₦airaland Forum

zakkxx:
Oga no give your self Hbp because of work, if your with na bad wife u will die soon oo. Because it will be pressure and work and home. Make sure you secure a new job before dumping them. Move strategically.

Good advice. OP should be looking out for other jobs seriously. Because it will not be nice for a married man with kids to be without job. i know how it feels as i experienced job loss with 2 kids after covid.

Revolution2022:
Remain with your 15k salary.

See this ode. i can never be as poor as your family. For your info dude i earn far more than that. And at one point some after covid when i lost my job with NPDC I was offered a peanut 300k salary and I immediately rejected the offer. So i guess you are the one who wants to stay in your 15k salary. Even my house maid earns more than that your 15k. ode.

Revolution2022:
If you are saying the truth about your salary stay put to the job.

Stay because of what 300K. is this how poor guys on this forum think. I for one cannot accept any Job with a peanut pay of 300K.

NtoAkwaIbom:
We expect Nigeria to subsidize medical school n other courses only for them to go work abroad.

We subsidize fuel for African countries and subsidize professional courses, only for them to run abroad and practice,


WHAT DO WE GET AS NIGERIANS IN RETURN ?

People like these don't have sense just like their Agbado master. So you are still tolling this line of we subsidized med school for them to go practice abroad. you see your country keep losing medical professionals every day to the UK, US and Canada, instead of your government to take of ways to train more medical professionals so that we do not suffer shortage of medical professionals in the future, which can be disastrous for the nation, you are here whining how can we subsidized medical school for them.

pol23:
Since everyone want to leave the country… Nigeria professional wants to practice abroad too.

(thanks to our parent and their colleagues who spoil the country…. I know you might assume your dad’s not involved since he’s no politician, guess what our dad told their arms and watch the country turn into jungle)


Also, Every country needed Doctors and nurses…

Here in Nigeria , we have over 30 million people between age 18-25, most who’re students.

I will advise Nigeria to start grooming medical practitioners for the world…
It will be a win win situation.
Nigerians living abroad remitted 19.8 billion dollars back home in 2022…

Can you imagine what the country would’ve been without this people popping money to the economy, while our politicians are busy sending money out.

If we send like 1000,000 doctors to Europe, America, Middle East and Australia …. I want to believe this will help the economy….

So government should invest heavily in training many doctors , pharmacists, nurses and lab technicians…
I might be wrong though, but I believe I’d we start by exporting brain , by 2050 we will have big professionals handling our economy and running businesses here back home.

Wise advice, that is if only they will listen. vengeful wicked politicians and useless citizens supporting them.

Menclothing:
So we go still loose more doctors this year to Canada let university start admitting more medical students

Perfectly said.

AskNgige2:
Had 3 dreams about wike last year..

1. I carried him in car pple were hailing him..
2. It was now Keke I carried him..
And I ddnt understand those dream I was only happy that I saw rich man in my dream..

3. Until I saw a big snake running after him and his wife inside bush..

I took this dream now serious after my dream about Ike Ekweremmadu last 4yrs now happening now..

But am not happy why I keep dreaming about politicians I don't even know..

Oga go treat malaria and typhoid.

Firstcitizen:
Were you born this daft or did you take lessons?
Calling you an idiot would be an insult to all stupid people.

Look at this big fool. Ewu gambia.. i am sure Agbado has taken over your brain.

Firstcitizen:
Your maker sure wasted time giving you a brain.

Fvcking cvnt face vermin that licks the anus of tithe thieves who abandon their wards in other countries

You just proved you are this senseless.. I spit spewww... If foolishness was a person. i am sure that will be you.

Ofadaman:
Most jobseekers aren't good enough for the job, no employer is frustrating them, this way of thinking is what makes applicant find ways to justify their incompetence ,instead of looking for ways to upskill and do better at interviews they find ways to throw the blame at the employers, just to feel good about themselves. Most of them will respond positively to this post as a way to confirm their bias and feel good about themselves.

