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Dyt:
chuckles
wat more cld dis woman possible want?
he takes care of u n ur kids, does things most men cant do n u dont praise him?
jst try b d best wife u cld b so he kips findin u irresistable

Yes and besides you didn't catch him with another woman so he's probably not cheating.

Are you still dressing nice and sexy for him with night gown and bum shorts. Satisfy him wella sexually.

Old soup is sweeter. Mum's soup all the way. These indomie generation women have killed us. To boil water is difficult for them.

ogawisdom:
If d only issue is ur age n level in sch then my ans is as follows

Age - u r old enough for marriage
Level in sch - u can finish up frm ur hubby house, u guys can discuss abt whether to differ gettin pregnant or nt until u finish sch.

So go ahead n marry him. Goodluck to u n pray abt it n commit it to God's hand

My friend forget differrment
This is Africa where once you are married everybody is asking when will you give us a grand child. His family and even yours will be mounting pressure.

Even the man may agree but later change mind. You will say let's use condom, he will say darling let's do skin to skin. Am tired of condoms. Am your husband, remember!

Meriyke:
Every other person in my family is in support of the union except my eldest sister who's kicking against it with the opinion that I should wait till I graduate

She's right and wrong depending on motives..

Right because time exposes people's real intentions. What if this man is not who he is but acting up?

Wrong because some elder sisters may not want younger ones to marry before them.

All in all waiting has more advantages than disadvantages.

23 + 3 years = 26 years which is not bad considering some are 45 years and not married.

acenazt:
this o.p has got issues with his cerebral cortex. were you given any lessons on sex education before? without it have you molested any chicken

I wasn't but I still wish I was and that's why am clamouring for it. Every true father wants the best for his children.

enomakos:
why was the show cancelled?

So you can get a job.
You know you are not getting younger.

bibiolu:
you can't see anything stop bothering yourselves

How we wan see sumtin when your chest dey like Mrcork slippers and you are not even light skin so whu are you forming?

acenazt:
Mehn this O.P self. what will you do when your 7 year old son comes home and asks you,daddy what is your favorite position? I like the Missionary best you?. or dad how long can you last before you cum?? what will you say?

You, what will you do if your son is arrested for molesting a neigjbour's chicken to death.

jacksonlows:
1OOk.

For serious inquiries, please Call/Text/Whatsapp: 07032753367

You wan thief my pant?

Practical sex education should be introduced in the educational scheme for secondary schools to be handled by a beautiful female biology or psychological teacher.
This will curb the occurence of abnormal sex behaviours like homosexuality and bestiality.

hernyhorla:
Hello peeps, Techno phones and Carlcare, its service agent in this country are both corporate criminals as far as i concerned.
Please, if you are considering buying any of their phones - infinix and itel inclusive, think twice or take a visit to thier service centre and see what they do to users.I thought they have stepped up too like seriously until i fell into their trap. Policy exchange thing is d climax of their robbery.
I bought a Techno H7 on 10th of July precisely and 2 weeks ago, the phone started hanging. i searched online for what to do and i found out about the service agent. I was so excited, rushed there and behold this crowd of life. I was asked to register the phone which i did, come back next day. I have gone like 5 times and the phone has not been fixed and the final say now there is no board for now. it sounds so funny to me and come to think of it, i gave out all the back up phones i can manage when i bought the phone. o ma seeeeeeeeee oooo

I am really frustrated right now that i dont know what to do again other than to buy another phone( looking at samsung Grand) when there is no money .

Is it also their fault that you gave out your phones? Its always like that, check your phones, once you buy, you bought.

thexyz:
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The massive green anaconda was estimated by some to be 26 foot long…which if that’s true… that would make it one of the biggest snakes in the world as the Guinness book of records has the world’s longest snake in captivity at 25 feet. Continue here:http://www.ireportersnews.com/2014/09/diver-encounters-giant-20-foot-anaconda.html

Is this real?

pbs4real:
biko itaf do nah,she's apologiz'd already

Then let her modify that post because there cometh more bad mouthing after me.

Last Bullet: She's skinny and needs to add more flesh.

slimzypink:
Ugly fowls with their scaly skin.. Res ipsa loquitur..the fact speaks 4 it self...dis fowls re ugly. kindly transfer ur aggression to some1 else

Bweasts you does not have.
Yansh nko? Whosai
What of waist? Who dash you

Infact you resemble fish wey they don chop finish leave bone comot.

LooK at yourself in mirror before you castigate other finer babes.

veave:
Oga, I have noticed you derive joy in carrying people's matter and thread on your head and shoulders. Hope you are okay?

You have been noticed. Now shove.

Happy Birthday dear.

moca:
So here, pple always except some folks to comment in a particular manner?
I noticed that in my other account(one of d reason I cleaned it up)
No freedom of expression anymore cos u want to maintain an image?

Ok o.

@topic, poster, I stopd reading when u said in ur place, its a taboo for a man to do house chores. I can't read beyond that abeg.


And those shouting feminism, pls wake up!
When u marry, kill ur wife with work cos u wanna prove u r a man or better still arrange for an infact as housemaid that can be a side chick when madam looks d other way.

And how can nigeria become a developed country with cave man mentality everywhere.

It seems most people didn't do English comprehension in school. OP didn't say men don't do house chores. She simply didn't buy the idea they should be compelled or cajoled into it.

To be sincere I see op as a humble and sweet lady and wouldn't mind cooking for her or helping out to ease her stress. Her kind would make me be a better person.

