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kendraloops:
as per your friend maintaining a car from the allowance, tell am say she never ready!! mechanic go chop him own inside too o. She should look for a trusted fellow n turn the car to a taxi kind of. the poshness or otherwise of the car will determin the target clients. she doesnt av to paint it in taxi colours so she can still go out with it without feeling too conscious.

if she go that MMA route, chai, she don hammer. i took a cab frm the airport there to iyana-ipaja, i paid 3k. i nearly cried, just say i carry heavy load, if not.....

so, imagine how much she'll make from "owo deliver"

You are the type of woman that we tag wifey material. You are a solution provider not a problem giver. A helpmate.

Yes for now
I went on market survey
2k naira yam will last them for 1 month seriously.1 big yam like that was 350 naira. I know it will be reduced if she's buying in bulk.

20 litres vegetable oil is 4200naira
25 litres palm oil is 6k
20k is enough for rice, beans, garri lasting 2months.

These may be highly reduced depending on her location.

You think you are the one raising these kids? Na lie, they are raising you.

The Bible even said folly is bound in the heart of a child but the rod(cain) of correction drives it away.

Imagine some of them women here mentioned how you will prepare rice for a kid of 4 years and they ll say, mummy I don't want rice I want plantain. So you will enter market and buy plantain abi?

Another scenario you are walking to the supermarket with him and he sees a toy of 15k and starts crying, mummy I want this toy. To avoid embarrassment you buy it for him abi? Only to come and create thread.

The only time I will believe 50k is not enough is when they enter university not now.

Some women have friends that are a disaster waiting to happen. They will not discuss how you will earn money but will rather explore and expose different avenues for you to spend what you have and being influenced they will dip hands into the 50k and bring out 35k remaining 15k its actually the 15k that they complain isn't enough.

FynBabe:
Don't mind him! How can that money be enough for three people in a month? It's not even like the husband sens some mojor things down for them. From major to minor, she has to work around 50k. I don't even want to argue further.

I still promised to get back to you on prices of those foodstuffs you mentioned.

I presume you are yet to learn the difference between want and need. Besides a sensible lady here mentioned that some ladies are prone to impulse buying and materialism.

FynBabe:
I give up! You are a complete waste of time.

You don't know some things and somebody is trying to point them out to you but as a typical indomie generation Naija woman. This is what you gat to say? Its not totally unexpected.

Aal izz well.

For you to mention water , why not salt and maggi.
If I get 200naira salt for them and 500naira maggi. They can't finish it in 2 months.

There's more to it which she hasn't said yet.You can't lie to your doctor, counsellor or pastor if you want a breakthrough.

ireneidiva:
Exactly my point! No substance whatsoever.

Its because you have a narrow and fixed mindset.Pray to God for humility, wisdom and foresight you will see through what am saying.

If I fetch 1000 naira @ the rate of 10naira/25 litres borehole water for them eh. To finish it within 1 month go hard dem.

If I fetch 1000 naira borehole water for them eh. To finish it within 1 month go hard dem.

FynBabe:
Fxwarrior, who buys the rice, yam, beans, garri, fish, palm oil, v.oil, drinking water, dstv subscription? Who? Abi you don't know its the same 50k that would do all these? Please, you must not comment if you don't know how these things work. Experienced people are telling you this money is small and yor still insisting on what you know nothing about. We are talking qaulity not quantity abeg.

Buahahaahah

DSTV subscription? My people truth is coming out small small o. If you like carry 40k and dash Dstv.
What happened to other free to air channels like mitv,gotv etc.
Besides its possible to watch all DStv channels free if you know your way around.

I will be back to outline the prices of all these things you mentioned.

My people she even mentioned drinking water?

ireneidiva:
Why do you keep making refences to your parents of those days? Why don't you marry your parents then? Fyi most of all this parents you are making refrence to actually used all these things. Their time has passed so you better start getting used to the 21st century! Jeez!

As expected you ll leave the substance in my writeup and chase the shadows. Good luck with that.

You can buy fish for 200naira.cook it and use it.