Please do not always generalized, maybe if you have not experinced it before dont give fallcy of hasty generalization, there have to be some guidline of some sort for some of these companies conducting interviews. i agree with you that most Nigerians graduates are unemployable but that cannot be generalized. I have been a victim of what OP posted above it happened in 2019 when i applied for one job online the company was in Ikoyi lagos and at that time i was working in Delta state. I was working for the Nigerian National Petroleum Development company as a contract staff at that time and when this company contacted me for a job they asked for my expected salary. i gave a figure and they asked why i wanted to leave the NPDC and i told them i am a contract staff, so the said the role is for a full-time staff and then i told them my expected salary surpassing over N20million per Anum they agreed i decided to take the bath for an interview with them. Few days before the interview the sent me a proposal to do a bidding for a contract they were chasing from my company NPDC that was the first red flag. Their recruitment officer called me back some days why i didnt submit the first interview test, and i told him i could smell a rat and he tried to convince me that i can create a dummy company name to do the bidding that they were just trying to test my skills around bidding and that was going to be my main job when i resume with them and i told him their are other ways you can find this out and not by asking me to do a real time bidding for you.

So they invited me for the interview without me doing the bidding stage, i took excuse from work for 2 days took flight to Lagos one to get and i found at that this dirty company is a one man company without any foundation base trying to break into the oil and gas sector and all the guys working there including the one who was calling me all this while were just little kids fresh out of school with no experience.

I kept my cool had a interview session with them and their foolish MD, only for him to start asking questions around the proposal scope and anytime i give any figure around the scope he will ask his errand boys to write it down, when he ask for cost around some of the equipment if i mention the range he will ask them to write it down. then it dawns on me that this man wants me to do a bidding for them for free.

I can't believe that after the interview the MD still ask me to do and submit the first stage which is the bidding stage before i leave that was when i shouted at the useless boys working for him, that something is wrong with their head.

Also, when i first heard the company is in Ikoyi i was impressed but when i went to their office i observed that they shared the same office space with a hundred more companies, which means they just rented an office to scam innocent job seekers.

Couldn't get anything from them not even a thank you for coming money.

I couldn't believe I wasted my money and time just to do some free jobs for one useless man. Here is the fucking address of the company and the useless guy that called for the job.

TIMILEYIN ALABI,
DATABASE ADMINISTRATOR

IPMC Limited
18b, Olu Holloway Road
Ikoyi
Lagos State.

Ofadaman:
Stop this hearsay and tell me one idea or one job seeker you know whose idea was use by the business?.

Ofadaman:
Most jobseekers aren't good enough for the job, no employer is frustrating them, this way of thinking is what makes applicant find ways to justify their incompetence ,instead of looking for ways to upskill and do better at interviews they find ways to throw the blame at the employers, just to feel good about themselves. Most of them will respond positively to this post as a way to confirm their bias and feel good about themselves.

Please do not always generalized, maybe if you have not experinced it before dont give fallcy of hasty generalization, there have to be some guidline of some sort for some of these companies conducting interviews. i agree with you that most Nigerians graduates are unemployable but that cannot be generalized. I have been a victim of what OP posted above it happened in 2019 when i applied for one job online the company was in Ikoyi lagos and at that time i was working in Delta state. I was working for the Nigerian National Petroleum Development company as a contract staff at that time and when this company contacted me for a job they asked for my expected salary. i gave a figure and they asked why i wanted to leave the NPDC and i told them i am a contract staff, so the said the role is for a full-time staff and then i told them my expected salary surpassing over N20million per Anum they agreed i decided to take the bath for an interview with them. Few days before the interview the sent me a proposal to do a bidding for a contract they were chasing from my company NPDC that was the first red flag. Their recruitment officer called me back some days why i didnt submit the first interview test, and i told him i could smell a rat and he tried to convince me that i can create a dummy company name to do the bidding that they were just trying to test my skills around bidding and that was going to be my main job when i resume with them and i told him their are other ways you can find this out and not by asking me to do a real time bidding for you.

So they invited me for the interview without me doing the bidding stage, i took excuse from work for 2 days took flight to lagos one to get and i found at that this dirty company is a one man company without any foundation base trying to break into the oil and gas sector and all the guys working there including the one who was calling me all this while were just little kids fresh out of school with no experince.