The way you behave towards a man will either make him shut you off or draw him to you. I must confess am drawn to her with her attitude.

Op you are the most amazing, kind hearted and caring lady I've ever met on Nairaland. It wouldn't be good to loose your sweetness over a guy who doesn't know what he lost. You are a rare gem.
For the son of God to die for you means you are worth it. I consider myself the luckiest guy alive to be on your thread girl.

Do you know that there's no one like you in the whole world? Smile girl. Have you watched the movie, '3 1diots' a bollywood movie.

Go to moviesmobileDOTnet and download any of Madea's films.

Talon05:
I hope your prepared for whats about to hit you ma'am?. Be prepared. Be very prepared. I only know three decent women on here that will agree with you. The rest will tear you apart, and you might need the help of some "feminivores" like TV01, Coogar, Crackhaus and pickabeau.

All the best.

Hit her? I volunteer myself to defend her. Let the whole Nairaland come. Am ready.

What exactly do you mean by christians? You should say society not christians. Besides its a thread for religion section and would soon be taken there.

Marcelini:
how can u be so rude? U don't even knw me

Know you for what? You are clown.

Amelian:
40 view and no comment... its a good sign, which means pple are wit me on this ...cool...


pls parents, pls teach the right thing and u will be saving lots of homes n all these divorce saga will reduce drastically

Your wisdom is from above. Am speechless..

dominion247:
he said they don't do court wedding. In their family

Is he from Mbaise?

dominion247:
he said they don't do court wedding. In their family

Is he from Mbaisee?

tolu4you:
I love her... i truly love her.
for the past two years now, i dnt think i can remember if we had any problem. our problem is sex. apart from sex, we are the best couple. we do things together, we operate only one bank account. The big BUT is sex

You have love but no sex. Some have sex but no love. Its the cross you are bearing. Marriage is a sacrifice.

You said you knew all these things and closed your eyes for marriage.
Better keep those eyes closed before she resents you entirely.
You should be grateful to God for the baby

Godspearl:
Family and inlaw trouble can b so annoying,My hubby's family had a meeting and my hubby's immediate broda talked abt me dt I don't usually participate wheneva they have party dt I jst come like a guest.I wasn't bodad cuz I knew its d wife dt told him all dt jst bcuz wen my brodainlaw was graduating from seminary I dint help her personally wit cookin I sent my maid to help... fast forward yesterday my brodainlaws wife called dt she wants to do a surprise bday party fr her husband.(d husbands bday is july 30 bt she wants to do d party 3rd august) which falls on my hubby's bday. What shld I do as I don't want dere wahala again.

Show her the middle finger.#Not literally
She's tryna push you over the hedge.
Imagine the nonsense.Tell her assuming she doesn't know your husband birthdate.
So you should postpone your husband's own to attend her own husband own.

On the contrary sha you may agree depending on her person to do a joint party to celebrate both una husbands.If she says no.Refer to above advice.

Ok

kandiikane:
Abeg na only him ever marry? Do not quote me if you are going to type rubbish. Is he the first to live apart from his wife? Why did he not think of all this before he decided to move to a far away region? How will the wife go there without visa? Is she meant to travel by boat? There are many options, he can go see her. Use your brain! As I have written if the man can easily lose focus he isn't mature enough to be married. If he is suspicious of her cheating or believe there will not be any connection after three years why did he leave, why did he not build his relationship because making a decision for himself? Now that konji dey worry am, he want come make another selfish decision. How is he certain they will give him a working permit after he graduates? He made the arrangements so he should deal with the consequences. Couples live apart and they don't die from it so I don't know what you are crying for.

I doubt you have crossed beyond your state boundary talkless of country.
So your advice was borne out of ill will, to punish him. Who told you the decision was selfish.If he finishes and secures a higher paying job, who will benefit? Besides every marriage is unique in itself. Just because others can live apart, doesn't mean every couple must live apart. Op is more mature than you. Don't abuse the priviledge he gave you to air your views.

Do yourself a favour and read your posts well and thoroughly before submitting.

kandiikane:
Abeg na only him ever marry? Do not quote me if you are going to type rubbish. Is he the first to live apart from his wife? Why did he not think of all this before he decided to move to a far away region? How will the wife go there without visa? Is she meant to travel by boat? There are many options, he can go see her. Use your brain! As I have written if the man can easily lose focus he isn't mature enough to be married. If he is suspicious of her cheating or believe there will not be any connection after three years why did he leave, why did he not build his relationship because making a decision for himself? Now that konji dey worry am, he want come make another selfish decision. How is he certain they will give him a working permit after he graduates? He made the arrangements so he should deal with the consequences. Couples live apart and they don't die from it so I don't know what you are crying for.

I doubt you have crossed beyond your state boundary talkless of country.
So your advice was borne out of ill will, to punish him. Who told you the decision was selfish.If he finishes and secures a higher paying job, who will benefit?

Do yourself a favour and read your posts well and thoroughly before submitting.

royalsweetness:
His heart could fail in the middle of the beating, that's why you need the Nigerian police to beat him, they know how to handle the corpse in case of emergency. With a little bribe, the Nigerian police would do anything for you. Any man that ever beats me is getting arrested then beaten to an inch of his life, after which I'd come to bail him out if he's still alive. That's my idea of fighting for my marriage, if he still tries it again, then the marriage is unsavable and I'm leaving, but not before his second beating

Okay.