FynBabe:
It is obvious you know everything. Did you say 5k can cook soup for one month? With or without meat/fish or what? Its so easy for you to say because you are a man and I'm sure you don't go to the market. Abeg, I don't have energy 4 arguement this morning joor. When you marry, give her 10k for 2months and even expect some change self. Women enter marriage without know what it is? Na your future wife I pity pass. What a mentality!quote author=Fxwarrior post=27244763]

Verily verily I say unto you that family cannot finish a 50kg bag of rice in 3 months.
Oh you even know about buying food in bulk?
A 50kg bag of rice shouldn't be more than 15k depending on brand. Like I said before 5k is more than enough to cook soup for 1 month.
As for children not liking what you give them, it simply means they are not hungry or you are too soft. I have seen where my sister-in-law is feeding my nephew. The little boy will be crying and she will be stucking pap into his mouth notwithstanding.He didn't die, on the contrary he grew fatter as a result of the feeding.
As for snacks you simply fry yam or prepare something and put in their food flasks. I haven't seen anybody that died for not taking snacks. Our parents knew nothing about snacks in their times. If you must buy snacks buy it say a carton of biscuit will last for a term besides all these sugary tins are not good for kids.

Its a pity most women these days enter marriage knowing little or nothing.

Buahahahah.
I don't go to market? Market I go to every weekend. Infact there's no soup or food I can't cook. If I don't go how would I have known its possible and even offered to outline the prices of the condiments. Meat is not compulsory. There are other sources like fish, beans, ground soya beans. You can even use soyabeans to make tea for them and bread in the morning.

250naira bread is more than enough for 2-3 days.I know women don't even eat well mostly. I understand all these things.That woman hasn't spoken the truth yet on how she squanders 50k.

TRUTH IS BITTER. SPEAK IT AND BE FREE.

Sophyrocks:
BananaBender is the bomb!!

That negroid must have been thrown away into a garbage trash can and spat upon by his mother when he was born. She was horrified at the sort of creature she gave birth to. Devil's incarnate, the antichrist. No wonder he is sooooo bitter towards women.

Okay e don do.
Now answer the question for the thread.
Why u come dey cover your n1pple with your hand when you dey take nude snap.

FynBabe:
Wasteful? You are kidding, right? Infact, I commend her. She's a very good manager. I have been wondering how she does it with 50k monthly. Children are not adults o! There are times you cook and what they want is something else. What about snacks and buying the food stuff in bulk? Some of these government workers you mentioned have customers for almost all household items where they can take things on credit pending when they get paid. (My neighbour told me this) Like I said, if its just one child and she's complaining, I would say she's a careless spender but not in this case.

Verily verily I say unto you that family cannot finish a 50kg bag of rice in 3 months.
Oh you even know about buying food in bulk?
A 50kg bag of rice shouldn't be more than 15k depending on brand. Like I said before 5k is more than enough to cook soup for 1 month.
As for children not liking what you give them, it simply means they are not hungry or you are too soft. I have seen where my sister-in-law is feeding my nephew. The little boy will be crying and she will be stucking pap into his mouth notwithstanding.He didn't die, on the contrary he grew fatter as a result of the feeding.
As for snacks you simply fry yam or prepare something and put in their food flasks. I haven't seen anybody that died for not taking snacks. Our parents knew nothing about snacks in their times. If you must buy snacks buy it say a carton of biscuit will last for a term besides all these sugary tins are not good for kids.

Its a pity most women these days enter marriage knowing little or nothing.

beeevan:
Diapers, wipes, fuel, baby food, drugs, house food, kid's 'munchables', fruits, miscellaneous .

Be kind enough to outline their prices.
Our parents raise some of us and were themselves raised on far less.
Are you telling me there are people whose monthly salary is not 20k and are happily married? Its all about adjustments.

BananaBender:
You seem bitter, you okay child?

Are you sad that your mum is a brainless creature??

Tell me all about it little one.

Una wan fight ontop my thread? Shuo?

freecocoa:
it's not even about applying make up or not, heck there are days I go about my business with no make up on.

It's about him dictating to me, didn't he know I wear make up before proposing to me? From "don't wear make up", it enters, "don't go here", "don't talk to so so person", "don't eat this".