I kept my cool had a interview session with them and their foolish MD, only for him to start asking questions around the proposal scope and anytime i give any figure around the scope he will ask his errand boys to write it down, when he ask for cost around some of the equipment if i mention the range he will ask them to write it down. then it dawns on me that this man wants me to do a bidding for them for free.

I can't believe that after the interview the MD still ask me to do and submit the first stage which is the bidding stage before i leave that was when i shouted at the useless boys working for him, that something is wrong with their head.

Also, when i first heard the company is in Ikoyi i was impressed but when i went to their office i observed that they shared the same office space with a hundred more companies, which means they just rented an office to scam innocent job seekers.

Couldn't get anything from them not even a thank you for coming money.

I couldn't believe I wasted my money and time just to do some free jobs for one useless man. Here is the fucking address of the company and the useless guy that called for the job.

TIMILEYIN ALABI,
DATABASE ADMINISTRATOR

IPMC Limited
18b, Olu Holloway Road
Ikoyi
Lagos State.

JaneYave:
A very painful experience indeed. I keep asking if there was no faithful church members worthy of this great opportunity
The church members are very kind people , the man has a large heart too. It takes a brave heart to console ungrateful people and this
category that talks too much

So you are of the opinion that all churches should only help their members and no one else i guess.

doneback04:
I swear he wil see more he always tell the world that he is helping people now the world we see the happy boys saga globally

So your pain here is because he tells the world he is helping people. If he buys a private jet tomorrow won't you be among the so-called people who will criticize him for not using the money to help the needy. you guys joke too much in that shithole country. Talking with one mouth and expecting something else.

Kobojunkiee:
1. This is 2023 for crying out loud!

2. So, using the law to my own benefit means I am too emotional? See what still passes as intelligence in Nigeria 2023, no wonder the rich keep using your heads to play ball for there.

Which Law if i may ask. you are just emotional with no basis of application.

jehoha696:
Baba use tithes & offering money dey run scholarship, is dere no more dedicated church members that he can EPP, baba juz wan trend.... So can we all allow him to trend on a #happieboiz trendy show

Children of hate. no matter what a man does you all will still talk. and they tell you that he doesn't help children of dedicated church member. you are a big joke in this shithole country.

Firstcitizen:
One of the brainwashed akamu brain sheeple coming to defend his god.

One foolish idiot that is so frustrated with his god forsaken life, looking for who to talk down on. Brainwashed dog of the century, go and do your research, i have lived in PHC and i have countless of free schools built by this man and i have never attended any of his church program before, but i will never criticize a man whom I know is doing good for the less privileged in society. but one poor animal, when he papa never give biscuit to any stranger before go come here come dey talk rubbish dey condem person when they give help to the less privilege, its is sick people like you and your ancestors that have caused the black race to be this wicked and heartless. If this man was my brother or father going by what idiots like you are saying online i would have advised him to better make his money in Nigeria and by private jets like other big pastors in Nigeria..

Kobojunkiee:
OK. So, what did the pastor say the boys did to break their agreement?

Na how much the boys pay to get agreement for the pastor to sponsor their education.

Kobojunkiee:
Seriously! If say I be those boys, na to lawyer up be the next thing. Nonsense!

This man self. why you never sue your papa when he say he nor get money to train you for abroad. You these Nigerians you are all too emotional and with that emotions you tend to reward bad deeds all the time. you must be such a joke.

pek:
You are wrong. The boys were on their own and he decided to sponsor their education. He is morally and religiously obligated to carry it to the end. No excuse whatsoever.

Say your papa give am money to keep na. Even as their father he has decided to send them to another shool in Nigerian and what is the harm in that. ABI why you nor force your papa make he send you go school for Havard na. Jokers everywhere.

pek:
In all these, I blame the pastor. Were there no member of his church that needed help? Were there no close relatives or church members who he could have sent abroad for school? What happened to Nigerian universities? He rided on the tides of the time.

