Family › Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by fx45(m): 3:26pm On May 22, 2019 |
pocohantas: Bored alfa male...  Poco Poco... I've heard alot about you. The arch Nairaland feminist and serial spinster. Anyway I believe one day we'll get to meet |
Family › Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by fx45(m): 3:07pm On May 22, 2019 |
Marbella003: I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont
I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.
I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.
I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.
I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.
I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore. Sniper is the real deal these days.... But all the same there's plenty to live for than the few to die for. If your husband feels he needs to move on, by all means necessary allow him go. There are other husbands out there looking for potential wives |
Politics › Re: Police Arrest School Gardener Over Alleged Murder Of SS3 Student by fx45(m): 11:27pm On May 19, 2019 |
segebobo: Na wa for this language  Computer language |
Sports › Re: Franck Ribery And Arjen Robben In Tears At Final Game In Bayern Munich by fx45(m): 11:02pm On May 18, 2019 |
mizzou: cuz they were both leaving the club they both spent thier whole career in Indomie generation! Arjen Robben played a couple of seasons at Chelsea before heading to Madrid. Bayern happens to be where he had the longest spell. |
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 5:52pm On May 18, 2019 |
Bella55555: I didn't see it but I sent you one Seen and replied. |
Politics › Re: FG To Shut Down, Downgrade Enugu International Airport to local airport by fx45(m): 9:58pm On May 17, 2019 |
BeautifulMind2: Use your common sense for once, stop disgracing us, this is collective interest, if you throughly know those that worked for it. That slowpoke you're addressing is an Afonja conehead. He's very far from being an Igbo person. I'm surprised you're not aware |
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 8:09pm On May 17, 2019 |
Bella55555: OK but please remove that dog its ugly Ok. I'll do something about the dog. Would you check your email? There's a message |
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 7:44pm On May 17, 2019*. Modified: 8:10pm On May 17, 2019 |
Bella55555: OK but please remove that dog its ugly Ok |
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 10:03pm On May 16, 2019 |
Bella55555: what is three-some? Three people enjoying themselves some-where. Three-Some
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Crime › Re: Chukwuemeka Emmanuel Akachi Buried, UNN Suicide Student Funeral Photo by fx45(m): 2:08pm On May 16, 2019 |
agbangam: Them no fit get better coffin for am . Look how they squeezed the fine boy into that yeye coffin and even to dress him properly they didn't. What nonsense .. He died an abominable death. In ancient Igbo culture, he would have been thrown away into an evil forest to be devoured by wild beasts and vultures. The coward doesn't deserve a decent and proper burial. His indiscretion will forever stigmatize his family. |
Politics › Re: Abuja 'Moms' Visit Dino Melaye At His Residence (Photos) by fx45(m): 11:34am On May 16, 2019 |
ThundrCork: It seems to me the tall dark one standing on Dino’s right. If I get wife wey go pose with Dino like that, she no go find am funny. I can bet my left ball Dino has slept/is sleeping with some of the women in the picture. |
Politics › Re: Abuja 'Moms' Visit Dino Melaye At His Residence (Photos) by fx45(m): 10:26am On May 16, 2019 |
LiveByNight: Who are these desperate set of hungry , used up, baby mamas,and hook up specialists tagging themselves Abuja moms?I can even see jacinta in the picture?!!!
Jacinta that is a well known orgy coordinator from gwarimpa ??  Is Jacinta the first Lady on the left? |
Politics › Re: Bloomberg Compares Nigeria 2014 And 2018-hard Data by fx45(m): 8:26am On May 16, 2019 |
Guestlander: Every subject is an opportunity to advance your separatist agenda. If the rain is too much today, separate us. Palm wine is not available at the joint, separate us. You don't want separation? Can't you see the handwriting on the wall? Balkanization of the shithole is the only viable way forward. Thanks for your understanding. I spit on Yoruba Muslims...
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Health › Re: Baby With Deformity In Aba, Abia Dies 30 Minutes After Birth by fx45(m): 10:09pm On May 15, 2019 |
MissRaine69: If only your mother had swallowed you instead. I wonder how many kids you've swallowed so far... Girls of nowadays don't know the difference between pap and cum. Everything una must swallow |
Health › Re: Baby With Deformity In Aba, Abia Dies 30 Minutes After Birth by fx45(m): 7:05pm On May 15, 2019 |
MissRaine69: Or it could be The very evident spina bifida? Yes the baby had a cleft palate but the death was very preventable. That is what’s sad about all this. I'm sure you didn't see the legs... Better they snuffed the life out of that baby otherwise they would've spent all their life caring for him |
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 6:41pm On May 15, 2019 |
Caseless: who de mumu for here like this?
You just found something to say It's not only ibo that export drugs, but other people are guilty as well. Will you shut up! Your drug addict sister is lucky today, she might not be the next time. And yes, majority of Northern youths are wasted. The ripple effects would be felt in the coming years |
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 6:16pm On May 15, 2019 |
LuciferCelibate: I swear!
You know what, let's hookup & have sex in protest.