Mba I'm not that submissive.

So if you have a sexy single friend who's been eyeing and winking at him and he tells you not to go to her house, you will continue until she comes alone to your house when you have gone to work and bends done exposing her chai chai to your husband. He takes a step of faith and they fall to bed and continue... Then you will open thread abi?

He has a wicked uncle at village and tells you don't go there but being the smiling jovial person you don't believe in evil and goes. Finally the uncle puts something into your food..

Men sometimes see what you don't.

freecocoa:
it's not even about applying make up or not, heck there are days I go about my business with no make up on.

It's about him dictating to me, didn't he know I wear make up before proposing to me? From "don't wear make up", it enters, "don't go here", "don't talk to so so person", "don't eat this".

Mba I'm not that submissive.

So if you have a sexy single friend who's been eyeing and winking at him and he tells you not to go to her house, you will continue until she comes alone to your house when you have gone to work and bends done exposing her chai chai to your husband. He takes a step of faith and they fall to bed and continue... Then you will open thread abi?

He has a wicked uncle at village and tells you don't go there but being the smiling jovial person you don't believe in evil and goes. Finally the uncle puts something into your food..

Elantracey:
lol , you're sounding like you don't admire a beautiful bride on makeup.

Are you talking about lusting cos its not admiration. So assume I fall for you seeing how dashing you are on your wedding day. Hope I will get a chance to taste you?

Lumpyy:
Oga i can cook soup lasting a week wt N500,ds is nt abt her cooking exotic soup o,d people dt understands me knws wt am saying!and ur wife go try cos of ds ur mindframe,men lyk u end up goin to d market demselvs!

I was talking about cooking from scratch without any condiments at home whatsoever.

Crixina:
bestiality?I no dey watch again.

Its a huge lie.

I need to know. You will see women posing for nude pictures only to see them covering their nipples. What's the cause?

Elantracey:
Take for instance it isn't appropriate , should a nursing mother allow her baby to continue crying just because she's in public?

She was probably in the parlour. If she should enter the bedroom, will the baby die on the way?

Elantracey:
lol , it doesn't always mean cheating , sometimes it could just be to teach the husband some lessons



but I can't try it sha

Like I said I will package her back to her parents so she can continue the lessons with them for 2 weeks. I hope its enough to teach the lessons?

beeevan:
Actually I spend 1800 for braids, i pedicure and manicure myself .

Fine that means you owe me change 700. Now what of the remaining 48,200 where does it go?

beeevan:
Most people saying this doesn't have kids, wives nor husbands to carter for, so I wonder how they will know what's enough and what isn't. I am very prudent with spending but i spend above that too.


If that's the best he can do, then she need to get resourceful.

Outline your expenditure listing your weekly manicure and pedicure. If you tell yourself the truth you will know that there are some places you go where they charge you more than is nnormal just cos of your 'class' ish.

Braiding that would be like 2500 will be like 10k in some salons.

For Generator 5k monthly is enough for 2hours daily usually at night between 7pm-9pm or 8pm-10pm if you want to watch NTA news. Besides there are days when there will be light so more fuel left.

Fxwarrior:
Are you aware you can cook sweet soup lasting 1 week with 1k?
See you ladies should bring this to men who don't know much about food, cooking and home management to get a chance to open office on top their head not well bred men that know everything.

Should I outline the ingredients and their current cost? Am ready.

Lumpyy:
Wow,am disaapntd wt ds replies oo,y are people being unrealistic here?are d women seriously sayin ds things too?for her hubby to be in america it means de live atlst an average life,she has 2kids for cryin out loud,she maintains d house too,its nt lyk d hubby is arnd to buy petrok some days,how many days can 1k fuel go ds days?now my baby takes ogi and i buy SMA mayb 2x a month,im a very careful spender too and my hubby is home too,i spend way more dn 50k a month,shey na 10k she go take go markt for a month?pls lets think well befor we judge oo!

Are you aware you can cook sweet soup lasting 1 week with 1k?
See you ladies should bring this to men who don't know much about food, cooking and home management to get a chance to open office on top their head not well bred men that know everything.