I am sure you interviewed the over 2000 people on his scholarship scheme to know that no member of church kids are in his scholarship program. Jokers everywhere.

priceactionx:
They have been exposed to yahoo yahoo. They will never come back. I don't know why the man didn't do his background check before he helped them. Many of his workers children and those that might have served him 10s of years in the ministry are there and may not get required help from him. That's life. I think he too want to use their viral sack video to expand his popularity then but now firing back. I learnt the guys self are cultists cos they started dressing like one also when they got to Cyprus.
Cyprus has a very loose law against cybercrime and yahoo. That's why many of those guys run there for cover. They have been exposed to that life and won't come back. But their Waterloo is coming soon especially when they won't achieve anything there than to spend all their money on partying and carry olosho which a very expensive over there.
And to the pastor, he should look more inward to his dedicated members and their families and not ride on trends of people that are hit by foreseen and avoidable circumstances.

baba you are very wrong. who told you that he is not sponsoring the education of children of his close workers. I dont like OPM, but to be honest that is the only church in the whole country will alots of free schools for the less privilede in society and he even has alot of students abroad too. these happie boys are not the only boys he sent abroad for schooling and you do not know of the others because they were not popular like these happie boys. so you see people will always talk and criticize you even if you sacrifice yourself for them. that is why human are nothing but a bag of shit.

Firstcitizen:
Pastor wan shine and ride on wetin dey trend dat year . Him don see phenomenal trend now

And you kow him so well to come to this conclusion. Humans are truly full of shit. the over 2000 people on this pastor scholarship program are there too, because he wants to trend abi. Nigerias and chochocho... talk talk people.

Houseofglam7:
There are members of his church who he should’ve sent there instead but he wanted the publicity and got it.
Howbeit negative publicity 🫤

And you know him so well that members of his church are not on his scholarship program abi. i agree he made a mistake to reward incompetency which is these happie boys, its just because he wanted to help. this man has alot of free schools he built for less priviledege people all over port harcourt and the school is not restricted to his church members only. He can choose to buy a private jet if he wants to, but instead he choose to reward less privilegde, i know some people who has gone to his church and he helped them in starting business and some he enrols their wards in school. Talk talk Nigerians, no wonder una nor deserve any good thing at all.

Samunique:
I received this news with all pleasure, maybe and maybe this might be the end of these men, most especially Dangote who has the destinies of millions of Nigerians through monopoly.

The day Dangote is dismantled will be the beginning of the libration of this great country.

Olodo this might also be the end of you. If lots like you dont know that you also lost alot of money you saved under your bed or in your bank account, then i do not know how to explain to you any further. People like you are truly the main problem of this country.
Go and dismantle them na and watch your country slide into oblivion of poverty. It is the likes of who who keeps blaming your rich uncle has used your rotten destiny to make money. Destiny that you and your papa nor fit use.

TemplarLandry:
Now it's clear they've been benefiting from the discrepancies of our economic system.

The same way you have been benefiting by buying fuel and some other subsidized product cheap. now you have to bite your finger to be able to afford these same goods.

MondayOsunbor:
He is innocent do you have proof

People like you can see someone killing your children and still scream do you have proof? jokers in this shithole country.

Zionto:
Nobody send am make he give them scholarship now......

So because he give them scholarship make he die.. if the money nor dey again make he go thief sponsor them. Exchange rate done high, boys when sell their papa house run go abroad go school, them nor dey hustle. these foolish happie boys are hoping to be spoon fed all their life. At leaset the pastor don make them Japa, why them nor hustle take survive. bunch of lazy ass boys. You Nigerians are truly evil and hypocrites.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Very funny

But I was told that Japanese men are like weaklings

That you hardly find them around women
As if their fertile rod is not working

So it is only sex that you all to be strong. I have said it. the only thing black men know how to do is sex and food nothing more. you all black are a waste to the human species..

Felimax:
Not totally true! I have seen and met women who will willingly arrange their friends for you. Some can be extremely jealous but some too can be so liberal.

Women are of different categories. Some women will even find you irritating if other women are not admiring you as their guy.

It makes the whole stuff quite interesting.

And you really believe that they are for real. women who do those things are the ones who do not have feelings for their spouse or they are lesbians / bisexual. I have dated a girl who arranged her friend for us to have party and i later found out she was bisexual, part lesbian and part straight. So, no normal human being will do such. And for that part where some partners prefer their partners to be admired by other women or men, it goes both ways and its normal. but that doesn't mean they want you to go have sex with them.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Nigeria is following the foot steps of America. Different strokes for different folks.

