato) and not make the laid down rules known from the start?..is it because it's a female involved? after the whole thing is done.. concerts you attended to perform with her.. months later you blocked her on all platform and came out to say.... you didn't receive one naira from the song... you even spent your own money on it.. ah who does that?.. if not a SIMPle guy. what a pathetic joke...that's Why I don't blame nigerias when they say he was after his own "share" to tap free current...when the wifi was not connecting to her "hotspot" access denied dude finally realised and got back to his senses ...by then it's too late. business before pleasure my gee... that doesn't mean you shouldn't lick ice cream with her but be business oriented.... I hope zlanta gets to see this someday...so many musicians gets paid outrightly for a verse feature before they jump on any beat.

MI and VECTOR

This was a fight between a father and a son that went on for decade, when they finally saw that nigeria's have moved passed their balderdash they were forced to settle their beef claiming hennessy dropped some naira...hmm.. funny guys.... buh the truth is they realised nigeria's has moved on when they both drop their various diss tracks and it didn't make that much waves.. no one cares no more....we just wanted some good music from fireboy, omah lay and the rest ......was this really about rivalry? both are on different levels though, I appreciate vectors freestyles, metaphors and punchlines but when I see people compare him with mi I shake my head. let's talk about music... there's different between been a rapper who drop bars on a beat and been a rap Musician for the show business.... that's the reason MI will forever be a legend.
I mean been a rapper in nigeria is not easy, to be relevant for years now I wonder how he pulled it off with guys he started with so many have been long forgotten.

BURNA BOY and Mr 2Kay

sometimes I feel this man is untouchable, backed by different top men in nigeria, big Gods I don't think been a cultist or ruggedity won't give a man that much power to be in the news for bad reasons almost all the time and can't be touched. just few weeks ago we heard about how is security guard shot a man in a club till now nothing is done about it... This isn't the first time he was declared wanted by the nigeria police, makes me reminisce about the 2017 incident with beef he had with Mr 2kay a fellow port harcourt brother, dudes was beaten to pulp and robbed at Eko hotel.. after the hoodlums were apprehended they later confessed it was burna boy who sent them, but a scared chicken will always be a frightened chicken. kay said he wasn't going to press any charges, last we heard was they've settled their beef... pathetic.

note: this here is not to promote any form of violence staying peaceful should be encouraged at all time

thank you.

PLEASE GO LEARN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN

BEEN

AND

BEING

Lawrencethegoat:
Radiography vs Nursing which is better

Radiography X 5

endy69:
Sha she no suppose cover her hair in public, this islam na for the poor. In all, try get moni

Mu
Mu
Same way you go to church every Sunday...

Brexxit:
But minimum wage is much higher than then.

Minimum wage in the 80's is not even up to #200 naira,as at today minimum wage is 30k.

Doesn't still make sense.

#200 in the 80s is over 100k today.
What was exchange rate then?