I hate injustice.  A three-some wouldn't be a bad idea. Bella55555, what sayest thou? |
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 6:05pm On May 15, 2019 |
uthlaw: since is not your father's money that shouldn't be your problem.... Oil money from the Niger-Delta. If only it was groundnut pyramids money... It will end someday |
Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 5:39pm On May 15, 2019 |
uruba23: Please I am tempted to call him Oga Ganduje by his nick name but I just passed today because of this lady.I am sure you don't expect her to be looking fresh knowing someone want to God forbid chop off her head for a crime she knows nothing about. Even if the Saudi' s give her all the food in the world the mind is a powerful thing you won't see the food in the body because she is not at peace. Her pre-incarceration pictures doesn't look any different. That girl is a junkie. No sentiments. She's lucky this time, she might not be so lucky the next time. She's not a drug trafficker but an addict |
Crime › Re: UNN Final Year Student Commits Suicide After Battling Mental Health -STORYLANDTV by fx45(m): 4:14pm On May 15, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Abike Dabiri With Zainab Aliyu As Ganduje Donates N3 Million To Her by fx45(m): 3:49pm On May 15, 2019*. Modified: 6:10pm On May 15, 2019 |
Look at her wrinkled face... She's looking older than her mother. That ugly weasel of a girl is a junkie. You can take this to the bank. By the way, what is Gandollar giving her money for? To go and buy more tramadol and codeine  They will still catch her again... Unless her parents send her to a rehab. I spit on Northern Nigeria...
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Politics › Re: Udom Emmanuel Completes 2 Bridges That Link Akwa Ibom State To Abia State (Photo by fx45(m): 10:50am On May 15, 2019 |
wiseone28: because most of it is not reported.. What is stopping you from reporting them? Afonja headslamming conehead. I spit on Yoruba Muslims...
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Celebrities › Re: Davido Reacts To Zlatan Ibile's Release From EFCC Custody by fx45(m): 5:25am On May 15, 2019 |
rheether: I wonder how that guy take hammer. Are you still in Aba? |
Crime › Re: Yahoo Boys Take Over Ekiti; Cast Spell On Women, Steal Destiny by fx45(m): 11:07pm On May 14, 2019 |
CityNGR: Diportivo no dey try me The ticket don cut? |
Travel › Re: Should I Move To The UK Or Return To Nigeria? by fx45(m): 4:56pm On May 14, 2019 |
TotoNaRubber: 99.99 % of the people here have never been to Germany nor the UK, they don't even have ordinary passport picture let alone International passport. Your question is like asking Amadioha if he thinks a Mercedes is better than a Range rover.
Don't mind the ones saying they are here and there, they will lead you to fire (most of them are doing the same cleaning jobs and mortuary attendant jobs).
You are the person who is wearing the shoes, pursue your plans because life is short. Do your SWOT analysis then make a decision.
Are you saying Amadioha isn't capable of telling between a Mercedes and a Range Rover? Are you aware that Amadioha is capable of striking you down because of that blasphemy? |
Travel › Re: Should I Move To The UK Or Return To Nigeria? by fx45(m): 4:46pm On May 14, 2019 |
iammo: Shut up my friend... you better start appreciating God for using Buhari in your miserable life if it were Jonadaffft you for no get data to rant... Sai baba all day and Everyday Sai Baba all day and everyday, yet you're here telling your fellow countryman not to attempt coming back to the shithole. Something isn't adding up. Sai Baba seems to be the scam of the century |
Travel › Re: Should I Move To The UK Or Return To Nigeria? by fx45(m): 1:58pm On May 14, 2019*. Modified: 5:25pm On May 14, 2019 |
iammo:

Stay in Germany, till You can sort a better country... Australia, Canada even Uk if you can get a job.., little money you get from menial jobs you get could be channeled into trying other countries skilled migration programs.
That extreme urge you have about Coming to Nigeria, is the work of demons, should you come back without the support of your Family, chaiiiiii you would regret regreting it
. You're a disgrace to Buhari and the APC. I thought those demons have made Nigeria better than most European countries |
Romance › Re: "Meet Escobar Smith, a moving Bullion Van who doesn't use calculator when Spendi by fx45(m): 8:20pm On May 13, 2019 |
Rubyventures: Since he has too much money, he should use it to repair the road to his village. Have you been to his village before? |
Sports › Re: France 2019: Dennerby Lists Ebi, Oparanozie, 25 Others For World Cup Final Camp by fx45(m): 8:11pm On May 13, 2019 |
alvan06: All the best to the Super falcons Nigeria �� to the world Like for naija Shear for the rest team Like for Naija when 95% of those girls are Biafrans  I wonder what Nigeria would look like without Biafra... |
Sports › Re: France 2019: Dennerby Lists Ebi, Oparanozie, 25 Others For World Cup Final Camp by fx45(m): 8:10pm On May 13, 2019 |
alvan06: All the best to the Super falcons Nigeria �� to the world Like for naija Shear for the rest team Like for Naija when 95% of those girls are Biafrans  |
Crime › Re: Jukun Youths Kill Tiv Militias, Pose With Their Corpses (Graphic Photos) by fx45(m): 8:00pm On May 13, 2019 |
matify83: Absurd!!
Instead of cropping your identity and those of your accomplices, your quest for fame has clouded your reasoning faculty and will be your greatest undoing when state agents come calling. For defending themselves against murderous assailants? Where did your 'State Agents' go to when their community was attacked? |
Politics › Re: Nigeria'll Not Know Peace Until An Igbo Becomes President - Nwobodo by fx45(m): 7:27pm On May 13, 2019 |
Osagyefo98: I am not tired of saying the truth. You're not tired of disgracing yourself upandan? Every Dick and Harry on this forum knows you're a coneheaded Afonja headslamming demon. Just give it up already |