Mumu in the US you can see state governor walking on the street, but here in your shithole can u see common LG chairman without escort. i live you to your stupidity. Thanks.

sulaak:
This is a big business opportunity for Nigeria entrepreneurs,

Last week an MRO facility was opened in Akwa Ibom. The country needs to open more MRO nationwide to reduce the dependency on the dollar. They will still have to import spare parts, but with time OEM suppliers can be encouraged to set up factories in the country.

The amount of money wasted on the corrupt Nigeria Air should have been invested in building MROs at all international and local airports.

This is no business opportunity. You Nigerians do not understand a thing about business and government policies. that is why you are where you are as a country. The MRO facility will still look for ways to repatriate dollar to their home country too no matter what. The only wany to solve this is for government to pay the outstanding debt and cancel every agreement with all airline operators and make the operators to source for dollar themselves at the black market. Trust me there are a whole lot of dollars at the black market. and the funny thing is that most of these airline operators sold these tickets at black market rate and now they want to milk the country dry by collecting their proceed at CBN rate. that is a double scam from a foolish president like PMB and his cohort agbado man.

EcoBrick:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_NHEeQDk_h8

Do you agree with her, or not?

Olosho done drop quote. Nonsense and ingredients.
For your info guys. this olosho here is trying to promote her clitocurrency industry. If this one mange to get married to one sim man tomorrow, she will be the one to cry hell, if she notices her husband cheating. joker.

press9jatv:
Seyi Mankinde will be with APC in the morning and fake himself to PDP in the evening.The man is gradually loosing his integrity and that's how Wike lost his integrity that will be hard for him to recover back.

the same way your Atiku loss his intergrity in 2015. one useless fellow ike that.

dfrost:
At 22, is not bad bros. It's actually a good age to graduate. The argument here is 18/19, bro. You sef reason am na.

Do something. Try to hold a conversation with a graduate of 18/19 yo. Then please by all means, come back and update us. There is a high probability that the greater percentage will shock you. There will definitely be outliers though, no doubt about that.

I could have graduated at 19 if not for one i did a 5 year course engineering and two i missed a year after jamb i actually got all my WAEC papers including GCE i did the previous year in one sitting. and in my first jamb i got over 200 and i was asked to pay money to be admitted even though i got over 200. I wrote again the second year and choose a different school, scored higher this time i got admitted. i actually finish secondary school age 15. So, there is absolutely nothing wrong in that. The reason we are having low quality graduate is all down to our poor educational system and it has nothing to do with the age of the student.

let me tell you i was so fascinated with science and discovery all through my secondary school days and was seriously looking up to what University has to offer me. but i was so very disappointed when i engage those so-called Nigerian professor in a one-on-one conversion, most are so dumb that at the moment i am not ever dreaming ever to send my kids to any Nigerian university for any reason.

HacheNoire:
And who told you age is a determinant of success? Who told you fast tracking education makes you successful?

Seems you not a Nigerian. This is the same mentality that makes your kind work up their kids. Making education look like a competition.


I won’t be surprised if you also buying grades and long jumps for your kids

Please don't flatter yourself. I will never by grades for my kids, because my parents never bought grades for me. so, what do you expect you want your kids to graduate from the university at age 40, by all means you are welcome to do that to your kids. but please don't force it down our throat, because we share the same country, and some dull head are making decisions for the rest of us. i am one of those people who graduated at age 21 / 22 and a am pretty successful. so go tell your kids otherwise. having a teacher as a mother will tell you to high level of intelligence I and my siblings possess. I won't waste my kids' years studying rubbish in those your so-called university which doesn't impact any form of knowledge whatsoever.

HacheNoire:
Nice point you raised, music!

Music is an extra-curricular activity with the likes of sports and so many other things. It still won’t make you skip classes.

In some countries, if you extra ordinary brilliant and can pass pass a certain exam, students are grouped into special classes to enhance those qualities. That doesn’t mean you are going to jump from grade 1 to grade 3. But you have special classes you attend that indirectly puts you ahead of your pairs.

You cannot skip the planned curriculum

Please don't say what you don't know. Your useless minister who is supposed to be enlightened is trying to ban student from writing common entrance at age 10. what if he was in a developed clime like the US. where someone can be a university graduate at age 10. if you doubt read about "Michael Kearney".
Link below https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Kearney#:~:text=At%20the%20age%20of%2014,computer%20science%20at%20Vanderbilt%20University.

successmatters:
I understand you but oppose your views. There shouldn't be age restrictions for gifted children in education or anything else.

Michael Jackson should have been banned from music till he turned 18 !

Don't mind them that is the only thing they know how to do in that god forsaken country.

successmatters:
Yes, bright children must be forced to wait for their mates who may never be able to solve elementary maths till they get to adulthood.

Is that good mental development to you.

Dont mind the useless minister. he was pained when he was schooling and their were some bright student younger than him then. that is the backward witchcraft mentality they have in this part of the world.

Mindlog:
You are not your elder brother's father neither are you his therapist.

Focus on your life and let your mother continue to hustle to feed her first son.... develop a thick skin against her emotional blackmail, you are already experiencing fatigue as you are overwhelmed.

Perfectly said. Op should learn how to look after himself and his mom/ younger ones. he doesn't owe his bro anything.

DownTime44:
That will be so difficult. My mum will not support depriving him food or shelter. I don't think she can watch him or anyone else go hungry when there's food.

I wish i could disappear out of this world. I'm tired.

Imagine, if you decide to dissapear from this world becxause of you elder bro. your elder bro will still live his life and he will be the one to fight for rice on your funeral day. just be wife. It may even shock you to know that if a situation arise and they ask your mom to choose who to save from a deadly situation between you and your elder bro. you will be shock your mom might choose him over you.
All i see is that your mom pampered him alot and have been giving excuse from his action, right from when he was a child.

sisisioge:
You are starting to sound annoying my brother....leave him alone abi what do you think could be done at this point, kill him or kill yourself? Do you know why people get depressed? They simply overthink matters, that's all. You will get yourself unnecessarily depressed if you keep going on and on about this. He is not your child or burden, you are the one bearing the burden voluntarily. If your mom cant bear to not feed him, then let her keep doing so, afterall he is her son. As for your contribution to the home, do only what you can do. You are not the messiah of the house. EOD.

Dont mind him. Op do what you can and leave the rest,

thesilentman:
exactly and that's what i wanted to avoid.The woman loyal but her mum...be like say she get agenda.

No wonder these women keep divorcing your sorry asses the minute you manage top take them abroad to civilize climes. Your reasoning can be so backward and wayward.

superCleanworks:
that woman knew EXACTLY what she was doing. if you give them a step they will want to cover the whole road. You did well to put her in her place and don't listen to anyone trying to tell you that you were harsh. All that matters is that the message has been delivered.

Look at these jokers who thinks they own a woman because of the peanut the spent doing ceremony. When you all have your own daughters and use your teeth to calculate the total amount with love and attention you spent raising them and, in the future, when they get married their useless spouse will do the same treatment to you, because you collected peanut bride price then your eyes will be clear. All these babies getting married in Nigeria.

thesilentman:
i swear the attachment to daughter is too much.Even at times they run house chores together.

Look at how insecurity made this idiot to loose the benefits he is getting from his mother-inlaw. ladies in all you do never ever you marry a broke insecure boy.

jaeyking:
So when the woman was married was that how her husband's mother always came to check up on him

Learn to let go when your children are married, if your daughter is alone you could come

But when the husband is around try to give them privacy
Do you know how they express their love or bleeping

Why you nor go born your own wife for yourself. All these lots who think their wife are some kinds of property they own. i really pity your wife. she is just a naive coward woman with a low self-esteem.

ZIMDRILL:
i beg to differ

New married people should left alone to find their own feet, in doing things and understanding each other, understanding each based on their character and behaviour not based on what you were taught. Every man and woman differ it is important to understand each other not based on what parents says but based on what you see and do to each other

Have you ever noticed that the 1st of years of marriage is power struggle, the guy want wife to cook like his mother and the wife wants hubby to behave like her father hence usaully its power struggle indirect

Parents should visit once in while

Left alone to do what. In this life parents should never allow their children to get married to a man or woman from a dysfunctional home. Op is obviously from a dysfunctional home.